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Cottesmore Golf & Country Club

Cooper
Keeley
Georgia
Yasmine
Monika

Recommended by 100% of couples

About this venue

On Hitched.co.uk since 2022

Last update: October 2026

Congratulations on your engagement! 💍 We’re thrilled for you and delighted that you’re considering Cottesmore as the backdrop for your special day.

Our experienced wedding team is here to make your journey seamless and stress-free. From your very first enquiry to the moment you say “I do,” we’ll guide you every step of the way. With a blend of professionalism and personal care, we take pride in creating weddings that are as unique and memorable as the love stories they celebrate.

Nestled within 247 acres of picturesque Sussex countryside, Cottesmore offers an enchanting setting, in an area of outstanding natural beauty. The charming courtyard, complete with its elegant fountain, reflects the character of the original farm buildings dating back to 1884, adding a touch of history and romance to your day.

Whether you dream of an intimate celebration or a grand affair, our venue can accommodate up to 150 guests for your ceremony and wedding breakfast, and up to 200 for your evening reception. With breathtaking views and timeless elegance, Cottesmore is the perfect place to begin your forever.

Exchange your vows in our stunning oak-beamed Barn room or choose an outdoor setting on our beautiful lawn for an elegant al fresco ceremony

💒Prefer a church ceremony? No problem—join us afterwards for your wedding reception and after party!

Getting Ready Prep Room

Start your day in style in our luxurious Getting Ready Room, designed for comfort, convenience and lots of smiles!

Features include:

  • 5 make-up stations with mirrors and hairdryers
  • A spacious dressing area with hooks for bridal gowns, dresses or wedding suits
  • Full-length mirror, hand basin and a cozy sofa with coffee table
  • Portable Bluetooth speaker for those all-important tunes
  • Handheld steamer

Add a touch of indulgence with a bottle of bubbly, selection of tempting pastries, or a refreshing fruit platter to keep you going while you relax and prepare for your big moment.

Available: 9:00 AM – 7:00 PM on your wedding day

🥂Drinks Reception

Our charming courtyard makes the perfect setting for sipping a chilled flute of bubbly or glass of summer Pimms and sampling our delicious canapés. Your own private vintage Horsebox bar will be open to serve your guests drinks before and after your wedding ceremony. It is also a great place for memorable photos and that all important confetti shot.

🍴Wedding Breakfast

Our Challis suite has been designed with a contemporary feel in mind. It is adorned with mirrors, chandelier lights with light wooden floors and a calming interior. Floor to ceiling windows overlook our French styled courtyard complete with original fountain. The Bar is in the same room, which is high up on everyone's wish list and open until 12.30am.

🏨 Stay on site

26 hotel rooms, 7 self catering lodges, beauty salon

A luxurious complimentary honeymoon suite, with roll top bath is included for all of our couples.

To complement your overnight stay, our health club has a gym, swimming pool, sauna, steam room and hot tub to relax and unwind in.

Book a delicious pre wedding dinner in our charming Phoenix restaurant or bar with views right across the Cottesmore Estate.

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Weddings at this venue

Brian & Nikki's wedding
Brian & Nikki
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Larissa & Lewis's wedding
Larissa & Lewis
27 photos
George & Chelsie's wedding
George & Chelsie
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Frequently asked questions

Venue type:

In the country
Sporting
Small hotel
Outdoor license

Ceremony options:

Civil ceremony licence

Dining options:

Seated meal facilities
Alcohol licence
Buffet meal facilities
In-house catering

Evening entertainment:

Dance floor
Entertainment licence
Live band facilities
Evening reception facilities
DJ facilities
Outdoor fireworks permitted

Overnight accommodation:

Overnight accommodation for wedding couple
Overnight accommodation for guests

Venue staff assistance:

Wedding coordinator

Venue leisure facilities:

Swimming pool
Health suite
Beautician
Fitness centre

Other features:

Accessible facilities
Car parking
Confetti permitted
Changing room for wedding guests
Pet-friendly
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Reviews for Cottesmore Golf & Country Club

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Sean Sent on 03/10/2026
4 out of 5 rating

Great venue, great staff, poor flexibility

We honestly couldn’t have asked for a more perfect wedding day at Cottesmore. The venue itself was incredible, and everything ran so smoothly on the day.

A particular mention has to go to the bar manager and the lovely lady on the team who worked tirelessly throughout the day to make sure everything ran seamlessly. The staff who were present throughout the wedding breakfast and into the evening were, by far, the standout members of the Cottesmore team. They were attentive, friendly, professional and seemed to genuinely care about making sure everything went perfectly for us and our guests. They were absolutely fantastic and nothing seemed too much trouble.

