What's Your Wedding Anniversary Gemstone?
Wedding anniversary stones are the perfect inspiration when it comes to choosing a thoughtful anniversary gift. Read on to find the perfect one for you!
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If you're struggling to decide what to buy your partner to mark your anniversary, why not look to anniversary stones for inspiration?
'What are the stones for wedding anniversaries?', we hear you ask. Let us elaborate...
Each wedding anniversary, from one to 65, corresponds with a gem, providing the ultimate inspiration for choosing an anniversary gift. You'll likely be familiar with silver for 25, ruby for 40 and gold for 50, but did you know that tourmaline, aquamarine and peridot also represent a year of marriage? We thought not!
- Wedding Anniversary Stones by Year
- Wedding Anniversary Stone Gifts
- Wedding Anniversary Stones: Expert Advice
Wedding Anniversary Stones by Year
Read on for our ultimate guide to wedding anniversary precious stones, plus dreamy gift inspiration, from jewellery to homewares, to correspond with the stones.
Anniversary Year: Gemstones & Metals
- 1st: Mother of Pearl
- 2nd: Garnet
- 3rd: Moonstone
- 4th: Blue Topaz
- 5th: Rose Quartz
- 6th: Amethyst
- 7th: Onyx
- 8th: Tourmaline
- 9th: Lapis Lazuli
- 10th: Crystal or Green Tourmaline
- 11th: Turquoise
- 12th: Jade
- 13th: Citrine
- 14th: Opal
- 15th: Rhodolite
- 16th: Peridot
- 17th: Carnelian
- 18th: Cat’s Eye
- 19th: Aquamarine
- 20th: Platinum
- 25th: Tsavorite or Silver
- 30th: Pearl
- 35th: Emerald
- 40th: Ruby
- 45th: Sapphire
- 50th: Gold
- 55th: Emerald
- 60th: Diamond
- 65th: Sapphire
Wedding Anniversary Stone Gifts
Love the idea of gifting a wedding anniversary stone? Here are our favourite gift ideas to match each anniversary's stone.
What is the 1st Wedding Anniversary Stone?
The first wedding anniversary stone is the timeless mother of pearl. The iridescent anniversary stone is said to attract prosperity - just what you want in your first few years of marriage.
1. Mother of Pearl Decorative Dish - Melissa Choroszewska Ceramics
For a budget-friendly first anniversary gift inspired by the first anniversary stone, this cute mother of pearl ring dish is perfect. Not only can you store your engagement or wedding rings in it if you need to take them off, they're a pretty piece of bedroom decor. Reviewers say they "sparkle and shine," which is a big tick in our book!
- Expert Take: These are available in four sizes, or you can buy a set of three to create a display.
2. Personalised Mother Of Pearl Cufflinks - Posh Totty Designs
Proving that mother of pearl is timelessly stylish, these personalised cufflinks are a gorgeous way to embrace the first wedding anniversary stone. Reviewers say they loved these so much they purchased them for the milestone 30th wedding anniversary too, for which the anniversary stone is pearl.
- Expert Take: These delicate cufflinks can be monogrammed with your partner's initials, for a truly personal touch.
What is the 2nd Wedding Anniversary Stone?
The second wedding anniversary stone is the deep red garnet. Not to be confused with ruby (which is the 40th wedding anniversary stone), a garnet tends to vary from purple-red to a deeper, darker red, whereas ruby is usually a brighter, more vibrant red.
3. Mini Garnet Gem And Initial Gold Plated Necklace - Harfi
This pretty garnet initial necklace was created to signify January's birthstone, but since the mysterious garnet is also the second wedding anniversary stone, we don't see why this delicate piece can't be used as an anniversary gift.
- Expert Take: You can add a gift card to this garnet necklace, as well as gift wrapping, so it's ready to give to your love as soon as it arrives.
4. 14k Garnet Studs - Mejuri
Set in 14k gold, these handcrafted garnet studs from Mejuri are not only the perfect gift for someone born in January - they're also a brilliant present for a 2nd wedding anniversary. Delicately small but not lacking sparkle, they'll perfectly compliment every style and look.
- Expert Take: Dramatic styles are lovely but can be difficult to style - these studs are beautifully simple and can therefore be enjoyed every day.
What is the 3rd Wedding Anniversary Stone?
The third wedding anniversary stone is the mystical, magical moonstone. It is believed to symbolise love, hope and new beginnings - perfect as you head into your third year of marriage.
