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Cain Manor
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About this venue
On Hitched.co.uk since 2022
Last update: September 2026
WINNER OF HITCHED WEDDING AWARDS 2024 & 2025.
Cain Manor is an exclusive-usewedding venuein the rolling Surrey Hills, on the Surrey-Hampshire border. Renowned for its oak-beamed rooms, beautiful gardens, and exceptional service, Cain Manor is a stage for extraordinary celebrations where everyone feels at home.
Whether you're planning an intimate celebration or a grand event, Cain offers a blend of rustic charm and contemporary elegance, making it one of the UK's most desirable wedding venues.
The Setting
At Cain Manor, the entire house and grounds are exclusively yours for the day and night of your wedding.
With licensed ceremony spaces both inside and out, you choose the setting that feels right for you.Marry in the oak-beamed Music Room, with views across the Hampshire countryside, or if you'vealways imagined an outdoor ceremony, exchange rings beneath the garden pergola on the Meadow Lawn.
Capacity & Accommodation
Cain Manor welcomes up to 123 guests for your ceremony and wedding breakfast, and up to 200 for your evening celebration.
After the last dance, retire to the Cain Suite while your nearest and dearest retreat to one of 11 bedrooms. The following morning, gather for a relaxed breakfast together,the perfect chance to relive the highlights before everyone heads home.
Harper Kitchens
Exceptional food is at the heart of celebrations at Cain Manor. Harper Kitchens is led by Executive Chef Lionel Jouanet, who previously worked at The Dorchester, creating menus with a focus on flavour and seasonality. We work with trusted suppliers who share our focus on quality and provenance–local family butchers, artisan smokehouses, seasonal produce–to create generous, flavourful dishes that people remember longafter the day.
Your wedding includes the Harper Tasting Experience: a chef's selection of starters,mains and desserts, alongside a range of drinks, so you can make the perfect choices for your day.
Your Day, Your Way
We believe your wedding should feel wonderfully personal–so we give you the tools and support to make it truly yours.
You'll have your own online wedding planner, where you can manage details, track decisions, and keep everything in one place.You'll also have dedicated support from our in-house planning team, with meetings included throughout your journey from booking to the big day.
And when it comes to the finishing touches, our carefully curated collection of Harper Partners–photographers, florists, entertainment and more–know Cain Manor inside out and can help bring your Pinterest board to life.
The Harper Weddings Collection
Cain Manor is part of Harper Weddings, a family-owned company that also runs Botleys Mansion in Surrey and Notley Abbey on the Buckinghamshire-Oxfordshire border. After over 25 years of hosting weddings, we know exactly how to create incredible wedding celebrations thatreflect who you are as a couple, and that’s what we’d love to help you create.
Visit Cain Manor
Download our brochure and pricing from our website, or – better still – come and see Cain Manor for yourself in person. Book a visit on our website or get in touch.
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Great venue
Big thanks to the Chef and his team as the food was fantastic, with many compliments from our guests, and we very much enjoyed it ourselves. Also thanks for holding back some of the cake/biscuits for us in our room!
Final shout out to Jill who everyone loved,(even if they may not thank her for their hangovers!!) and who made sure to look after jieni and I with drinks throughout the day.
A beautiful venue!
They were very accommodating with us wanting to visit and the tasting experience was so much fun.
On the actual day of our wedding, they looked after us and our guests so well. The whole team were great and made us feel so welcome.
The food was excellent and the day ran so smoothly.
The venue is really stunning and feels grand as well as feeling like a home. We had a lot of compliments from our guests on how beautiful the venue was. The grounds were also perfect for taking pictures after the ceremony and for golden hour pictures.
Overall, we were so happy with Cain Manor and would definitely recommend other couples book it for their wedding.
Dream day!
The most amazing wedding venue 🤍
Thank you to Julie, Elliyah, Mickayla and Megan for making sure everything ran perfectly. We would do it again in a heartbeat! ❤️
Perfection (even the weather)
From the moment we viewed Cain Manor we fell in love with it. The venue is not only beautiful but has that home from home feeling. Just like its staff Cain Manor is warm and inviting. We had so many guests complimenting on the venues beautiful setting.
Whilst Cain doesn’t offer the full wedding planner service, their portal massively helped in the planning process.
We honestly cannot express how good the team and venue were for making it the most magical day.
Everything you want a wedding venue to be!
From our first viewing to our wedding day, we were made to feel so special. Throughout our 2-year engagement, the team were in regular contact with us and we received quick responses to all our (many!) questions. The online planner was a bonus and we found it super helpful!
Our wedding day was absolutely amazing. The house and grounds were stunning in the May sunshine. All our guests commented on how beautiful the venue was, how yummy the food was, and how friendly & attentive the staff were!
We couldn’t have asked for a more perfect day and we couldn’t recommend Cain Manor enough. Thank you to Sarah, Jane, Elliyah, Mickayla & the entire team!
The most PERFECT wedding possible!!
Not only is the venue absolutely stunning, but the day itself was absolutely perfect with amazing food, fabulous drinks and extremely professional staff. I could not have asked for a more perfect wedding day! You definitely get what you pay for, and all our guests commented on how amazing our day was!
Sarah especially was such a huge support for us in the weeks running up to the big day and I simply cannot thank you all enough. I would highly recommend Cain Manor!! 10/10 ☺️
What a day!
The perfect venue
All guests all commented on how attentive the staff were during the day, as well as the quality (and quantity) of the food - we certainly didn't go hungry!
The venue is perfect all year round with acres of outdoor space for when its dry, and plenty of indoor space for people to chill if they don't want to join in the dance party in the piano room!
Yes we paid a slight premium compared to other venues, but honestly Cain Manor is worth every penny.
Our wedding day September 2024
Amazing food!
If you want to get married in a gorgeous location, you need to choose this one!
The food was mouthwatering, and everyone was rolling home in the end!!
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Congratulations on your wonderful news! Here at Cain Manor, weddings are our specialty. Renowned for our outstanding service & meticulous attention to detail, we offer full exclusivity of the house & grounds for 24 hours, along with elegant on-site accommodation. Our expert planning team is available 7 days a week to support you throughout the journey. With our exclusive online planning system, every element of your big day is carefully recorded, making the experience seamless & stress-free.
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