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Last update: October 2024

Let nature be the backdrop to your big day at South Lodge, where you'll be heartily welcomed by 93 acres of gentle West Sussex countryside. The undulating South Downs are the backdrop to our 19th centuary Victorian country house, where delicious food, stunning gardens and sumptuous spa will make your wedding day complete.

Facilities and Capacity

Rustic or grand, big or small, we've got the perfect setting for your big day. With floral terraces, rolling lawns, private banqueting suites... South Lodge has everything you need to host an unforgettable gathering of all your nearest and dearest.

Whether you desire a summertime celebration or a cosy winter wedding, South Lodge Hotel & Spa welcomes weddings throughout the year. Say your vows surrounded by nature with our 19th century house as your backdrop. A long carpet leads you through rows of white lawn chairs to our gorgeous wrought-iron pavilion. Ideal for outdoor ceremonies of up to 180 guests.

With three elegant indoor ceremony spaces to choose between, The Goodwood Suite which is perfect for intimate ceremonies of up to 50 guests, The Glyndebourne Suite works perfectly for medim-sized weddings of up to 80 guests and The Wordsworth Suite, with room for up to 180 guests.

Enjoy the manicured lawns and terraces for your drinks reception with access to a private bar, then enjoy our breathtaking Gladstone Suite with room for a grand reception of up to 180 guests, Gladstone is filled with light from the triple-aspect windows and has commanding views of the South Downs. The fresh, elegant décor offers endless possibilities for dressing up or down to match your vision. Looking for something more intimate...The Disraeli Suite has large windows flooding the space with light. With stunning views of the South Downs and access to a private terrace of your own, this is a wonderful space for an intimate wedding celebration for 30-50 guests.

Services Offered

For South Lodge's experienced team, your satisfaction is their number one priority when it comes to working towards your weding vision. Our team of wedding coordinators will be there to guide you through the process, being on hand with recommendations and to answer your questions. They host just one wedding per day, so you can rest assured that they'll give your wedding their undivided attention. The bespoke South Lodge packages are built for your requirements and include a menu tasting for two, Toastmaster, day-of coordination, and expert guidance from our team.

Menus

We are terribly serious about food and drink. This is your biggest day, and every bite and sip will be worthy of the occasion.

Whatever your tastebuds are crying out for, that’s what you’ll have. Choose from dozens of options for canapés, the wedding breakfast and the evening buffet. Whether it’s fine dining or sharing platters, you’ll get exactly what you want on the day. And of course, we cater to any and all dietary preferences. Our menus are very comprehensive. But if there’s something special you’ve always wanted for your big day, just let us know.

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Frequently asked questions

Venue type:

In the country
Asian wedding
Stately home
Historic
Large hotel
Outdoor license

Ceremony options:

Civil ceremony licence

Dining options:

Seated meal facilities
Private catering allowed
Alcohol licence
Buffet meal facilities
In-house catering

Evening entertainment:

Dance floor
Entertainment licence
Live band facilities
Evening reception facilities
DJ facilities

Overnight accommodation:

Overnight accommodation for wedding couple
Overnight accommodation for guests

Venue staff assistance:

Master of ceremonies/toastmaster
Wedding coordinator

Venue leisure facilities:

Swimming pool
Health suite
Fitness centre

Other features:

Exclusive use
Accessible facilities
Car parking
Helipad
Confetti permitted
Pet-friendly
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Reviews for South Lodge

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Joanna
Joanna C. Sent on 10/08/2024
4.6 out of 5 rating

Our wedding day

We had such a special day getting married at south Lodge hotel. We had one of their intimate packages with 30 guests. The staff were all very friendly and helpful with ideas for our day. The day could not of been anymore perfect. Thank you again. Memories to last a lifetime!
Ashley
Ashley H. Sent on 30/07/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Our dream Wedding at South Lodge Hotel

We recently had the pleasure of celebrating our wedding at South Lodge Hotel, and we cannot recommend this venue highly enough. From start to finish, our experience was nothing short of extraordinary!

From the outset, Lizzie, the Events Manager, was incredible. She guided us through every detail with patience and expertise, always available to discuss ideas, answer questions, and resolve any concerns. Her dedication and professionalism ensured that our wedding planning process was smooth and stress-free.

On the big day, the food and service were truly five-star. Every course was cooked to perfection and presented to a fine dining standard, impressing all our guests. The team went above and beyond to ensure that every aspect of the meal was exceptional.

The entire staff at South Lodge Hotel deserves special mention. Their attentiveness and willingness to help were evident throughout our day. Whether it was the setup, the drinks reception on the patio, or the evening festivities with our band, they ensured everything ran seamlessly.

A standout member of the team was Dan, the Toastmaster. His exceptional skills were pivotal in the smooth running of our day. Dan’s attention to detail and warm demeanour made him an indispensable part of our wedding, ensuring that every moment was perfectly timed and executed.

We had 65 day guests and an additional 30 for the evening. The drinks reception on the patio was a highlight, providing a stunning backdrop for our celebrations, and the evening entertainment with the band was the perfect ending to our special day.

