Will You Be My Bridesmaid? The Cutest Ways to Pop the Question

Browse these fun and inventive ways to ask 'will you be my bridesmaid?' From cute bridesmaid proposal cards to keepsake jewellery


Have you known who you’d pick as your bridesmaids since you were five years old? Or you have spent weeks agonising over the decision?


Once you’ve finally decided which of your girls you want to walk with you down the aisle on your wedding day, why not make asking that question – ‘will you be my bridesmaid?’ – extra special by giving them a ‘will you be my bridesmaid?’ gift or card?

We’ve rounded up our favourite ideas, from cute cards to gorgeous gifts, to help you out!

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‘Will You Be My Bridesmaid?’ Gift Ideas

If you also want to give your bridesmaids a special gift when you pop that all important question then take a look at our selection of fun and meaningful gift ideas.

Bridesmaid Knot Earrings – Wue


We love the sentimental value these ‘tie the knot’ earrings from WUE will hold and your bridesmaids will be able to wear them on the day of your wedding as part of their outfit.

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‘Will You Be My Bridesmaid?’ Balloon – Bubblegum Balloons


The beauty of this balloon is that your bridesmaids will need to blow it up to be able to read the message, what could be more fun than receiving a balloon in the post!? We love this pink balloon from Bubblegum Balloons. It’s such a fun and creative way to ask that all important question.

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Will You Be My Bridesmaid Letter in a Bottle – Sarah Hurley Designs


This message in a bottle from Sarah Hurley Designs is a fun and romantic way to pop to question to your best girls. It even comes packaged in a beautiful box, ready to give straight to your bridesmaids.

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Can’t Say I Do Without You Candle – Lolly Rocket Candle Co.


This ‘Will you be my bridesmaid?’ candle from Lolly Rocket Candle Co can be personalised and will be a lovely reminder of the upcoming wedding for your bridesmaids to keep in their homes. 

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Personalised Pull Out Photo Album – Sophia Victoria Joy


The cute pull-out photo album by Sophia Victoria Joy features a message hidden in the bottom of the box. You can choose your favourite pictures of you and your bestie and at the bottom surprise her by popping your bridesmaid question. She’ll want to keep it forever! 

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Bridesmaid Magnet – Bedcrumb


These ‘will you be my bridesmaid?’ magnets from Bedcrumb are pretty, fun and can remain on your maid’s fridge as a cute reminder in the run up to the wedding, it’s also a great keepsake and you can tailor them to say whatever you want.

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Hidden Message Mug – The Letter Loft


Invite your best girls over for tea and biscuits and see who is the first to finish their drink and unveil the special message hidden at the bottom of the mug! We love this version from The Letter Loft.

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Bridesmaid Custom Wine Bottle Label – Mi Label Studios


If you and your girls love nothing more than a fun dinner with a bottle of wine then make the next bottle you bring extra special – we love these custom wine labels available from Mi Label Studios. Why not pick your bridesmaid’s favourite bottle of wine and then bring it round to their house as a special surprise.

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Bridesmaid Wish Bracelet – Creative Paper Makes


Give your best girls a piece of jewellery they can treasure, this cute wish bracelet from Creative Paper Makes is a perfect way to pop the question.

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‘Will You Be My Bridesmaid?’ Stamped Spoon – Fudge and Buttons


These silver stamped spoons from Fudge and Buttons would be the cutest way to pop the bridesmaid question to your tea-loving besties and is also a pretty keepsake they can treasure.

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Bridesmaid Make-Up Bag – Salty Martini


These fabric bags from Salty Martini can be filled with all your bridesmaid’s favourite things. Why not include a nail polish and lipstick they can use on the day?

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‘Will You Be My Bridesmaid?’ Card Ideas

A bridesmaid proposal card is a perfect way to ask your BFF’s to walk down the aisle with you. We have found some of the best ‘will you be my bridesmaid?’ cards that would be perfect for popping the question.

Funny ‘Will You Be My Bridesmaid?’ Cards

If you have had a fun friendship over the years then a funny card could be the perfect light hearted choice for your bridesmaid. Take a look at some of our favourites.


If you and your BFF’s have known that you will all be each other’s bridesmaids for years then this card from Love Paper Rainbow is the perfect way to ask them that question they already know is coming!

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We love this tongue in cheek card from Wordplay Designs and think it’s the perfect way to ask your bestie to be there as you walk down the aisle.

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We think this bridesmaid proposal card from Pack a Punch Designs is the perfect way to ask that special question in a lighthearted way!

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If you and your friends should pretty much be a girl band then this ‘Ain’t no party like a bridal party’ card from Aimee Clare Designs is the perfect choice for your best girls.

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Have you and your best friends been dreaming of (and planning!) your wedding day for years? If you are asking your best pinterest pals to be your bridesmaids then this card from Sioux Alice is ideal for you.

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Stylish ‘Will You Be My Bridesmaid?’ Cards

Your wedding is going to be a super stylish event so you want your bridesmaid proposal cards to be just as chic. Consider asking that all imprtant question with a stylish ‘will you be my bridesmaid?’ card.


We adore this stylish ‘will you be my bridesmaid?’ card by Sarah Burns Prints. The simple and elegant design is available in a range of colours so you can pick a shade to suit your big day.

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We can’t resist a bit of metallic detailing here at Hitched and this pretty card from Sparkle Studio Design is exactly to our taste. Choose from rose gold, gold or silver foil to ask the big question. The best thing? This company make cards for pretty much every bridal party role you can think of so you can buy matching cards for everyone.

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If your bridesmaid-to-be is already pretty certain she’s going to be a part of your bridal party then perhaps you don’t need to formally ask. We think this ‘Welcome to my bride tribe’ card from The Pumpkin Paper Co is a cute idea that is perfect for your besties.

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For a fun and quirky way to ask your bridesmaids that special question, consider a fun scratch card from Emma Moore Illustrations. Why not take all your bridesmaids for dinner and see who uncovers the special message first?

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If you are planning a summer wedding filled with floral details then why not kick-start your theme by sending your bridal party gorgeous floral ‘will you be my bridesmaid?’ cards – like this one from Eleri Haf Designs.

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Vintage brides will adore this pretty bridesmaid proposal card from Norma and Dorothy. The pastel shades and pretty bunting make it a perfect choice for a spring wedding.

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How stunning are these gold foil ‘will you be my bridesmaid?’ cards? They are blank on the reverse so you can write your own special message or a ‘will you be my bridesmaid?’ poem to each of your maids.

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Personalised ‘Will You Be My Bridesmaid?’ Cards

Give your cards the personal touch and choose designs that can include the names of your bridesmaids – they will really appreciate the gesture.


This bridesmaid proposal card from Sweet Pea Sunday is so elegant and we love how the individual name is the main focus of the design.

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How gorgeous is this pretty pink card from Kimberley Rose Studio? We think this design would be perfect for a spring or summer wedding.

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Browse even more bridesmaid gifts or start looking for your perfect bridesmaid dresses in our bridalwear section.