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  • 2022

Gilbert White & The Oates Collections

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Recommended by 98% of couples

About this venue

On Hitched.co.uk since 2021

Last update: September 2026

Set in Alton in the Hampshire region of England, Gilbert White & The Oates Collections is an elegant events venue that hosts weddings. This idyllic property is set beneath the Selborne Hanger of the South Downs National Park. Surrounded by heritage gardens and parklands that span across 30 acres, this remarkable location is resplendent with natural beauty that makes a stunning backdrop to any nuptial celebration. As this venue accepts only one event per weekend and a limited number per year, you can enjoy an intimate and private celebration surrounded by stunning scenery and your loved ones.

Facilities and Capacity

Gilbert White and the Oates Collections offers a selection of event spaces for engaged couples to choose from. The Hampshire Barn, originally built in the 16th century, offers a stunning setting for large ceremonies and receptions. Featuring beams stretched across soaring wooden ceilings and complete with sweeping views across the surrounding meadows, it provides a rustic and elegant backdrop for celebrations. Couples who are hoping to host a more intimate occasion can have use of the Great Parlour, located inside the historic house itself. This venue also offers an array of outdoor ceremony and reception spaces. The Great Lawn is ideal for reception drinks as well as Whites Cafe for dining purposes and use of our newly opened Tap Room for indoor drinks.

Services Offered

Gilbert White & The Oates Collections offer a range of facilities to ensure seamless and stress-free events. We work with a handful of approved caterers, each offering an exceptional service with comfortable knowledge of the venue and its requirements. There are no set catering packages, it is your day to choose your own catering ranging from formal meals to BBQs to food vans to cream teas, all can be catered for. The venue holds an alcohol licence, your guests can be served drinks from our vintage converted horsebox bar and there is no corkage for bringing in your own fizz for your reception drinks. The barn has incredible acostics making bands and DJs a central part of the evening should you wish to dance the night away. Throughout the planning process, our dedicated team provide the services of a wedding coordinator to assist with every detail. The venue is also pet-friendly, allowing your furry friends to share in your day.

You come to us so that you can write your own chapter in your love story.

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Frequently asked questions

Venue type:

In the country
Unusual weddings
Historic
Woodland and festival
Barn
Outdoor license
Unique weddings

Ceremony options:

Civil ceremony licence

Dining options:

Seated meal facilities
Private catering allowed
Alcohol licence
Buffet meal facilities

Evening entertainment:

Dance floor
Entertainment licence
Live band facilities
Evening reception facilities
DJ facilities

Overnight accommodation:

Overnight accommodation for wedding couple

Venue staff assistance:

Wedding coordinator

Other features:

Exclusive use
Accessible facilities
Car parking
Confetti permitted
Pet-friendly
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Reviews for Gilbert White & The Oates Collections

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Rowan Sent on 17/10/2025
5 out of 5 rating

The best choice we could have made

We got married at Gilbert White’s House & Gardens in August 2025, and it was everything we’d hoped for and more. The setting is breathtaking, surrounded by nature, with views across the South Downs that make it feel like your own little world. Our ceremony was under a flower arch on the hill, and it couldn’t have been more beautiful or personal.

We worked with Jamie, who was amazing from start to finish. He was calm, kind, and genuinely invested in helping the day run smoothly. He even collected the bridal party from the entrance to make sure the band started at the perfect moment and was so hands on throughout; moving things around, keeping the day flowing, and always one step ahead. He really went above and beyond, and we’re so grateful.

The barn looked magical with all the lights, and our guests loved wandering through the gardens and playing games on the lawn. We also loved that the venue supports a charity and cares about nature and sustainability, it really made us feel like our money was going to good use beyond our wedding.

It’s such a special place, full of warmth and care. We’ll treasure it forever.
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Paul Sent on 29/08/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Paul and Jackie - July 2026

We came across Gilbert Whites House & Gardens on this site and after reading the reviews, it was the first venue on our list. After our first visit the decision was made there and then, we didn't need to look any further. Even in December, the venue looked stunning and it wasn't difficult to picture what it would look like in mid-summer. The reality was even better than we imagined.

