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On Hitched.co.uk since 2022

Last update: April 2025

WINNER OF HITCHED WEDDING AWARDS 2024

Exclusively yours
Cain Manor, located on the border of Surrey and Hampshire, is yours exclusively for the day and night. Whether you’re dreaming of a summer celebration with drinks in the manicured gardens or a cozy winter wedding by the fire, Cain Manor creates the perfect backdrop for your love story.

The setting
Picture yourself exchanging vows in the breathtaking oak-beamed Music Room, surrounded by the warmth of rustic charm and panoramic countryside views. If you prefer an outdoor ceremony, Cain Manor also offers a whimsical pergola set amidst idyllic meadows, perfect for a summer “I do.” With licensed spaces both indoors and outdoors, you can choose the setting that feels just right for your day.

Capacity and accommodation
Cain Manor accommodates up to 123 seated guests for your ceremony and wedding breakfast, and up to 200 for your evening celebration, ensuring a seamless flow to your day. After the festivities, you and your loved ones can retreat to the manor’s 11 luxurious bedrooms. The following morning, enjoy a relaxed breakfast with your overnight guests, sharing stories and reliving the highlights of your unforgettable celebration.

The food
Your wedding at Cain Manor includes the exclusive Harper Tasting Experience, a unique opportunity to craft your perfect menu. This isn’t just about selecting dishes – it’s an intimate candlelit evening to envision your wedding day, all with our compliments. From planning support to exquisite dining, every detail is tailored around you.

Visit Cain Manor
Discover more by downloading our brochure and price guide directly from our website. However, nothing compares to experiencing the magic in person. Book a visit via our website and receive instant confirmation, or contact us at cainmanor@harperweddings.co.uk or 0345 130 9966 to arrange your appointment.

The Collection
Cain Manor is part of the Harper Weddings collection, a family-owned and family-run company that also owns and manages Botleys Mansion (Surrey) and Notley Abbey (Buckinghamshire/ Oxfordshire). With nearly 30 years of experience helping couples bring their wedding dreams to life, Harper Weddings is known for heartfelt hospitality and a spirit of fun. We’d be delighted to do the same for you.

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Frequently asked questions

Venue type:

In the country
Historic
Barn
Outdoor license
Unique weddings

Ceremony options:

Civil ceremony licence

Dining options:

Seated meal facilities
Alcohol licence
Buffet meal facilities
In-house catering

Evening entertainment:

Dance floor
Entertainment licence
Live band facilities
Evening reception facilities
DJ facilities

Overnight accommodation:

Overnight accommodation for wedding couple
Overnight accommodation for guests

Venue staff assistance:

Master of ceremonies/toastmaster
Wedding coordinator

Venue leisure facilities:

Swimming pool

Other features:

Exclusive use
Accessible facilities
Car parking
Confetti permitted
Changing room for wedding guests
Pet-friendly
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Reviews for Cain Manor

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Max G. Sent on 14/11/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The perfect venue

We cannot thank the team at Cain Manor enough. Their expertise and professionalism made our wedding the most perfect day. The team make you feel special from the first moment you meet them, and they are there at your side every step of the way. The online planning portal is really easy to use, and the team and venue are incredibly flexible, nothing is too much trouble for the team at Cain!
All guests all commented on how attentive the staff were during the day, as well as the quality (and quantity) of the food - we certainly didn't go hungry!
The venue is perfect all year round with acres of outdoor space for when its dry, and plenty of indoor space for people to chill if they don't want to join in the dance party in the piano room!
Yes we paid a slight premium compared to other venues, but honestly Cain Manor is worth every penny.
Beatrice
Beatrice Sent on 28/04/2025
4.8 out of 5 rating

What a day!

We had the most incredible wedding day at Cain Manor. Would highly recommend, from our first viewing to breakfast the morning after our wedding day - everything was perfect! Thanks to all the wonderful staff who did an amazing job. The food was excellent, staff attentive and gave us a day to remember!!
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Victoria Sent on 23/10/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect! :)

We got married at Cain Manor 8 years ago. We’d looked at a few venues but as we drove up the beautiful wooded driveway, I completely fell in love. I’ve always described it as the place I’d love to live!
The run up to the day was AMAZING. The staff and wedding planner you get allocated were brilliant, the food on the day was insane (so many friends complimented us!), and the wedding suite and bedrooms are beautiful. I honestly couldn’t have imagined getting married elsewhere. Thank you again - 8 years later - for making it an incredible day.
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Hannah Sent on 22/10/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Our wedding day September 2024

We chose Cain manor as our wedding venue and we are absolutely over the moon that we did everything was just perfect. This venue is absolutely stunning, the team at harper were amazing throughout our planning journey and the staff working on the day were fantastic, the food was outstanding our guest still talk about it now. Our day at Cain manor was everything we could have ever dreamt of and more. I would absolutely recommend this venue.
Alice
Alice Sent on 16/10/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing food!

The day went so smoothly and so quickly! Every single staff member was so helpful, friendly, and really lovely.
If you want to get married in a gorgeous location, you need to choose this one!
The food was mouthwatering, and everyone was rolling home in the end!!
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Amber Sent on 14/09/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The most perfect wedding!

