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Cottesmore Golf & Country Club

Cottesmore Golf & Country Club

Crawley, West Sussex
5.0 out of 5 rating, 161 reviews
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    Sean Sent on 03/10/2026
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    Great venue, great staff, poor flexibility

    We honestly couldn’t have asked for a more perfect wedding day at Cottesmore. The venue itself was incredible, and everything ran so smoothly on the day.

    A particular mention has to go to the bar manager and the lovely lady on the team who worked tirelessly throughout the day to make sure everything ran seamlessly. The staff who were present throughout the wedding breakfast and into the evening were, by far, the standout members of the Cottesmore team. They were attentive, friendly, professional and seemed to genuinely care about making sure everything went perfectly for us and our guests. They were absolutely fantastic and nothing seemed too much trouble.

    The planning team were also brilliant in the lead-up to the wedding and were incredibly helpful and supportive throughout the process. However, on the actual wedding day, we barely saw the planners themselves. This was a little disappointing, particularly given how much time and money goes into planning a wedding and how important the day is. In contrast, the staff who were actually present throughout the breakfast and evening were exceptional and, in our opinion, far more present and helpful on the day than the planners themselves. It would have been lovely to have had more of the planning team present and involved on the day, as they had been so great in the run-up.

    Our one major disappointment was the policy around wedding photography on the golf course. We had specifically set aside around 20 minutes to take some photos, but golfers were prioritised over us throughout that time. We completely understand that Cottesmore is a golf venue and that golfers need to be accommodated, but when couples are spending upwards of £10,000 on their wedding venue, we would expect a short, pre-arranged window for wedding photographs to be given some priority.

    Unfortunately, this meant we missed several photo opportunities that we simply couldn’t recreate. We found this particularly frustrating and genuinely feel this is a policy Cottesmore should reconsider for weddings. A couple’s wedding day is a once-in-a-lifetime event, and those photographs are incredibly important. It was particularly disappointing to feel that someone paying for a standard round of golf was given priority over a couple who had paid a substantial amount for their wedding and simply needed 15 to 20 minutes for photographs.

    Overall, we would absolutely recommend Cottesmore as a wedding venue. The venue is beautiful, the staff who were present on the day were fantastic, and our wedding was, in so many ways, everything we could have hoped for. We would simply advise future couples, particularly those who place a lot of importance on their wedding photography, to discuss the golf course photography arrangements in detail beforehand and be aware that golfers may take priority on the day.

    Despite the few frustrations, we are incredibly grateful to the Cottesmore team, particularly the staff who looked after us throughout the wedding breakfast and evening, for helping make our wedding such a wonderful day. We will always look back on it with very happy memories.

    Cottesmore Golf & Country Club's reply:

    Hi Sean and Katie,
    Thank you so much for taking the time to leave us such a thoughtful review. We are delighted to hear that you had such a wonderful wedding day at Cottesmore and that everything ran so smoothly.
    It was particularly lovely to read your comments about our Food & Beverage team. We will make sure these are shared with everyone who looked after you and your guests throughout the wedding breakfast and evening. They work incredibly hard to make each wedding special, so your kind words will mean a great deal to them.
    Thank you also for your lovely comments about the support we gave you throughout the planning of your wedding. We are sorry to hear that you were disappointed not to see more of us later in the day. Our role is to work closely with our couples throughout the planning process and, on the wedding day itself, to oversee the preparations and make sure everything is in place through to the ceremony. After the ceremony, the running of the day is handed over to our experienced Food & Beverage team, who look after you and your guests throughout the wedding breakfast and evening celebrations. This is how our weddings at Cottesmore are structured and something we explain during the planning process, with both teams working closely together to ensure all of the details and arrangements are carried through on the day.
    We were therefore so pleased to read how well looked after you felt by the team and that they helped everything run seamlessly throughout the rest of your wedding.
    We are sorry to hear that you weren't able to capture all of the photographs you had hoped for by the lake. As the lake sits within our working golf course, a member of our team accompanies couples and their photographer to manage the movement of golfers and, most importantly, ensure everyone's safety. We always do our best to give our couples the opportunity to capture these special photographs whilst safely managing everyone using the course, and we are sorry that on this occasion you weren't able to get all of the shots you had hoped for.
    Thank you again for choosing Cottesmore for such an important day. It was a pleasure getting to know you both and being part of your wedding, and we wish you every happiness for the future.
    Warmest wishes,
    Julie & Jackie
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    Melanie Sent on 24/09/2026
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    The most amazing day at a beautiful venue!

