35 Stylish Small Wedding Ideas for an Intimate Day

Just because you've cut down on numbers doesn't mean you need to have any less of a celebration! Here's how to make a small wedding epic

Small Wedding Ideas

Not everyone wants the big, white wedding; instead smaller weddings are growing in popularity as people choose to surround themselves with just their closest loved ones. With a more intimate guest list, you can focus on creating a personal and unforgettable experience for you and your guests.


Typically a very small wedding of less than 20 guests is called a micro wedding, while a small wedding is considered as having between 30 and 60 guests. However, it’s really up to each couple what they consider “small” – these ideas are great for all weddings under 60 guests.

What’s important to remember is that the size of your guest list doesn’t mean anything else needs to be small: go big on the dress, flowers, cake, invites, dinner and venue if you want!

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There’s plenty of reasons to have a small wedding:

  • The overall cost of your wedding is likely to be cheaper
  • You can spend more money on your biggest priorities
  • You can spend more individual time with loved ones
  • You can create a more intimate and personal day
  • Fewer guests means less stress and a more relaxed atmosphere

Whatever the size of your guest list, our small wedding ideas are a brilliant place to start in creating a memorable and atmospheric day. Whether you’ve always wanted a small wedding or never previously considered it, these stylish small wedding tips will leave you inspired!

Venue Ideas for Small Weddings

1. Look at Non-Traditional Venues

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You need a venue that’s the right size for the number of guests. Too large, and you’ll feel like you’re rattling around the place and it’ll be hard to create an atmosphere; too small, and you’ll feel squeezed in like sardines.

While you can go for a small room in a large venue, the best way to create an intimate feel is choosing a venue that complements your guest list size. Look at our list of the best small wedding venues in the UK and you’ll see what we mean: it’s full of bijou hotels and cosy country houses, pubs and private rooms in restaurants, intimate barns and even a treehouse!

You can be more creative and less restricted with numbers under 60 so think outside the box too: is there a cool gallery in a museum or a library you love? What about a boat, a marquee on a beach or a garden summerhouse?

Non-traditional venues mean you don’t even have to choose somewhere that feels like a typical ‘wedding venue’ spot – did you meet in a cute coffee shop, cinema or university bar? Throw your wedding where you met or allude to it in your choice of venue.

2. Make a Large Venue Feel Intimate

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If you fall in love with a venue that’s meant for 200, don’t panic – there are plenty of ways to adapt the space to make it feel snug.

  • Lower the ceiling with drapes or use them to section a room. The fabric will capture sound in an empty room to stop it from feeling echo-y and create the illusion of a smaller room
  • Suspend statement pieces like floral installations or paper lanterns from the ceiling; it has a similar effect on making the room feel smaller, while also adding drama, texture and colour to your space
  • The warm glow of candlelight and lanterns is much more romantic and intimate than bright lighting
  • Create a focal point in the centre of the room that your eyes are drawn towards, such as a sweetheart top table, a dance floor, or a statement piece of decor like a tree

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  • Large trees round the perimeter of the room to draw the action into the centre, and it’s such a lovely, rustic living element
  • Use an alternate layout or seating plan in the room, for example, two long banquet tables in a cross shape in the centre of a room will keep the activity in the one area, allow your guests to interact better than on round tables, and create a kind of frame around the party in the middle
  • Separate the room into two distinct areas – with a partition if you want – so one is for eating and dancing, and another is a lounge area for relaxing and chatting that has an eclectic mix of sofas and chairs
  • Use oversized florals (or lots of greenery if you want to save money) and tall centrepieces to fill the room both in height and width

3. Think of Fun Transport to Reach the Venue

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With a smaller guest list, you’ll have the funds to make the guest experience all the richer. Kick this off by arranging a cool way to transport your guests to the venue or between the ceremony and reception, such as a VW camper van, tuk tuks or golf carts, a canal boat, a vintage school bus or traditional black cabs.

4. Consider a Registry Office Wedding

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Plenty of registry offices or town halls have inexpensive and architecturally cool small ceremony rooms you can hire out. The Old Marylebone Town Hall in London hosted Sir Paul McCartney’s wedding, and has an impressive backdrop of columns out the front for photos and beautifully renovated rooms inside. Don’t dismiss a registry office wedding out of hand as your local registry office could surprise you.

