White long sleeve midi wedding dress for older brides

It’s hugely exciting to plan a wedding as an older bride - and that's true when it comes to find your wedding dress.

Whether it’s your second wedding, you’re taking the plunge after many years together, you’ve waited a while to find ‘The One’ or you're having a vow renewal, the point is, you know more about who you are and what you like. That translates to putting together a bridal look to truly reflect you - not wearing something you feel you ought to like.

The only thing that can take the shine off your wedding dress hunt? If you've been unfortunate enough to hear any of that nonsense about 'rules' for older brides: you shouldn’t wear white, you must cover your arms, etc. The truth is, that sort of thinking was out of date 20 years ago. It’s your day and you just need to find a wedding dress that you feel comfortable and confident in.

We’ve got plenty of advice about what to look for, as well as some of our favourite designs. While many of these are dresses, we've included some cool separates to consider, too.

From bridal designers to high-street stores, your perfect wedding dress is waiting for you, whether you're in your 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond!

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Wedding Dresses for Older Brides: Our 7 Top Tips 

1. Be Inspired by What You Love

Start by taking a look at your wardrobe and pulling out your favourite pieces - the things that make you feel most confident when you put them on. (These don't all have to be dresses.) Note what it is you love about each one, and what they have in common. Maybe it's a certain neckline; perhaps it's a particular type of sleeve; you may feel best in luxe fabrics or prefer a lighter, boho feel. Once you see a pattern emerging, use that to guide your wedding dress search.

For example, if you find your favourite fashion pieces are all about clean, soft lines, look at column, fit & flare gowns and slip dresses. If you realise you prefer outfits with volume, look at contemporary ball gowns.

No style is off limits to you. 'Dressing your age' is so outdated - choosing your wedding dress is about what makes you, as a unique individual, look and feel amazing.

READ MORE: Rules and Etiquette For Second Marriage Wedding Dresses

2. Choose Flattering over Fashion

A mistake common for younger brides is choosing a wedding dress that is chic in itself but doesn't actually suit them. You know better than that. If a high neck doesn't flatter you, it doesn't matter that it's a hot bridal trend - put it aside.

3. Don't Discount Vintage 

Vintage and vintage-inspired wedding dresses can work well at any age. Just make sure you pick an era that suits your style, whether that's 1970s boho or 1920s glamour. One of the great things about being an older bride is that although you know what suits you, you also have the confidence to experiment.

4. Sleeves or No Sleeves?

You can find plenty of gorgeous wedding dresses with sleeves, but as an older bride, you don’t have to cover up. Sleeveless and cami-style dresses can look very elegant. Cap or flutter-style sleeves will cover your shoulders and upper arms while looking stylish. Or consider lace or illusion sleeves: three quarter lengths work well as they flatter your hands and wrists.

White and blue Kitri Studio wedding dress with three-quarter flutter sleeves

5. Don't Shy Away from Sexier Styles

If you like to show some skin, there are plenty of wedding dress styles that let you do so. A backless wedding dress could look amazing, or you could make it more subtle with a lace or illusion plunge to the rear of your dress.

6. Embrace Colour

You can 100% wear white, whatever your age, but don't discount colour. For a soft bridal look, try on dresses in nude, blush, grey, ivory, silver and gold tones. Want more drama? Go for brights!

Pink lace shirt dress
Phase Eight

7. Don’t Hide Behind Accessories

If you love bold, attention-grabbing accessories, that’s great – but don’t feel any pressure to add them to your look if you wouldn’t usually wear them. There's nothing wrong with a pared-back bridal look if your personal style is minimalist.

The Best Wedding Dresses for Older Brides

Be inspired by some of our favourite wedding dresses for older brides, plus some ultra-chic jumpsuits and bridal separates.

1. Brighton Dress – Justin Alexander

White Justin Alexander ballgown with lace shoulders and a plain skirt

This Justin Alexander dress is a contemporary take on a classic bridal ballgown. There's detailing on the shoulders and back, but other than that, it's all about clean, flowing lines and volume.

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2. Rosa Gown in Nude – Catherine Deane 

Glittery Catherine Deane wedding dress for older brides in nude

You can definitely still rock tulle as an older bride. To make the overall look sophisticated, choose a perfectly cut silhouette, like this Catherine Deane gown. The billowing sleeves are beautifully balanced by the figure-skimming body and skirt.

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3. Colleen – Badgley Mischka 


The elegant silhouette of this Badgley Mischka column gown is ideal for older brides who love embellishment. The waist detailing nips in to create curves and the cap sleeves add a little coverage.

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4. Victoriana Bridal Jumpsuit – Phase Eight


Wedding dresses aren’t for everyone, which is why we love this bestselling Victoriana jumpsuit. Featuring statement frill sleeves and a detachable embellished waistband, it proves a dress isn’t a necessity to feel like a bride. Plus, at £199 it's brilliant for brides on a budget!

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READ MORE: 37 Stylish Wedding Jumpsuits for Brides Who Want Something Different

5. Dora Midi Bridal Dress – Monsoon

Monsoon wedding dress for older brides in ivory with lace cape

Monsoon's Dora is an ageless style that will show off different body types. The lace cape is detachable, so you can change up your look during the wedding if you want to.