The planning team were also brilliant in the lead-up to the wedding and were incredibly helpful and supportive throughout the process. However, on the actual wedding day, we barely saw the planners themselves. This was a little disappointing, particularly given how much time and money goes into planning a wedding and how important the day is. In contrast, the staff who were actually present throughout the breakfast and evening were exceptional and, in our opinion, far more present and helpful on the day than the planners themselves. It would have been lovely to have had more of the planning team present and involved on the day, as they had been so great in the run-up.

Our one major disappointment was the policy around wedding photography on the golf course. We had specifically set aside around 20 minutes to take some photos, but golfers were prioritised over us throughout that time. We completely understand that Cottesmore is a golf venue and that golfers need to be accommodated, but when couples are spending upwards of £10,000 on their wedding venue, we would expect a short, pre-arranged window for wedding photographs to be given some priority.

Unfortunately, this meant we missed several photo opportunities that we simply couldn’t recreate. We found this particularly frustrating and genuinely feel this is a policy Cottesmore should reconsider for weddings. A couple’s wedding day is a once-in-a-lifetime event, and those photographs are incredibly important. It was particularly disappointing to feel that someone paying for a standard round of golf was given priority over a couple who had paid a substantial amount for their wedding and simply needed 15 to 20 minutes for photographs.

Overall, we would absolutely recommend Cottesmore as a wedding venue. The venue is beautiful, the staff who were present on the day were fantastic, and our wedding was, in so many ways, everything we could have hoped for. We would simply advise future couples, particularly those who place a lot of importance on their wedding photography, to discuss the golf course photography arrangements in detail beforehand and be aware that golfers may take priority on the day.

Despite the few frustrations, we are incredibly grateful to the Cottesmore team, particularly the staff who looked after us throughout the wedding breakfast and evening, for helping make our wedding such a wonderful day. We will always look back on it with very happy memories.
M
Melanie Sent on 24/09/2026
5 out of 5 rating

The most amazing day at a beautiful venue!

We couldn’t have chosen a more perfect venue for our wedding. From the moment we first visited, we fell in love with how beautiful the setting is, and it was even more incredible on our wedding day.

The courtyard was such a lovely social space for everyone to mingle, enjoy drinks and spend time together, and the lawn was honestly the most special place to get married. It felt so private and intimate, and made our ceremony feel incredibly personal and magical.

The food was absolutely amazing too! So many of our guests commented on how delicious everything was and kept raving about how good the food was throughout the day. It was definitely a highlight for everyone.

One of our favourite parts was going down to the lake for our photos. The setting was absolutely stunning and made for some really beautiful and memorable photographs.

Overall, the whole day was everything we could have wished for and more. Everyone we have spoken to has commented on how lovely the venue was and how beautiful the setting is, which just goes to show how special it really is.

A huge thank you to Jackie and Julie as well, who were absolutely fantastic throughout the whole process. Their communication was brilliant and they were so helpful in the lead-up to our wedding, which made everything feel so much easier and stress free.

We will always look back on our wedding day with such happy memories, and a huge part of that is because of this beautiful venue and the amazing team behind it. We couldn’t recommend it highly enough!
Cooper
Cooper Sent on 08/09/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Cooper / Fowlee Wedding 2026

From all stages of planning the wedding to the speacial day itself, everything was kept relaxed for us, we had no issues in the lead up or on the day and all the staff looked after us and ensure the day went ahead without a hitch, we loved every moment and cannot thank Jackie and the rest of the cottesmore staff enough
Keeley
Keeley Sent on 29/08/2026
5 out of 5 rating

The Koffis

Cottesmore was the first and only venue we looked at and we instantly fell in love , There are lots of options to suit budgets , also with lots of extras included in the package we picked which made planning a lot easier with the help of Jackie and Julie but the communication with all day and night staff at Cottesmore is amazing no job was to big and any worries we had were sorted and we couldn’t have asked for a more perfect day . Thank you all again
Georgia
Georgia Sent on 06/08/2026
5 out of 5 rating

100% recommend this venue

Look no further for your wedding venue!! This venue is absolutely beautiful and so well thought out as a wedding venue. The day ran so smoothly and the staff were so friendly. The service for food and drinks was so quick and no one was ever stood waiting long for a drink and we had over 100 guests. The food was absolutely amazing and commented on by guests. The courtyard is absolutely stunning and was spoken about by all guests. Definitely book the getting ready room as it’s perfect. The venue made our day so perfect. I am so grateful for everything the staff did for us. I cannot recommend this venue enough.
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Matthew Sent on 17/07/2026
5 out of 5 rating

The perfect day!

We had the most amazing weekend at Cottesmore two weeks ago. In the days, weeks and months leading up to the wedding, the communication from Julie and Jackie in the events team, Lorraine and Kerry in the accommodation team, and Alyssa and Luke in Food & Beverage was exemplary. They were always on hand to help with any requests and responded positively and promptly.

