Giddy & Gay Ceremonies is a South West London–based and award-winning wedding officiant service founded and led by Holden So (they/them), dedicated to crafting playful ceremonies for the seriously in-love. Holden is a queer, nonbinary celebrant with a background in award-shortlisted romance writing and they specialise in creating affirming and imaginative celebrations for LGBTQ+ and feminist couples. Embracing a “Giddy & Gay” agenda, Holden partners with couples to discard outdated traditions and spotlight what truly makes them swoon with joy.

Services Offered

Whether exchanging vows beneath London’s skyline or alongside lapping seaside waves, each ceremony is designed as a genuine reflection of the couple’s personalities and love story. Through in-depth conversations and questionnaires, Holden weaves each couple’s unique journey into a personalised script, celebrating them exactly as they are. There are no preset scripts or rules here - Holden will ensure that your ceremony feels like the best adventure you've ever had, and give you guidance on including any symbolic elements such as handfasting, tree-planting, and even rolling for initiative D&D-style to decide who reads their vows first. Reach out today to start planning your magical, unforgettable ceremony.

Areas Covered

London, Surrey, Berkshire, Kent, and surrounding areas - but also further afield! Holden is happy to travel nationally and internationally for love.