    We couldn’t have chosen a more perfect venue for our wedding. From the moment we first visited, we fell in love with how beautiful the setting is, and it was even more incredible on our wedding day.

    The courtyard was such a lovely social space for everyone to mingle, enjoy drinks and spend time together, and the lawn was honestly the most special place to get married. It felt so private and intimate, and made our ceremony feel incredibly personal and magical.

    The food was absolutely amazing too! So many of our guests commented on how delicious everything was and kept raving about how good the food was throughout the day. It was definitely a highlight for everyone.

    One of our favourite parts was going down to the lake for our photos. The setting was absolutely stunning and made for some really beautiful and memorable photographs.

    Overall, the whole day was everything we could have wished for and more. Everyone we have spoken to has commented on how lovely the venue was and how beautiful the setting is, which just goes to show how special it really is.

    A huge thank you to Jackie and Julie as well, who were absolutely fantastic throughout the whole process. Their communication was brilliant and they were so helpful in the lead-up to our wedding, which made everything feel so much easier and stress free.

    We will always look back on our wedding day with such happy memories, and a huge part of that is because of this beautiful venue and the amazing team behind it. We couldn’t recommend it highly enough!

    Cottesmore Golf & Country Club's reply:

    Dear Melanie and Keiron

    It means the world to us to know that you found your perfect venue here at Cottesmore.
    It was such a special moment seeing you walk down the aisle in front of all of your friends and family to the beautiful sound of your singer. We are thrilled to hear you found the setting to be so personal and private, in what can be nervous but exciting experience. 
    Thank you for such lovely comments about the food. The Eton Mess really is a real crowd pleaser and following on from your duck starter and chicken main, it is such a colourful, summery dessert.
    We are so pleased to hear that you found the communication throughout your planning journey to be helpful and stress free too. This of course was easy for us when you are so organised yourselves and it was an absolute pleasure to have helped in anyway.
    Thank you so much for recommending us and we wish you both all the very best for your future health and happiness in the years to come.
    Warm wishes,
    Jackie, Julie and the Cottesmore Team
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    Cooper Sent on 08/09/2026
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    Cooper / Fowlee Wedding 2026

    From all stages of planning the wedding to the speacial day itself, everything was kept relaxed for us, we had no issues in the lead up or on the day and all the staff looked after us and ensure the day went ahead without a hitch, we loved every moment and cannot thank Jackie and the rest of the cottesmore staff enough

    Cottesmore Golf & Country Club's reply:

    Dear Chloe and Will
    Thank you for such a lovely review and it's wonderful to hear that you had such a special wedding day.
    You mention it being relaxed but I actually think that comes from both of you and when you are relaxed and embracing your day, then everything else just slots into place.
    I thought your white blossom tree theme, along with your white sashes, was so elegant and timeless, it truly was like a fairy tale setting.
    It was our pleasure getting to know you both and seeing it all come together on the day.
    Best wishes from all of us at Cottesmore for your future happiness as a family,
    Warm regards Jackie and Julie
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    Keeley Sent on 29/08/2026
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    The Koffis

    Cottesmore was the first and only venue we looked at and we instantly fell in love , There are lots of options to suit budgets , also with lots of extras included in the package we picked which made planning a lot easier with the help of Jackie and Julie but the communication with all day and night staff at Cottesmore is amazing no job was to big and any worries we had were sorted and we couldn’t have asked for a more perfect day . Thank you all again