5. Choose a Brunch or Twilight Ceremony

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Your wedding venue may be totally up for you turning the typical order of the day on its head. Forget about a 2pm service – what about a 10am service followed by a big brunch instead of an evening reception? Or a twilight ceremony where you marry as the sun sets and have a European-style late dinner and dancing? There’s so much flexibility and originality to a small wedding.

6. Have a Destination Wedding

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We did say think outside the box – so what about outside the country? Just a few friends and family is perfect for a wedding abroad. Destination weddings are often less expensive than UK weddings so you’ll have more budget to splash out on activities or paying for some meals/accommodation for your guests during their stay. Plus you’re then already in a bucket list destination to begin your honeymoon!

You could rent a large villa or the whole of a small hotel in a picturesque location in Spain, France or Greece. Alternatively, go further afield to a boutique guest house or luxe hotel on a Caribbean or Indian Ocean island and have a small wedding in paradise.

7. Enjoy the Great Outdoors

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Whether it’s your backyard, woodland, a secret garden or a camping ground by the sea, you won’t feel out of place among the beauty of nature. String lights around trees, create an arch out of branches and florals, use haybales or lawn chairs as seating, set up outdoor games to play like croquet, and have a really relaxed, fun, nature-inspired wedding.

8. Play Around with Your Aisle

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There’s no rules that say your guests have to sit in lines behind you two at the front, especially if you don’t have a huge number of guests. Here’s some different ideas for an aisle and how to walk down it:

  • Guests can stand or be seated in a circle or semi-circle around the two of you, meaning everyone gets a great view
  • A spiral of chairs that you walk around to the centre where you’ll say your vows looks spectacular in photos
  • What about creating ‘in the round’-style seating, where your guests are seated on four sides of a stage with you in the middle?
  • Lead your guests into the ceremony space. Mingle with them first and then guide them in to the ceremony space with the couple at the front and all your guests filing in behind you
  • Outdoor weddings can look brilliant with an alternative to traditional chairs, such as wooden benches, hay bales, big cushions and blankets on the floor, and some eclectic sofas and armchairs

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  • Alternatively get rid of seating altogether if it’ll be a short ceremony – although provide an alternative if older guests are there!
  • Ask each guest to hold a long-stemmed flower and collect it from them as you walk down the aisle. By the time you reach the top, you’ll have your bouquet

Decor Ideas for Small Weddings

9. Incorporate Family Heirlooms

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Small weddings feel very much more personal, and you’ll find that adding a bit of family history into the day will make it all the more poignant. Your grandparents wedding china or tablecloths would be lovely to serve your wedding breakfast on or decorate your venue with wedding pictures from your parents and grandparents’ big days. Wear a dress, veil or piece of jewellery that has been handed down through the family or wrap something like an antique brooch, bracelet, or even rosary around your wedding bouquet.

10. Create a Relaxing Lounge Area

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Guests will want a relaxing break-out area to chat, so create an inviting lounge space for them to enjoy. Fill it with sofas, armchairs, cushions and little tables to put their drinks. Keep the decor and fabrics in line with your theme: Moroccan carpets and throws look great at a boho wedding, while velvet is ideal for an elegant affair. Decorate with fairy lights, chandeliers, stacks of vintage suitcases, mirrors and even a few board games like chess. If you have to use the furniture that comes with your venue, buy some nice throws to cover it with.

11. Customise Everything You Can

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Personalise it all! When you have a small guest list, the micro details matter. Here’s some of our favourite ways:

  • Go wild with place cards: write guests’ names on tropical leaves or potted succulents; personalise mini bottles of Champagne; have laser cut-outs of their name in wood or cool acrylic; use agate or geode for seriously colourful place settings; ice them on biscuits, or even attach them to an individually-selected gift for each person
  • Hire a calligrapher or illustrator to handwrite each order of service, menu and place setting with your guest’s name and a sketch of the guest
  • Create a video of your love story to play in the background of your wedding breakfast
  • Write (or hire a poet to write!) a custom poem for each guest, it’s a truly bespoke touch!
  • Leave a handwritten note for each guest on their place setting, sharing your most treasured memory with them

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  • Put your name and wedding date on everything you can: napkins, guest book, cocktail stirrer, cake topper, the label of wine bottles, wedding signs etc.
  • If you’re into star signs, get readings for each of your guests or customise their place setting with their zodiac sign
  • Choose pictures of the two of you at that age instead of table numbers – everyone loves a baby picture
  • Make a custom aisle runner: write a passage from your favourite book or poem, or print your name and date on the runner
  • Customise all your decor with a personalised crest for your wedding day that combines your initials

12. Turn Your Guests into Decor

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By this we mean, use photos of your loved ones in everything from their place settings to hanging strings of polaroids up as bunting. It’s an inexpensive way to make your guests feel so special and to crack out a few of your favourite photos with them while making more memories.

