150+ Wedding Toasts to End Your Speech on a High

Writing a wedding speech isn’t always easy, so finishing with a wedding toast can be a great way to round off your message to the newlyweds.

Finding the right words for a wedding speech toast can be tough, but thinking about what the happy couple would like to hear is a great place to start. Perhaps the pair like cracking jokes and would prefer a funny wedding toast? Or maybe they’re more romantic and would appreciate a sentimental anecdote.

Try to remember if they share a favourite film or inspirational quote, as these can make for some of the best wedding toasts and help you create a memorable moment.

To help you create a great speech, we’ve rounded up our favourite wedding toast examples so you’ll have plenty of options to choose from. Whether you’re opting for a alternative wedding speech ideas, searching for the perfect father of the bride speech or you're a groom looking for the right words to say to your new partner, you'll find plenty of ideas and inspiration, including the perfect toast for newlyweds.

If you're looking for wedding toast tips in a hurry, here are five simple and snappy wedding toasts that can be delivered in under one minute – feel free to borrow one of these!

A 4 Step Formula For Writing The Perfect Wedding Toast

Writing a wedding toast doesn’t need to feel intimidating. Whether you’re speaking as a friend, sibling or maid of honour, this four-step formula will help you stay focused and end with a toast that feels natural and meaningful.

1. Start with a warm introduction
Begin by briefly introducing yourself and explaining your connection to the couple. Keep it simple – this is just about grounding your speech and helping guests understand your perspective.

2. Share a personal story or fun memory
Choose one or two moments that reflect your relationship with the couple or your friendship with one of them. It could be funny, sentimental or a mix of both, as long as it feels genuine and appropriate for the room.

3. Say something about the couple together
Shift the focus to them as a pair. Talk about what you’ve seen in their relationship – how they complement each other, what makes them work or how happy they are together.

4. End with a clear toast
Finish with a simple, heartfelt line inviting everyone to raise a glass. This doesn’t need to be elaborate, just sincere and easy for guests to join in.

Types of Wedding Toast

Click below for the best wedding toast examples:

• Traditional Wedding Toasts
• Funny Wedding Toasts
• Sentimental Wedding Toasts
• Formal Wedding Toasts
• Wedding Toast To The Newlyweds
• Wedding Toast From Parents
• Wedding Toast To Bride
• Wedding Toast To Groom
• Best Man Toasts
• Maid Of Honour Toasts
• Sibling Toasts
• Friends Toasts
• Wedding Toast For A Second Marriage
• Wedding Toast Quotes
• Everything You Need To Know About Wedding Toasts
• What Do You Say In A Wedding Toast? 
• How Long Should A Wedding Toast Be?
• What Is A Good Short Wedding Toast?
• Who Traditionally Gives A Wedding Toast?
• What Should You Avoid In A Wedding Toast?

150+ of the Best Wedding Toast Examples

Ready to get stuck in? Scroll on to discover some of our favourite wedding toasts to suit all styles of wedding speech, and all speech givers!

Traditional Wedding Toasts

Wedding toasts have been around for centuries. Many of these traditional toasts are either proverbs or blessings from places such as Ireland or Armenia. Use one of these if you're not sure on how to deliver a a wedding speech or sentimental marriage toast. There's a lot of use of 'husband and wife' here, so adapt each one if you're toasting an LGBTQ+ couple to suit how they prefer to be identified.

“Here’s to the past, for all that you’ve learnt. Here’s to the present, for all that you share. Here’s to the future, for all that you’ve got to look forward to.”

“May these rich blessings be your due…
A wealth of friendships, old and new,
Quiet nights and busy days, time for prayer and time for praise,
Some service rendered, some solace given,
And gentle peace with God and heaven.”

“May thy life be long and happy,
Thy cares and sorrows few;
And the many friends around thee
Prove faithful, fond and true.”

“May your wedding days be few and your anniversaries many.”