    Cottesmore Golf & Country Club's reply:

    Hi Keely and Blaise,
    We hope you are enjoying married life together.
    It was our absolute pleasure to help you with the planning of your wedding and to see it all come together on the day was just lovely.
    To hear that we were the first and only venue that you viewed is a great reflection on our great venue. It is also so nice to hear that you felt that we were on hand for your questions and queries, we really do understand that these questions are important and do our best to reply as quickly as we can!
    We try to offer packages to suit all budgets and we hope you enjoyed your little extras.
    Thank you so much for taking the time to write us such glowing reference, we really do appreciate it.
    We wish you a long and happy marriage and look forward to seeing you at the club soon.
    Warmest regards
    Julie, Jackie and the whole Cottesmore team
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    Georgia Sent on 06/08/2026
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    100% recommend this venue

    Look no further for your wedding venue!! This venue is absolutely beautiful and so well thought out as a wedding venue. The day ran so smoothly and the staff were so friendly. The service for food and drinks was so quick and no one was ever stood waiting long for a drink and we had over 100 guests. The food was absolutely amazing and commented on by guests. The courtyard is absolutely stunning and was spoken about by all guests. Definitely book the getting ready room as it’s perfect. The venue made our day so perfect. I am so grateful for everything the staff did for us. I cannot recommend this venue enough.

    Cottesmore Golf & Country Club's reply:

    Hi Georgia and Jamie

    Thank you so much for your wonderful review and for posting some gorgeous photos 💕

    We are absolutely delighted to hear that you had your perfect wedding day with us.

    It means the world to our team that you chose our venue for such a special occasion and we're thrilled that you and your guests enjoyed everything from sipping a cool drink out in the courtyard, to the tempting canapés and the delicious 3 course wedding breakfast.

    We love your video of you and your Bridesmaids all enjoying the morning in the Getting ready room and your Dads first look was quite a picture to treasure. You were so relaxed on the day, it helped everything run smoothly.

    It was a privilege to be part of your wedding day, and we wish you both a lifetime of love, happiness, and wonderful memories together. 

    Warmest wishes,
    Jackie and Julie The Events Team ✨💍
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    Matthew Sent on 17/07/2026
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    The perfect day!

    We had the most amazing weekend at Cottesmore two weeks ago. In the days, weeks and months leading up to the wedding, the communication from Julie and Jackie in the events team, Lorraine and Kerry in the accommodation team, and Alyssa and Luke in Food & Beverage was exemplary. They were always on hand to help with any requests and responded positively and promptly.

    The venue is stunning: modern, clean, spacious and adaptable to your needs. Both the indoor and outdoor ceremony options are beautiful, although we ultimately opted for the outdoor setting. The food was exactly as we remembered from the tasting, both in flavour and presentation, and the tasting itself was a delight. The canapés were fantastic, and the drink options were popular too!

    One of the venue's standout features is the range of on-site accommodation available. In addition to the hotel rooms available on the Saturday night (and on the Friday night if they are not required for another wedding), there are also seven self-catered lodges that can be booked for the entire weekend. Having around 75 of our guests staying on site transformed the wedding into a wonderful weekend-long celebration.

    We would recommend Cottesmore to anyone who will listen. We would also highly recommend our suppliers, particularly Forget Me Nots Décor and Dominic Smith Photography, whose knowledge of the venue and attention to detail helped make our day truly unforgettable.

