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Last update: November 2024

Just thirty minutes from London but feels a million miles away, Botleys Mansion is a Surrey wedding house with a mysterious royal past and is exclusively yours for 24 hours. Your first glimpse of this Palladian house is as you turn onto the leafy private driveway. Immediately, you’re in awe of its presence and can’t wait to get inside. A classic stone staircase leads you up to the hall, where a glittering chandelier lights up the tall ceiling.

2024 Wedding Offer

Harper Weddings has released a limited amount of dates available for 2024 from June onwards, where you can get 24h exclusive hire of Botleys Mansion from just £3,000 on your Harper Wedding.

But you’ll have to be quick, with many couples enquiring and this summer proving a very high demand one, make sure to book your visit soon to make sure you don’t miss out.

* Offer applies to new wedding bookings only and is subject to date availability. Offer cannot be used in conjunction with any other offer. Expires 31.12.24

Facilities and Capacity

With a variety of celebration spaces, Botleys Mansion can host from 50-288 guests for your ceremony and wedding banquet, and up to 500 guests for your evening reception.

The first room to catch your eye is the Green Room; intimate and romantic; you will fall in love with the pastel tones and golden chandeliers; this space is perfect for ceremonies up to 130 guests.

If you’re looking for something a little more contemporary, the glass-roofed Atrium can host up to 288 seated guests. Complimented by a sweeping staircase and 7 chandeliers, this room lends itself to the most stylish of celebrations.

Outside of the mansion, the parkland views make the perfect backdrop for your summer nuptials, followed by bottomless Pimms or Prosecco around the fountain whilst you have your photographs taken.

Thinking about making the most of it with a weekend wedding? Our wedding planning team can make it work for you! Get in touch and we will put all our knowledge and planning skills to make your weekend wedding a truly memorable occasion.

Accommodation

The mansion’s beautiful Botleys suite is one of 11 elegant bedrooms for hosting family and friends, and stories of the night before are recounted over breakfast together, served in the Drawing Room the next morning. With a long history of planning and hosting exquisite celebrations, the day you dream of is in the best of hands at Botleys Mansion.

Visiting Botleys Mansion

Websites and brochures are all very well, but we all know that nothing beats meeting in real life to know whether you’ve found the one. We host several weekend Open Houses at each house, each month, so that couples can visit for a tour, a chat, and a glass of something celebratory.

Please email us at botleysmansion@harperweddings.co.uk or call us on 0345 130 9966 to book your appointment.

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Frequently asked questions

Venue type:

In the country
Asian wedding
Stately home
Historic
Outdoor license
Unique weddings

Ceremony options:

Civil ceremony licence

Dining options:

Seated meal facilities
Private catering allowed
Alcohol licence
In-house catering

Evening entertainment:

Dance floor
Entertainment licence
Live band facilities
Evening reception facilities
DJ facilities

Overnight accommodation:

Overnight accommodation for wedding couple
Overnight accommodation for guests

Venue staff assistance:

Master of ceremonies/toastmaster
Wedding coordinator

Other features:

Exclusive use
Accessible facilities
Car parking
Helipad
Confetti permitted
Changing room for wedding guests
Pet-friendly
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Reviews for Botleys Mansion

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4.9 out of 5 rating
4.9 out of 5 rating
117 reviews
98% recommend it
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Zara
Zara P. Sent on 15/11/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Our dream wedding at Botleys Mansion, truly the most magical day!

Botleys Mansion was the first venue we visited, and from the moment we arrived, we knew it was the one. Dean, the House Manager, gave us a tour, and we were absolutely captivated by the venue, the team, and the incredible atmosphere. We still went on to view other venues afterwards, but we knew Botleys was where we wanted to get married and quickly paid the deposit to secure our October date.

One of the standout features for me as a bride was The Harper Planner. Having a single, well-organized platform to coordinate everything with the venue made the entire planning process smooth and stress-free. Throughout the planning process, Botley's staff were on hand to answer any of our questions. We even visited the venue three more times with our parents, suppliers and for the tasting evening - what a special and memorable night that was, possibly my favourite part of wedding planning! We also had several check-in Zoom calls with the venue where they answered all of our questions and were so supportive and reassuring throughout. Special mention to the Botleys catering team for the incredible wedding breakfast and canapés, our guests commented that it was the best wedding food they had ever eaten!

On our wedding day, we were introduced to Marie, our Day Coordinator, and I can’t thank her enough for her outstanding support. She ensured everything ran flawlessly, offered invaluable advice (like not scrunching up our face for the confetti shot), made sure we ate, kept glasses of fizz at the ready, and regularly checked in to make sure we were relaxed and happy. Botleys also took care of all the setup and packing up of the items we brought, executing everything perfectly. This allowed us to focus entirely on enjoying the day without a worry.

I cannot recommend Botleys Mansion enough, we planned our wedding
in 8 months and they truly gave us the wedding of our dreams. We can't believe it's all over and would love to relive the day again as it was honestly the best day of our lives. Thank you Botleys Mansion, for everything!
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Owen G. Sent on 04/12/2024
2.4 out of 5 rating

The day itself was great, however the administration beforehand and afterwards was very disappointing.