13. Mix and Match

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An original way to give your wedding a unique, stylised look without spending much is to choose an eclectic mix of chairs for your ceremony. Hire vintage chairs, especially ones that juxtapose with your venue – think plush velvet in an industrial warehouse, or contemporary ghost chairs in a cosy, rustic barn.

14. Splurge on Your Priority Items

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The huge benefit to having a small wedding is that you have more budget per head to spend on your guests. As a couple, write down a list of what your priority items are: it could be having Michelin star food, gorgeous flowers on every surface, an open bar, splashing out on live music, hiring a unique venue you didn’t think you could afford before, or going all out on your styling. Focus on two to three priorities and then make those the stars of the show when it comes to designing the look of your reception.

15. Ditch What Doesn’t Matter

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And if something isn’t important? Ditch it or DIY it! Don’t bother with wedding favours or a photo booth if they’re not on your priority list or make your own and save your budget.

16. Invest in a Photographer

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Why design a wedding with love and care if you don’t invest in a photographer to capture those treasured moments of laughter, friendship and happy tears?

17. Get Creative with Your Seating Layout

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The usual little, round tables might not work for small groups, as much of the atmosphere will come from mingling, chatting and laughing. Don’t be afraid to go for something different like a huge round-table that can fit all 20 of you on, a banquet table with feasting boards in the middle so people talk and get hands-on involved with the meal, or even a U-shaped table.

18. Embrace Bold Patterns and Colours

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Dark colours will make a space feel smaller, while white will make your venue feel bright and airy. If you want to draw the eye, however, patterns and bold colours are your way to go. Floral patterns, splashes of bright or neon colours, chevrons and stripes, and geometric designs add visual interest, energy and dimension to a space. Your gaze will be drawn towards the bright colours so make them your focal point, like on your table runner, wedding cake, floral arch and centrepieces.

19. Have Tissues on Hand

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Tears are wonderful at a wedding: they’re a display of your love and emotion. Expect the romantic, intimate vibe of a small wedding to lend itself to even more tears, so prep for it with personalised tissues for your guests or even a quirky box of delicate hankies at the back of your ceremony space.

20. Set Up a Station for Outdoor Necessities

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If you choose to have an outdoor wedding (which we adore for small weddings), set up a little station with everything your guests might need. Stock an old rustic dresser with sun cream, hand wipes and sanitiser, heel guards and bug spray.

Food and Drink Ideas for Small Weddings

21. Set Up a Food Truck Station

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If a formal sit-down meal doesn’t feel right to you, a cool food truck might be just the ticket. You can get almost anything made fresh in food trucks these days, from fish and chips, tacos, hog roasts, wood-fired pizzas, paella, pie and mash, and BBQs to churros, waffles, ice cream, doughnuts, cookie dough and cupcakes.

22. Eschew Traditional Meal Times

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As we mentioned before, you don’t have to have a late afternoon wedding breakfast. We love a massive brunch buffet with eggs, pancakes, avocado, and mimosas to drink. For mid-afternoon, a picnic or afternoon tea are lovely choices for a small wedding where you can mingle with finger sandwiches, cups of tea or teacup cocktails, scones, cake and more.

23. Nominate Someone as Chef

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Not to cook the meal, but to carve at the table. It’s a lovely way to serve food and break the ice at the table. You’ll make the nominated table chef feel extra special too!

24. Get Creative with Cocktails

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If you’ve got 100 guests, it can be very slow to have a bar making cocktails fresh; with a smaller guest list, this isn’t a problem. Design four signature cocktails that your barman can whip up on the spot, and make them with flavours you like or appropriate to the season. Frozen margaritas or a twist on Pimm’s with ginger beer are lovely for summer; gin, brandy, apple and cranberry are all gorgeous autumn flavours.

25. Choose a Cake Alternative

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By all means get a wedding cake (a small one, or a larger one you can freeze the layers of), but you might find an alternative more social and enjoyable. Stacking sweet treats like doughnuts and brownies are great for guests to take as the feel the need for something sweet, or make an interactive display with churros to dip in chocolate sauce or even a candy floss machine.

