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About this venue

On Hitched.co.uk since 2024

Last update: September 2026

Great Ote Hall has been looked after by the Godman family since 1530. For over 20 years, mother and son team Carola and Matthew have been running the wedding & events venue, which is surrounded by their working farm.

For a special day, you need a special location. The impressive grounds and backdrop of Great Ote Hall provide many opportunities to capture the unforgettable memories of your wedding day.

If you are looking for a venue for your civil ceremony and wedding reception, then you will be amazed by the beauty, privacy and flexibility of the house and grounds nestled in the heart of the Sussex countryside. Your wedding reception will be an unforgettable experience for both you and your guests.

Marquee Wedding Reception Venue

Great Ote Hall offers you exclusivity, allowing you to choose your own caterers and suppliers to create your perfect event. Marquee wedding receptions can be held on our immaculately kept lawns within the beautiful gardens, and we are happy to assist you with designing your own bespoke package to meet all your needs and expectations.

At Great Ote Hall, we encourage our guests to use the venue for the full weekend for a fixed fee. Most of our couples choose to host a brunch on the Sunday.

Civil Ceremonies Venue

Great Ote Hall has its own wedding license and is the perfect venue for your civil ceremony. This impressive 16th-century manor house retains many original period features, including ornate fireplaces and a wooden panelled dining room.

Flexible and affordable pricing

We offer a range of all-inclusive wedding packages to suit every couple’s style and budget, and more affordable than you would imagine

Please contact our friendly and experienced team and event coordinators by phone or email.

Great Ote Hall is a gorgeous historic manor house and wedding venue in Haywards Heath, West Sussex.

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Frequently asked questions

Venue type:

In the country
Unusual weddings
Asian wedding
Stately home
Historic
Landmark
Marquees and tents
Woodland and festival
Church
Outdoor license
Tipis and yurts
Unique weddings

Ceremony options:

Chapel or temple on-site
Fire ceremony
Civil ceremony licence
Religious ceremony license

Dining options:

Seated meal facilities
Corkage option
Private catering allowed

Evening entertainment:

Marquee available
Dance floor
Entertainment licence
Live band facilities
Evening reception facilities
DJ facilities
Outdoor fireworks permitted

Overnight accommodation:

Overnight accommodation for wedding couple
Overnight accommodation for guests

Venue staff assistance:

Wedding coordinator

Venue leisure facilities:

Hairdresser
Swimming pool
Beautician

Other features:

Exclusive use
Accessible facilities
Car parking
Helipad
Confetti permitted
Changing room for wedding guests
Pet-friendly
Horse baraat permitted
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Reviews for Great Ote Hall

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Olivia Sent on 26/11/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Best wedding venue!!

We couldn't recommend Ote Hall Farm more highly. Beautiful venue, the owners were so kind and helpful, location is great, parking etc was spot on. We were given a really helpful booklet from the Owner with a list of all local suppliers. Our supplies all commented on how brilliant the location was for them to set up. We had the most incredible day, all our guests loved Ote Hall Farm as much as we did.
Rio
Rio Sent on 03/07/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Fantastic venue in beautiful setting

Great Ote Hall is a stunning venue where you can make your wedding exactly what you want it to be. You can marry inside the house or out on the lawn. You have the freedom to choose your own marquee, caterers, toilet hire, music etc. The owners and hosts are extremely kind and attentive, without being intrusive. They truly want you to have the day you want and to ensure it all goes smoothly. The cost was extremely reasonable. We were able to set up a couple of days beforehand and then slowly clear up the next day at our own pace. We had use of the upper guest flat for the duration and it was a beautiful place to get ready. Other venues we have been to for friends weddings are like a conveyor belt, as soon as your wedding is done, they are setting up for the next. Great Ote Hall is not that sort of venue. You are made to feel as if your wedding is the only one that has ever happened there. There is plenty of parking and camping available, very close to a train station and local amenities. We are so happy we chose Great Ote Hall and we are so grateful for Carola and her family for sharing her home with us!
Molly
Molly Sent on 18/06/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Thank you!

What an incredible venue! Carola and Matthew were amazing hosts—so accommodating, relaxed, and genuinely the easiest people to work with. They made the whole experience completely stress-free, and we can’t thank them enough for everything they did.

The grounds were absolutely stunning and provided the perfect setting for our wedding day. It was everything we hoped for and more. We will always cherish this special place and the wonderful memories we made there.

Molly & Sam
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Sue Sent on 17/05/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Fantastic venue

We had an amazing wedding day, the venue is an absolutely perfect setting, historic, romantic and beautiful. The grounds are delightful, Carola and Matthew are the perfect hosts, helping from the initial enquiry to being there over the course of the Wedding to assist and help with any query.
They have loads of helpful ideas and suggestions which enabled us to build our perfect and unique Wedding day.
Thank you so much to everyone at Great Ote Hall for giving us and our guests a truly memorable occasion
Jennifer
Jennifer Sent on 13/05/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful Venue

From the moment we visited Great Ote Hall we knew it was where we wanted to get married. The stunning historic building and beautiful grounds gave us the classic English country garden wedding we had always wanted, but because it is also a family home, it felt warm and welcoming rather than intimidating. We also loved that there was accommodation available for the wedding party both before and after the wedding, which made the whole experience feel even more special and relaxed.

The fact you could choose your own suppliers, meant we could be as as informal as we wanted. Carola and Matthew were so welcoming, and flexible for when the weather meant we couldn't get married outside as we'd planned. Luckily the sun came out soon after and our guests were able to enjoy the beautiful gardens.
Emma
Emma Sent on 13/05/2026
5 out of 5 rating

AMAZING! I want to do it all again!

Carola and Matthew were wonderful hosts - they make you feel like Great Ote Hall is your home too! We had the most amazing day and wish we could do it all over again and we cannot thank you enough for opening your home to us and our family and friends. The outdoor setting is absolutely beautiful and really allows for flexibility - you can really make it your own! We had our guests glamp overnight and it was so special - Great Ote Hall is one of very few venues in Sussex that allows for this whilst also providing such a gorgeous backdrop and affordable price!
Thank you, thank you, thank you!!
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Ryan Sent on 13/05/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Fantastic Venue

A Fantastic Venue and hospitality by Carola and Matthew.
From first contact we felt welcome in their home. Lots of great contacts given to us in their local area to make the planning and delivery of our day. We were able to use the venue the following day having further guests see us who couldn’t make the main day.
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Nicole Sent on 28/11/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Our wedding

To get married at Great Ote Hall is something is very special and unique, and I could not recommend it highly enough. From the moment we decided on the venue, everything was seamless from there on, and the day turned out to be even more beautiful than we expected. Our guests were blown away by the venue and our photo’s turned out perfectly.
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Meet the team

Carola Godman Irvine
Carola Godman Irvine
Wedding Planner

Carola has been hosting weddings & events at Great Ote Hall for over 20 years with her son Matthew. The House & Farm have been in her family since 1530.

When Carola isn't helping plan weddings she runs Ote Hall Farm. Before taking over the estate Carola worked for the late Dutchess of Kent.

Matthew Godman Law
Matthew Godman Law
Wedding Planner & Owner

Matthew runs the venue and farm with his mother Carola. They will both work with you and their extended team at Ote Hall to make your wedding the perfect celebration.

Matthew previously ran an events & nightclub business in London & Edinburgh and is getting amrried at Ote Hall in 2027.

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Great Ote Hall, Janes Lane, Wivelsfield, Sussex, RH15 0SR RH150SR Burgess Hill (West Sussex)
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