The venue is stunning: modern, clean, spacious and adaptable to your needs. Both the indoor and outdoor ceremony options are beautiful, although we ultimately opted for the outdoor setting. The food was exactly as we remembered from the tasting, both in flavour and presentation, and the tasting itself was a delight. The canapés were fantastic, and the drink options were popular too!

One of the venue's standout features is the range of on-site accommodation available. In addition to the hotel rooms available on the Saturday night (and on the Friday night if they are not required for another wedding), there are also seven self-catered lodges that can be booked for the entire weekend. Having around 75 of our guests staying on site transformed the wedding into a wonderful weekend-long celebration.

We would recommend Cottesmore to anyone who will listen. We would also highly recommend our suppliers, particularly Forget Me Nots Décor and Dominic Smith Photography, whose knowledge of the venue and attention to detail helped make our day truly unforgettable.
Yasmine
Yasmine Sent on 10/07/2026
5 out of 5 rating

The happiest day of our lives

We honestly couldn’t have chosen a more perfect venue than Cottesmore for our wedding.

From the moment we booked, the team made us feel completely looked after. Their professionalism, kindness, and attention to detail meant we could relax and enjoy every moment, knowing everything was in safe hands. A special thank you to Jackie and Julie, who were always so quick to respond to any questions or queries we had throughout the planning process. Nothing was ever too much trouble, and their reassurance, efficiency, and friendly approach made everything so much easier.

The venue itself is absolutely beautiful, especially the stunning courtyard and wonderful golf course, which created the most perfect setting for our photographs and for our guests to enjoy throughout the day. It truly has such a special atmosphere.

The food deserves a special mention. So many of our guests commented that it was absolutely delicious, beautifully presented, and thoroughly enjoyed by everyone. We were also incredibly impressed by how accommodating the team were with dietary requirements. Some of our guests had quite complex dietary restrictions, and every meal was prepared with such care and attention, ensuring everyone felt included and could enjoy the day without worry.

One of the things we loved most was that so many of our family and friends were able to stay overnight. The hotel rooms were beautiful, comfortable, and made the whole celebration feel even more special. Waking up the following morning and enjoying a lovely breakfast together was the perfect way to round off such an unforgettable weekend.

Thank you to everyone at Cottesmore for making our wedding day everything we had hoped for and more. Your hard work, care, and dedication didn’t go unnoticed, and we’ll always be grateful for the incredible memories you helped us create.

We wouldn’t hesitate to recommend Cottesmore to any couple looking for a beautiful venue with outstanding staff, exceptional food, and a truly unforgettable experience. Thank you, Jackie, Julie, and the entire team, for giving us the most perfect day.
Monika
Monika Sent on 03/07/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Cottesmore hotel and golf course

Would highly recommend the place it’s beautiful there. They have beautiful inside and outside place for the ceremony and staff been so professional and proactive we couldn’t be more happier with our special day.
Faye
Faye Sent on 28/06/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Our wedding

We first viewed Cottesmore in January 2024 and instantly fell in love with how modern and picturesque the venue was. We went back for a second viewing and honestly we couldn’t stop talking to all our family and friends about the Cottesmore. So when we went back we booked our date, Saturday 23rd May 2026. The whole process was lovely and Jackie explained our next steps. We heard frequently from Jackie via email and the whole communication from January 2024 to May 2026 was incredible. We got invited for menu tasting and when I tell you the food was incredible it was INCREDIBLE! Since the wedding we have had guests say to us how they still can’t get over the beef! Our final meeting was simple and Jackie went over the final steps and gave us our final invoice. The wedding day was absolutely incredible! The staff were so lovely and we wish we could do it all over again! The whole day ran smoothly and I couldn’t thank the staff and Jackie enough for making everything so perfect! Our guests have said it’s the best wedding they have ever been to and they all raved about how gorgeous and modern everything was!

We highly recommend getting married at The Cottesmore!

M
Mollie Sent on 23/06/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing venue

I couldn’t recommend Cottesmore’s enough, the staff are all so lovely, friendly and helpful! The venue itself is perfect and good value for money! We loved the amount of accommodation onsite for guests! All the food we had was amazing and the guests all commented on how nice the food was! If you’re looking for a wedding venue I’d 100% recommend :)
Emma
Emma Sent on 17/06/2026
5 out of 5 rating

The most stunning wedding venue ❤️

We couldn’t have asked for a more perfect wedding venue. From the moment we first viewed it right through to our wedding day, the team went above and beyond to make everything run smoothly and ensure we had the most amazing experience. Special thank you to Jackie and Julie for all the help and support leading up to the wedding and on the big day itself, we couldn’t have done it without you both! 🥰

The venue is absolutely beautiful and the courtyard sold it to us the moment we saw it, we could just vision all of our friends and family chatting and having a nice time. Every detail was taken care of and the staff were professional, friendly, and always happy to help with any questions or requests we had. Unfortunately, some of the spa facilities were not working on the weekend of our wedding which some of our guests were disappointed about. The communication was always quick and our questions were answered throughout the whole experience.

