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Last update: March 2026
Welcome to Botleys Mansion
The magical Surrey mansion with a mysterious royal past.
Set within acres of rolling parkland just thirty minutes from London, Botleys Mansion is an exclusive-use grand Palladian mansion with sweeping grounds, a glass-roofed atrium, and seven glittering chandeliers. From the moment you turn onto the private driveway and catch your first glimpse of the house, you know this is a special place build for celebrations that guests talk about for years.
Whether you're planning an intimate gathering or a party for 500, Botleys Mansion is a setting where elegance comes naturally.
The Setting
At Botleys Mansion, the entire house and grounds are exclusively yours for the day and night of your wedding.
With licensed ceremony spaces both inside and out, you choose the setting that feels right for you. The Green Room is intimate and romantic, with pastel tones and golden chandeliers — perfect for ceremonies of up to 130. The glass-roofed Atrium, with its striking staircase and seven chandeliers, can host up to 288 for your ceremony and 500 for your evening celebration. Or, if you've always imagined marrying outdoors, say your vows on the Mansion Lawn with the Palladian architecture behind you.
NEW FOR 2026
Begin your wedding day at 9am in our brand new Getting Ready Room, with four beautiful make-up stations and a chilled bottle of something sparkling waiting for you. Excitement builds with every brushstroke, every laugh, and every happy tear
Capacity & Accommodation
Botleys Mansion welcomes 50 to 288 guests for your ceremony and wedding breakfast, and up to 500 for your evening celebration.
After the last dance, retire to the Botleys Suite while your nearest and dearest retreat to one of 12 elegant bedrooms. The following morning, gather in the Dining Room for a relaxed breakfast together — the perfect chance to relive the highlights before everyone heads home..
Harper Kitchens
Exceptional food is at the heart of celebrations at Botleys Mansion. Harper Kitchens is led by Executive Chef Lionel Jouanet, who previously worked at The Dorchester, creating menus with a focus on flavour and seasonality. We work with trusted suppliers who share our focus on quality and provenance – local family butchers, artisan smokehouses, seasonal produce – to create generous, flavourful dishes that people remember long after the day.
Your wedding includes the Harper Tasting Experience: a chef's selection of starters, mains and desserts, alongside a range of drinks, so you can make the perfect choices for your day.
Your Day, Your Way
We believe your wedding should feel wonderfully personal and give you the tools and support to make it truly yours.
You'll have your own online wedding planner, where you can manage details, track decisions, and keep everything in one place. You'll also have dedicated support from our in-house planning team, with meetings included throughout your journey from booking to the big day.
When it comes to the finishing touches, our carefully curated collection of Harper Partners – photographers, florists, entertainment and more – know Botleys Mansion inside out and can help bring your Pinterest board to life.
The Harper Weddings Collection
Botleys Mansion is part of Harper Weddings, a family-owned company that also runs Cain Manor on the Surrey-Hampshire border and Notley Abbey on the Buckinghamshire-Oxfordshire border. After more than 25 years of hosting weddings, we know how to create celebrations that reflect who you are as a couple — and that's what we'd love to help you create.
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Download our brochure and pricing from our website, or — better still — come and see Botleys Mansion for yourself. Book a visit on our website or get in touch.
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Reviews for Botleys Mansion
All guests have said “the best wedding we have ever been to!”
Without a doubt the most perfect venue and we could not have asked for more. From the incredible food, to the impeccable service, to the flawlessly beautiful&clean venue, we were blown away by how special the venue and day was and so were our guests.
The bedrooms onsite added such a special touch, getting ready on the day and having breakfast the next morning with our nearest&dearest.
We honestly could not recommend Botleys more… our guests have continually commented on the WOW factor of the venue, especially our grand entrance via the atrium stairs!
We are still on cloud 9 and recovering for the greatest party we have been to – there are no words to sum up truly how thankful we are to Botleys mansion and how much of a special place it will always remain in our hearts.
Special thanks to Lucy for her absolutely flawless help running the day and putting our mind at ease throughout – it rained for a considerable amount of the day which naturally went against some of our outside June planning… however it could not have mattered less … we had THE BEST DAY STILL, mostly because Lucy and Sarah were so fantastic at moving things around where needed. We are especially grateful for their hard work in updating us with the changing plans but most importantly ensuring Rob & I didnt need to do anything and all was under control - thank you so much!
Thanks also to Tom our Botleys MoC who all the guests LOVED and helped make the day so smooth.
