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On Hitched.co.uk since 2022

Last update: May 2025

Chilston Park is a luxury wedding venue in Lenham, Kent, that sports a rustic charm that is classic in the English countryside.

You and your loved ones will be surrounded by 77 acres of parkland, giving you plenty of room to create your dream day. There are a variety of indoor and outdoor event spaces to choose from to best match your event theme and vision.

Facilities and Capacity

First built in the 17th century, this manor house is rich with history, once being home to various lords, viscounts and politicians.

It has since been carefully restored and maintained for visitors to enjoy a relaxing weekend in the countryside. The grounds can host events of various sizes, from intimate gatherings to 250-person receptions. One of their main options is The Orangery, which features large windows and gives you and up to 100 guests a panoramic view of the countryside. Also available is the Coach House Suite, which can host ceremonies with up to 150 guests. Classic elegance is present throughout the space, from the detailed chandeliers and framed mirrors to the large, floor-to-ceiling windows. For outdoor gatherings, the romantic gazebo, rustic cobbled courtyard, and lush lawn areas can add a stunning backdrop to your altar or top table. In addition, the hotel features multiple bedrooms, with cosy furniture and modern amenities to make for a relaxing overnight stay.

Services Offered

As a dog-friendly venue, this hotel allows couples to incorporate their furry friends into their big day. You will have multiple packages to choose from, including the options for exclusive use of the hotel. The team at Chilston Park will work closely with you during your planning process, making sure that each detail exceeds your expectations.

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Frequently asked questions

Venue type:

In the country
Asian wedding
Stately home
Historic
Marquees and tents
Large hotel
Outdoor license
Tipis and yurts
Unique weddings

Ceremony options:

Fire ceremony
Civil ceremony licence
Religious ceremony license

Dining options:

Seated meal facilities
Corkage option
Alcohol licence
Buffet meal facilities
In-house catering

Evening entertainment:

Marquee available
Dance floor
Entertainment licence
Live band facilities
Evening reception facilities
DJ facilities
Outdoor fireworks permitted

Overnight accommodation:

Overnight accommodation for wedding couple
Overnight accommodation for guests

Venue staff assistance:

Master of ceremonies/toastmaster
Wedding coordinator

Venue leisure facilities:

Hairdresser

Other features:

Exclusive use
Accessible facilities
Car parking
Helipad
Confetti permitted
Changing room for wedding guests
Pet-friendly
Horse baraat permitted
Orangery on site
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Reviews for Chilston Park

Cat
Cat Sent on 03/04/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Our NYE dream

It’s taken me a while to write this review because it’s hard to put into words how magical my experience with Chilston Park has been. We originally came to Chilston on a whim knowing they had a wedding fair on. The drive up to the hotel is stunning, we were then greeted by Jane, the loveliest and most helpful bundle of joy, Jane became our wedding co ordinator and held my hand every step of the way, we went to every wedding fair from booking last February until our wedding day New Year’s Eve just gone and every time the staff made us feel like family that was visiting. On our day, unfortunately, Jane couldn’t be there but I knew the whole wedding team by then and had no worries that the day would go swimmingly with the amazing Ella, nothing was too much, nothing was answered with no and potential issues were resolved by the time I heard about them. Ella went above and beyond to ensure our day was flawless. Matt, another wonderful human who made it his business to make sure all guests were fed and watered, completed tasks that arose with the biggest smile and again nothing was too much to ask. Multiple guests commented on the efficiency of the staff and great attitudes. We have since been to a sister hotel of Chilston and it really goes to show that everyone can have the same training but the staff truly make a hotel, Chilston is second to none. The venue speaks for itself but these words are for the team because everyone bounced into work, got excited to see us and made us feel like royalty. Paul is clearly a great manager to his team, an absolute asset to Handpicked hotels and a lovely smiley face who even came in on his day off and wished us well. If you’re reading this and looking for a venue, book it, you won’t regret it! We had exclusive use which was great value for money for what it included. The best experience, the best team and the most beautiful venue x
Georgia
Georgia Sent on 03/04/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Mr & Mrs Yeoman


Olly and I just wanted to extend our thanks to everyone at Chilton Park for making our wedding on Friday 7th of March 2025 it was so incredible.


Sophie was the first person we spoke to and she made the booking process seamless. She was so helpful in ensuring everything was arranged before her holiday and we are incredibly grateful for her.

The day before the wedding, I had the pleasure of meeting Ella and Ellie, who went above and beyond to assist us. They were both attending our wedding and were genuinely amazing. Ella made our day so special—she took care of everything from cutting the cake to moving things around, so we didn’t have to worry about a thing. She was truly outstanding. Ellie, working behind the bar, was equally fantastic, always with a smile on her face and everyone absolutely adored her.

We can’t thank them enough for making our day unforgettable. Even the morning after the wedding, when we came down for breakfast, Ella was there to greet us with a big smile and get everything ready for us.