“Please make sure your glasses are charged and join me in toasting the new Mr and Mrs [NAME]. Ladies and gentlemen, to the bride and groom!”

“May you live as long as you like, and have all you like for as long as you live.”

“May the hinges of friendship never rust
Or the wings of love lose a feather!
Ladies and gentlemen, the bride and the groom
May they live happily forever.”

“To the bride and groom, may the roof above you never fall in and may you both never fall out.”

“Let’s drink to love, which is nothing – unless it’s divided by two.”

“May you never steal, lie, or cheat, but if you must steal, then steal away my sorrows, and if you must lie, lie with me all the nights of my life, and if you must cheat, then please cheat death because I couldn’t live a day without you.”

“I wish thee health, I wish thee wealth
I wish thee gold in store
I wish thee heaven upon earth.
What could I wish thee more?”

“Here’s to the new husband and here’s to the new wife. May they remain lovers for all of life.”

“To long life and happiness – for your life will be my happiness.”

“To the lamp of love – may it burn brightest in the darkest hours and never flicker in the winds of trial.”

“Here’s to the bride,
May your hours of joy be as numerous as the petals of your bridal bouquet.
Here’s to the groom,
A man who keeps his head though he loses his heart.”

“Live life to the fullest – remember, this is the first day of the rest of your life.”

“Here’s to love, laughter
and happily ever after.
As (Groom) and (Bride) start their new life,
Let’s toast the new husband and wife!”

“Let us raise our glasses to the happy couple. May you grow old on one pillow.”

“Here’s to the bride and the bridegroom,
We’ll ask their success in our prayers,
And through life’s dark shadows and sunshine
That good luck may always be theirs.”

“May your joys be as deep as the ocean,
and your troubles as light as its foam.”

(A toast to grandparents) “Let us raise our glasses
And then imbibe
To the splendid couple
Who founded this tribe.”

Funny Wedding Toasts

Wedding toast humour can be a little daunting, but finishing with a hilarious toast to the happy couple is a classic crowd-pleaser. Not every couple wants mushy wedding speeches or a soppy toast for marriage, so a funny wedding toast might be more fitting for their personalities. Just read the room first! 

Whether you go for a funny wedding reading or a witty poem, we’ve got lots more funny wedding toasts you can explore, but these ones below are our favourites. They make great best man toasts, and are also perfect for friends or siblings in need of the perfect wedding toast. You can also switch them up if you're celebrating an LGBTQ+ couple.

“Raise your glasses to both [daughter’s partner] and me as we’ve each gained something this fine and blessed day. S/he gains a wife and a companion for life – while I gain a whole new stack of bills to pay.”

“To the two secrets to a long-lasting happy marriage:
Here’s to a good sense of humour –and a short memory!”

“Before we raise a glass to the newlyweds, I’d like to share a Pauline Thomason quote with you: ‘Love is blind – marriage is the eye-opener.’ To the happy couple!”

“May our children be blessed with rich parents!”

“Here’s to you and here’s to me,
I hope we never disagree,
But if, perchance, we ever do,
Then here’s to me, to hell with you.”

“[NAME] stole [NAME'S] heart, so she stole his last name. All in all, I would say that things worked out quite nicely. Let us toast to these lovebirds on their wedding day.”

“Congratulations on the termination of your isolation and may I express an appreciation of your determination to end the desperation and frustration which has caused you so much consternation in giving you the inspiration to make a combination to bring an accumulation to the population.”

“[NEARLYWED] and [NEARLYWED], before I finish, I’d like you to turn to face each other. You’re now looking into the eyes of the person who is statistically most likely to murder you. To the bride and groom!”

“To keep a marriage brimming
with love in the loving cup-
When you are wrong, admit it
and when you are right, shut up!”

“May all your ups and downs come only in the bedroom.”

“To the bride – may she share everything with her husband, including the housework!”

“Before we raise our glasses to the happy couple, I’d like to make a toast to wives and lovers everywhere – may they never, ever cross paths!”