The venue is beautiful, the food is great, good selection of drinks, however the administration and support in planning and afterwards left a lot to be desired.
Numerous times during our planning process we were told incorrect and contradictory information in person or via email which created a lot of unnecessary stress and engagement with managers to sort out i.e. our original quote was significantly different to our billed amount. Multiple times we had to chase staff for information and responses to our emails and calls for answers to basic questions.

The day itself went great and we had a fantastic time but for a venue of this calibre you could find somewhere else that provides a more professional and stress free planning process.
Gisele
Gisele R. Sent on 01/09/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The perfect day!

We just want to say a massive thank you to the amazing team at Botleys. The minute we entered the house on the open day we knew it we our wedding venue. The staff were so friendly and not at all pushy and we knew immediately we were in safe hands. Lucy, as our wedding coordinator could not have done more for us. She understood exactly what we wanted and made it all happen. She and her team were so caring of us and all our guests. Maxine, as well, did everything to extend our night when our guests wanted to carry on dancing. The whole wedding was just beautiful and seamless, the team are so talented and just really great people,

Honestly, thank you so much for the perfect day!
Andrea
Andrea A. Sent on 26/08/2024
4.8 out of 5 rating

Magical and exclusive venue

My husband and i celebrated our wedding there in April this year and had such a wonderful and magical day.

At no point in planning did we think our wedding would be described as magical but we’ve kept hearing that from our guests feedback. The mansion was truly spectacular especially at sunset and the service from the team was top notch to match.

We had such a relaxed day and the managers on the day Sarah and emcee Tom did such an amazing job taking care of us so that we could focus on having fun.

Sarah was super attentive and thoughtful of my husband and I, making sure we had drinks at hand. Tom the host did an amazing job and adapted so well to the two of us. The events really went without a hitch with his direction.

The wonderful night managers and bar staff ensured seamless transitions into the night events. From letting me know early on re the delays in dance floor set up and making quick decisions re plan for fireworks etc! The bar staff had a tall order and I can safely say all our guest had plenty to drink so they did their job great!

The run up to the day was also a seamless process with Maddie and Megs direction. And the on the day management of external suppliers was superb!
Daniel
Daniel C. Sent on 12/08/2024
4.2 out of 5 rating

Beautiful venue

It was the only venue we saw because for us, it had potential for everything we wanted. The staff who worked there were all very kind and sweet and the organisers on the day were incredibly kind to us and helping things run smoothly. The venue itself is absolutely beautiful and the catering they provide is excellent! The best thing is it doesn’t matter if you want an outdoor or indoor wedding. The venue seems to provide a perfect blend of both. It’s also very private which means there is a very low chance of your party being interrupted by strangers. They were also very adaptable with our requests.

My only thing that brings it down slightly is the portal. While appreciate it is helpful for storing all the data for the wedding, it felt at times an over reliance on the usage of the portal meant we weren’t really sure who we were talking to at times. There were instances where one member of staff said one thing but then another member of staff would say something else. The portal itself also feels quite simplistic and slow so could do with a refresh. As a suggestion, perhaps the ability to allow 2 users on the portal rather than just 1 could be helpful.

Overall, our wedding day was absolutely perfect. The staff and venue was absolutely perfect on the day and we can’t thank botleys enough for making our special day one we will remember forever.
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Norma J. Sent on 08/09/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Stunning location close to London

Botleys Mansion is a fantastic wedding venue for Londoners wanting the “country estate” experience but guests able to easily travel home after the event. We ended up renting the venue for the Friday - Sunday and the staff, food, house and grounds were top notch. I’m always hesitant about wedding food but the food was superb all weekend and Botleys are definitely “feeders”! Nobody went hungry and the portion sizes were massive. Botleys changed their policy to allow dogs at the venue and our golden retriever was able to join us which was very special. Botleys were fantastic from the initial meeting through the planning and to the wedding day. Nobody batted an eyelid with any of our requests and made us feel comfortable from the minute we stepped foot in the house. We were renovating our house while planning the wedding and Botleys took all of the stress out of planning the wedding. I couldn’t recommend Botleys more!
Tanya
Tanya P. Sent on 12/06/2023
4.2 out of 5 rating

Very Positive Experience and Happy Memories

We got married at Botleys Mansion in May 2023 and would happily recommend them to future couples. The venue is stunning and we were lucky enough to get married in the atrium on a very sunny day and then use the front of the mansion for drinks and canapés.
The planning process is smooth and seamless and they make sure that not detail is forgotten And the on the day wedding management and staff were great!

Overall we both had such a special day and will always hold fond memories of botleys - looking forward to coming back and visit the grounds on our first anniversary next year :)
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Megan C. Sent on 01/06/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Cut above the rest !