If you are considering South Lodge Hotel for your wedding, do not hesitate. They have the expertise, the team, and the dedication to make your dream wedding a reality. We are beyond grateful to everyone at South Lodge for making our day so unforgettable.

Thank you, South Lodge Hotel!
George
George E. Sent on 07/05/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect Day at the Perfect Venue

We had a fantastic experience at South Lodge, from the initial inquiry the team were excellent, making us feel at ease throughout the whole process. Beky, Lizzie, Liz and Amanda really are credits to the venue, nothing was too much for them. They also provided us with Toastmaster Dan who we couldn't have coped without on the day. We would highly recommend to anyone.
Suzy
Suzan S. Sent on 30/01/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Best day of our lives

I can honestly say that South Lodge exceeded all our expectations as a wedding venue. It provided the perfect backdrop for a love-filled celebration, and every detail was executed with precision and care. Our guests, especially those staying overnight and using the first class Spa facilities, couldn’t thank us enough for picking such a beautiful venue. Jamie and her team ensured we had a perfect day. If you're looking for a venue that combines natural beauty, exceptional service, and a touch of magic, South Lodge is the ideal choice for your special day.
Kelly
Kelly G. Sent on 22/10/2023
4.8 out of 5 rating

Perfect wedding venue

We had the most wonderful wedding day. We couldn’t have asked for anything more regarding any detail… it was perfect. Even the endless rain did not impact in the slightest.

The team were just brilliant…. Everything ran seamless throughout the whole day and the food was amazing. The team that looked after us were amazing, nothing was too much trouble.
We cannot fault anything at all and are so so happy that we chose to get married at south lodge.
Agnieszka
Agnieszka Sent on 27/08/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Can your wedding be perfect?

YES! Our day at South Lodge was absolutely perfect including all the time leading up to the big event. When I was reading the reviews about South Lodge I was sceptical as I could not believe that every single couple had a perfect experience there. But here I am, writing a 5 stars review. Our coordinator, Beky, was exceptional throughout and made us feel welcomed, respected and special. Even with me being sceptical at the start, she won us over and soon we felt at home. The attention to details and professionalism are next to none - they all definitely know what they are doing - the service, the décor, the personalised touches - it was all perfect. We enjoyed all the events before the wedding - the showcase, tasting event, vineyard tour as well as SPA days.
The day itself couldn't be better - the staff were always one step ahead of us and we had nothing to worry about. All our friends and family had a fantastic time and said that this his how weddings should be done. We added some personal touches with our dog as a ring bearer, confetti cannons and sparklers - nothing was too much trouble. And the food? It was like eating at a Michelin star restaurant. We cannot express our gratitude enough and South Lodge will always be a special place for us. THANK YOU to all the team - you are wonderful!
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Julia Sent on 27/10/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding at South Lodge

We had an unforgettable wedding day at South Lodge Hotel. It is a beautiful venue, but what is more important is that the staff took care of every detail, allowing us to fully enjoy the celebration with our friends and family without any concerns about logistics. On top of that, the afternoon tea and the evening buffet were amazing, and we’re left with such wonderful memories of our special day.
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Simon W. Sent on 14/09/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Spectacular occasion, brilliant staff, wonderful venue

We held our blessing and our wedding breakfast at South Lodge Hotel. We could not have been more delighted. It was all very beautiful and emotional.

Everyone on the staff was lovely and couldn’t do enough to help - we felt very looked after. The events team made great suggestions and were responsive, diligent and showed attention to detail in the months during which we were been preparing and making decisions. On the day the management team were very responsive. The food and the food service were fantastic, feeding 80 in a low key way that was also seemingly instant. There was no intrusion, it just all seemed to work. The guests were universally extremely impressed. There were some lovely personal touches. The operation of the wedding on the day was almost flawless.

The event rooms looked amazing, the Gladstone room was spectacular and the Glyndebourne room, where we held the blessing, looked and felt the part. The bedrooms were typically impressive, large, and comfortable.

We felt it was worth every penny. Not everyone can afford to have their wedding at South Lodge, but if you can it's the place.
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Mark K. Sent on 11/09/2024
4.8 out of 5 rating

A pleasure from start to finish

A belated review!

My wife and I have just celebrated our first wedding anniversary, which makes it about a year since Elaine ‘delegated’ the responsibility of writing a review of South Lodge, the venue for our special day, to me.

We are fortunate that we live in an area with no shortage of beautiful venues, and my bride-to-be soon collated a list of potential candidates. Over the next month or so, I diligently chauffeured Elaine to many places, and we eventually narrowed the choice down to three venues. We visited Lizzie and the team at South Lodge, and at once were made to feel special. Not the most inexpensive venue to get married at, we viewed the others, but Elaine’s heart was set on South Lodge. Not for the first time, and as every husband will understand, I have to say she was right!

From the initial discussions Lizzie was attentive to our needs which included investigating the possibility of Leni, our 2-year-old lively Labrador Retriever, attending the wedding. We were so lucky that Lizzie has a Lab of her own and offered to look after her for the Wedding Day herself!

