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South Lodge

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About this venue

On Hitched.co.uk since 2022

Last update: September 2026

Let nature be the backdrop to your big day at South Lodge, where you'll be heartily welcomed by 93 acres of gentle West Sussex countryside. The undulating South Downs are the backdrop to our 19th century Victorian country house, where delicious food, stunning gardens and sumptuous spa will make your wedding day complete.

Rustic or grand, big or small, we've got the perfect setting for your big day. With floral terraces, rolling lawns, private banqueting suites... South Lodge has everything you need to host an unforgettable gathering of all your nearest and dearest.

Whether you desire a summertime celebration or a cosy winter wedding, South Lodge Hotel & Spa welcomes weddings throughout the year.

Your ceremony

Say your vows surrounded by nature with our 19th century house as your backdrop. A long carpet leads you through rows of white lawn chairs to our gorgeous wrought-iron pavilion. Ideal for outdoor ceremonies of up to 180 guests.

With three elegant indoor ceremony spaces to choose between, The Goodwood Suite which is perfect for intimate ceremonies of up to 50 guests, The Glyndebourne Suite works perfectly for medium-sized weddings of up to 80 guests and The Shelley Suite, with room for up to 180 guests.

The reception

Enjoy the manicured lawns and terraces for your drinks reception with access to a private bar, then our breathtaking Gladstone Suite with room for a grand reception of up to 180 guests, Gladstone is filled with light from the triple-aspect windows and has commanding views of the South Downs. The fresh, elegant décor offers endless possibilities for dressing up or down to match your vision. Looking for something more intimate...The Disraeli Suite has large windows flooding the space with light. With stunning views of the South Downs and access to a private terrace of your own, this is a wonderful space for an intimate wedding celebration for 30-50 guests.

The perfect backdrop

Set in 93 acres including a manicured lawns and beds, a rockery, vineyard and of course the stunning 19th century house we provide the perfect back drop for the shots capturing your special day.

For those harder to reach locations the team will be happy to get the buggy wheels rolling.

Menus

We are incredibly serious about food and drink. This is your biggest day, and every bite and sip will be worthy of the occasion.

Whatever your tastebuds are crying out for, that’s what you’ll have. Choose from dozens of options for canapés, the wedding breakfast and the evening buffet. Whether it’s fine dining or sharing platters, you’ll get exactly what you want on the day. And of course, we cater to any and all dietary preferences. Our menus are very comprehensive. But if there’s something special you’ve always wanted for your big day, just let us know.

We love to make the evening reception unique and fun too. We can arrange bespoke cocktail receptions and espresso martini towers to name but a few.

Accommodation

In addition to a beautiful room selection ranging from our Comfy rooms to Signature and Hot tub Suites. We also offer Family Suites, our stunning Lakeside Lodges and a private 4 bedroom en suite cottage. Ideal for the Bride and co the night prior and or the all important wedding morning preparations on the big day.

Our team

For South Lodge's experienced team, your satisfaction is their number one priority when it comes to working towards your wedding vision. Our team of wedding coordinators will be there to guide you through the process, being on hand with recommendations and to answer your questions. They host just one wedding per day, so you can rest assured that they'll give your wedding their undivided attention. The bespoke South Lodge packages are built for your requirements and include a menu tasting for two, Toastmaster, day-of coordination, and expert guidance from our team.

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Weddings at this venue

Holly & Ryan's wedding
Holly & Ryan
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Jessica & Tom's wedding
Jessica & Tom
109 photos
Louise & Anthony's wedding
Louise & Anthony
50 photos
Bradley & Annelie's wedding
Bradley & Annelie
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Frequently asked questions

Venue type:

In the country
Asian wedding
Stately home
Historic
Large hotel
Outdoor license

Ceremony options:

Civil ceremony licence

Dining options:

Seated meal facilities
Private catering allowed
Alcohol licence
Buffet meal facilities
In-house catering

Evening entertainment:

Dance floor
Entertainment licence
Live band facilities
Evening reception facilities
DJ facilities

Overnight accommodation:

Overnight accommodation for wedding couple
Overnight accommodation for guests

Venue staff assistance:

Master of ceremonies/toastmaster
Wedding coordinator

Venue leisure facilities:

Swimming pool
Health suite
Fitness centre

Other features:

Exclusive use
Accessible facilities
Car parking
Helipad
Confetti permitted
Pet-friendly
Elephant baraat permitted
Horse baraat permitted
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Reviews for South Lodge

MRS
Mrs Sent on 24/08/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Out of this world!

