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On Hitched.co.uk since 2022

Last update: January 2025


Milwards House is a family run grade 11 listed wedding venue which you have exclusive use, located near Lewes in East Sussex with close proximity to Brighton Uckfield Hailsham and Eastbourne.

The stunning countryside estate dates back to the 16c. Surrounded by 150 acres of organic grass meadows and woodland, natural gardens, large rose bed, and picturesque lake.

This tranquil and relaxed setting is perfect for country and animal lovers alike with resident horses, sheep, dogs and cats.

Facilities and Capacity

Milwards is licensed in three different areas.

The Milwards Coach House

If you prefer the vintage charm of old buildings the Coach House can accommodate up to 66 guests.

Its volted ceilings and exposed beams make for a rustic barn style setting. The Coach House leads on to the terrace (perfect for confetti photos) with far reaching views of the lake and South Downs.

Lake Side Ceremony

Our large bespoke entwined wooden arch compliments a natural setting for an outside ceremony over looking the picturesque lake a haven for wildlife and our pet ducks.

Marquee Ceremony

Our marquee is licensed for indoor ceremonies with panoramic views of the lake. We would suggest up to 150 guests to seat comfortably for your wedding breakfast.

Gardens

There is plenty of outdoor space for your guests to enjoy at Milwards. With large gardens that wrap around the terrace and avenue of popular trees and other native trees and shrubs. A large rose bed, rose arbour, pretty white bridge and swing seats.

Services Offered

The marquee includes a large wooden licensed bar and bar staff.

Front of house to manage your day

Glassware

Wooden cross back chairs

Round tables

Buffet tables

Milwards DJ

Dance floor

Starlit canopy over dance floor

Fair lights across lining

Quiet room

Kitchen space

Outdoor seating

Parking

Toilets

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Frequently asked questions

Venue type:

In the country
Asian wedding
Stately home
Historic
Marquees and tents
Barn
Outdoor license

Ceremony options:

Fire ceremony
Civil ceremony licence

Dining options:

Seated meal facilities
Private catering allowed
Alcohol licence
Buffet meal facilities
In-house catering

Evening entertainment:

Marquee available
Dance floor
Entertainment licence
Live band facilities
Evening reception facilities
DJ facilities

Venue staff assistance:

Wedding coordinator

Other features:

Exclusive use
Accessible facilities
Car parking
Helipad
Confetti permitted
Pet-friendly
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Reviews for Milwards Estate

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Demi Sent on 19/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Outstanding!

Myself and my Husband Tom got married at Milwards estate on 15/08/2024 and I would 100% recommend them, amazing venue and amazing staff, Clare and Maria were so relaxed which made me feel relaxed and just so helpful the whole way through planning and on the day, honestly amazing people! 💕
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Kirsty Sent on 18/07/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful venue and staff

Had an amazing experience with Milwards. Clare, Maria and Chris are all amazing. Clare and Maria are on hand answering emails with whatever questions leading up to the event and Chris did an amazing set as DJ that got everyone on the dancefloor all night. The grounds are beautiful and the marquee is so nice you don't even need to add any extra decoration (fairy lights, disco ball, etc). 100% recommend. Down to earth and also the cats, dogs and ducks are always around to say hello!
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Paddy Sent on 02/08/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Our dream venue, with a dream team!

The second we found Milwards, we knew that we had found our dream wedding venue. The location is utterly perfect and our guests couldn’t believe we’d found such a gem in the heart of the Sussex countryside within our budget!

We were lucky to have perfect weather on our big day, but the venue is full of so much character that we would have loved it even if it had rained. There are so many cute spots for photos, so many lovely areas for guests to explore and mingle in, and of course the fantastic marquee, bar and dancefloor. We loved that it was a blank canvas that we could add our personality to, but at the same time didn’t require much work to look stunning.

Claire and Maria were amazing from day one and answered all of our questions quickly, provided tips and ideas, and were just generally wonderful all the way through. Chris DJ’ed for us and helped to ensure that the dance floor remained in action all night long!

Milwards was our perfect venue and we cannot recommend it highly enough. Thank you so much Claire, Chris, Maria and all the team for helping to make our dream wedding a reality!
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Clare Sent on 26/05/2022
5 out of 5 rating

When Claire, Maria, Chris and team say ‘tell us what you want and we’ll do it’ they 100% mean it.

