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13th Wedding Anniversary Gift Guide: 29 Best Lace, Textile & Fur Gift Ideas

Celebrate 13 years of marriage with a traditional lace anniversary gift, or opt for the modern alternative gifts of fur and textiles

13th wedding anniversary

13th wedding anniversary

Who said 13 is an unlucky number? It sure wasn’t us, and we doubt it was you, either. To help you celebrate 13 amazing years of marriage, we have put together a list of the best 13th wedding anniversary gift ideas we think you’ll absolutely love. Not to mention that they pay perfect homage to modern and traditional themes. 

Top of the list of 13th wedding anniversary gifts is traditional lace, its intricate details reflecting the intertwining of your lives. Delicate and elegant, lace is a wildly popular fabric and we've gathered everything from delicate jewellery to designer homeware and fashion, proving that, like 13 years of marriage, great lace comes in many lovely forms.

If your wedding anniversary falls in crisper seasons — faux fur and textiles are the modern 13th wedding anniversary gift chosen to celebrate the warmth and comfort of a successful marriage. Think cosy tactile duvet covers, plush rugs, or handcrafted scarves for your wind-swept weekend walks. 

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Whatever you decide, our selection of gifts for your 13th anniversary will guarantee a special celebration without breaking the bank. There’s something for every budget in our 13th wedding anniversary gift ideas edit, but they all convey a lot of love, no matter your price point. A doily isn’t your only option, as this lot proves...

13th Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Her

1. Olivia Burton Bejewelled Lace Blush Watch – £99, Olivia Burton

A close up of a bejewelled lace blush watch

Sustainable yet classic, the elegant bejewelled lace detail on this watch face embodies the 13th wedding theme effortlessly. Part of Olivia Burton's classic Lace collection, the pale rose gold timepiece comes adorned in sustainably-conscious crystals with a chic blush leather strap that will complement any textured knit. 

Pros & Cons: Not only is the watch the epitome of luxurious design, it comes delivered in beautiful packaging worthy of its style. Don't let its delicate lace look fool you, it is also waterproof for up to ten meters. Though it can handle the rain, best take it off when diving into deeper depths. 

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2. Silver Lace Textured Hoops – £24, Lucy Kemp Silver Jewellery

silver lace textured hoops

These etched hoops bring an elevated twist to the ‘wear everyday’ kind of 13th anniversary gift. Deceptively understated, each handmade silver pair features an intricate lace detailing that is entirely unique, so no two hoops are the same.

Embodying the 13th anniversary sentiments beautifully, the hoops are also made entirely from recycled material making it a sustainable gift in more ways than one. 

Pros & Cons: These stud-style hoops are made for comfort, allowing you to wear them all day and well into the evening. Some reviewers found the backings a little on the small side but considered it an easy fix well worth the earrings' chic, demure size.

Gift wrapping is included in the price with a special acid-free tissue paper available for the Christmas season upon request. 

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3. Silver Siren Blue Lace Agate Small Stacking Ring – £60, Monica Vinader

Silver Siren Blue Lace Agate Small Stacking Ring

Never heard of lace agate? It’s a variety of crystallised quartz that can be flecked with dreamlike patterns and colours. Light blue is the most common colourway, and we think you’ll agree that this ethereal stacking ring is a fine example.

Handmade in recycled silver using sustainable manufacturing methods and materials, it’s a keeper that can be stacked with other rings for anniversaries to come.

Sizing: I-S

Pros & Cons: Not only is ring resizing included in the price, but you can also choose from a sterling silver, 18ct rose gold plated vermeil, or 18ct gold plated vermeil finish — ensuring the perfect piece for any complexion.

Each purchase also includes free delivery and a 100-day return period should your partner find a more fitting item from the collection. 

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4. Vintage Embroidered Lace Nightgown – £49.55, DreamsFantasy

A woman wears a vintage embroidered lace nightgown

A night dress, but make it chic. This stunning handmade vintage nightdress honours the lace 13th anniversary theme exquisitely with the added touch of front bows and tasteful semi-see-through patterns. Thigh-high side slits add an undeniable sultry element without minimising the overall elegant look, and it also comes in plus sizes. 

Sizing: S-2XL

Pros & Cons: The gown's light, flowing style is sure to flatter every figure. While inclusive of plus sizes, the nightdress tends to run on the smaller size so it's worth matching your measurements to the size chart before finalising your purchase. 

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5. Gin And Juice Brooch Sliders – £74, Laines London

Fluffy faux fur slippers with Gin and Juice brooches

Celebrate the gin to your juice with these cheeky faux fur slippers. Embellished with glitzy gin and juice brooches, these ultra-comfy sliders offer plenty in the style department while treating the feet to a cosy cuddle. What could be better for a Netflix binge with your favourite tipple and person on your 13th wedding anniversary? 

