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About this venue

On Hitched.co.uk since 2022

Last update: September 2026

Your wedding. Your way. In the heart of the Sussex countryside.

Set within 120 acres of beautiful West Sussex countryside, Alexander House Hotel & Utopia Spa offers an elegant and romantic setting where every wedding is designed to feel completely personal.

From the moment you arrive, our dedicated Weddings Team will be there to help bring your plans to life. Whether you’re dreaming of an intimate celebration with your closest family and friends or a beautiful day followed by a packed dance floor, we’ll work with you to create a wedding that feels unmistakably yours.

A beautiful setting for every part of your day

Our elegant wedding spaces offer a choice of settings for your ceremony, wedding breakfast and evening celebration. During the warmer months, you can exchange your vows outdoors beneath our licensed wedding gazebo, surrounded by manicured gardens and the rolling Sussex countryside.

The 120-acre estate provides a stunning backdrop for photographs throughout the seasons, from romantic garden portraits to those quieter moments together away from the celebrations.

Alexander House can welcome up to 80 guests for your wedding day and up to 120 guests for your evening reception, giving you the flexibility to celebrate with the people who matter most.

More than just a wedding venue

What makes a wedding at Alexander House special is that your celebration doesn't have to begin and end with the wedding itself.

With 58 individually designed bedrooms and suites and our award-winning Utopia Spa, you and your guests can settle in, relax and make a real occasion of your stay. Enjoy drinks together the night before, get ready surrounded by your favourite people, celebrate into the evening and wake up the following morning knowing you don't have to rush away.

For couples looking for the ultimate private celebration, exclusive-use options allow Alexander House to become your own country-house retreat, creating an incredibly personal atmosphere for you and your guests.

Weddings made personal

No two couples are the same, and we don't believe their weddings should be either.

Our experienced Weddings Team will guide you through the planning process, from choosing the perfect spaces and creating your menu to timings, accommodation and all those little details that make the day yours.

Beautiful surroundings, exceptional food and drink, luxurious accommodation and a team who genuinely care about your celebration – all brought together in one unforgettable Sussex setting.

Come and see Alexander House for yourself. We'd love to show you around, hear about the wedding you're imagining and help you start bringing it to life.

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Weddings at this venue

Vili & Kris's wedding
Vili & Kris
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George & Natasha's wedding
George & Natasha
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Frequently asked questions

Venue type:

In the country
Small hotel
Historic
Outdoor license

Ceremony options:

Civil ceremony licence

Dining options:

Seated meal facilities
Alcohol licence
Buffet meal facilities
In-house catering

Evening entertainment:

Dance floor
Entertainment licence
Evening reception facilities
DJ facilities

Overnight accommodation:

Overnight accommodation for wedding couple
Overnight accommodation for guests

Venue staff assistance:

Master of ceremonies/toastmaster
Wedding coordinator

Venue leisure facilities:

Hairdresser
Swimming pool
Health suite
Beautician
Fitness centre

Other features:

Exclusive use
Accessible facilities
Car parking
Helipad
Confetti permitted
Pet-friendly
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Reviews for Alexander House Hotel - AA Top 200 hotel

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Tzveta Sent on 07/09/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect wedding!

With three months to go to our wedding our previous venue fell through and we contacted the Alexander House team to see if they could help us. They were INCREDIBLE, putting together a perfect day in record time and accommodating everything we had wanted. We couldn't have asked for a more helpful, thorough and efficient wedding organiser. The wedding day itself was perfect and everyone on staff was attentive and lovely. The food was particularly amazing (as all the guests kept saying!)
If you are planning a wedding in the area this is a beautiful venue with helpful and organised staff and I would seriously recommend considering it - it was a fantastic choice for us!
Adrienne
Adrienne Sent on 02/07/2026
5 out of 5 rating

A Perfect Wedding Experience – Truly 10/10

We couldn’t have asked for a better venue and team for our wedding—everything was truly 10/10. From the exceptional service to the beautiful accommodation and outstanding food quality, every detail exceeded our expectations.

