Gilbert White & The Oates Collections Reviews
Gilbert White & The Oates Collections
Alton, Hampshire4.9 out of 5 rating, 28 reviews
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28 reviews
Recommended by 98% of couples
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Value for money 4.8 out of 5 rating4.8
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Rowan Sent on 17/10/20255 out of 5 rating5.0-
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The best choice we could have made
We got married at Gilbert White’s House & Gardens in August 2025, and it was everything we’d hoped for and more. The setting is breathtaking, surrounded by nature, with views across the South Downs that make it feel like your own little world. Our ceremony was under a flower arch on the hill, and it couldn’t have been more beautiful or personal.
We worked with Jamie, who was amazing from start to finish. He was calm, kind, and genuinely invested in helping the day run smoothly. He even collected the bridal party from the entrance to make sure the band started at the perfect moment and was so hands on throughout; moving things around, keeping the day flowing, and always one step ahead. He really went above and beyond, and we’re so grateful.
The barn looked magical with all the lights, and our guests loved wandering through the gardens and playing games on the lawn. We also loved that the venue supports a charity and cares about nature and sustainability, it really made us feel like our money was going to good use beyond our wedding.
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Paul Sent on 29/08/20265 out of 5 rating5.0
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Paul and Jackie - July 2026
We came across Gilbert Whites House & Gardens on this site and after reading the reviews, it was the first venue on our list. After our first visit the decision was made there and then, we didn't need to look any further. Even in December, the venue looked stunning and it wasn't difficult to picture what it would look like in mid-summer. The reality was even better than we imagined.
From that point on, we were guided, by Jamie, through the process of planning our wedding. It was stress free and a lot of fun. Jamie accommodated us with all of our questions and with such patience as we measured up and began the process of creating a day to remember. Having time to set up the day before added to the feeling of community with friends and family joining in. The day itself was simply magical, there are no other words!! All of our guests commented on what an amazing day it was in a beautiful, idyllic and unspoilt setting. Jamie and John, from Lemonstone Caterers and their teams worked seamlessly throughout the day, ensuring that everything ran smoothly. If you are looking for an intimate wedding in a stunning location this is the place to choose.-
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Karen Sent on 04/06/20265 out of 5 rating5.0
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Quality of the service 5 out of 5 rating5.0
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Wonderful day
What a wonderful day from start to finish. Jamie and his team could not be more helpful nothing was too much trouble and made the day run smoothly. Everyone I have spoken to afterwards were so impressed by the relaxed theme and atmosphere and have said it was the best day.
Book this venue if you’re considering it you will not be disappointed. -
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Harri Sent on 07/05/20265 out of 5 rating5.0
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Quality of the service 5 out of 5 rating5.0
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Amazing wedding venue
We held our wedding at the barn at Gilbert White's, and cannot recommend them highly enough! Our wedding co-ordinator, Jamie, was incredibly helpful. He is always perfectly composed and, from the moment we had our initial chat with him, we knew we were in very safe hands. Jamie went above and beyond on our wedding day, to ensure that everything ran smoothly. All of his work and planning meant that we could simply relax and enjoy our day, without needing to worry about logistics.
The grounds surrounding the barn are stunning, and we were so thrilled to get married in the meadow, surrounded by wildflowers, birdsong, and trees. The barn itself is beautiful, and Jamie & his team did a wonderful job of creating a stunning ambience for our wedding breakfast, by wrapping fairy lights around every available beam. It really is a fairy tale venue, whilst also being hugely budget friendly.
If you are looking for a relaxed venue, nestled in stunning countryside, with a great team who you can trust...then, look no further! -
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Jess Sent on 17/09/20255 out of 5 rating5.0-
Quality of the service 5 out of 5 rating5.0
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Perfect venue for our perfect day!
We had our wedding at Gilbert White’s on the 6th of September 2025, it was just the perfect day and an absolutely amazing venue! We had changes in our wedding contact but they made sure all our information was passed on and everything ran smoothly, Jamie was are coordinator for our big day and was incredible! He was consistently responsive, helpful, friendly and helped make our day run smoothly.
The location itself is stunning, we had our ceremony in a little woodland/copse in the main field and our reception and evening in the barn, great to be able to personalise it to exactly how you want. It was great to be able to come the Friday before to set everything up and we also appreciated that there was just one straightforward fee with no hidden costs.
Overall, we couldn’t have asked for a better day. Great venue, great team, and everything ran smoothly from start to finish. Highly recommend!
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Keegan Sent on 04/08/20255 out of 5 rating5.0
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The most perfect wedding day!
We cannot praise Jamie and the team at Gilbert White’s enough. We had the most perfect wedding day! The team are so professional and prompt with communication. The venue is gorgeous and excellent value for money. The team are amazing in helping everything run smoothly and we would highly recommend the venue to anyone! -
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Lizzie Sent on 19/07/20255 out of 5 rating5.0
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Quality of the service 5 out of 5 rating5.0
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Our July 2025 Wedding
We had the most incredible wedding at Gilbert White's House barn in Selborne this July, and we couldn’t be happier with how the day turned out. The weather was hot, and the venue looked absolutely stunning in the summer light, with the surrounding gardens and historic buildings creating the perfect backdrop. The team at Gilbert White's were exceptional—professional, friendly, and incredibly helpful from start to finish. They went above and beyond to help us set up the day before, and even helped clear up after the celebrations on Sunday.
What really stood out was the flexibility of the venue. Nothing ever felt like too much trouble, and they worked with us to make sure the day was exactly how we envisioned it. It was amazing value for money considering the location, service, and support we received.
We also can’t speak highly enough of the caterers, Lemonstone Events. The food was absolutely delicious—fresh, beautifully presented, and perfectly suited to a hot summer's day. So many of our guests commented on how good the meal was.
All in all, we had the most perfect day and would highly recommend Gilbert White's House for anyone planning a wedding in Hampshire. -
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Flora Sent on 16/07/20255 out of 5 rating5.0
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Quality of the service 5 out of 5 rating5.0
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The perfect summer countryside wedding
I would recommend Gilbert White’s to anyone and everyone. The venue is so special - I grew up nearby and when I showed my partner he was immediately sold. It was just beautiful! The barn is perfect - the on-site kitchen helped with the catering bill (!) and the interior worked so well for the look we wanted. The wildflower meadow is breathtaking. Jamie went above and beyond to make sure our day was perfect - he was always prompt in replying, friendly, super flexible and professional. Our wedding was absolutely perfect, I wouldn’t have changed a thing. -
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Julia Sent on 03/06/20255 out of 5 rating5.0
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A dream come true, the most beautiful day
Gilbert Whites House is such a special venue, so peaceful and incredibly beautiful. We had the most amazing day, we felt so lucky to be married outside in the meadow with our family and friends with flowers all around and birds singing.
Jamie the event manager was so helpful and made the day run perfectly in such a calm and professional way along with his team. It was so special to be able to set up and decorate the afternoon before making it personal and beautiful for our guests.
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Wiktoria Sent on 11/05/20254.6 out of 5 rating4.6
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Quality of the service 5 out of 5 rating5.0
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Best day of our life
We got married here two weeks ago now and can not stop thinking about how perfect the day was ! It was completely stress free for both of us as all the staff there were amazing ! We are still being told by all our guests how beautiful the venue is and how relaxed they felt just being there ! We could not recommend Gilbert Whites house more if we wanted to ! -
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