“I have known many,
Liked not a few,
Loved only one –
I toast to you.”

“For one more time, I’m going to ask everyone to charge their glasses and – for those who still can – stand, and raise a glass to the newlyweds”

“To our best friends,
who know the most about us,
but refuse to believe it.”

“Marriages are made in heaven. But so again, are thunder and lightning.”

Sentimental Wedding Toasts

Sentimental, more serious wedding toasts are a lovely way to celebrate the couple's love story and wish them a lifetime of happiness together. Whether you choose a heartfelt blessing, a meaningful quote or a few sincere words of your own, these wedding toasts are perfect for ending your speech on an emotional note.

"May your love continue to grow stronger with every passing year, and may your happiest memories always be the ones you create together."

"Here's to a lifetime of love, laughter and unforgettable moments. May every chapter of your story be even more beautiful than the last."

"May love be your compass wherever you roam,
May laughter and kindness always fill your home.
May each passing year bring joy ever anew,
Here's a lifetime of happiness to both of you."

"May you always find comfort in one another, strength in each other and joy in every day you share."

"A successful marriage isn't just about finding the right person – it's about choosing each other, every single day. Here's to your forever."

"May your hearts stay faithful, your spirits stay bright,
May you stand beside each other through darkness and light.
May your love grow stronger with all that you do,
Please raise a glass to this wonderful two."

"May your home always be filled with love, your hearts with kindness and your lives with endless reasons to smile."

"May the love you share today only deepen with time, and may every tomorrow bring you even more happiness than today."

"Please raise your glasses to a lifetime of love, happiness and beautiful memories. To the happy couple!"

Formal Wedding Toasts

A formal wedding toast is the perfect choice if you're aiming for a timeless and elegant end to your speech. They're respectful, sincere and focus on wishing the newlyweds a happy and successful marriage without relying on jokes or personal anecdotes.

"Please join me in raising a glass to the happy couple. May your future together be filled with health, happiness and lasting love."

"Ladies and gentlemen, to the bride and groom. May your marriage be blessed with joy, understanding and a lifetime of cherished memories."

"Here's to a lifetime of love, laughter and unwavering friendship. May you always find happiness in one another."

"May your marriage be filled with mutual respect, enduring love and every success life has to offer. To the happy couple."

"Please raise your glasses as we wish the newlyweds a long, happy and prosperous life together."

"Together you've written the start of your story,
A journey of laughter, of hope and of glory.
May each chapter ahead be as joyful as this,
Filled with love, endless happiness and moments of bliss."

"To a wonderful couple – may your love continue to flourish and your future be as bright as today."

"Ladies and gentlemen, here's to a marriage built on love, strengthened by trust and blessed with happiness. To the happy couple."

"May today's celebration be the beginning of a lifetime of treasured moments together. Please join me in a toast to the newlyweds."

"May patience be plentiful, kindness be true,
May life's greatest blessings find both of you.
May your dreams all flourish and your worries be few,
Ladies and gentlemen, here's to the happy two."

"To the happy couple – may your love remain constant, your laughter never fade and your years together be filled with joy."

"Please raise a glass to the newlyweds. We wish you every happiness for your future together."

Wedding Toast To The Newlyweds

Many of the example toasts on this page could be used by and to the newlyweds, but we’ve put together a selection of modern, short wedding toasts that can be given quickly to round off a speech. Public speaking can be a little scary, so having a short and sweet one-liner is a great way to wish the happy couple a lifetime of happiness without giving a long speech.

If you want to write your own, focus on words like adventure, future, happiness, love; these are the hopes you want to pass on. Once again, these examples of a toast are bride and groom heavy so mix them up for LGBTQ+ couples.

“A toast: may all sweethearts become married couples, and may all married couples remain sweethearts.”

“May you live as long as you like, and have all you like for as long as you live.”

“The man or woman you really love will never grow old to you.
Through the wrinkles of time, through the bowed frame of years,
you will always see the dear face and feel
the warm heart union of your eternal love.”
Alfred A. Montapert

“To the bride and groom – may we all be invited to your golden wedding celebrations.”

