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On since 2022

Last update: September 2023

Alexander House Hotel is an AA Top 200 hotel venue in Copthorne, West Sussex. Combined with Utopia Spa, this Jacobean property offers award-winning service, elegant interiors, grand architecture, and four beautiful wedding spaces to match.

Facilities and Capacity

Alexander House Hotel features three stunning ceremony and reception suites, a bespoke outdoor wedding gazebo, and a beautiful 120-acre estate for prime photo opportunities. The gazebo is licensed for outdoor ceremonies, and the property features elegantly manicured gardens and grounds. This luxury wedding venue in Sussex is the perfect setting for an unforgettable day for up to 90 day guests and 200 evening guests. You may walk down the aisle, exchange vows, and celebrate your love surrounded by unparalleled beauty.

Services Offered

Whether you want an intimate ceremony with a couple of witnesses or an all-out celebration, the hotel staff has the perfect package for you. A Civil Ceremony License provides you with a wealth of options on-site. This venue is exclusive use for your wedding festivities with six function rooms to host between two and 120 guests. A dance floor and evening reception facilities will allow your celebration to continue into the night. For on-site accommodations, 59 luxuriously-appointed bedrooms and suites will enable you and your loved ones to rest and relax during the course of your stay. Please don鈥檛 hesitate to contact the Alexander House Hotel Meetings & Events Team for further information. Bringing together the venue, food, drinks, ceremony, and costings, all that鈥檚 left for you to do is give them any special requests for your Bridal Suite.

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Frequently asked questions

Venue type:

In the country
Small hotel

Ceremony options:

Civil ceremony licence

Dining options:

Seated meal facilities
Alcohol licence
Buffet meal facilities
In-house catering

Evening entertainment:

Dance floor
Entertainment licence
Evening reception facilities
DJ facilities

Overnight accommodation:

Overnight accommodation for wedding couple
Overnight accommodation for guests

Venue staff assistance:

Master of ceremonies/toastmaster
Wedding coordinator

Venue leisure facilities:

Swimming pool
Health suite
Fitness centre

Other features:

Exclusive use
Accessible facilities
Car parking
Confetti permitted
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Reviews for Alexander House Hotel - AA Top 200 hotel

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Lottie Sent on 31/10/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Our day really was everything we could of wished f

I still can鈥檛 believe we are married ????????it鈥檚 all still so surreal.

Our day really was everything we could of wished for & more. We were extremely blessed with the sun shining on us, rather than thunderstorms which were forecasted for our day.

It was so wonderful to have you as our wedding coordinator, we felt you went above and beyond to help ensure we had the best day & we so appreciate you being there on our day & for everything you did to look after/support us.

Zsolt is a very special man indeed, I can so see why he is a manager of the banqueting team. Zsolt, in my opinion, cares about what he does & this really shines through in how he deals with people.

Zsolt鈥檚 amazing nature is just second to none & we are most grateful to him for all he did for us. One other staff member really stood out for us, Reece he is just so lovely, so helpful & attentive which again people like him do really make an experience.

Personally I鈥檓 one for appreciating good customer service, I really believe it鈥檚 the people who you deal with in any experience who can make or break it.
Athina Sent on 31/10/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Would not change a thing!

We just wanted to say thank you again for helping to organize our wedding on Friday. We had the most amazing day and wouldn鈥檛 change a thing!
Elena Sent on 31/10/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing Day!

I don鈥檛 even know how to put into words what an amazing day we had. Everything at the hotel was just perfect.
Our guests all said what a beautiful location it was. We were so lucky with the weather as it just showed the hotel off beautifully.
We are still buzzing from the day.
Thank you so much for all the room upgrades. Jessica the biggest thank you to you and your team who all helped to make our day truly memorable.
Also, thank you for the lovely words in your card.
You鈥檝e been so patient with all our incessant questions and I hope I didn鈥檛 drive you too mad.
We will definitely be back next year for our anniversary ??
Sarah Sent on 18/10/2018
5 out of 5 rating

Sarah & Consu

From the moment we visited Alexander House Hotel and met Helen we knew this was the venue that we wanted for our dream day. Helen was amazing in all the planning stages, always happy to answer our constant questions and give advice and helped us deliver the most beautiful Wedding. All the staff were so friendly, the food was delicious, and all the aspects provided such as the Toastmaster made the day stress free, and run so smoothly. Such a beautiful venue, fantastic staff, we will never forget the best day of our lives. Thank you Helen and the team at Alexander House Hotel.
Emma Sent on 29/09/2015
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding Ceremony - 12th September 2015

My husband and I got married at the beautiful Alexander House on 12th September 2015. Jessica was our brilliant wedding coordinator and from start to finish the whole process was wonderful , even when there were some last minute changes a few days before the wedding, Alexander House were more than accommodating. The whole day was perfect and the staff were so friendly and always willing to help.
Beautiful location, gorgeous venue, amazing staff and I would not hesitate to recommend Alexander House for your wedding.
Sue Sent on 14/08/2015
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful Hotel - Ceremony 09.08.2015