    Cottesmore Golf & Country Club's reply:

    Hi Matthew and Michael,
    We are absolutely delighted that you had an amazing wedding here at Cottesmore, after getting to know our couples during the planning of their weddings it is always such a privilege to be here with you to see all your hard work come together. You really had thought of everything and made the venue look absolutely stunning. I especially loved to photos of the two of you on the walk to the lawn, they were great. Having your violinist on the lawn to play your entrance music was very romantic and made your ceremony very special, it was a very emotional moment to see you both walk down the aisle with your mums.
    Having so many of your guests being able to stay certainly meant that you could celebrate for the whole weekend and is a great benefit for our couples.
    We do try to make everything as easy as we can for our couples and it is so good to hear that you felt that the support and communication from all departments was spot on. It is also so good to hear that you and your guests enjoyed the food a drink on that day, we do get such good feedback and we will certainly pass your comments on to our chefs.
    It was such a pleasure to be part of you wedding planning and to be here on the day was very special. We can't thank you enough for such a wonderful review and wish you a long and happy life together, do come and see us next time you are at Cottesmore.
    Warmest regards
    Julie, Jackie and the Cottesmore Team
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    Yasmine Sent on 10/07/2026
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    The happiest day of our lives

    We honestly couldn’t have chosen a more perfect venue than Cottesmore for our wedding.

    From the moment we booked, the team made us feel completely looked after. Their professionalism, kindness, and attention to detail meant we could relax and enjoy every moment, knowing everything was in safe hands. A special thank you to Jackie and Julie, who were always so quick to respond to any questions or queries we had throughout the planning process. Nothing was ever too much trouble, and their reassurance, efficiency, and friendly approach made everything so much easier.

    The venue itself is absolutely beautiful, especially the stunning courtyard and wonderful golf course, which created the most perfect setting for our photographs and for our guests to enjoy throughout the day. It truly has such a special atmosphere.

    The food deserves a special mention. So many of our guests commented that it was absolutely delicious, beautifully presented, and thoroughly enjoyed by everyone. We were also incredibly impressed by how accommodating the team were with dietary requirements. Some of our guests had quite complex dietary restrictions, and every meal was prepared with such care and attention, ensuring everyone felt included and could enjoy the day without worry.

    One of the things we loved most was that so many of our family and friends were able to stay overnight. The hotel rooms were beautiful, comfortable, and made the whole celebration feel even more special. Waking up the following morning and enjoying a lovely breakfast together was the perfect way to round off such an unforgettable weekend.

    Thank you to everyone at Cottesmore for making our wedding day everything we had hoped for and more. Your hard work, care, and dedication didn’t go unnoticed, and we’ll always be grateful for the incredible memories you helped us create.

    We wouldn’t hesitate to recommend Cottesmore to any couple looking for a beautiful venue with outstanding staff, exceptional food, and a truly unforgettable experience. Thank you, Jackie, Julie, and the entire team, for giving us the most perfect day.

    Cottesmore Golf & Country Club's reply:

    Hi Yasmine and Dean

    Wow, thank you so much for your wonderful review!

    We are thrilled to hear that Cottesmore was the perfect venue for your wedding and that your day was everything you had dreamed of.  It really did have that fairytale, Hollywood glamour feel, with your beautiful outdoor wedding ceremony and your timeless, elegant black and white colour theme. You certainly had the hot weather to match too!
    We pride ourselves on providing support and reassurance throughout the planning journey, so it's wonderful to know that Julie and I helped make the planning enjoyable and stress-free. You really do all the hard work and we just try to make it all happen but we always appreciate a mention.
    It's great to hear that your wedding guests enjoyed the beautiful surroundings, from the courtyard to the golf course, and that they provided the perfect backdrop for your photographs.   Our chefs really do pull out all the stops when it comes to the food and ensuring all of your guests feel welcomed and their dietary requirements are taken care of is incredibly  important to us.  The sticky toffee pudding is always a crown pleaser to finish off the meal, even in a heat wave.
    Those extra moments spent with loved ones are often some of the most treasured memories and getting everyone together for breakfast the next day just brings your celebration to a perfect ending. Time to share memories, funny moments and reflect on the day before with your family and friends.
    Thank you again for choosing Cottesmore to celebrate the happiest day of your lives. Your kind words mean the world to our entire team, we are so grateful for your recommendation. We wish you both a lifetime of happiness together and hope to welcome you back to Cottesmore again in the future.
    Warmest wishes,
    Jackie, Julie and the Cottesmore Team 💕
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    Monika Sent on 03/07/2026
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    Cottesmore hotel and golf course

    Would highly recommend the place it’s beautiful there. They have beautiful inside and outside place for the ceremony and staff been so professional and proactive we couldn’t be more happier with our special day.

