Wedding Speech Introduction Examples: How to Begin Your Wedding Speech

Got to give a speech but don't know where to begin? Our wedding speech introduction examples will help you get started


It can be quite nerve-wracking, standing up and saying a few words at a wedding – whether that’s a groom’s speech, a father of the bride speech or the greatly anticipated best man’s speech. We explain how to begin your wedding speech with some wedding speech  introduction examples, so you can start strong and feel confident.

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Wedding speech by maid of honour

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How to Start Your Wedding Speech

Always Introduce Yourself

Whether you’re the groom and everyone is there because you invited them or you’re the best man who has flown in from overseas for the occasion, it’s always polite to introduce yourself. Smile as you do it and make a bit of a joke if you feel tense, or reference how important the day is if you don’t feel like joking:

“Hi, I’m [GROOM’S NAME] – you should probably all know who I am, and if you don’t, well done for sneaking in unnoticed.”

Groom's wedding speech introduction

“Hi, I’m [BEST MAN’S NAME], but you can call me by my full name: [BEST-MAN’S-NAME-WOULD-YOU-LIKE-A-DRINK].”

Best man wedding speech introduction

“Hello, I’m [FATHER OF THE BRIDE’S NAME] and I’m so delighted to welcome you all here on this beautiful day.”

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Father of the bride wedding speech intro

Don’t go overboard with a long-winded introduction about yourself – a line or two about who you are and your role in the day will be enough. If you're the best man, it's fine to start with a joke - we've got some of the best, tried and tested best man jokes to inspire you, or scroll down for even more speech introduction examples...

Make Eye Contact

Pick a few reassuring faces in the crowd and pitch your speech to them – but don’t focus just on one person. Aim for a couple of different locations around the room so everyone feels as those they’re included in the speech. If the idea of making eye contact is too much, pick inanimate objects to focus on but mix them up.

Have Notes to Hand

Don’t think you need to know your whole speech off by heart – you’ll feel more confident if you have your notes to hand and no one will judge you for it. If you don’t want it to be too scripted, simply give yourself cue cards to work from.

Don’t Drink Too Much

Don’t try and drown your nerves – it’ll only make starting your speech more difficult. Save the celebratory drinks for after you’ve completed your speech – slur free!

Speech Introduction Examples

Here are a few more ways to introduce your speech, no matter what role you're playing in the wedding day - just tweak it to suit you and your speech.

“Friends and family of [NAME] and [NAME], thank you for being here today to celebrate their marriage.”

sentimental wedding speech intro

“The highest happiness on earth is the happiness of marriage.”

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Romantic quote wedding speech intro

“Welcome to the most important day in the lives of [NAME] and [NAME].”

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Heart felt wedding speech intro

“Today, promises have become permanent and friends have become family.”

emotional wedding speech introduction

“Today is a celebration and we are here to celebrate with [NAME] and [NAME].”

Fun wedding speech intro

“Thank you for joining us today on such a wonderful occasion.”

Simple wedding speech introduction

“We would like to welcome all of you here today to celebrate and thank you for choosing to spend the day with us.”

Wedding speech introduction for the groom

“Love has brought [NAME] and [NAME] and everyone in this room together today.”

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love themed wedding speech introduction

“My name is [BEST MAN] and it’s an honour to be here today as [GROOM]’s best man.”

Best man wedding speech introduction

“Hi, I’m [NAME] and it’s time for me to do this speech I scribbled down about an hour before the ceremony started.”

funny wedding speech introduction

“I must admit, I’m not accustomed to public speaking. Up until I was asked to give this speech I thought a toastmaster was a kind of kitchen appliance!”

Jokey wedding speech introduction

“Before I begin, I must admit that [NAME] and [NAME] have asked that I remove anything resembling innuendo from this speech – I’ve promised if I come across anything even slightly risqué, I’ll whip it out immediately.”

innuendo themed wedding speech introduction

If you’re still worrying about your wedding speech, don’t miss our guide on how to deal with wedding speech nerves.


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