Thank you to Alexander House for the most magical wedding day for our daughter. The hotel is just gorgeous and we were lucky enough with the weather to have the ceremony outside in the Gazebo with drinks on the terrace. Our wedding planner Rebecca was brilliant, just so helpful and caring. The service and food at the wedding breakfast was outstanding. We cannot recommend this wonderful hotel highly enough. Fantastic.
Mumtaz Sent on 12/05/2015
5 out of 5 rating

Excellent wedding venue

The gazebo is a great touch - you just have to hope the weather holds out!
The staff were attentive too, all round excellence!
Amy Sent on 11/05/2015
5 out of 5 rating

Gorgeous venue!

My Husband and myself loved this hotel before we decided on it as a venue for our wedding which took place a month ago. Alexander house hotel has absolutely everything you could ask for, beauty, relaxation and amazing staff members to help with your every need.
we started planning our wedding 2 years ago and the staff who were with us throughout our whole experience couldn't of done more for us, anything we asked for wasn't ever asking too much.
The day itself came together without a hitch and we can thank the hotel for this.
The one thing all our guests commented on was how amazing the food was during our wedding breakfast and evening buffet a few of them still talk about it to this day!
I could carry on and rave about this place more but the minute you step foot in the door your mind will be made up.
We are already planning our next break at the hotel.
Nato Sent on 16/04/2015
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding for 2

I just would like to say huge thank you to make our wedding day so special.
Jack Sent on 07/11/2014
5 out of 5 rating
Thank you so much for everything you did for us. Our wedding day was wonderful and we couldn't have chosen a better venue. Food was amazing, staff were amazing, everything was Amazing!! Everyone had a fabulous time.
Kirsty Sent on 31/10/2014
5 out of 5 rating
We had an amazing wedding day, the sun came out and Alexander House made it even more special. Our guests loved the venue and couldn鈥檛 fault the food or the staff. Thank you. Breakfast the next day was wonderful too, as was using the spa. The Henley suite is beautiful and absolutely amazing.

Thank you for all of your help and support with the planning, you made it all very easy to plan our special day.
Laura Sent on 31/10/2014
5 out of 5 rating
Thank you, Jaideep and the other folk at the Alexander House Hotel for helping making Saturday such a perfect day for Laura & Becka. How you managed to organise such wonderful weather I鈥檒l never know. Seriously though, it couldn鈥檛 have gone smoother, and I don鈥檛 think I鈥檝e ever seen two happier people than my daughter and daughter-in-law. You鈥檝e helped us all create joyful memories that will stay with us forever.

We loved the hotel, and there鈥檚 no doubt we鈥檒l be back in the future to pamper ourselves in those wonderful facilities of yours.
Siobhan Sent on 30/10/2014
5 out of 5 rating


The help and assistance that we received on our day was amazing. The fact that you were able to handle the slightly expanded guest list that we had ended up with was fantastic.

All of you at Alexander House helped to make our wedding day very special and I feel like one of the privileged few who got to use such a beautiful venue and have such helpful staff that ensured Daniel and I were well looked after. Thank you
Annette Sent on 17/07/2013
5 out of 5 rating

Will Highly Recommend You

Alexander House work hard to make sure the day runs without a hitch and pride themselves in quality service and quality food. We had an amazing wedding day; the food was top class and the staff worked really hard to make the day special. Alexander House is such a nice venue and because it isn't too big and our wedding not too many, it felt more personal and intimate. Thank you for all your help too with everything - I particularly liked the personalised menus and thank you for changing the table list so quickly on the day. The honeymoon suite was stunning too and my mum and I even got to enjoy the hot tub outside the day before! We would recommend this hotel 100% to any couple for their wedding day!
Anonymous Sent on 17/07/2013
5 out of 5 rating

We Could Do It All Over Again

We had the best day ever, all my guests loved the venue so I'm glad I chose Alexander House, it鈥檚 amazing! Danni Beach (photographer) is brilliant, so much worry for nothing as it all fell into place. Bless my dad he was so nervous and had far too much red wine he was in bed very early. Thank you again I will highly recommend you! We will be back for a long weekend on our Anniversary without the baby as we missed the spa on the Sunday.
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Alexander House Hotel - AA Top 200 hotel Real Weddings

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George & Natasha
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22 Sep
Open Door

Join them between 11 am and 4 pm at their next wedding showcase where you will be able to see the Shelley and Wakehurst suites set up for a wedding and chat to their dedicated wedding team, who will also be able to check their all important diary for 2024 and beyond. Special offers will also be available on the day.

Date: From 22/09/2024 to 22/09/2024 Schedule 11:00 - 16:00
Place: East Street, Copthorne, West Sussex

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