A huge thank you to Marie, who was absolutely incredible throughout the entire planning process. From December onwards, she was always responsive, patient (especially with all our questions!), and so supportive. Her thoughtful suggestions during the heatwave really showed how much she genuinely cares about her clients.

On the day itself, Chris (Operations Manager) ensured everything ran seamlessly. Although we didn’t get much time to speak with him, so many of our guests commented on how organised, efficient, and polite he was.

We’re also so grateful to Calum at reception, whose kindness in upgrading our rooms during the heatwave made a big difference for our families. The accommodation was beautiful, comfortable, and of the highest standard, and his warm, welcoming approach really stood out.

The food was absolutely fantastic—so many of our guests commented on the quality and how much they enjoyed it. Combined with the flawless service, it made the whole experience even more special.

Thank you all for making our wedding day so perfect and unforgettable. We would highly recommend this venue to anyone planning their special day!
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Lottie Sent on 31/10/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Our day really was everything we could of wished f

I still can’t believe we are married ????????it’s all still so surreal.

Our day really was everything we could of wished for & more. We were extremely blessed with the sun shining on us, rather than thunderstorms which were forecasted for our day.

It was so wonderful to have you as our wedding coordinator, we felt you went above and beyond to help ensure we had the best day & we so appreciate you being there on our day & for everything you did to look after/support us.

Zsolt is a very special man indeed, I can so see why he is a manager of the banqueting team. Zsolt, in my opinion, cares about what he does & this really shines through in how he deals with people.

Zsolt’s amazing nature is just second to none & we are most grateful to him for all he did for us. One other staff member really stood out for us, Reece he is just so lovely, so helpful & attentive which again people like him do really make an experience.

Personally I’m one for appreciating good customer service, I really believe it’s the people who you deal with in any experience who can make or break it.
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Athina Sent on 31/10/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Would not change a thing!

We just wanted to say thank you again for helping to organize our wedding on Friday. We had the most amazing day and wouldn’t change a thing!
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Elena Sent on 31/10/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing Day!

I don’t even know how to put into words what an amazing day we had. Everything at the hotel was just perfect.
Our guests all said what a beautiful location it was. We were so lucky with the weather as it just showed the hotel off beautifully.
We are still buzzing from the day.
Thank you so much for all the room upgrades. Jessica the biggest thank you to you and your team who all helped to make our day truly memorable.
Also, thank you for the lovely words in your card.
You’ve been so patient with all our incessant questions and I hope I didn’t drive you too mad.
We will definitely be back next year for our anniversary ??
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Sarah Sent on 18/10/2018
5 out of 5 rating

Sarah & Consu

From the moment we visited Alexander House Hotel and met Helen we knew this was the venue that we wanted for our dream day. Helen was amazing in all the planning stages, always happy to answer our constant questions and give advice and helped us deliver the most beautiful Wedding. All the staff were so friendly, the food was delicious, and all the aspects provided such as the Toastmaster made the day stress free, and run so smoothly. Such a beautiful venue, fantastic staff, we will never forget the best day of our lives. Thank you Helen and the team at Alexander House Hotel.
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Emma Sent on 29/09/2015
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding Ceremony - 12th September 2015

My husband and I got married at the beautiful Alexander House on 12th September 2015. Jessica was our brilliant wedding coordinator and from start to finish the whole process was wonderful , even when there were some last minute changes a few days before the wedding, Alexander House were more than accommodating. The whole day was perfect and the staff were so friendly and always willing to help.
Beautiful location, gorgeous venue, amazing staff and I would not hesitate to recommend Alexander House for your wedding.
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Sue Sent on 14/08/2015
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful Hotel - Ceremony 09.08.2015

Thank you to Alexander House for the most magical wedding day for our daughter. The hotel is just gorgeous and we were lucky enough with the weather to have the ceremony outside in the Gazebo with drinks on the terrace. Our wedding planner Rebecca was brilliant, just so helpful and caring. The service and food at the wedding breakfast was outstanding. We cannot recommend this wonderful hotel highly enough. Fantastic.
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Mumtaz Sent on 12/05/2015
5 out of 5 rating

Excellent wedding venue

The gazebo is a great touch - you just have to hope the weather holds out!
The staff were attentive too, all round excellence!
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Amy Sent on 11/05/2015
5 out of 5 rating

Gorgeous venue!