Sizing: UK 3-9

Pros & Cons: We love that these slippers come in a choice of colours, including navy, cream, lemon, and toffee. The sole is also made from non-slip rubber so you can make those essential fridge runs risk-free. You could even nip to the shop if you're feeling comfy. 

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6. Round Lace Earrings – £95, Lily Gardner London

A woman wears 13th wedding anniversary round lace earrings

If your other half loves style without the fuss, these geometric-shaped earrings from Lily Gardner London go with absolutely everything. Comprising real couture lace in Perspex, this Vogue must-have is the epitome of chic fashion.

Not to mention the lace used is made by the same studio that contributed to Kate Middleton and Amal Clooney's stunning wedding attire only further affirms these earrings place in your elegant partner's jewellery box. 

Pros & Cons: International and next-day delivery are available for this fashionable 13th wedding anniversary gift, which is great news if you're cutting close to your anniversary plans.

What's more, Lily Gardner London operates on a minimal fuss return policy so if there is something more fetching in the collection — like the straight lace cuff perhaps — your partner can exchange without hassle. 

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7. Men's Lace Cufflinks – £145, Lily Gardner London

Square 13th anniversary lace cufflinks

High-fashioned lace isn't just reserved for 13th wedding anniversary gifts for her. These art-deco-inspired silver cufflinks by Lily Gardner London feature the same contour lace still woven on 19th-century French looms.

Handcrafted and discreet, they add a touch of classic refinement to any suit while saluting the intricacies of your timeless union. Need we say more? 

Pros & Cons: Each piece comes gift packaged with a "making of/inspiration" card, which is a nice touch if your partner appreciates expert craftsmanship. Lily Gardner London can also deliver internationally alongside next-day delivery, however, couriers can be unpredictable so best to leave a window for possible delays. 

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8. Faux Shearling Bomber Jacket – From £108, Ritzy Leather

A man wears a faux fur bomber jacket

Speaking of timeless looks, the bomber jacket is one that never goes out of fashion. This faux fur leather jacket looks like it's been taken straight out of Tom Hardy's wardrobe, while its rich earthy hues make it an easy pairing for any style, day or night.

While the inside comes lined with toasty faux fur, the outside is no less than genuine leather which tends to age beautifully. Your 13th anniversary date night may be the edgiest yet.

Sizing: XS-4XL

Pros & Cons: We love that this bomber jacket is made with real leather, but that also means it requires extra TLC and isn't suitable for those who only wear vegan-friendly fashion. The jacket is dry cleaning only but we it's absolutely worth it for its head-turning power. You could always prolong visits for a true rough and ready badass look. 

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9. Barbour Utility Gloves – £60, House of Fraser

A pair of faux-fur-lined leather gloves

What's a hip bomber jacket without the leather gloves to match? These faux-fur-lined gloves by Barbour offer maximum comfort and warmth for blustery days without hindering the cool factor.

Featuring subtle branding and expert tonal stitching, these are the crème de la crème of winter gloves, delivering instant recognition of the historic British lifestyle brand. 

Sizing: S-XL

Pros & Cons: There's no denying these gloves look good thanks to the 100% real leather. This does, however, mean no washing whatsoever. They may exude a gritty lifestyle but best to reserve them for less messy endeavours. 

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10. Burgundy Red Tie Set – from £29.95, Victory & Innsbruck

A lace burgundy wedding anniversary tie set

The perfect set if you want to embrace your 13th wedding anniversary with style. This Victory & Innsbruck tie set features a striking paisley pattern that embodies all the delicate details of an intricate lace pattern. Designed for wedding occasions, it's the perfect set for celebrating milestones, easily complementing any textured suit or blazer.

Pros & Cons: This burgundy red tie has all the hallmarks of sophisticated formal attire, so we love that the delivery is included in the price tag. What's more, it comes nicely packaged whether you opt for the tie and pocket square alone or the entire box set (burgundy lace cuffs included).

The only snag is with such a popular style and a small business, sets sell out quickly so best to jump on it as soon as possible.

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Lace 13th Wedding Anniversary Gifts

11. Linen Lace Bedding Set – from £190, DejavuLinen

Linen and lace duvet set

Who doesn't love an excuse to linger in bed a little longer - especially on your 13th wedding anniversary!

This handmade linen set not only adds major French summer chateaux vibes to the bedroom, but it's also naturally hypoallergenic, ecologically antibacterial, and breathable—making escaping between the sheets a pleasure on every level.