From that point on, we were guided, by Jamie, through the process of planning our wedding. It was stress free and a lot of fun. Jamie accommodated us with all of our questions and with such patience as we measured up and began the process of creating a day to remember. Having time to set up the day before added to the feeling of community with friends and family joining in. The day itself was simply magical, there are no other words!! All of our guests commented on what an amazing day it was in a beautiful, idyllic and unspoilt setting. Jamie and John, from Lemonstone Caterers and their teams worked seamlessly throughout the day, ensuring that everything ran smoothly. If you are looking for an intimate wedding in a stunning location this is the place to choose.
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Karen Sent on 04/06/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful day

What a wonderful day from start to finish. Jamie and his team could not be more helpful nothing was too much trouble and made the day run smoothly. Everyone I have spoken to afterwards were so impressed by the relaxed theme and atmosphere and have said it was the best day.
Book this venue if you’re considering it you will not be disappointed.
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Harri Sent on 07/05/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing wedding venue

We held our wedding at the barn at Gilbert White's, and cannot recommend them highly enough! Our wedding co-ordinator, Jamie, was incredibly helpful. He is always perfectly composed and, from the moment we had our initial chat with him, we knew we were in very safe hands. Jamie went above and beyond on our wedding day, to ensure that everything ran smoothly. All of his work and planning meant that we could simply relax and enjoy our day, without needing to worry about logistics.
The grounds surrounding the barn are stunning, and we were so thrilled to get married in the meadow, surrounded by wildflowers, birdsong, and trees. The barn itself is beautiful, and Jamie & his team did a wonderful job of creating a stunning ambience for our wedding breakfast, by wrapping fairy lights around every available beam. It really is a fairy tale venue, whilst also being hugely budget friendly.

If you are looking for a relaxed venue, nestled in stunning countryside, with a great team who you can trust...then, look no further!
Jess
Jess Sent on 17/09/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect venue for our perfect day!

We had our wedding at Gilbert White’s on the 6th of September 2025, it was just the perfect day and an absolutely amazing venue! We had changes in our wedding contact but they made sure all our information was passed on and everything ran smoothly, Jamie was are coordinator for our big day and was incredible! He was consistently responsive, helpful, friendly and helped make our day run smoothly.

The location itself is stunning, we had our ceremony in a little woodland/copse in the main field and our reception and evening in the barn, great to be able to personalise it to exactly how you want. It was great to be able to come the Friday before to set everything up and we also appreciated that there was just one straightforward fee with no hidden costs.

Overall, we couldn’t have asked for a better day. Great venue, great team, and everything ran smoothly from start to finish. Highly recommend!
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Keegan Sent on 04/08/2025
5 out of 5 rating

The most perfect wedding day!

We cannot praise Jamie and the team at Gilbert White’s enough. We had the most perfect wedding day! The team are so professional and prompt with communication. The venue is gorgeous and excellent value for money. The team are amazing in helping everything run smoothly and we would highly recommend the venue to anyone!
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Lizzie Sent on 19/07/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Our July 2025 Wedding

We had the most incredible wedding at Gilbert White's House barn in Selborne this July, and we couldn’t be happier with how the day turned out. The weather was hot, and the venue looked absolutely stunning in the summer light, with the surrounding gardens and historic buildings creating the perfect backdrop. The team at Gilbert White's were exceptional—professional, friendly, and incredibly helpful from start to finish. They went above and beyond to help us set up the day before, and even helped clear up after the celebrations on Sunday.

What really stood out was the flexibility of the venue. Nothing ever felt like too much trouble, and they worked with us to make sure the day was exactly how we envisioned it. It was amazing value for money considering the location, service, and support we received.

We also can’t speak highly enough of the caterers, Lemonstone Events. The food was absolutely delicious—fresh, beautifully presented, and perfectly suited to a hot summer's day. So many of our guests commented on how good the meal was.

