Poems to Ask For Money Instead of Wedding Gifts

Even though giving money as a wedding gift is becoming more and more common, many couples still feel awkward asking for cash – which is where wedding money poems can help!

A money as a wedding gift poem puts a fun and elegant spin on an otherwise delicate request. They also make it easier for you and your partner to express your preference for cash in a way that feels more thoughtful and less direct.

By including a wedding cash gift poem in your invitation or via your wedding website, it becomes easier to communicate your wishes without any awkwardness, allowing guests to feel more relaxed about your request, too. Plus, it’ll give your wedding invites a personal and creative touch.

Wedding Money Poems: How to Politely Ask For Money as a Wedding Gift

When it comes to choosing (or writing!) the perfect poem for money as a wedding gift, think about your relationship and what feels natural to you as a couple.

Your poem will be better received if it reflects your personality and the tone of your wedding day, whether that’s light-hearted and fun or more sentimental. Consider using playful rhymes, heartfelt messages or a more casual tone, depending on what makes you both feel the most comfortable.

The key is to make your poem sound warm and sincere, and like it’s come from the two of you. Personal touches will not only make your guests feel at ease with your request, but they’ll also see it as an extension of the love and joy that you share.

Keep your poem relaxed, genuine and reflective of your couple style, so it feels a natural part of your celebration.

Wedding Money Poems For Couples Who Already Live Together

As we’ve lived together for a year or two,
We really don’t need anything new.
But if you were thinking of getting us a small wedding gift,
Some money for our future wouldn’t go amiss.

We’re tying the knot, and we just can’t wait,
We knew it would happen on our very first date.
As we’ve got our home dressed up with accessories,
We don’t really think that a wedding gift list is necessary.
But if you did want to give something to help us on our way,
Some money in a card would truly make our day!

We haven’t included a gift list in our invite,
As we have everything – it just wasn’t right…
To ask for more things for the life we lead,
When a reliable new car is just what we need!
If you were thinking of a gift for us to start our married life
Some money would make us a very happy [husband/wife] and wife!

Wedding Money Poems For Couples Buying a New Home

As we’re getting married, we thought it would be fun,
To move into a brand new home – we need to get it done.
As wedding gifts are bulky and we’re a little short on space,
Some money would be the ideal gift to help us buy our place!

We’ll soon be saying ‘I do’,
And for a gift, if you haven’t got a clue,
Then we’d really love some cash,
So that for our home we can splash,
Out on a cosy new bed for two!

We’ve just moved home and have filled it with stuff,
From books to sofas, we’ve certainly got enough!
Instead of more wine glasses, we’d really love some cash,
So that we can book a perfect honeymoon and head off in a dash.
A romantic beach break would really do the trick,
As soon as we can afford it, we’ll be on that plane quick!

Wedding Money Poems For Honeymoon Contributions

We can’t wait to spend our wedding day with you,
We’ve been planning hard and spending money for a good year or two.
As we’re keen to start our married life in style,
An amazing honeymoon would really make us smile.
Instead of a gift list from a high street shop,
We’d really love some money so on a beach we can flop!
Your financial donation would truly mean a lot,
So thank you for contributing to our honeymoon pot!

In order to make our dreams come true,
We’d love to go on a honeymoon for a week or two.
Instead of a dinner set, a vase or a bowl,
A financial contribution would help us achieve our goal.
We’ve created a bank account to save our honeymoon money,
We really appreciate it, and we can’t wait to go somewhere sunny!

We’ll be [husband and wife/ husband and husband / wife and wife] for the rest of our life,
In our little home made for two.
But instead of a vase or a new kitchen knife,
We’d love to fly off to somewhere new.
A week on a beach would suffice and be ideal,
So instead of a gift, your contribution would help to buy us a hotel room or a romantic meal!

We’re looking forward to seeing you on our very special day,
We hope that it will be perfect in every single way.
As a couple we know that love is all we need forever,
But a honeymoon after our wedding would be great – however…
We’ve not got the money to take this very special trip,
And we hope that you can help us fulfil our dream, whether it be on a plane or a ship!
Some money would really be the perfect gift to give,
Instead of new pots and pans for the house in which we live!

All the wedding planning has worn us out,
And a dream honeymoon would make us happy, no doubt!
Trouble is, after the wedding, funds are low
Any donations would give us a glow.

As we start our journey, hand in hand,
We dream of adventures in a far-off land.
With sun-kissed beaches and skies so blue,
We hope to make memories, just us two.

Instead of gifts that sit on a shelf,
We’d love to create our memories ourselves.
So, if you’re thinking of what to bestow,
A contribution to our honeymoon would help us go.

From cosy dinners to scenic sights,
Every little bit brings us pure delight.
With your love and support, we’ll wander afar,
Exploring the world, just us, and a star.
So thank you for helping our dreams come true,
We can’t wait to share all our adventures with you!
Your presence is cherished, your love is our guide,
With heartfelt gratitude, we’ll take you along for the ride!

Wedding Money Poems For Couples Funding Their Future Together

In joy and love, our hearts unite,
As we embark on this wondrous flight.
Your presence, dear, is our greatest delight,
But if you wish to gift, we have a simple invite.
With dreams to build and plans to grow,
A little cash would help us so.
For memories made and dreams to share,
Your generous hearts will show you care.