Grown, spun and woven in Europe, the French provincial style duvet set boasts a luxurious soft wrinkled linen texture accented by subtle lace detail on three sides. Consider every 13th-anniversary box ticked. 

Sizing: Single-Super King

Pros & Cons: Not only does the crinkled texture add to the duvet's classic romantic look, but it also means no ironing is necessary — it's actually expressly discouraged. In terms of softness, quality, and design, the set passes with flying colours.

The only gripe reviewers have is the colour depicted is not quite accurate. The off-white, beige hue may contain a noticeable yellow tint, so it's worth keeping your bedroom palette in mind.

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12. Lace Edge Gold Photo Frame – £18, Oliver Bonas

Lace Edge Gold Photo Frame

Take it back to where it started with a throwback photo of your wedding day displayed in this modern lace-edged photo frame. Featuring elegant gold lace detailing, this ornate landscape frame will instantly elevate its surroundings while paying fitting tribute to your 13 years as a married couple. 

Sizing: 5"x7"

Pros & Cons: The frame is perfect for a sweet 6x4 image, leaving a flattering white border that will instantly draw the eye, but is a snug fit for a 5x7 photograph. The lace edge is more brassy in tone which makes it a wonderful accent piece but it may not blend with other gold frames. 

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13. Vera Wang Lace Platinum Sugar Box – £90, Wedgwood

Vera Wang Lace Platinum Sugar Box

Speaking of elevating the everyday stuff, this lace etched sugar box is a sweet gift to give or receive on your 13th anniversary. Inspired by the signature corsages from Vera Wang's bridal collection, this elegant sugar box exudes sophistication thanks to its intricate, refined pattern.

As a nod to your special day, you can opt for the same design in stunning lace gold. 

Pros & Cons: The fine bone China may look delicate but it provides superior strength meaning the sugar box is dishwasher safe. And while the chic, understated style allows you to mix and match as you please, it looks best when joined by a few more pieces from the Lace Collection. 

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14. Handmade Lace Anniversary Flowers – £47, Little Foundry

Handmade Lace Anniversary Flowers

Gift your partner flowers that will last a lifetime while calling back to that pivotal moment in time with this handmade lace bouquet for your 13th anniversary celebrations. You can even customise the vintage display with colours from your wedding theme.

The bunch includes a personalised tag so that you can leave your own special message too. It may not leave you exempt from buying blooms in the future, but it's certain to score you major brownie points for your 13th anniversary. 

Pros & Cons: Little Foundry have specially designed this lace bouquet for wedding anniversaries, offering additional features to help you make a big impact on your significant other. You can opt for a vintage zinc jug, glass ribbed vase, or even a water carafe adorned with a matching lace ribbon.

Unfortunately, this highly 13th wedding anniversary-appropriate option is only available within the UK. However, you can always add a special touch by sending 12 red roses with delivery for an extra price. 

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15. Lace Maxi Night Dress – £98, Anthropologie

A woman wears a long floral might dress with a criss cross back detailed in lace

Scalloped eyelash lace combines with lustrous silk-substitute viscose to produce this incredibly decadent night dress. The back features a striking criss-cross design complemented tastefully by the lace detailing on the side split.

Viscose not only drapes beautifully, but it also offers a similar soft feel as silk. It's one of the coolest materials to sleep in too, so your partner is pretty much guaranteed to get a good night’s kip on the regular. Well worth the investment in our book.

Sizing: XS-XL

Pros & Cons: This lightweight nightdress is ideal for romantic summer nights, but that also means it requires extra TLC to maintain its luxurious look. Carefully hand wash and you will have a bedroom favourite for life. 

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16. Edible Lace Lollipops – £21 for 10, The Little Lollipop Shop

Edible Lace Lollipops

Find yourself erring more towards fresh and modern faux-fur and textiles. Pop one of these gorgeous lace lollies in with your gift to show you know your wedding anniversary traditions inside out. For an added touch, you can choose from a large range of colours for the base and lace detail to honour your carefully chosen wedding colour scheme.

Pros & Cons: The lollipops come in a surprising array of flavours that will doubtless delight your partner. We're talking amaretto, champagne, marshmallow, watermelon, and more. The catch? They are not the most long-lasting wedding gift (not with flavours like that) so best to keep it as a complement to something more enduring.

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Textile 13th Wedding Anniversary Gifts

17. Handwoven Zandra Indoor/Outdoor Rug – From £58, Anthropologie

Handwoven geometric rug

This handwoven geometric tasselled rug is perfect for adding that cosy, casual feel you both love so much inside or out.