Beautiful venue, amazing staff and they could not have been more helpful during the whole process. Everything we wanted was accommodated with no issues and the grounds are just gorgeous. Thank you so much for making our dream come to life.
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Katie Sent on 25/09/2026
5 out of 5 rating

A dream day

We truly don’t even know where to begin—our wedding was everything we could have ever dreamed of and so much more. Since the big day, we have been flooded with messages from our guests complimenting the venue, with so many people saying it was hands-down the best wedding they have ever been to!

We felt incredibly spoilt from start to finish, and your team's warmth made an already beautiful day even more magical.

Thank you all again from the bottom of our hearts for making our dream day a reality.
Jessica
Jessica Sent on 02/06/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A magical day with the support of an amazing team

We planned our wedding remotely as we are now based in Dubai but wanted a local wedding for our families in the UK. The team at South Lodge throughout the whole process from the first call were incredibly helpful and understanding even giving us a walkthrough of the venue over zoom. They were so professional and their attention to detail in the planning process meant that on the day we didn't have to worry about anything and I didn't have to answer any questions from the team we could just focus on getting married and enjoying our time with friends and family. I couldn't have asked for a better wedding venue, they dealt with all of our external vendors seamlessly so it saved me having to deal with lots of different contacts in those final weeks running up to the big day. We now also have a fabulous place to go for our wedding anniversary's.
Michaela
Michaela Sent on 28/05/2025
4.8 out of 5 rating

Thank you South Lodge

We had our wedding at South Lodge in September 2023. We wanted a classic style venue with all the trimmings and that is what was delivered. The staff were very accommodating right from the start and there were various options we could choose for each part of the day. We felt well looked after throughout the planning process and although it took a little time to respond to emails sometimes, it was always well communicated and all the information we needed at each stage. The food was absolutely stunning and is something our guests still talk about. The setting was perfect for the day. We had the ceremony outside and the surroundings were beautiful and well kept. The hotel room was stunning and we wish we could have spent more time there! Our overnight guests loved it too and also felt well looked after. There were personalised thoughts and we received surprise beautiful commemorative gifts for both us and our three children. We couldn't have asked for anything better - thank you so much for such a great day all at South Lodge.
Denisa
Denisa Sent on 12/01/2025
5 out of 5 rating

NEY Sparkling Wedding

The team at South Lodge has made the entire experience of planning our wedding very smooth - they were highly attentive to us from start to finish, nothing has ever been an issue. The day itself was flawless simple because they handled everything for us and so we truly got to enjoy our special day - highly recommend! We will cherish the memories and will always look forward to coming back (not just for the anniversaries).
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Giovana Sent on 11/12/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely perfect!

We had the most perfect wedding day at South Lodge, and Beky and her team played a huge role in making that a reality. The day couldn't have gone any better and we're so happy we chose to have it at South Lodge. The whole team made us feel at ease and well looked after throughout the planning process and wedding weekend. We felt like no request was too much or not possible, and the reassurance that came with was incredible and so needed in the lead up to the day, and the day itself. We were hoping to have our ceremony outside, and the staff were extremely flexible and waited until the very last moment to make that call on day. Thankfully the weather cooperated, and we were so impressed with how smoothly South Lodge was able to run it with little notice. The venue itself is absolutely gorgeous, but the service really is exceptional. You really will have nothing to worry about. I would do it all over again if I could!
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Julia Sent on 27/10/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding at South Lodge

We had an unforgettable wedding day at South Lodge Hotel. It is a beautiful venue, but what is more important is that the staff took care of every detail, allowing us to fully enjoy the celebration with our friends and family without any concerns about logistics. On top of that, the afternoon tea and the evening buffet were amazing, and we’re left with such wonderful memories of our special day.
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Simon Sent on 14/09/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Spectacular occasion, brilliant staff, wonderful venue

We held our blessing and our wedding breakfast at South Lodge Hotel. We could not have been more delighted. It was all very beautiful and emotional.