“They say you don’t marry the person you can live with, you marry the person you can’t live without. That sums up [NAME] and [NAME] perfectly. To the happy couple!”

“To the newlyweds, may I wish you health, may I wish you happiness, may I wish you wealth – and everything else you could wish for.”

“May your love always be added. May it never be subtracted. May your household multiply and may your hearts never be divided!”

“Watching [NAME] and [NAME] together has renewed my faith in true love. I am so honoured to be a part of this special day. Let us toast to the two people who have brought all of us together in this room today.”

“May ‘for better or worse’ be far better than worse.”

“Here’s to the bride and the bridegroom,
We’ll ask their success in our prayers,
And through life’s dark shadows and sunshine
That good luck may always be theirs.”

“Here’s to the bride that is to be, here’s to the groom she’ll wed,
May all their troubles be light as bubbles
Or the feathers that make up their bed! ”

“To the lovely newlyweds, here are my wishes for you. May you always have a place to call home and may you always be surrounded by those you love.”

“Here’s to marriage, that happy estate
that resembles a pair of scissors:
‘So joined that they cannot be separated,
often moving in opposite directions,
yet punishing anyone who comes between them.'”
Sydney Smith

“May you have love, health, and wealth, but most importantly, may you have the time to enjoy them all.”

“Love believes, endures, and hopes. And above all things, love never fails. Let us all raise a glass to [bride,] [groom,] and the unfaltering love that they share.”

“To be able to find your soul mate is a true blessing. Let us raise a glass to [NAME] & [NAME]. Thank you for sharing your blessing of happiness with all of us.”

“Rich or poor, quick or slow,
may you know nothing but happiness
from this day on.”

“May all your hopes and dreams come true, and may the memory of this day become dearer with each passing year.”

Wedding Toasts From Parents

Whether it’s the father of the bride, a mother of the groom wedding toast, or another family figure who wants to toast the happy couple, one of these wedding toast examples from parents will do the trick. They perfectly emphasise how happy, proud and touched you are to be part of this important day.

“It is written: when children find true love, parents find true joy.
Here’s to your joy and ours, from this day forward.”

“Happy marriages begin when we marry the one we love,
and they blossom when we love the one we married.”

“Before I take a seat I have one last task to perform, and it’s a task that is both my honour and my privilege. Ladies and gentlemen, please raise your glasses and join with me in wishing the newlyweds a long, healthy and very happy future together. To [Bride and partner]!”

“To the man who has conquered the bride’s heart, and her mother’s.”

“To you both, it’s worth bearing in mind that neither of you will ever be perfect, but you can be perfect together.”

“Here’s to the groom, a man who keeps his head even as he loses his heart.”

“There are two lasting bequests we can give our children. One is roots. The other is wings. Here is to you soaring together.”

“May you be friends to each other as only lovers can, and may you love each other as only best friends can.”

“May ‘for better or worse’ be far better than worse.”

“May your love be modern enough to survive the times and old-fashioned enough to last forever.”

“May you never forget
what is worth remembering
or remember
what is best forgotten.”

“May the future hold your happiness. May the future hold your health. May your heart hold your love, and may your arms hold your babies, yet to come. Here’s to your future happiness together!”

“Here’s to health and prosperity, to you and all your posterity.”

“May the light of friendship guide your paths together. May the laughter of children grace the halls of your home. May the joy of living for one another trip a smile from your lips, a twinkle from your eye.”

Wedding Toast To The Bride

Traditionally the groom will end his speech by raising a glass to his new partner. The key is to tell them how beautiful they look and how much you look forward to your new life together. These work perfectly for LGBTQ+ couples, too.

“We have been through the better and worse
(not always the better prevailed)
We’ve seen the richer and poorer
(the latter is most often sailed)
The sickness has outrun the health
(which often has caused much ado)
So now I pledge to you my heart,
till death do us part,
And pray all our dreams will come true!”