And a big thank you to Katie and Kelly (and the planning team) who, for 2 years in the run up to our day, flawlessly helped plan it to perfection - no question was ever too much and their responses were always so quick - they put our mind at ease every single day in the lead up to the big day and we could not be more thankful for their invaluable help, a credit to the Harper team.
The day itself was great, however the administration beforehand and afterwards was very disappointing.
Numerous times during our planning process we were told incorrect and contradictory information in person or via email which created a lot of unnecessary stress and engagement with managers to sort out i.e. our original quote was significantly different to our billed amount. Multiple times we had to chase staff for information and responses to our emails and calls for answers to basic questions.
The day itself went great and we had a fantastic time but for a venue of this calibre you could find somewhere else that provides a more professional and stress free planning process.
Our dream wedding at Botleys Mansion, truly the most magical day!
One of the standout features for me as a bride was The Harper Planner. Having a single, well-organized platform to coordinate everything with the venue made the entire planning process smooth and stress-free. Throughout the planning process, Botley's staff were on hand to answer any of our questions. We even visited the venue three more times with our parents, suppliers and for the tasting evening - what a special and memorable night that was, possibly my favourite part of wedding planning! We also had several check-in Zoom calls with the venue where they answered all of our questions and were so supportive and reassuring throughout. Special mention to the Botleys catering team for the incredible wedding breakfast and canapés, our guests commented that it was the best wedding food they had ever eaten!
On our wedding day, we were introduced to Marie, our Day Coordinator, and I can’t thank her enough for her outstanding support. She ensured everything ran flawlessly, offered invaluable advice (like not scrunching up our face for the confetti shot), made sure we ate, kept glasses of fizz at the ready, and regularly checked in to make sure we were relaxed and happy. Botleys also took care of all the setup and packing up of the items we brought, executing everything perfectly. This allowed us to focus entirely on enjoying the day without a worry.
I cannot recommend Botleys Mansion enough, we planned our wedding
in 8 months and they truly gave us the wedding of our dreams. We can't believe it's all over and would love to relive the day again as it was honestly the best day of our lives. Thank you Botleys Mansion, for everything!
The perfect day!
Honestly, thank you so much for the perfect day!
Magical and exclusive venue
At no point in planning did we think our wedding would be described as magical but we’ve kept hearing that from our guests feedback. The mansion was truly spectacular especially at sunset and the service from the team was top notch to match.
We had such a relaxed day and the managers on the day Sarah and emcee Tom did such an amazing job taking care of us so that we could focus on having fun.
Sarah was super attentive and thoughtful of my husband and I, making sure we had drinks at hand. Tom the host did an amazing job and adapted so well to the two of us. The events really went without a hitch with his direction.
The wonderful night managers and bar staff ensured seamless transitions into the night events. From letting me know early on re the delays in dance floor set up and making quick decisions re plan for fireworks etc! The bar staff had a tall order and I can safely say all our guest had plenty to drink so they did their job great!
The run up to the day was also a seamless process with Maddie and Megs direction. And the on the day management of external suppliers was superb!
Beautiful venue
My only thing that brings it down slightly is the portal. While appreciate it is helpful for storing all the data for the wedding, it felt at times an over reliance on the usage of the portal meant we weren’t really sure who we were talking to at times. There were instances where one member of staff said one thing but then another member of staff would say something else. The portal itself also feels quite simplistic and slow so could do with a refresh. As a suggestion, perhaps the ability to allow 2 users on the portal rather than just 1 could be helpful.
Overall, our wedding day was absolutely perfect. The staff and venue was absolutely perfect on the day and we can’t thank botleys enough for making our special day one we will remember forever.
Our dream wedding!
Thanks to the online wedding planner, the fast responsiveness, and their recommendations we did not feel stressed ONE BIT! We actually got to enjoy the whole planning process and also felt like that anything we ever dreamed was possible.
From the wedding breakfast tasting to speaking with the team a few days prior to date, all went smoothly and with such a great energy and excitement.
Not only us, but also all of our guests were amazed by their service. We did not had to worry about anything on the day and could just enjoy ourselves and take it all in. They made sure that throughout our wedding day we had various moments to ourselves, just us, to take it all in. Also, the team really made sure that we at and drank enough to stay hydrated and energised.
The location and environment was also a BIG plus for us - in nature and close to the airport, to Dover, and to many hotels. As some of our family had to travel from abroad, they had plenty of options to attend our wedding.
Words cannot express how grateful we are that we choose this beautiful venue for our wedding day. It has been an absolute dream!!
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