All in all, we had the most perfect day and would highly recommend Gilbert White's House for anyone planning a wedding in Hampshire.
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Flora Sent on 16/07/2025
5 out of 5 rating

The perfect summer countryside wedding

I would recommend Gilbert White’s to anyone and everyone. The venue is so special - I grew up nearby and when I showed my partner he was immediately sold. It was just beautiful! The barn is perfect - the on-site kitchen helped with the catering bill (!) and the interior worked so well for the look we wanted. The wildflower meadow is breathtaking. Jamie went above and beyond to make sure our day was perfect - he was always prompt in replying, friendly, super flexible and professional. Our wedding was absolutely perfect, I wouldn’t have changed a thing.
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Julia Sent on 03/06/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A dream come true, the most beautiful day

Gilbert Whites House is such a special venue, so peaceful and incredibly beautiful. We had the most amazing day, we felt so lucky to be married outside in the meadow with our family and friends with flowers all around and birds singing.
Jamie the event manager was so helpful and made the day run perfectly in such a calm and professional way along with his team. It was so special to be able to set up and decorate the afternoon before making it personal and beautiful for our guests.
We had such a happy, relaxed and memorable day. Perfect.
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Wiktoria Sent on 11/05/2025
4.6 out of 5 rating

Best day of our life

We got married here two weeks ago now and can not stop thinking about how perfect the day was ! It was completely stress free for both of us as all the staff there were amazing ! We are still being told by all our guests how beautiful the venue is and how relaxed they felt just being there ! We could not recommend Gilbert Whites house more if we wanted to !
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Joe B. Sent on 25/09/2024
5 out of 5 rating

10/10 recommend - The Barn at Gilbert White's is a spectacular venue and Jamie (event manager) couldn't have been more helpful and easy to work with

We got married at The Barn at Gilbert White's in September 2024 - a stunning venue which worked perfectly, both visually but also contributing to a relaxed and fun environment. The Barn sat our 90 guests really comfortably, with useful facilities like the kitchen, toilets and parking nearby and accessible. Jamie, the Event Manager, was superb - really friendly, helpful and easy to work with - both in the run up and on the day. He also sorted bits out like ordering chairs and provided garden games free. We looked at several venues locally to this and found this one to be good value comparatively. Our day couldn't have gone any better, which the venue and Jamie had a big role in. Definitely recommend!
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Sam Sent on 04/04/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The perfect wedding day

The staff were all very professional and confident, this promoted a relaxed feeling to our wedding day.

Every guest commented on how beautiful the venue was and the barn looked incredible.

The staff were very attentive and sorted out requests quickly.

Pre-wedding organisation from Jamie was fantastic and he was very quick to respond or sort any queries.

The day was perfect, we couldn’t be happier and we certainly couldn’t recommend enough.
Amy
Amy J. Sent on 01/11/2021
4.6 out of 5 rating

Great wedding venue

We had a fantastic day at Gilbert White's House. The team had a challenging time as we were originally due to get married in May 2019 and the date had to be moved about 4 times! The process was smooth and everyone on the team was really helpful. They were very accommodating and patient with us as we a bit hectic in the last few weeks of planning! It was a great day and everyone raved about the venue. Special thanks to Monique, Tasha and Jo who were all very kind to us and put up with my lack of knowledge of wedding planning! xx
Sharon
Sharon Sent on 17/10/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Stunning venue

Such a stunning venue. Everyone involved were so helpful. I would highly recommend having your special day here. The open space is beautiful, the barn is spacious and the other extras help to make any wedding magical.
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Jade Sent on 11/10/2021
4.8 out of 5 rating

The perfect place for an authentic barn wedding in Hampshire!

We had the BEST day ever celebrating our wedding at Gilbert White's House! Thanks to the amazing events and catering teams our day went so smoothly and we didn't need to worry about a thing! They were there for us every step of of the way and made sure all our questions were answered.

The team were so kind, flexible and understanding when it came to arranging (and re-arranging... and re-re-arranging - thanks covid!) our day, from going to see the venue, to suggesting vendors for flowers, transport and everything in between, and during the set up, day and pack down.

We were allowed access to the barn the afternoon before and morning after the wedding, which made set up and pack down a lot less stressful than if we had to do it all on the day, and meant that we could spend the whole afternoon the day before making the barn look exactly the way we wanted. We even had some time at the end of the afternoon to practice walking down the aisle!

We also decided to use the on-site catering team for our wedding breakfast, canapes and evening food, which was all absolutely delicious and our guests are still talking about the pork belly one month on! Our tasting was also an amazing (and delicious) experience and the team were happy to work with any and all of our dietary requirements.

Thank you so much Gilbert White's House for making our wedding day the best and most special day it could possibly have been, we would not hesitate to recommend this venue to any couple looking for a gorgeous, relaxed, spacious and authentic place to celebrate your big day!
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