Olly and I are already looking forward to returning to Chilton Park when our little one arrives. What a wonderful way to start March!

Thank you again to everyone at Chilton Park, and we hope to see you all again soon.

Best wishes,

The Yeomans!
Debbie
Debbie Sent on 09/07/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Chilston made our wedding the perfect day

We got married at Chilston Park Hotel in June 2025. We looked at various options in and around the Maidstone/Kent area, but decided on Chilston almost as soon as we had visited for the first time. The house is in a beautiful setting, outside a small village, nestled in the Kent country side, with lovely view over the ornamental lake to the North Downs. It is approached from a road, meaning it is set on it's own, in parkland, making an ideal, secluded venue. The house and grounds are simply wonderful, with plentiful space both inside and out.



From the outset, all of the team were really friendly and helpful. We were really fortunate to have Sophie as our wedding co-ordinator; she was absolutley amazing, always on-hand to help and support us through the process. Her advice around what may or may not work in the early planning stages was invaluable. She co-ordinated everything, from ensuring our friends and family had the rooms we had allocated to them, to going above and beyond; We had ordered a cheese wedding cake, which hadn't been delivered, Sophie went off-site to buy us some lovely replacement cheese to ensure we had cheese!



The staff on the day were incredible, having run through the day previously with Sophie, the team ensured everything ran perfectly. The food was incredible, all our guests enjoyed it, one of whom is super fussy, said it was the best food they had had in months. The only challenge, was deciding which dishes to choose for the day.



At no time did we ever feel we were one of many weddings in the Chilston calendar, every interaction was personal, and tailored to us. We cannot recommend the team and venue highly enough, the whole team, and Sophie especially, made the whole day very, very special.
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Ellie Sent on 30/05/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Our dream day

We got married in May 2025 and could not recommend Chilston more. We opted for the exclusive use package which was truly great value for money. So much more was included compared to other venues and it meant we didn’t need to find our own suppliers. The staff could not be friendlier or more accommodating which meant that everything on the day just ran so smoothly and professionally. All of our guests commented on how beautiful the venue is. You can decorate it how you please but the character of the buildings means not much is needed at all. The food was delicious and one of the highlights!
K
Kirsty Sent on 06/04/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A truly wonderful day

We couldn't have asked for more with our wedding at Chilston Park. From the initial booking to the details meeting and then finally the wedding day, everything was pretty much seamless. The wedding day itself went like clockwork and the staff worked so hard to make sure that everything was in place and everyone was in the right place at the right time! All of our guests loved the setting, the food and thought the staff were wonderful. We had a truly wonderful wedding day and that was thanks to the team at Chilston Park/
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R&W Sent on 03/04/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Kent’s best wedding venue without doubt!

We viewed lots of potential wedding venues but from the moment we arrived at Chilston Park we just knew it was the place we wanted to hold our wedding. Chloe Rees guided us through the different room options of where we could hold our wedding ceremony as well as have our reception, no question went unanswered and the hotel was very accommodating in helping us deliver our two day dream wedding. Chloe, Paul The Manager and all the staff were fantastic from the start and on the wedding day. Chef, Ali delivered exquisite food for us and our guests, with friends and family still praising it months after. We have been back a few times for afternoon tea and evening meals with all the staff greeting us with such warmth. We have no hesitation in recommending the Chilston Park wedding team and this stunning country setting.
H
Hannah Sent on 05/05/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A wonderful wedding experience

We were so pleased to have had our wedding at Chilston. As soon as we saw the venue, it felt right for us. Its a beautiful venue inside and out. The staff are all excellently trained. From the reception staff, through to the waiting team, through to our wedding coordinator - everyone we met was excellent. We got married off site at a church and were delayed getting back to start our reception at Chilston, but the team were so flexible and made it seem no bother at all. We had such a wonderful day and are looking at being able to go back and stay and Chilston for our anniversary!
Ellis
Ellis Sent on 12/09/2024
5 out of 5 rating

All around perfection!

We got married at Chilston Park in August, and it was nothing short of perfection. We opted for the exclusive use package, which catered to every need. Most of our guest list were international guests, and being able to host everyone comfortably under one roof for the full weekend was incredible. From the food to the helpful staff and gorgeous grounds, I highly recommend choosing Chilston Park for your wedding if you are looking for English elegance. Thank you to the full team who made our dream wedding weekend possible! Big shout out to Sophie for helping us plan for over a year and a half!
Nicola
Nicola Sent on 07/06/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Our perfect little day!

We honestly couldn't have wished for any more.
The professionalism and attention to detail was immaculate.
Even though we were a small wedding we were never made to feel less than anyone else.
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Emily Sent on 29/05/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Our Wedding Experience

We have just had our special day, and all I can say is from the moment we looked around to the day after the wedding we was well looked after, we had a designated person to speak about our wedding and all our needs were met with no questions asked. The venue and the grounds are stunning, the bedrooms are beautiful and our day was so perfect, I couldn’t fault anything. I just wish we could do it all over again. I would highly recommend Chilston Park as a wedding venue.
S
Sadie Sent on 21/01/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Best day of our lives

If you are considering Chilston Park Hotel for your wedding venue let me put your mind at ease.