The menu tasting was incredible, we were stuck for a few days with what to choose because everything tasted amazing! The wedding breakfast itself was absolutely amazing and we even had guests complimenting the chefs personally! Thank you to the kitchen staff!🥰

Kerry helped us with organising all of the rooms for the night before and the night of the wedding. She was really helpful which made the wedding planning process a lot smoother!

We decided to have the getting ready room for the morning of our wedding which I highly recommend as it’s a lovely area to get ready with all your girls while being closed off from the groom and the rest of your guests. We would recommend a toilet in this room though as you need to go back to one of the hotel rooms which the girls helped me to hide so I wouldn’t see my groom before walking down the aisle.

On our wedding day, everything was organised perfectly, allowing us to relax and enjoy every second with our family and friends. A lot of our guests complimented how stunning the venue was and how wonderful the staff were. We decided to get married outside as the dedicated area was absolutely stunning! The staff set up this outdoor area perfectly and we had the wedding we both dreamed about.

Thank you to Jackie, Julie, Alyssa, Kerry, and all the staff at Cottesmore for helping create memories that we will cherish forever. We would highly recommend Cottesmore to any couple looking for a truly special place to celebrate their wedding day!❤️
M
Molly Sent on 10/06/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect for our special day

Cottesmore was the perfect wedding venue for us and we couldn't be happier with the service. From the moment we viewed the venue, to being the last on the dance floor at our wedding, everything was smooth and extremely professional. Nothing was too much trouble and they catered to various dietary needs with no fuss. The food was incredible and our guests couldn't stop talking about it! Jackie and Julie on the events team have been absolutely wonderful and every question was answered clearly and quickly and they ensured our day was perfect for us. The venue and any additional items were within our budget and a main reason why we chose Cottesmore to have our wedding, everything was very reasonably priced. We cannot thank Cottesmore and all the staff enough for making our day so special and for being on hand to navigate the day. Thank you!! Molly & Jodie
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Rachel Sent on 05/06/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Cottesmore wedding venue

We recently celebrated our wedding at Cottesmore, and we cannot thank the team enough for making our special day so perfect. From the very beginning, communication with Jackie and Julie was exceptional. They were always available to answer questions, offer guidance, and support us every step of the way throughout the planning process.
The catering team were outstanding, providing delicious food and excellent service, while the hotel team went above and beyond to ensure all our guests were happy and comfortable. Every member of staff was friendly, professional, and genuinely committed to making our day memorable.
The venue itself is beautiful, with a stunning courtyard that provided the perfect setting for our celebrations and photographs. We couldn’t have asked for a better place to celebrate such an occasion.
We would highly recommend this venue to any couple looking for a wedding venue with fantastic staff, excellent service, and a beautiful setting. Thank you again to everyone involved for helping create such wonderful memories.

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Sophie Sent on 01/06/2026
5 out of 5 rating

An incredible venue

We cannot recommend Cottesmore highly enough!! There are genuinely not enough words to describe how incredible our whole experience was with them, our wedding day was quite literally perfect!!
Jackie and Julie are fabulous! They were always so quick to reply to our many silly questions over email and were incredibly helpful! They were there on the day to make sure everything ran smoothly for us, and even came to find us the morning after to check-in with us!
The entire Cottesmore team went the extra mile for us and everyone was so kind! The kitchen team catered for all our allergies and requests for the meals happily, and the accommodation team even went so far as to help reunite us with a teddy we lost in the hotel!
All of our guests could not stop talking about how absolutely stunning the venue is, how tasty the food was, and how beautiful the hotel rooms were. We’re really cannot think of anything that could make it any better than it already is! We will certainly be finding every excuse we can to go back!!!
William
William Sent on 23/05/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Best Day of Our Lives

Cottesmore is such a fantastic venue to have your wedding at! The grounds are beautiful. There is plenty of lovely hotel rooms for your guests to stay in. Also Jackie and Julie make the planning process so easy! They are superstars! We went for the bbq menu and it was so delicious!! The room itself is the perfect size to fit lots of guests but still have the intimacy you want on your big day! Then in the evening the doors open for the dance floor and whilst still keeping your tables in place. This works great as people who want to sit can still feel part of the party! We would 100% recommend Cottesmore for your wedding!!
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Cottesmore Hotel Golf and Country Club RH11 9AT Crawley (West Sussex)
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