“A thing of beauty is a joy forever.
Here’s to you, my beautiful bride."
John Keats

“Here’s to the woman that’s good and sweet,
Here’s to the woman that’s true,
Here’s to the woman that rules my heart,
In other words, here’s to you.”

“Every day you look lovelier and lovelier, and today you look like tomorrow.”

“To my wife, my bride and joy.”

“Here’s to the prettiest, here’s to the wittiest,
Here’s to the truest of all who are true,
Here’s to the neatest one, here’s to the sweetest one,
Here’s to them, all in one – here’s to you.”

“Because I love you truly,
Because you love me, too,
My very greatest happiness
Is sharing life with you.”

“To my bride: she knows all about me and loves me just the same.”

“May I see you grey and combing your grandchildren’s hair.”

“I have known many,
Liked not a few,
Loved only one –
I toast to you.”

“Never above you. Never below you. Always beside you.”

“Drink to me only with thine eyes,
And I will pledge with mine;
Or leave a kiss within the cup,
And I’ll not look for wine.”
Ben Jonson

“Here’s to you and here’s to me,
I hope we never disagree,
But if, perchance. we ever do,
Then here’s to me, to hell with you.”

Wedding Toast To The Groom

As a twist on tradition, more brides are choosing to give a wedding toast to celebrate their partner, and to thank the guests for attending. Whether you’re after a cute wedding toast to make your other half blush, or a funny one-liner to make the wedding party chuckle, we’ve got some ideal wedding toast examples to mark the special day. Again, these are also ideal for a groom to say to his groom.

“We have been through the better and worse
(not always the better prevailed)
We’ve seen the richer and poorer
(the latter is most often sailed)
The sickness has outrun the health
(which often has caused much ado)
So now I pledge to you my heart,
till death do us part,
And pray all our dreams will come true!”

“To the two secrets to a long-lasting happy marriage:
Here’s to a good sense of humour – and a short memory!”

“May we never forget
what is worth remembering
or remember
what is best forgotten.”

“Because I love you truly,
Because you love me, too,
My very greatest happiness
Is sharing life with you.”

“I have known many,
Liked not a few,
Loved only one –
I toast to you.”

“Here’s to you and here’s to me,
I hope we never disagree,
But if, perchance. we ever do,
Then here’s to me, to hell with you.”

Best Man Toasts

Great best man toasts deserve their own section as this toast will traditionally close out the speeches. Sometimes, the pressure to make the best man speech funny can feel overwhelming. Just remember, the guests are on your side, and they want to laugh, cry and smile with you at the right moments.

So, if you have any worries about public speaking, don’t put any pressure on yourself to deliver the funniest wedding speech (although our funny wedding toasts above will definitely help!). 

Keep it simple, crack a joke or two if you’re comfortable, and finish by asking the room to raise a glass to the happy couple. As always, you can give these an easy and quick switch-up for LGBTQ+ couples.

"To my best friend – I’ve watched you go from someone who couldn’t cook pasta properly to someone who’s somehow convinced an incredible person to marry you. That alone deserves a toast. Congratulations to you both."

“To my best friend and his beautiful bride: the new Mr and Mrs [NAME].”

“I’d like you all to join me in wishing the new Mr and Mr [NAME] all the wealth, health and happiness in the world. To the bride and groom.”

“They say you don’t marry the person you can live with, you marry the person you can’t live without. That sums up [NAME] and [NAME] perfectly. To the happy couple!”

“Raise your glass and join me in a toast, to [NAME] and [NAME] – may you always be friends as well as lovers.”

“To the two things that make a great marriage – having a good sense of humour and selective hearing. To [NAME] and [NAME]!”

“Part of the best man speech involves a toast and for me, the best kind of toast is French toast. So, buvons à ce couple heureux!”

“To [NAME] and [NAME] – we all knew [NAME] had found the one when he started spending more time with [NAME] than he did playing on his Xbox! It’s wonderful to see them both so happy together – let’s drink to that!”