5. Moonstone Crystal Candle - Arora London
Create a spa sanctuary at home with this lemon grass and lime scented candle, complete with moonstones embedded in the wax. Moonstone is said to represent new beginnings, as well as soothing stress, making this an ideal wedding anniversary gift if your partner has been through a trying time.
- Expert Take: This luxury candle is made from 100% soy wax meaning it's vegan. It burns for up to 50 hours and scents the whole house beautifully.
6. Moonstone Star Huggie Hoop Earrings Sterling Silver - Silver Rain Silver
Available in both silver and gold, these moonstone earrings make for a magical anniversary stone-inspired gift. They're delicate enough that if your partner has several piercings, they can wear these alongside other pairs of earrings.
- Expert Take: Add a personalised messaged upon ordering these to explain the significance of the moonstone anniversary stone for three years of marriage.
What is the 4th Wedding Anniversary Stone?
The wedding anniversary stone for your fourth year of marriage is the twinkling blue topaz. The brilliant azure stone is said to represent everything from calmness and communication, to wisdom and loyalty. All essentials in a marriage, if you ask us!
7. Blue Topaz Ring - Charlotte's Web Jewellery
Available in both gold and silver, this blue topaz ring is a beautiful way to honour the fourth wedding anniversary stone. The setting of the topaz is unique, with the trio of spheres making this ring stand out from the crowd.
- Expert Take: Charlotte's Web Jewellery have all bases covered if you're unsure of your partner's ring size. They sell ring sizers to check, plus they offer a bespoke size service too, if needed.
8. Blue Topaz Bracelet - Silver Stuff Jewellery
Delicate and dainty, this beautiful blue topaz bracelet is the perfect subtle nod to the fourth anniversary stone. It's lightweight and easily slips on, designed to be worn every day. The brand also offers ruby, peridot, sapphire and pearl options, among others, so if your partner loves it, you could buy the others for their corresponding anniversaries.
- Expert Take: For a little extra, you can buy this pretty bracelet in a personalised box.
What is the 5th Anniversary Stone?
Pretty, pink and ultra romantic, rose quartz is a lovely choice for an anniversary stone, so we can see why it was chosen to represent five years of marriage. It's also known as 'the stone of unconditional love,' which certainly makes it fitting for an anniversary stone.
9. Rose Quartz Stacking Ring - Monica Vinader
We fell in love with this rose gold and rose quartz ring the second we saw it. It's made from rose gold layered on top of sterling silver for the pretty, brushed effect, while the sizable rose quartz ticks the anniversary stone box.
- Expert Take: If you love this as much as we do, it also comes in gold with a green onyx stone. Granted, not an anniversary stone, but still very eye-catching.
10. Crystal Two-Tone Necklace with Rose Quartz - Tea & Tequila
Decorate your neck with these stunning droplets of rose quartz, encased in 22k gold plate on brass. Elegantly designed to drape across the décolletage with each stone hanging gracefully from a chic gold chain, this rose quartz necklace is the perfect gift for a 5th wedding anniversary.
- Expert Take: As all the stones are different shapes and sizes, individually by Mexican artists, every necklace in this style is totally unique - just like a marriage.
What is the 10th Wedding Anniversary Stone?
A decade of marriage is marked with the 10th wedding anniversary stone of crystal - or, to confuse matters, sometimes the 10th anniversary stone is considered to be green tourmaline. We say pick the one you and your partner like best and roll with it!
The fun thing about the tenth anniversary stone being crystal is that you can interpret it loosely if you wish and buy your partner any crystal you like - or a collection, if they’re into crystals.
11. Personalised Crystal Gin Goblet - Jungley
If you’re going with crystal over green tourmaline, this bespoke crystal glass is a fun way to honour the 10th anniversary wedding stone without buying something obvious, such as jewellery.
- Expert Take: Go one step further and buy a bottle of your partner’s favourite gin to go with it. You can toast to ten years of marriage with it.
12. Ombre Green Tourmaline Ring - Vianna Jewellery
For fans of green tourmaline, we can think of no better anniversary stone gift than this ombre ring, glittering in different shades of green, fading from light to dark and back again.
- Expert Take: You can buy the band in gold or silver, whichever takes your fancy, and you can order it gift wrapped, for ease.
What is the 20th Wedding Anniversary Stone?
Platinum is the wedding anniversary stone of choice for 20 years of marriage, believed to represent true love, purity, rarity and strength.
13. Fleur de Lis Key Bar Pendant - Tiffany & Co
If you can’t push the boat out for your 20th wedding anniversary, when can you? This necklace is eye-wateringly expensive, but we think it’s the perfect way to celebrate two decades of marriage.
- Expert Take: The round diamonds make this bar necklace extra special - we can’t stop mooning over it.