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6. Florence Ruffle Ankle Skirt – Needle & Thread

Blue ruffled ankle length skirt

The beauty of bridal separates is that you can create your own unique look - and that's something we know many older brides appreciate. Take this Needle & Thread Florence skirt: you can style it, as here, with a pretty t-shirt, or a metallic cami for something a little sexier, or a soft cardigan at a winter wedding. It's available in other colours, including Champagne, but we just love the blue.

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7. Emilia Wickstead Sharonella Dress – Net-a-Porter

Plain white wedding dress for an older bride

Emilia Wickstead's Sharonella is pure refinement in a dress. The sculpted silhouette, the ruched, three-quarter sleeves, the wool-crepe fabric - all add up to a very sophisticated look that would particularly suit an older bride.

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8. Leah White Tailored Blazer & Trousers – Reiss

Model wearing a white trouser suit

A trouser suit is such a chic bridal option. This Reiss blazer and wide-leg trousers would look effortlessly stylish, and you could accessorise it to really make it your own.

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9. Leonora – Blue by Enzoani

High neck lace wedding dress for older brides

We just love the vintage vibes of this Leonora gown. It's ideal if you want a timelessly romantic wedding dress.

10. Miller Jacket & Tamaro Trousers – Laure de Sagazan

Model wearing a slouchy white bridal suit

French designers are often a great bet for older brides, as they know how to dress sophisticated women. Laure de Sagazan is one of the key names to know. Her dresses are wonderfully stylish, but what caught our eye from her 2021 collection is this slouchy, sexy bridal suit - it just feels so fresh.

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11. Mariam – Charlie Brear

Plain white wedding dress with raglan sleeves

The simplicity of Charlie Brear's Mariam dress is what gives it its beauty. If you're an older bride with a minimalist style, this will really suit your aesthetic.

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READ MORE: 50 of the Best Simple Wedding Dresses

12. ASOS Edition – Embellished Blazer and Trousers


Want something completely different? You can’t get more statement than this embellished suit! With the blazer costing only £100 and trousers £85, this is a complete bargain. It would be great for a registry office wedding with a little camisole underneath or with a little cleavage on show for an evening reception outfit.

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13. Layla Bow Midi Dress – Phase Eight

White long sleeve midi wedding dress for older brides

Phase Eight's bridal collection is so good right now. Among the pieces we've fallen for is this elegant midi dress, with flattering fluted sleeves and a cool bow detail.

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15. Katheryn – Pronovias

White long sleeve wedding dress for older brides

A bateau neckline always looks stylish, as this Pronovias gown shows. Paired with a fluid silhouette, it looks sensational, proving you don't need lots of embellishment for a high-impact wedding dress.

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16. Lace Midi Dress – Coast

Silver lace midi dress for older brides

A dress doesn't have to be specifically branded as 'wedding' to work for your big day. Take this silver Coast dress: it's definitely special enough for a bridal look and is ideal if you want to cover up without feeling too covered up.

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17. Rosabelle Silk Floral Dress – Hobbs

Long silk floral wedding dress for older brides

A floral can be such a pretty choice for a laidback wedding dress - like this Rosabelle dress, which would be perfect for a country garden party wedding.

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18. Kailey Dress – Reformation

High neck almond wedding dress for older brides

Reformation's Kailey dress is all about grown-up refinement. The almond colour and button detailing at the waist make it unusual, but the overall effect won't date.

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19. Daya Dress – Solace London

White high neck wedding maxi dress for older brides

Solace London is the brand to know for sculptural designs that have a big impact. Just take the regal Daya dress: it's rare we use the words 'sleek' and 'showstopper' to describe the same look, and yet somehow, Solace have combined the two. 

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20. Rebecca Dress – Monsoon

Lace wedding dress for older brides

For a fresh take on the lace wedding dress, check out Monsoon's Rebecca gown. The sheer dotted fabric at the neck makes for a gorgeous contrast with the floral lace.

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21. Phase Eight – Poppy Embroidered Wedding Dress


Phase Eight have another winner on their hands with the Poppy dress that combines all-over lace with satin edging and a semi-sheer back. This is the contemporary way to do pretty.

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READ MORE: The 21 Best High Neck Wedding Dresses

22. Self-Portrait Midi Gown – FarFetch

Ruched sleeve wedding dress for older brides

This Self-Portrait wedding dress is ideal for the fashion-loving older bride. It has of-the-moment details - the high neck and shoulder detailing - but the overall effect will stand the test of time. Utterly bewitching, utterly cool.

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23. Roanne Dress – Maggie Sottero

Floaty boho ballgown

Bring on the glamour! Roanne combines boho and ballgown to show-stopping effect. It's a dream of a dress, and the illusion mesh at the neckline keeps it chic.

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24. Huishan Zhang Poppy Dress – Net-a-Porter

White short wedding dress with feather trim at the hem

How fabulous is the feather trim on this mini dress? This is a bridal look that says celebration.

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25. Constance & Lepic – Mademoiselle de Guise  

White wedding suit

Want a bridal look that's suffused with Parisian chic? Turn to French designer Mademoiselle de Guise - specifically, the Constance jacket and Lepic trouser. The effect is sophisticated, sexy and effortless, with that special French insouciance that elevates an outfit from good to great.

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Finish your look with some gorgeous shoes - these are our favourite designer styles. Yes, they're on the spendier side, but they're so good...