“It’s been a privilege to be their best man – everyone please join me in raising their glasses to the happy couple.”

“May you always have walls for the winds, a roof for the rain, tea beside the fire, laughter to cheer you, those you love near you, and all your heart might desire.”

“Here’s to those who’ve seen us at our best and seen us at our worst and can’t tell the difference.”

Maid Of Honour Toasts

Although not traditional, it's becoming increasingly common for the maid of honour to give a wedding toast. It's a wonderful opportunity to celebrate your friendship with the bride while welcoming her new spouse into the family. 

"To my best friend and her wonderful new husband – thank you for letting us share this incredible day. May your marriage be filled with endless love, laughter and happiness."

"From school-day chats to this beautiful day,
I've watched your love grow in every way.
May laughter and happiness always be near,
And may your love grow stronger year after year."

"They say your soulmate is your best friend. Looking at the two of you today, I know that's true. Please raise a glass to the happy couple."

"To the bride, thank you for being the friend everyone wishes they had. And to the groom, thank you for making her so wonderfully happy. Here's to a lifetime of love."

"May your biggest adventures always be the ones you share together, and may your love continue to grow with every passing year. To the newlyweds!"

"Watching your love story unfold has been such a privilege. I couldn't be happier for you both. Ladies and gentlemen, please raise a glass to the happy couple."

"To my beautiful friend and the person who makes her smile the most – may your marriage be everything you've ever dreamed of and more."

"Here's to late-night chats, unforgettable memories and the exciting future that lies ahead. May your greatest memories still be waiting to be made together."

"To a couple who truly bring out the best in one another – may your life together be filled with laughter, kindness and unconditional love."

"Please join me in raising a glass to two people who are perfect together. May today be the beginning of your happiest chapter yet."

Sibling Toasts

If your sibling has asked you to give a wedding toast, it's a real honour to play such an important part in their big day. Whether you're the bride's brother or groom's sister, your toast can be funny, heartfelt or a little bit of both. Share a favourite childhood memory, reflect on how much they've grown and finish by wishing the happy couple a lifetime of love and happiness.

"They say you can't choose your family, but today we've gained someone we'd choose every time. Please raise a glass to the happy couple."

"Growing up together gave us countless memories I'll treasure forever. Watching you find the person you're meant to spend your life with has been even more special. To the newlyweds!"

"To my brother/sister and their amazing partner – may your marriage be filled with as much love, laughter and happiness as you've brought to everyone around you."

"As your sibling, I've seen every chapter of your story so far, and I know the best one is only just beginning. Here's to a lifetime of love."

"I'll always be cheering you on from the side,
With love and with endless family pride.
May your marriage be blessed with joy ever after,
A lifetime of friendship, happiness and laughter."

"To my favourite built-in best friend and the person lucky enough to marry them – may your life together be everything you've dreamed of and more."

"May your home always be filled with laughter, your hearts with kindness and your future with unforgettable adventures. Cheers to the happy couple!"

"Please join me in raising a glass to my sibling and their new spouse. May your love continue to grow stronger with every passing year."

"To two wonderful people who make each other so happy – thank you for reminding us what true love looks like. Cheers!"

"We've laughed, we've argued, we've always been there,
A bond built on love that's wonderfully rare.
Now you've found someone to share your life through,
May every tomorrow bring happiness to you."

"Here's to family, friendship and forever. To the happy couple!"

Friends Toasts

If one of your closest friends has asked you to give a wedding toast, you've probably got plenty of stories to choose from. Whether you've been friends since childhood, met at university or bonded over work, your toast is a chance to look back on the memories you've shared and celebrate the exciting new chapter they're beginning. 

"To one of my oldest and best friends — I’ve watched you grow, laugh, make mistakes and find your person. Seeing you this happy means everything. Here’s to you both and the life you’re building together."