Designed to be used indoors and outdoors, its pleasing blend of tanned hues and tassel detailing will add warmth to any setting while honouring the durability of your bond.

We especially love the contemporary twist on traditional rug patterns which sweetly sums up the modern 13th wedding anniversary theme.

Sizing: 2ft x 3ft or 3ft x 5ft

Pros & Cons: The rug is made to withstand high-traffic areas and while it can handle the outdoors, it's best to keep it stored in a dry, covered area when not in use. The natural fibres do tend to shed, but not to fret, this will subside after 6-8 weeks.

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18. Linen Anniversary Map Print – £44, Delightful Living

Linen Anniversary Map Print

This linen map print is a fantastic option if yours was a destination wedding or romantic elopement.

You are free to choose any map location in the world — including a first date space or a secret haven you both adore — which will be carefully sewn in the Derbyshire-based Delightful Living workshop. The team are also happy to customise the colours for a truly personal gift. 

Sizing: H42cm x W30cm

Pros & Cons: Your map can be printed with up to three distinctive colours — teal, black, and gold. You can even pick up to six locations in one country, whether you choose to honour multiple milestone landmarks or wedding settings from your big day.

However, due to scale, certain dots may overlap if locations are too close together so best to keep it as simple as possible. Sometimes less is definitely more.

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19. Cinema Love Seat – £1,245, Loaf

A deep seated love seat with pillows and throw

If you and your partner are unabashed film fans, you could always consider splashing out on a stylish cinema loveseat for cosy home screenings. Made of feathers, foams, and fibres, this deep seat design is specially made for cuddling up with a movie or two.

Plus, its stylish look gives it a timeless appeal that is worth the investment. All that's missing is popcorn and a blanket.

Sizing: W137cm x D105cm x H83cm

Pros & Cons: Loaf is all about old-fashioned craftsmanship, with every joint glued and screwed and delivered ready to last a lifetime. Because every love seat is handmade to order, it can take up to nine weeks to arrive so best to order as soon as possible to ensure you can enjoy all the cosy perks on your anniversary evening.

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20. Personalised Blue Cotton Pyjamas – £39, Mini Lunn

Personalised Blue Cotton Pyjamas

For a slightly less eccentric gift, easy, breezy cotton pyjamas won’t go amiss. This blue cotton pair can be personalised to make them even more special. Why not get a pair for yourself so you can celebrate your anniversary at home in matching PJs?

Sizing: XS-L

Pros & Cons: Made from 100% cotton, these pyjamas need to be kept far from the tumble dryer. But doing so means you get to keep the fabric fluffy and soft just as intended. Some reviewers note the fabric is quite light so perhaps best to add a nightgown if venturing outside for the morning paper.

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21. Personalised Lambswool Blanket Scarf – £60, Stabo

A woman holds a mug wrapped up in a large lambs wool scarf

Chunky neckwear that Lenny Kravitz would be proud of, this stunning herringbone lambswool scarf will probably wrap around both of you if required on a romantic 13th anniversary walk. You can even go the extra mile and personalise the Welsh-woven design with your partner's initials embossed on a light leather patch. 

Sizing: 75cm x 183cm (incl fringe)

Pros & Cons: The scarf comes in a wonderful selection of carefully considered colours that will warm any complexion or favourite season. You can opt for the neutral silver grey as in the photo above or add a dash of vibrancy with sea green or duck egg blue. Gift wrapping does cost extra but with such glowing reviews, it's definitely worth it. 

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22. Fair Isle Pom Hat – £45, Jigsaw

Black knitted hat with a black pom and orange and white detailing

Speaking of wrapping up in stunning fashion, this black lambswool hat is knitted with a reversed Fair Isle pattern and topped with a faux fur pompom. It’s got an impressive heritage, too – it was made in Scotland by Robert Mackie, a company renowned for its fine knitwear production since 1845.

Sizing: One size

Pros & Cons: The pom hat is available in a pleasing light cream and blue as well as the signature black. You can also adjust the size by folding over the ribbed cuff, however, some reviewers still had trouble with the fit. Luckily all returns include free posting with the additional option of heading directly to one of Jigsaw's standalone stores.

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Fur 13th Wedding Anniversary Gifts

23. Long Faux-Fur Hot-Water Bottle – £45, The White Company

A long faux-fur hot water bottle on a bed

From the great outdoors to your intimate sanctuary, make the transition an enveloping one with this silky faux-fur hot water bottle. 

Not only is it made by hot water bottle experts YuYu, but its plush fluffy cover also looks and feels luxurious.

And while the extra-long design is perfectly suited to warm your partner’s cockles seamlessly post-walk or workday, we think it makes a fitting choice for two. 