Everyone on the staff was lovely and couldn’t do enough to help - we felt very looked after. The events team made great suggestions and were responsive, diligent and showed attention to detail in the months during which we were been preparing and making decisions. On the day the management team were very responsive. The food and the food service were fantastic, feeding 80 in a low key way that was also seemingly instant. There was no intrusion, it just all seemed to work. The guests were universally extremely impressed. There were some lovely personal touches. The operation of the wedding on the day was almost flawless.

The event rooms looked amazing, the Gladstone room was spectacular and the Glyndebourne room, where we held the blessing, looked and felt the part. The bedrooms were typically impressive, large, and comfortable.

We felt it was worth every penny. Not everyone can afford to have their wedding at South Lodge, but if you can it's the place.
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Mark Sent on 11/09/2024
4.8 out of 5 rating

A pleasure from start to finish

A belated review!

My wife and I have just celebrated our first wedding anniversary, which makes it about a year since Elaine ‘delegated’ the responsibility of writing a review of South Lodge, the venue for our special day, to me.

We are fortunate that we live in an area with no shortage of beautiful venues, and my bride-to-be soon collated a list of potential candidates. Over the next month or so, I diligently chauffeured Elaine to many places, and we eventually narrowed the choice down to three venues. We visited Lizzie and the team at South Lodge, and at once were made to feel special. Not the most inexpensive venue to get married at, we viewed the others, but Elaine’s heart was set on South Lodge. Not for the first time, and as every husband will understand, I have to say she was right!

From the initial discussions Lizzie was attentive to our needs which included investigating the possibility of Leni, our 2-year-old lively Labrador Retriever, attending the wedding. We were so lucky that Lizzie has a Lab of her own and offered to look after her for the Wedding Day herself!

We were walked through the process, our requirements gathered, and arrangements made seamlessly. We had a tasting menu to select our food and drink choices. The menu choices were all delicious, partnered with excellent wine pairings.

We also were shown the rooms, as we had some family and friends from overseas attending. All were a really high standard.

Finally, all the arrangements were made, and it seemed as if it was effortless. Probably because for me it was, as Elaine and Lizzie did all of the hard graft!

The Wedding Day.

Although in early August, there are no guarantees on the weather in England, but South Lodge were prepared for that, with the outside wedding area set up but also an indoor room held in reserve just in case. Luckily for us the weather was glorious, so outside it was.

It was extremely hot, which for those of us waiting in the blazing sun for nearly an hour for the bride to turn up was a challenge. But just as we were about to give up and go an enjoy the fine fare on offer, she arrived, looking radiant. With our guests, including Lizzie and Leni the Labrador, we made our vows. Lots of joking and laughter, outside surrounded by views of the beautiful views of the South Downs and the grand South Lodge building the ceremony itself was joyous. Fine English sparkling wine flowed, followed by the wedding breakfast and celebrations.

The food was superb, the drink flowed for our 100 guests, who had traveled far and wide to share our special day. In the evening another 35 friends arrived, along with more fine food and drink.

We eventually retired to the wedding suite, after a long and raucous evening. Fun was had by all.

From the initial arrangements, preparation and our wedding, the South Lodge team made sure our day was truly special. I haven’t even mentioned the spa and facilities, which I am told by my wife are wonderful!

We can’t thank the South Lodge team, especially Lizzie, for making our day unforgettable.

Mark & Elaine
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Lucy Sent on 08/09/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The perfect venue

We can’t recommend south lodge enough - This truly was the most perfect venue for our day. Every step from booking to the actual wedding day was amazing. We were treated so kindly and all the staff were genuinely so happy and excited to help bring our dream wedding come to reality. Our day ran perfectly with no hiccups at all - all thanks to the immaculate communication and staff. Thank you everyone at south lodge for our fairytale day!
Joanna
Joanna Sent on 10/08/2024
4.6 out of 5 rating

Our wedding day

We had such a special day getting married at south Lodge hotel. We had one of their intimate packages with 30 guests. The staff were all very friendly and helpful with ideas for our day. The day could not of been anymore perfect. Thank you again. Memories to last a lifetime!
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Mark Sent on 31/07/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Outstanding