We were walked through the process, our requirements gathered, and arrangements made seamlessly. We had a tasting menu to select our food and drink choices. The menu choices were all delicious, partnered with excellent wine pairings.

We also were shown the rooms, as we had some family and friends from overseas attending. All were a really high standard.

Finally, all the arrangements were made, and it seemed as if it was effortless. Probably because for me it was, as Elaine and Lizzie did all of the hard graft!

The Wedding Day.

Although in early August, there are no guarantees on the weather in England, but South Lodge were prepared for that, with the outside wedding area set up but also an indoor room held in reserve just in case. Luckily for us the weather was glorious, so outside it was.

It was extremely hot, which for those of us waiting in the blazing sun for nearly an hour for the bride to turn up was a challenge. But just as we were about to give up and go an enjoy the fine fare on offer, she arrived, looking radiant. With our guests, including Lizzie and Leni the Labrador, we made our vows. Lots of joking and laughter, outside surrounded by views of the beautiful views of the South Downs and the grand South Lodge building the ceremony itself was joyous. Fine English sparkling wine flowed, followed by the wedding breakfast and celebrations.

The food was superb, the drink flowed for our 100 guests, who had traveled far and wide to share our special day. In the evening another 35 friends arrived, along with more fine food and drink.

We eventually retired to the wedding suite, after a long and raucous evening. Fun was had by all.

From the initial arrangements, preparation and our wedding, the South Lodge team made sure our day was truly special. I haven’t even mentioned the spa and facilities, which I am told by my wife are wonderful!

We can’t thank the South Lodge team, especially Lizzie, for making our day unforgettable.

Mark & Elaine
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Lucy Sent on 08/09/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The perfect venue

We can’t recommend south lodge enough - This truly was the most perfect venue for our day. Every step from booking to the actual wedding day was amazing. We were treated so kindly and all the staff were genuinely so happy and excited to help bring our dream wedding come to reality. Our day ran perfectly with no hiccups at all - all thanks to the immaculate communication and staff. Thank you everyone at south lodge for our fairytale day!
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Mark D. Sent on 31/07/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Outstanding

South Lodge is very beautiful and a lovely place to get married. We were treated very professionally and respectfully from the start, and offered a great deal of flexibility for our plans. All the planning staff were very responsive. We had hoped to get married in the beautiful pavilion, but unfortunately the British Summer being what it is, it poured down on the day. All the staff on the day responded magnificently and we had the ceremony indoors, and it was a lovely and gracious event. We had a great lunch for the wedding party and the recently married couple stayed overnight in a gorgeous room, taking advantage of the stunningly beautiful spa (highly recommended). All in all, many thanks to everyone at South Lodge who made our wedding day so happy and memorable.
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Karen A. Sent on 27/07/2024
4.8 out of 5 rating

South lodge Hotel and Spa

Fantastic service throughout the organising and the day itself. Highly recommended.
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Lucie J. Sent on 28/02/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Christmas wedding at the amazing south lodge!

We got married at South lodge December 2023 and it did not disappoint!
We had stayed at south lodge years ago for a special birthday and loved it, so when we were looking at venues we decided we had to take a look. I also looked at pictures of south lodge at Christmas as we had always liked the idea of a winter wedding and it looked incredible!
We met the lovely Beky, who later became our wedding co-ordinator, and just pretty much fell in love with South Lodge and the team there who made us feel very special from day one.
We met with Beky several times over the months and nothing was ever too much trouble and no request or question too ridiculous!! She had plenty of advice and suggestions too which I really, really appreciated. We did use some of their approved suppliers and they were fabulous and very experienced in working at South Lodge.
All of this made it much less stressful and I felt very reassured.
The events team as a whole are so so lovely and professional and just want you to have the best day and that really does show, Elizabeth, Amanda, Emily, Charlie, Sophie and the amazing Dan. They smile all day and work really hard!
The day itself was amazing, everything went really well thanks to Beky and the team, words can't describe how much we enjoyed it and how much fun we had - I'd do it all over again in a heartbeat!!! Food was delicious, drinks flowed and all of our guests said what a fantastic day it was and what a great hotel South lodge is! Im so glad we got married here and would not hesitate to recommend South Lodge if you are thinking of getting married and if you want a winter wedding it looks incredible, roaring fires and Christmas trees everywhere! Thank you Beky and everyone at South Lodge you made it the best and more L&J xxx

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Jess H. Sent on 14/11/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Fantastic Venue would highly recommend!

Beky and her team are fantastic and nothing is too much trouble for them. We had people changing their meat for dinner on the day, and south lodge took everything in their stride. They organised our special day and helped us every step of the way. They made our day so perfect and we cannot thank them enough for everything they did for us on our wedding day and the lead up to our wedding.
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Sally S. Sent on 01/09/2023
5 out of 5 rating

exceptional wedding experience!

From the moment we viewed the venue to cutting our cake, and then breakfast the following day, South Lodge's organisation was excellent! On the day we were made to feel so special and every detail was taken care of. The wedding breakfast was amazing and the service first class.
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