26. Eat Your Favourite Things

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Most caterers will be happy to create something bespoke for an intimate dinner so plan out with your partner exactly what you both love eating the most. Don’t be afraid to do something that might not even be very ‘wedding-y’: if you love a takeaway-style curry, ask for one of those; if your favourite dessert is a apple crumble, don’t hesitate to ask for big dishes of it with pots of custard that you can serve yourself from at the table.

27. Get Baking

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If it’s small numbers and you love to bake, make your own wedding cake, brownies, cupcakes or even biscuits for wedding favours. Not Nigella in the kitchen? You might have a friend or family member who is and will be happy to bake for you!

Entertainment Ideas for Small Weddings

28. Hire a Band

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Live music is your best bet for a small wedding. A DJ spinning tunes might feel disconnected with the atmosphere, but a solo acoustic act during dinner and a live Motown or festival-style act to dance to in the evening will be perfect. A small wedding is all about connection, and live music is ideal for this. You don’t want a huge band that feels disproportionate to the number of guests either; a three or four-piece is perfect.

29. Paint Your Wedding Live

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There are artists who will capture your wedding in paint or pencil as it happens live. With a smaller guest number, the artist will be able to capture all of you. Search for an artist that fits with your style, it could be street art, watercolours, pen and paper sketches.

30. Include Your Furry Guests

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Take your pet down the aisle with you; dress them up and pose for photos; make them ring bearer. Dogs, cats, horses, rabbits and more are family too. You won’t have to worry about them if they’re milling around only a small group of people they already know.

31. Get Some Group Games Going

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Group games will get all your guests interacting and bring lots of fun to the day. Outdoor games like giant Jenga or skittles are great, or try something a bit more active like a pinata, rounders or the limbo.

32. Host a Ceilidh

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You need about 20-30 people dancing for a ceilidh to really kick off, so if your numbers cover that, it’s such a brilliant, fun and inclusive idea for your wedding entertainment. It doesn’t matter if you’re Scottish or not, it’s a unique, memorable (and slightly sweaty!) way to end a night.

33. Have a Stunning Send-Off

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Sparkler send-offs look amazing in photos and have the wow factor. There’s loads of ways to have a memorable send-off though, like bubbles, smoke bombs, luminarias (candles in paper bags instead of environmentally-harmful sky lanterns), ribbon streamers, glow sticks, feathers, paper aeroplanes, silly string, or even just throwing handfuls of dried herbs like lavender for a fragrant send-off.

34. Throw an After-Party

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Often your guests will be staying in the same accommodation as you, so throw a reception after-party for them back there. Keep the drinks flowing and the dancing going if you aren’t quite ready to stop the party.

35. Leave a Permanent Mark

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We love the trend of planting a tree with your guests to mark your ceremony. It’s an eco-friendly and sustainable way of getting all your guests involved in the ceremony – they can each add a bit of dirt as you plant it – and you’ll have something you can look back on in years to come.

Five Top Tips for a Small Wedding

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Make Sure Your Venue is Exclusive-Use

This isn’t a deal-breaker for everyone, for lots of couples don’t want to share their wedding venue with another couple or even the general public. If it’s important to you, ensure you have exclusive-use whatever the size of your guest list. It’ll feel more private and it’s lots of fun to have an entire house or restaurant to yourself.

Get a Wedding Coordinator

Whether it’s a planner for the entire thing or you accept the on-the-day coordinator service that your venue offers, you don’t want to spend your day stressing. A smaller number of guests means that if you need the ushers to help find something or bridesmaids to check how much alcohol you have left, their lack of presence will be noticed. Hiring a planner or getting good venue staff means the day will flow easier and you won’t have to worry about decorations, food or drink.

Ditch the Wedding Party

The rulebook is out the window. You can choose if you want bridesmaids and ushers, and it’s perfectly fine if you don’t. Perhaps have a few siblings instead.

Consider a Social Media Ban

An unplugged wedding is one where guests are asked to put their phones away and focus on living in the moment. Privacy is often a big consideration in having a small wedding, so it can be a good idea to ask guests to refrain from putting their photos on social media or even taking them at all if you’ve got a photographer.

Think About a Weekday Wedding

With less guests, it’s more likely they’ll all be able to take off a weekday to attend your wedding (be careful as some professions like teachers can’t). Booking a weekday wedding means your costs will be cheaper – allowing you to spend more money on your guests’ experience – and your chosen suppliers are more likely to be available.


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