South Lodge is very beautiful and a lovely place to get married. We were treated very professionally and respectfully from the start, and offered a great deal of flexibility for our plans. All the planning staff were very responsive. We had hoped to get married in the beautiful pavilion, but unfortunately the British Summer being what it is, it poured down on the day. All the staff on the day responded magnificently and we had the ceremony indoors, and it was a lovely and gracious event. We had a great lunch for the wedding party and the recently married couple stayed overnight in a gorgeous room, taking advantage of the stunningly beautiful spa (highly recommended). All in all, many thanks to everyone at South Lodge who made our wedding day so happy and memorable.
Ashley
Ashley Sent on 30/07/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Our dream Wedding at South Lodge Hotel

We recently had the pleasure of celebrating our wedding at South Lodge Hotel, and we cannot recommend this venue highly enough. From start to finish, our experience was nothing short of extraordinary!

From the outset, Lizzie, the Events Manager, was incredible. She guided us through every detail with patience and expertise, always available to discuss ideas, answer questions, and resolve any concerns. Her dedication and professionalism ensured that our wedding planning process was smooth and stress-free.

On the big day, the food and service were truly five-star. Every course was cooked to perfection and presented to a fine dining standard, impressing all our guests. The team went above and beyond to ensure that every aspect of the meal was exceptional.

The entire staff at South Lodge Hotel deserves special mention. Their attentiveness and willingness to help were evident throughout our day. Whether it was the setup, the drinks reception on the patio, or the evening festivities with our band, they ensured everything ran seamlessly.

A standout member of the team was Dan, the Toastmaster. His exceptional skills were pivotal in the smooth running of our day. Dan’s attention to detail and warm demeanour made him an indispensable part of our wedding, ensuring that every moment was perfectly timed and executed.

We had 65 day guests and an additional 30 for the evening. The drinks reception on the patio was a highlight, providing a stunning backdrop for our celebrations, and the evening entertainment with the band was the perfect ending to our special day.

If you are considering South Lodge Hotel for your wedding, do not hesitate. They have the expertise, the team, and the dedication to make your dream wedding a reality. We are beyond grateful to everyone at South Lodge for making our day so unforgettable.

Thank you, South Lodge Hotel!
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Karen Sent on 27/07/2024
4.8 out of 5 rating

South lodge Hotel and Spa

Fantastic service throughout the organising and the day itself. Highly recommended.
George
George Sent on 07/05/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect Day at the Perfect Venue

We had a fantastic experience at South Lodge, from the initial inquiry the team were excellent, making us feel at ease throughout the whole process. Beky, Lizzie, Liz and Amanda really are credits to the venue, nothing was too much for them. They also provided us with Toastmaster Dan who we couldn't have coped without on the day. We would highly recommend to anyone.
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Meet the team

Gema Guzman
Gema Guzman
Events Manager

A true wedding enthusiast who loves everything from “Yes!” to “I do!” Whether it’s the planning, the laughter, the dancing, or the special moments in between, I’m passionate about making every wedding feel extraordinary. With 13 years experience at some beautiful and unique venues across the UK I am here to help and support you through the planning process.

Emily
Emily
Senior Events Co-ordinator

I joined the team three years ago, bringing with me a strong operational background and hands-on experience in delivering exceptional events. My practical understanding of how a wedding day runs allows me to share valuable insights, helpful tips, and expert guidance to help every couple create something truly special. I'm passionate about customer service and love being part of those unforgettable moments that make each celebration unique.

Outside of work, I'm an avid runner and firmly believe that the further the distance, the better the challenge. I also studied Creative Music Technology at university, combining a love of creativity with a keen eye for detail.

Millie
Millie
Events Co-ordinator

With a passion for creating unforgettable wedding experiences, I bring hands-on expertise from a wide range of events, from luxury hospitality venues to large-scale celebrations. Working as a Conference and Banqueting Assistant at South Lodge Hotel, I've played a key role in delivering seamless weddings, from room set-up to service. My background in hospitality, allows me to provide exceptional customer service, anticipate guests' needs, and help create those special moments couples will treasure forever.

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South Lodge Hotel, Brighton Road RH13 6PS Lower Beeding (West Sussex)
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