I can’t even begin to recommend botleys enough. From the moment we first views botleys mansion we fell in love with every part of it and to top it off the service we received was impeccable. They supported us throughout our covid nightmare and made what was a very daunting and stressful period for engaged couples easier. The staff on the day were attentive and welcoming and we just had the most amazing day. There should be no doubt at all as to whether botleys is the place to go for. Thank you Bijou team for everything x
Dan
Dan S. Sent on 22/10/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Best wedding day

Botleys we’re amazing for our wedding day! Absolutely couldn’t do enough for us, from planning tools they have in place, to personal wedding planner to on the all the people looking after us. The food was incredible everyone couldn’t stop talking about it!! Highly recommend Botleys as a wedding venue. Only wish I could do it all again there and with all the great people. Shout out to Maddie, Sarah, Emma and Dan who made our day so special!!
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Maisie M. Sent on 27/08/2021
3.8 out of 5 rating

AmaZing venue, don’t let them rush you

Stunning venue, excellent service but there was one lady who rushed me so much that I forgot lots of different things and we couldn’t even finish my hair- very disappointed but the rest of the day made up for it!
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Loren T. Sent on 23/10/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Day of our dreams

Myself & my Husband got married early September. It was a dream, the whole team at Botley’s from the very first visit in 2022 all the way to our wedding were fantastic!
Like most weddings, there were a few hiccups on the day, but the staff worked brilliantly with my planner to resolve any issues so quickly & without a fuss.
I wish I could relive the day over and over again, Botleys really was our dream venue, and we couldn’t recommend them enough!!
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Shanaide S. Sent on 17/06/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Our May Wedding

We could not have made a better choice than Botley Mansion for our wedding!
Booking - a very responsive and helpful team, available the entire journey for any (of my many annoying) queries. The wedding planning diary is very helpful and allows you to access of every aspect of your wedding which is helpful at keeping you on budget.
Food- The tasting event was amazing, I would advice taking some of the wedding party along with you as that was a treat on its own! There is a lovely selection of food and drinks. Everyone raved about how good our food was on the day, very plentiful and served by amazing waiting staff. The continental breakfast was also lovely!!!
The venue - Immaculate and beautiful, complimented by all guests, The amazing grounds and variety of rooms make it ideal for both sunny and wet days.
Staff- The staff were OUTSTANDING flexible, helpful and nothing was too much. I truly could not praise them enough.
Honestly from start to finish the day was perfect, a few things went wrong but the flexibility of the venue allowed that not to ruin our day. It was PERFECT!
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Ymke D. Sent on 31/05/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Our dream wedding!

From the first day we went to see Botleys Mansion till even after our wedding day, the service has been out of this world and cannot recommend enough!

Thanks to the online wedding planner, the fast responsiveness, and their recommendations we did not feel stressed ONE BIT! We actually got to enjoy the whole planning process and also felt like that anything we ever dreamed was possible.

From the wedding breakfast tasting to speaking with the team a few days prior to date, all went smoothly and with such a great energy and excitement.

Not only us, but also all of our guests were amazed by their service. We did not had to worry about anything on the day and could just enjoy ourselves and take it all in. They made sure that throughout our wedding day we had various moments to ourselves, just us, to take it all in. Also, the team really made sure that we at and drank enough to stay hydrated and energised.

The location and environment was also a BIG plus for us - in nature and close to the airport, to Dover, and to many hotels. As some of our family had to travel from abroad, they had plenty of options to attend our wedding.

Words cannot express how grateful we are that we choose this beautiful venue for our wedding day. It has been an absolute dream!!
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Lucie Sent on 03/05/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect wedding day at Botley

Wow ! We got married here just a week ago and it was everything we dreamt of and more! The venue speaks for itself , the stunning rooms & beautiful grounds. The staff were honestly without a doubt the MOST loveliest, attentive, helpful and all round amazing people. They truly could not have done anymore for us if they tried! All day they ensure my husband & I was okay, if we needed anything and always ensured our drinks were topped up .. they even made sure my dress was right when coming down the isle!

Even the food tasting before the wedding was amazing , it was like we were at a wedding with how it was all displayed ! Which makes the excitement leading up-to the wedding even better !!

A massive thank you to Sarah who was our wedding manager on the day, she was amazing in every way & she made the day even more special for us both ! & the night manger who was also a lovely lady ( apologies I cannot remember her name ) who helped with everything and set our little boy cot up last min !

The food … WOW , compliments to the chef! Our guests loved all of the food especially the beef !! It was quick service and was perfect 🩷

Lastly, thank you to the bar staff the drinks were flowing and no queuing at the bar all evening which makes such a difference!

Ps… I recommend doing the passionfruit tower !!

I wish we could do the whole day again !

Thank you Botley
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Clara B. Sent on 15/04/2024
5 out of 5 rating

An amazing day

From the moment we first viewed Botleys Mansion we fell in love with every part of it and couldn't have asked for a better experience. Our wedding was the most perfect day and it was made even more special by the wonderful staff especially Sarah and Dean who were simply amazing! We would highly recommend this stunning venue and want to thank the whole team for giving us the most incredible day and memories!
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