From start to finish the team were absolutely incredible. From arrival they were so hands on with anything we needed help with. All throughout the day there were checking in with both of us to make sure we were happy and seeing if there was anything we needed. All of the set ups for the room were perfect and just as i wanted them. The food was incredible and every single one of our guests said how much they enjoyed it. We had a couple of fussy guests and they even made an alternative main for them which was really appreciated. The whole day went so smoothly and that’s all down to the team. I’d highly recommend harper weddings for anyone getting married and Cain manor was just the most beautiful venue!
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Jack Sent on 23/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect day

Absolutely amazing day, from start to finish. Staff were amazing also!
Was a beautiful sunny day, very very hot just wish the aircon was better as we was all boiling but the most perfect day!
Highly recommend this venue, it’s beautiful.
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Nicci. Sent on 21/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The best day!

We had the best day!
A beautiful venue, amazing food, friendly staff, the day was perfect.
A big thank you to everyone at Cain Manor helped us plan our big day and ensured our day ran as smoothly as possible x
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Emma Sent on 22/07/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Fairytale wedding

Our wedding at Cain Manor was absolutely magical! From the moment we arrived at the end of the winding woodland drive, we were captivated by the Tudor charm and breathtaking views. The venue is stunning, with its oak beams, beautiful gardens, and secluded setting. The Harper Weddings team was exceptional - professional, attentive, and made sure every detail was perfect. The food was delicious, and our guests raved about the entire experience. Having exclusive use of the manor made the day feel intimate and special. If you're looking for a quintessential English country wedding venue with top-notch service, Cain Manor is the perfect choice. Our day couldn't have been more perfect!
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Jonny Sent on 26/06/2024
4.6 out of 5 rating

The perfect venue for the best day of our lives!

Cain Manor were incredible both in the lead up to and on our special day. They went above and beyond to make our wedding reception so special for us. All our guests commented on how beautiful the venue was and how amazing the food tasted. They were always flexible and accommodating to our personal requests, and there were never any nasty hidden surprises along the way. We can't thank the staff at Cain Manor more than enough in making our wedding day the best day of our lives! Thank you!
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Amy P. Sent on 09/06/2024
3.8 out of 5 rating

What an amazing day!!

We had the best day ever! On the day Freya was amazing and made sure we had everything we needed. Mixed messages in the lead up caused some confusion but we overcame it. Whilst the online planner was thorough, it was laggy and we could only access it from one device. We cannot fault the food. Drinks pricing was high. The sound limiter was disappointing as it limited the band. Bedrooms were clean and tidy but could do with some TLC. Changeover of rooms and clearing out the get ready room was also seamless. Overall we had a lovely day and the venue (Freya) ensured it went smoothly.
Stephanie
Stephanie Sent on 03/11/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Best wedding venue

Our day was beyond what we dreamt it would be. The team worked so hard to ensure it all ran smoothly, and our guests were blown away with it all. A stunning venue, the best food they'd ever had at a wedding and just how smoothly everything went even with an health emergency with my Grandma. Having the webcam available also allowed those unable to attend could be there virtually from all over the world and my other Grandma, who lives in a dementia nursing home,had the most wonderful time celebrating with us too. We will never forget it, thank you from the bottom of our hearts x
Will
Will Sent on 12/10/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely Superb

We cannot fault Cain Manor for their service, facilities and overall performance. We booked Cain Manor for our wedding reception in September, with the ceremony held in a church, and from the very first day we felt looked after. We were given lots of opportunities to build our day with the help of the team, the portal is definitely a good way of keeping on top of things and reminding you what you need to do! The communication is good and we never felt like there was ever going to be a problem that couldn't be worked out. Solutions were definitely found for all concerns we had!
On the day itself, the service from Freya, Daisy and their team was outstanding, everyone felt looked after and there were no problems throughout the day, even able to make last minute changes to the table plan literally an hour before the wedding breakfast.
I cannot fault this, and although it is highly unlikely we will get married again, we would not hesitate to use Cain Manor!
Joanne
Joanne Sent on 19/09/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Gorgeous venue and setting

We had an unforgettably magical day at Cain Manor, the day flowed so seamlessly and we can’t thank the staff and suppliers enough.
We received so many compliments about the food and the venue with one guest insisting that we had a celebrity wedding and others that it was the best wedding they’d ever been to. It is a perfect wedding venue and Harper are highly recommended.
Robyn
Robyn Sent on 13/09/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful From Day One

From the first time viewing the venue right up to the final goodbyes the morning after, Cain Manor were amazing.
Starting with Dean, he was a huge reason as to why we chose Cain Manor. He showed us around on the first viewing; asking us how we envisioned our day, painting a picture for us, and allowing us to see ourselves in the space.
The team who helped us before the day (Megan and Ann) were very fast with responses and nothing was too much or forgotten about. Speaking to them and using the online planner was seamless I can't imagine planning a wedding without their help or the planner!
On the day I can't explain how smoothly everything went, and if it didn't, I was unaware as they dealt with everything so professionally and smoothly. Everyone was wonderful, but a special mention must go to Freya, Jane, and Toby who were impeccable. They really made us feel like the only people in the world.
The venue itself is beautiful, and the food is still being raved about.
On the 1st of September, Cain Manor was the happiest place in the world and I want to thank the staff for being able to make that happen.
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Cain Manor Real Weddings

Natasha & Thomas
9 photos · 28/03/2025
Nick & Stephanie
19 photos · 26/10/2023
Larissa & Paul
40 photos · 17/05/2023
Phillipa & Glen
52 photos · 16/12/2022
Kirsty & Martin
842 photos · 14/08/2021
Louise & Dan
91 photos · 24/09/2020

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