"I honestly can’t remember a time you weren’t part of my life, and now I get to watch you start a brand new chapter with someone who clearly adores you. I couldn’t be happier for you both."

"I’ve had the privilege of seeing this relationship from the very beginning, and it’s been pretty special to watch. You bring out the best in each other, and that’s something worth raising a glass to."

"You’ve always been the one I could rely on,
Through every high and every low we’ve gone.
Now love has found you, steady and bright,
May your days together be purest delight."

"To my friend — you’ve always deserved someone who loves you the way you love everyone else. And now you’ve found that. So here’s to both of you, and everything still to come."

"From nights out to life chats to everything in between, I’ve loved being by your side through it all. Today just feels like the start of something even better for you."

"It’s not often you see two people who just fit so naturally together, but that’s exactly what you two are. I feel lucky to be here celebrating it."

"I’ve known you long enough to know how much this means to you, and seeing you this happy says it all. Here’s to a lifetime of it."

"To the couple — thank you for letting us all be part of your story today. Wishing you love, patience, laughter and everything in between."

"If I had to pick the person most deserving of this kind of happiness, it would be you. And I’m so glad you’ve found it with someone who makes you shine this much brighter."

"To my dear friend and the one they adore,
May happiness follow you evermore.
Through every season, come what may,
May love light your journey every day."

"Here’s to my friend and the person they’ve chosen to spend forever with — may it be full of the same joy you bring to everyone else in your lives."

Wedding Toast For A Second Marriage

It’s not always easy to know what to say when someone has been married before. The most important rule is to not mention their previous partner or badmouth that marriage. If you feel it’s appropriate, then a gentle joke poking fun at the situation can go down well. Just remember to focus on this new union and the prospects it brings, without any negativity.

“In the words of Samuel Johnson, ‘Here’s to a second marriage – the triumph of hope over experience.'”

“Wedlock’s like wine, not properly judged of till the second glass.”
Douglas William Jerrold

“Please can everyone join me in toasting two young – well, quite young anyway – people in love.”

"Being someone's first love may be great, but to be their last is beyond perfect".

"Like the measles, love is most dangerous when it comes late in life". 

Wedding Toast Quotes

Delivering a quote in a wedding toast is a wonderful way to give your wedding speech a personal touch, and to help you say exactly what you mean. You could draw on a quote from the couple’s favourite author or musician, or even pick a romantic movie quote.

The format for delivering a quote as part of your toast should go something like this: “To [NAME] and [NAME] – here’s an Antoine de Saint-Exupéry quote to finish on: ‘Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.’ To the happy couple!”

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.
Mignon McLaughlin

If there is such a thing as a good marriage it is because it resembles friendship rather than love.
Michel E. de Montaigne

The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved, loved for ourselves, or rather loved in spite of ourselves.
Victor Marie Hugo

A wife is essential for great longevity: she is the receptacle of half a man’s cares and two-thirds of his ill-humour.
Charles Reade

There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved.
George Sand

Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his wife.
Franz Schubert

True love stands by each other’s side on good days and stands closer on bad days.

You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.
Dr Seuss

The greatest marriages are built on teamwork. A mutual respect, a healthy dose of admiration, and a never-ending portion of love and grace.
Fawn Weaver

A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.
Dave Meurer

A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

To love is nothing. To be loved is something. But to be loved by the person you love is everything.

If you live to be a hundred, I wish to live a hundred minus one, so I never have to live without you.
Winnie the Pooh

Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.
Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

Grow old with me. The best is yet to be
The last of life for which the first was made.
Robert Browning

Look down you gods,
And on this couple drop a blessed crown.
The Tempest – William Shakespeare

I drink to the general joy of the whole table.
Macbeth – William Shakespeare

When you realise you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.
When Harry Met Sally

His hello was the end of her endings, Her laugh was their first step down the aisle, His hand would be hers to hold forever, His forever was as simple as her smile, He said she was what was missing, She said instantly she knew, She was a question to be answered, And his answer was 'I do’.  
Sex and the City

When you love someone, it seeps out of everything you do, it bleeds into everything you say, it becomes so ever-present, that eventually it becomes ordinary to hear, no matter how extraordinary it is to feel.
One True Loves – Taylor Jenkins Reid 

It stops here. With me and you. It ends with us.
It Ends with Us – Colleen Hoover

If you’re looking for even more quotes for your toast, we have inspiring quotes about love; our favourite romantic quotes from movies; the best Disney wedding quotes and even magical Harry Potter wedding quotes (yes, really).