As we gather to celebrate our special day,
Your presence means the world in every way.
In lieu of gifts that may gather dust,
We ask for cash to help build our trust.

With dreams of a home and plans to grow,
Your generous hearts will help us sow.
Each pound a brick in the life we’ll create,
Together we’ll flourish, it’s never too late.

On this beautiful day, as we say, “I do,”
We’re grateful for each of you, and for all that you do.
As we begin our journey, hand in hand,
We hope to create a family so grand.
Instead of gifts wrapped in paper and bows,
We kindly ask for your help as we grow.
A monetary gift to help us start right,
Will help make our dreams shine so very bright.

Wedding Money Poems FAQ

Is it okay to ask for money instead of gifts at a wedding?

It’s more common than ever for couples to ask for money instead of physical wedding gifts – and it’s completely fine to do so! The most important thing is to do it in a polite and respectful way.

How do you politely ask for money instead of wedding gifts?

This is where wedding money poems come in; they give couples to chance to ask for money on their invitation or wedding website in a polite and less-direct manner.

It can be helpful to let friends and family know what you plan to spend the money on – it will spark a sense of joy and excitement and help them feel involved in your journey ahead. It’s also a lovely way to share your story while ensuring your request is both graceful and genuine!

It’s also important to keep in mind that older guests and those with more traditional views (such as grandparents, for example) may wish to buy you a physical gift, and that is absolutely OK too.

So, how do you ask for money as a wedding gift? Well, it can be as simple as adding a fun, personalised poem or rhyme to your invitations that gently conveys your preference for cash in a thoughtful way.

"As many couples have already set up home before they get married, asking for money as your gift list is now quite commonplace, but it must be handled carefully," explains wedding etiquette expert Jo Bryant. 

Despite now being a well-known concept, cover your bases and ensure you don't rub anyone up the wrong way by, "being clear about where the money is going – you’ll be surprised how willing modern wedding guests are to make financial donations," says Jo. 

Ultimately, "it is fine to ask for contributions towards the honeymoon, or a house deposit, new car, sofa upgrade, kitchen refit, garden redesign etc, as long as you specify what you are saving towards," she adds.

What is a wedding money poem?

A wedding money poem is a fun and creative way to let your guests know you’d prefer cash instead of traditional gifts! It’s a light-hearted verse that conveys your wishes in a charming way, while adding a personal touch to your invitations. Think of it as a cute note that says, “If you’re considering a gift, a little cash would help us start our new adventure together!”

These poems can range from playful rhymes to heartfelt messages, allowing you to reflect your personality and style as a couple. They help create a warm and inviting atmosphere, making it easier for guests to understand your preference without feeling awkward.

Do I have to use a poem to ask for wedding money?

You don’t have to include a poem in your invitations if you want to ask for money instead of wedding gifts, but it's often seen as the more polite and less awkward way of doing so.

How to ask for wedding money without a poem?

If you’re wondering how to ask for wedding money without a poem, you can still get creative with your request. Add a friendly note to your wedding invitations or website that says something like, "Your presence is the best gift, but if you’re thinking of a little something extra, cash contributions for our honeymoon or future adventures would be awesome!"

While wedding money gift poems can be a fun touch, being casual and straightforward can work just as well. Keep it light, and your guests will appreciate your honesty and excitement.

Is it rude to ask for money on a wedding invite?

Many couples worry that asking for money as a wedding gift might seem rude, but with the right approach – such as including a thoughtful poem or note in your invitations – it’s perfectly polite and considerate.

How to ask for money on a wedding website?

Lots of couples are now creating wedding websites as a handy way to communicate and share information with their guests and they serve as a brilliant platform to ask for money as a wedding gift. Simply add a link to a honeymoon gift list or a charity donation page and guests can transfer the amount of money they wish to pay online.

We recommend popping this link into your personal blog section so it feels less like a demand and more a suggestion that you would really appreciate. 

You can also include a money as a wedding gift poem on a dedicated section of your site. This adds a personal, light-hearted touch that makes the request feel more thoughtful and polite. Be sure to keep the tone warm and sincere, reflecting your gratitude for any contribution.

You can also explain how the money will be used, whether it's for a honeymoon, home fund, or something meaningful to you as a couple. Including the poem makes it easier for guests to understand your preference in a way that feels comfortable and non-pushy.

Should I include a gift request on my formal invitations?

If you want to ask for money or have set up a gift list, it’s always wise to include this information on your invitations or your wedding website, so guests are clear on what you’d like. On formal paper invitations, this is often included as a separate paper insert but you’ll find all kinds of wedding stationery options. Chat to your stationer about what's possible.

What is a reasonable money gift for a wedding?

There are no rules when giving a money gift for a wedding – it's always about what feels comfortable to you and that will depend on your relationship to the couple. Just as you would spend a certain amount on giving a gift, the exact same applies when giving a cash donation. We have a guide on how much money you should give as a wedding gift to help.

If you’re still in two minds about a gift list, don’t miss our guide to wedding gift lists to help you decide!