Sizing: 11cm x 80cm

Pros & Con: The hot water bottle's distinctive size is perfectly designed to distribute heat more evenly across the bed or along the length of the body, which is great for those with poor circulation.

However, this also means requiring more hot water than standard to fill it up fully. Not to worry though, with YuYu's expertise the heat does last making the hot water bottle far more eco-friendly and energy-saving in the long run. 

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24. Oxblood Faux Fur Collar – £76, Wolf & Badger

A burgundy faux fur collar with a textile floral pattern on the reverse

We love the Penny Lane vibes of this reversible faux fur collar by Jennafer Grace. A real statement piece, this collar instantly levels up everything from a slouchy jumper to a crisp white shirt, instilling even the most elegant outfit with a cool bohemian edge – perfect for your bold, wild child that you may have married but never tamed. 

Sizing: One size.

Pros & Cons: Jennafer Grace is a go-to brand for artisan products made by happy workers but it also means their items require a little more care for longer wear. To keep the faux fur soft and embroidered lining intact, it's best to machine wash cold and air dry flat. 

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25. Teddy Slide Slippers – £30, Anthropologie

Faux fur slippers

Give the gift of cosy feet for your 13th wedding anniversary, and you can guarantee that your partner will thank you for years to come. These faux-fur teddy slippers are warm and fuzzy without broaching into yeti territory. Warmth and comfort rolled into one. Just like marriage really. 

Sizing: S/M, M/L, L/XL

Pros & Cons: While easy to slip on, these luxury slippers feature a 100% rubber sole which should keep sliding to a minimum. That being said, their delicate design may not handle quick nips outside, giving plenty of excuses to stay snuggled up on the couch. 

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26. Mongolian Sheepskin Rug – £80, John Lewis

soft long curly pile rug

This luxuriously soft, long curly pile sheepskin rug from John Lewis is durable and easy to maintain. It looks great bedside and may make jumping out of the cosy arms of your loved one that little bit easier in the morning – even after 13 years of spooning. 

Sizing: 90cm x 55cm x 8cm

Pros & Cons: You can choose between clover, grey, ivory, or fjord for your rug, ensuring any interior colour scheme will be beautifully complemented. What's more, its plush look allows you to use it as a stylish throw or bench warmer.

However, it is recommended to purchase a rug hold underlay to prevent any unwanted movement or colour transfer, especially if you have silky, smooth wooden floors. Same goes for light-coloured couches or chairs.

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27. Luxe Faux Fur Fleece Duvet Cover – From £35.70, Quest Mart

A double bed with a light grey faux fur duvet cover

Not only does this luxury faux-fur duvet cover add a little luxe to the marital bed, it makes a great accompaniment to a certain sheepskin rug. Available in three chic colours, it will instantly refresh the bedroom while welcoming late-night winter movies binges and even later lie-ins. 

Sizing: Single-King

Pros & Cons: Handmade, the duvet is composed of 100% polyester teddy fleece which is super soft but also incredibly warm. To ensure it stays in optimum fluffy condition, it's best to iron only on the reverse. 

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28. Faux Fur Teddy Coat – £395, Wolf and Badger

a woman wears a white faux-fur coat

You simply cannot go wrong with a classic fur coat, and this elegant faux fur number by Santinni is no exception. You might even say it is quite exceptional. It's a wonderful example of the luxury designer brand's low-impact, high-fashion look which celebrates exquisite craftsmanship that outlasts the trends. A perfect fit indeed.

Sizing: XXS-XL

Pros & Cons: The coat is available in a choice of three colours, including a subtle pastel pink hue, and features two side pockets which is perfect for keeping those hands toasty in crisper evenings. The fabric is 100% ethically sourced lambswool, so it's best to opt for dry clean or hand wash when it comes time for a quick spruce.  

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29. Faux Fur Lined Abraham Moon Dogtooth & Leather Gloves – £59, Dents

A man fastening his leather gloves

Speaking of expert craftsmanship, Dents has been stitching leather gloves since 1777, so you can rest assured that these particular faux fur-lined hand warmers will last for many moons (and anniversaries) to come. They’re also the gloves of choice for James Bond, Batman and Queen Elizabeth II, if that sways you. 

Sizing: 7-11½ 

Pros & Cons: The sheep that provides the leather for these stylish gloves grows fine hair rather than wool, resulting in a smooth fabric with no markings. It also adds a natural elasticity and durability, making these gloves an exceptionally comfortable, durable selection.

That being said, hair sheep leather lasts best with great care, so remember to stretch them often and remove them gently (always pull from the fingers). 

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