Everything You Need To Know About Wedding Toasts

Let’s clear up a few questions about wedding toasts with some expert input to help you nail the ending of your wedding speech.

What Do You Say In A Wedding Toast?

There’s some simple things to remember when making a wedding toast. First, ensure everyone has a full glass so they can take a drink at the end, then get everyone’s attention. If you’re toasting at the end of a speech, you'll already have their attention. If not, the best way to do this is to liaise with the master of ceremonies or on-site wedding coordinator and ask for the microphone.

Firstly, introduce yourself to the room and ask for their attention, for example: “Hello, I’m Mark, the bride’s brother. May I have your attention while I raise a brief toast to my lovely sister and her new wife?”

"If you’re the bride or groom, this is, of course, your opportunity to thank people," says Heidi Ellert-McDermott, founder of Speechy. "And it’s not just about the people who have helped you with the décor or organised the hen do, this is about the folk who have given you a lifetime of love or supported you through the single years."

"As a newlywed, your toast is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to drop a love-bomb on the people you care about so take advantage and do it with a smile," she adds.

At the end, either ask guests to stand if they’re seated, or to raise their glass if they’re standing, and take a sip.

If a toast is made just to one half of the couple, their partner should stand, too (e.g. the groom will rise if a toast is made just to the bride). If it’s made to the couple, they both remain seated.

How Long Should A Wedding Toast Be?

Keep your toast short and engaging. A few lines, a funny anecdote, a short poem or a quick quotation that’s either humorous or emotional is all you really need.

"Don’t turn your speech into one long tedious thank you list," says Heidi. "Make sure your thank yous are also unique, meaningful and sprinkled with humour."

What Is A Good Short Wedding Toast?

A good short wedding toast is heartfelt, personal and memorable. Aim for just a few sentences that celebrate the happy couple, whether that's with a sincere wish for their future, a funny one-liner or a meaningful quote. 

If you're stuck, here's a classic example you can use or adapt:

"Here's to love, laughter and a lifetime of happiness. May your greatest adventures be the ones you share together. Please join me in raising a glass to the happy couple!"

Who Traditionally Gives A Wedding Toast?

Traditionally, the father of the bride, groom and the best man give wedding toasts. This is the traditional order of wedding speeches, but it can be followed by any others who would like to make a toast, such as the bride or maid of honour. This is obviously for a heterosexual couple; but it's not set in stone. For all couples, including LGBTQ+ couples, you can mix up the wedding speech order and toasts however you like. 

"We’re so pleased that the wedding speech line-up is becoming more diverse. Couples are feeling less constrained by traditional wedding etiquette and the usual three blokes hogging the mic is becoming less prevalent (though it’s still a popular option and could still be the right choice for you)," says Heidi.

"We’ve worked with adult sons of the bride and teenage daughters of the groom! Kids and grandparents can provide some additional ‘cuteness’ and one trend we’re particularly enjoying is the rise of joint mum and dad speeches."

What Should You Avoid In A Wedding Toast?

Try to avoid anything that could make the couple or their guests feel uncomfortable, including embarrassing stories, inside jokes that no one else will understand, offensive humour or mentions of ex-partners.

It's also best to avoid turning your toast into a long speech or listing too many thank yous. Keep your wedding toast positive, heartfelt and focused on celebrating the newlyweds, then end by inviting everyone to raise a glass.

Curious about the order of wedding speeches? We explain the traditional order of wedding speeches and how to mix it up!