14. DB Classic Band in Platinum - De Beers
Designed with simplicity and elegance in mind, there's no better way to mark your 20th wedding anniversary than with a piece from one of the most iconic fine jewellers in the world - De Beers. Wear this platinum classic ring as a wedding ring or stacked with your current collection for a lasting impression.
- Expert Take: If sleek and stylish is your priority, then you can't go wrong with a timeless staple like this classic platinum band from De Beers.
What is the 30th Wedding Anniversary Stone?
Not to be confused with mother of pearl, pearl is the 30th wedding anniversary stone, thought to represent wisdom and resilience, two things 30 years of marriage certainly will have taught you!
We consider pearls to be timeless, but if your partner isn’t a fan, pearl photo frames are a lovely way to interpret the 30th anniversary stone, or for a gift on a budget, what about treating them to a pearl-hued manicure?
15. Pearl Vase - John Lewis
Another unique interpretation of the 30th anniversary stone, how beautiful is this pearl vase? Reviewers say it looks just a lovely without flowers in as when it’s filled with blooms, while others filled it with fairylights for a magical touch.
- Expert Take: Fill this with your partner’s favourite flowers for a thoughtful addition to an already lovely gift. If you can remember the type, go for your wedding flowers to make it even more sentimental.
16. 9ct Gold Pink Freshwater Pearl Stud Earrings - John Lewis
We can’t imagine anyone not liking these delicate pink pearl earrings. They’re elegant and understated, and would work beautifully with any outfit. Reviewers praise that they’re lightweight and comfortable to wear.
- Expert Take: For a more traditional take on pearls, these also come in white pearl, if pink doesn’t appeal.
What is the 40th Wedding Anniversary Stone?
Ruby is the 40th anniversary stone, representing love, commitment and passion. The bright red stone is one of our favourites and it looks flawless when set in jewellery.
17. Dartington Celebrate Ruby Goblet Glasses - Farrar and Tanner
If your partner isn’t a fan of ruby red jewellery, these stylish glasses are a great way to make homage to the 40th wedding anniversary stone. They’re embellished with a crystal, for an extra special touch.
- Expert Take: If these go down a treat, you’ll be pleased to know they’re also available in gold, for your next big wedding anniversary at 50!
18. Crystal Protection Ring in Gold - Tea & Tequila
This molten gold bezel-set crystal ring has a uniquely bohemian design, and comes with an adjustable band so it's one-size-fits-all! And much like the rest of Tea & Tequila's range, every piece is designed with natural gemstones making them one-of-a-kind.
- Expert Take: Not only does this gemstone emulate a gorgeous ruby, but it's also been designed for protection - a beautiful symbol for a new chapter of marriage.
What is the 50th Wedding Anniversary Stone?
The 50th wedding anniversary stone is gold, which if we were feeling pedantic, we’d point out is a metal, not a stone. But nevertheless, precious gold gifts are a lovely way to mark 50 years of marriage.
Don’t feel confined to buying jewellery - there are plenty of gold options inspired by your 50th wedding anniversary stone.
19. Gold Special Date Calendar Necklace - Lily & Roo
Gold anniversary presents don’t get much more special than this personalised date necklace. You can choose the stone you want to appear on your special date, selecting from 12 different precious stones, though if you want a diamond, it’s £300 more.
- Expert Take: If you don’t want to wait for your 50th anniversary, this also comes in silver, so could be a good 25th wedding anniversary gift.
20. Gold Edition Bollinger Set - Keico
Pull out all the stops with this glittering gold Bollinger set, complete with a bottle of Champagne and two sparkling glasses. This shiny gift is the perfect nod to the 50th wedding anniversary stone, and it’s a gift the two of you can enjoy.
- Expert Take: The glasses either come with sparkling stems or sparkling tops, take your pick!
Wedding Anniversary Stones: Expert Advice
If you're still feeling stuck on what to gift your significant other to celebrate the anniversary of your wedding, then keep reading for further tips and tricks.
What are the stones for wedding anniversaries?
Wedding anniversary stones (also called anniversary stones or precious anniversary gems) are traditional gemstones or metals linked with each year of marriage- a meaningful way to mark milestones and inspire anniversary gifts.What is the most common wedding anniversary stone?
The most iconic and widely used wedding anniversary stones are silver for the 25th anniversary, ruby for the 40th, gold for the 50th, and diamond for the 60th. Among these, diamond - marking the 60th wedding anniversary - is arguably the most famed and universally recognised stone of celebration.Got the perfect gift? Now check out these happy anniversary messages for your card.