    Cottesmore Golf & Country Club's reply:

    Hi Monika and Andrew,
    Thank you for taking the time to write us a review, it is so helpful for couples to hear of your experience. I am so pleased that you had a lovely wedding day, although the weather was not o your side you did not let that dampen your spirits. Your singer certainly kept everyone entertained, before the ceremony and during your drinks reception.
    You looked absolutely stunning Monika, your dress was very special and your three little bridesmaids all looked so pretty and perfect!
    Thank you again for your lovely review, it was an complete pleasure to be part of your wedding planning and we wish you a long a happy life together.
    Julie and Jackie
    Cottesmore Wedding Team
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    Faye Sent on 28/06/2026
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    Our wedding

    We first viewed Cottesmore in January 2024 and instantly fell in love with how modern and picturesque the venue was. We went back for a second viewing and honestly we couldn’t stop talking to all our family and friends about the Cottesmore. So when we went back we booked our date, Saturday 23rd May 2026. The whole process was lovely and Jackie explained our next steps. We heard frequently from Jackie via email and the whole communication from January 2024 to May 2026 was incredible. We got invited for menu tasting and when I tell you the food was incredible it was INCREDIBLE! Since the wedding we have had guests say to us how they still can’t get over the beef! Our final meeting was simple and Jackie went over the final steps and gave us our final invoice. The wedding day was absolutely incredible! The staff were so lovely and we wish we could do it all over again! The whole day ran smoothly and I couldn’t thank the staff and Jackie enough for making everything so perfect! Our guests have said it’s the best wedding they have ever been to and they all raved about how gorgeous and modern everything was!

    We highly recommend getting married at The Cottesmore!

    Cottesmore Golf & Country Club's reply:

    Hi Faye and Elliot

    We are thrilled to hear you had the most wonderful wedding day and what glorious weather too for late May.

    It was a pleasure welcoming you back after your first viewing and we’re so glad the venue captured your hearts from the very beginning. It's great to know we got things right, especially about the communication, planning process, and of course, the food. You picked a delicious wedding breakfast menu and we’ll be sure to pass on the compliments about the Guiness slow cooked beef to our chefs!

    We’re so pleased your wedding day ran smoothly and that you felt supported throughout. Hearing that your guests described it as the best wedding they’ve attended is such a compliment and exactly what we strive for.

    Thank you again for your recommendation, it really was an honour personally to see everything come together on the day and you made my job so easy in the years leading up to it too. It was always so lovely to see you both.

    Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness together, and we hope to welcome you back to Cottesmore again in the future!

    Warm regards,
    The Cottesmore Team
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    Amazing venue

    I couldn’t recommend Cottesmore’s enough, the staff are all so lovely, friendly and helpful! The venue itself is perfect and good value for money! We loved the amount of accommodation onsite for guests! All the food we had was amazing and the guests all commented on how nice the food was! If you’re looking for a wedding venue I’d 100% recommend :)

    Cottesmore Golf & Country Club's reply:

    Hi Mollie and Brett,
    Thank you for you lovely review, we are delighted that you had an amazing wedding day. It is always so great to hear such great feedback on our food, our team are amazing!
    We are also pleased that you and your guests enjoyed staying with us, it does make for a relaxed end to your evening being able to step into your hotel room after an evening on the dance floor!
    Your colour scheme complemented our venue so beautifully with your sage greens, your photos are stunning.
    I will always remember lots of laughter with your mum trying to catch you little boy just before the ceremony, it was such a lovely relaxed day.
    Thank you again for your wonderful review, we really do appreciate you taking the time.
    Wishing you and your family all the best for the future.
    Julie, Jackie and the Cottesmore Team
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