My Husband and myself loved this hotel before we decided on it as a venue for our wedding which took place a month ago. Alexander house hotel has absolutely everything you could ask for, beauty, relaxation and amazing staff members to help with your every need.
we started planning our wedding 2 years ago and the staff who were with us throughout our whole experience couldn't of done more for us, anything we asked for wasn't ever asking too much.
The day itself came together without a hitch and we can thank the hotel for this.
The one thing all our guests commented on was how amazing the food was during our wedding breakfast and evening buffet a few of them still talk about it to this day!
I could carry on and rave about this place more but the minute you step foot in the door your mind will be made up.
We are already planning our next break at the hotel.
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Nato Sent on 16/04/2015
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding for 2

I just would like to say huge thank you to make our wedding day so special.
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Jack Sent on 07/11/2014
5 out of 5 rating
Thank you so much for everything you did for us. Our wedding day was wonderful and we couldn't have chosen a better venue. Food was amazing, staff were amazing, everything was Amazing!! Everyone had a fabulous time.
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Kirsty Sent on 31/10/2014
5 out of 5 rating
We had an amazing wedding day, the sun came out and Alexander House made it even more special. Our guests loved the venue and couldn’t fault the food or the staff. Thank you. Breakfast the next day was wonderful too, as was using the spa. The Henley suite is beautiful and absolutely amazing.

Thank you for all of your help and support with the planning, you made it all very easy to plan our special day.
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Laura Sent on 31/10/2014
5 out of 5 rating
Thank you, Jaideep and the other folk at the Alexander House Hotel for helping making Saturday such a perfect day for Laura & Becka. How you managed to organise such wonderful weather I’ll never know. Seriously though, it couldn’t have gone smoother, and I don’t think I’ve ever seen two happier people than my daughter and daughter-in-law. You’ve helped us all create joyful memories that will stay with us forever.

We loved the hotel, and there’s no doubt we’ll be back in the future to pamper ourselves in those wonderful facilities of yours.
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Siobhan Sent on 30/10/2014
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing!

The help and assistance that we received on our day was amazing. The fact that you were able to handle the slightly expanded guest list that we had ended up with was fantastic.

All of you at Alexander House helped to make our wedding day very special and I feel like one of the privileged few who got to use such a beautiful venue and have such helpful staff that ensured Daniel and I were well looked after. Thank you
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17 Jan
Open Door

Join us at Alexander House on Sunday 17th January 2027, from 12pm–3pm, for our Wedding Showcase.

Explore our beautiful wedding spaces, styled for the occasion, and discover how your wedding day could look at Alexander House.

You’ll also have the opportunity to meet a selection of our trusted preferred suppliers, who will be showcasing their work and available to chat through ideas, inspiration and plans for your special day.

Sunday 17th January 2027
12pm–3pm

We look forward to welcoming you.

Date: From 17/01/2027 to 17/01/2027 Schedule 12:30 - 15:00
Place: East Street, Turners Hill, West Sussex
03 Oct
Open Door

Join us at Alexander House on Sunday 3rd October 2027, from 12pm–3pm, for our Wedding Showcase.

Explore our beautiful wedding spaces, styled for the occasion, and discover how your wedding day could look at Alexander House.

You’ll also have the opportunity to meet a selection of our trusted preferred suppliers, who will be showcasing their work and available to chat through ideas, inspiration and plans for your special day.

Sunday 3rd October 2027
12pm–3pm

We look forward to welcoming you.

Date: From 03/10/2027 to 03/10/2027 Schedule 12:00 - 15:00
Place: East Street, Turners Hill, RH10 4QD, Turners Hill, West Sussex

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