Nothing is too much. They are running a family business and put their everything into ensuring their clients have the best day possible.
The venue itself is picturesque and if you’re lucky enough to get the sunshine we did, it is absolutely perfect for an outdoor wedding. (We haven’t got our professional photos yet but have attached some that our guests took!) The venue is licensed to perform legal ceremonies both outside, and at an indoor location.
The marquee is a permanent structure with a proper floor, full bar, electricity and dance floor. We set up the day before in high winds and rain and it barely moved - no flapping sides and certainly not a leak to be found! The marquee has a kitchen at the back so that your caterer has plenty of space to get your meal prepared. There are fridges available to use, several sinks, a dedicated barbecue space just outside, and an oven which can be hired.
We didn’t utilised the space inside the actual house, but the ceremony room inside is also very beautiful with a feature, twisted fireplace that you can utilise for photos in the colder/wetter months.
The price is very reasonable compared to similar venues. You do have to use the bar at the venue and can’t BYO, but the bar is reasonably priced, fully stocked, and it saved us having to think about that side of things.
We utilised the outside space by having our ceremony, welcome drinks, afternoon tea, lawn games and photos outside from 11:00-16:30. There is lots to look at, little walks you can do around the lakes, duck spotting and by bringing our own games and setting them up in an area away from the marquee meant those that wanted a bit of competition could be kept separate from those that wanted to sit on a mat by the lake enjoying a drink and a mingle.
The venue provided a microphone for speeches and was happy to play the music playlists we provided throughout the day. There is the option of booking their DJ who was very accommodating and happy to change the music when it moved away from our taste!
It really was the perfect venue and I couldn’t recommend it more. Lovely people and setting.
Thank you!
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Dani Sent on 14/10/2016
5 out of 5 rating

The views are breathtaking!

What an Incredible venue. We absolutely love it!!!
The views are breathtaking and the staff couldn't do enough...
Everyone was so polite, friendly and helpful and made the day run smoothly. For every hiccup .... You found a solution.
Chris, Claire and your team, you really made our day so special, we can't thank you enough.
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Charlie Sent on 14/10/2016
5 out of 5 rating

The most amazing venue. Absolutely stunning.

The most amazing venue. Absolutely stunning. But it was the staff that made the day. Nothing was ever too much trouble. Everything thought of down to the very last detail. If you're thinking of booking this place don't think twice. Book it. You won't regret it for a minute.
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Monica Sent on 14/10/2016
5 out of 5 rating

Our Wedding day was full of love and joy!

Thank you so much Clare, Chris, and staff for all your help in making our wedding day so full of love and joy. I really appreciate all your help and patience - and most definitely the giggles! Would most definitely recommend you to friends, and thank you so much again!
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Jamie Sent on 14/10/2016
5 out of 5 rating

It was just incredible

We got married here on Saturday (9th July) and had the most perfect day The venue is stunning with space for people to roam the grounds and take amazing photos. The marquee is a fantastic size and is a complete blank canvas to make your day your own. The ceremony room is small and intimate so everyone feels closely involved in the special day. And finally the staff....wow! They went above and beyond to make the day run smoothly for everyone. Everything ran seamlessly and every hiccup sorted without any stress. Honestly, have your wedding here- it was just incredible.
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Andy Sent on 14/10/2016
5 out of 5 rating

Stunning hardly does it justice

We had our wedding at Milwards on 16th July, and we honestly cannot thank Claire and her lovely team enough for ensuring we had the most amazing, perfect wedding day possible. Even when we had a minor hiccup on the day with one of the suppliers, Claire and the team were calm and prepared to do whatever was needed to keep the day running smoothly.
As for the venue itself, stunning hardly does it justice. Our guests absolutely loved the beautiful ceremony room, marquee and huge grounds; and loved exploring by the lake and trees. We really couldn't have asked for better. Thank you so much for everything!
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Melissa Sent on 14/10/2016
5 out of 5 rating

A beautiful setting, extremely laid back

Massive thank you to Clare, her husband, Maria and all the staff at Milwards Estate. We chose Milwards as our wedding venue as it was a beautiful setting, extremely laid back and just what we had in mind for our special day.
All staff at Milwards were very attentive and on hand to help wherever required. Very thankful to Clare's husband for finding me a safety pin when needed and clare for trying to fix my shoes that unfortunately we're giving me some problems.
I would definitely recommend Milwards Estate to anyone.
We really did have an amazing day and you were a massive part in creating that.
Hope to stay in touch.
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26 Apr
Open Door

Wedding Fair / Open Day.

We would love the opportunity of sharing Milwards with you on Saturday 26th April from 2 pm - 6 pm.

Please let us know by email if you would like to attend to see how many we need to cater for.

Come and have a cup of tea by the lake and enjoy the ducks. Taste some of the food on offer from Epicatering or sample some of our house wines. Have a walk down our famous avenue of Poplar trees, a great photographic opportunity for brides and grooms.

Chat with a member of our team about your day. Enjoy the relaxed, peaceful, natural surroundings. We look forward to seeing you.

Date: From 26/04/2025 to 26/04/2025 Schedule 14:00 - 18:00
Place: The Milwards Estate, Lewes, East Sussex

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The Milwards Estate Bn8 6BN Lewes (East Sussex)
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