We got married in Chilston park hotel on the 14th January 2024 and it was the best day of our lives. All our guests are still messaging and calling us telling us what a fantastic time they had, how beautiful the ceremony and the venue are, how through the day they were never hungry and that the food really was amazing.

Although the venue may be second to none it was the staff for me who really make this venue special, the attention to detail is exceptional. From the moment we attended the venue for an open day Jane our event organiser was amazing, Jane always made time to speak to us and communication was always very prompt and very accommodating where she could be. Jane really made the whole process very easy and stress free even with only having a year to plan it all.

On the day of the wedding the team at the venue were nothing short of exceptional. Matt was our point of contact on the day I approached Matt early that morning with a few tasks and like a mind reader had assured me everything had already been taken care of. The day ran faultlessly, it became clear from the beginning of the day that the staff have it down to a fine art which allowed us to just enjoy the day.

I cannot commend or recommend this venue highly enough, thank you again to Jane and Matt and all the staff at Chilston Park Hotel for the day of our lives.
J
Jake Sent on 03/09/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding of our dreams

Chilston Park is such an incredible venue. Not only because of how it looks but also how attentive the staff are. We have been planning our wedding for years and the staff have been so helpful along the way. We took as many opportunities as we could to visit Chilston Park by attending the majority of the wedding open days which we were always welcomed to.

Jane was our wedding coordinator and she has been amazing. She was always quick to reply to emails or answer any questions, and there were a lot. Every little detail was gone other with a fine tooth comb to make sure that everything was as we wished.

When it came to the wedding day, the staff surpassed our high expectations. There were so many small but thoughtful gestures which just made us feel so special. Lewis was our wedding day coordinator and he was incredible. He made sure that the day ran exactly as it should have and made sure we had everything we needed.

The staff are a true testament to Chilston Park and we wouldn’t have gotten married anywhere else. We won’t be able to be strangers and will be returning as much as we possibly can.
L
Laura Sent on 23/11/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Chilston Park Hotel Lenham - Wedding.

Excellent service, made our wedding day a really special memory. Beautiful food, always willing to help us with advice and effort throughout our day. Would recommend for no fuss professional and enjoyable day.
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Penny Sent on 24/07/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Attentive and flexible

I just wanted to say a huge thank you for all that you had done to help this wedding come to life. And the team who were absolutely brilliant from when we arrived Thursday night to the day itself, on Friday, they were all so attentive, and nothing seemed too much to ask. Special thanks to Matt and Lewis, who made sure everything ran so smoothly!

Flexible
The weather wasn’t looking great and I’m sure if I was anywhere else they would have pushed for me to go with my wet weather option, however Paul knew how much I wanted to get married outside and made sure this happened…as soon as it stopped raining it was all hands on deck to put the chairs just minutes before the ceremony and providing everyone with umbrellas! It really was the picture-perfect wedding I had imagined.

Thank you.
Charlotte
Charlotte Sent on 29/03/2023
4.8 out of 5 rating

Thank you!

My Husband and I got married on the 25th March 2023 and we had the best day of our lives. We booked the coach house and it was stunning. The set up was perfect, the staff were amazing. The food was divine and everything went so smoothly. We booked with them in September 2021 and initially had Peter who then moved onto another employer but we weren't told and so when we contacted Chilston we were handed over to Tara and although we had a few hiccups with communication initially because she is a busy lady! She was absolutely fantastic. So kind and attentive, very thorough and she helped make our day just perfect. Thank you to all the staff, Chefs, wait staff, cleaners, function managers etc you were all amazing. We could not have dreamed for a better day.
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20 Jul
Open Door

Free entry and no tickets required. You can pre-register in order to book your arrival timeslot or simply come along on the day.

This is your opportunity to see first hand their magical wedding venue as it would be on your wedding day! Come along and try a selection of food & wine samples as well as meeting all of their experienced Wedding Team who will help create your perfect day.

Date: From 20/07/2025 to 20/07/2025 Schedule 13:00 - 16:00
Place: Chilston Park Hotel, Lenham, Kent
28 Sep
Open Door

Free entry and no tickets required. You can pre-register in order to book your arrival timeslot or simply come along on the day.

This is your opportunity to see first hand their magical wedding venue as it would be on your wedding day! Come along and try a selection of food & wine samples as well as meeting all of their experienced Wedding Team who will help create your perfect day.

Date: From 28/09/2025 to 28/09/2025 Schedule 13:00 - 16:00
Place: Chilston Park Hotel, Lenham, Kent
30 Nov
Open Door

Free entry and no tickets required. You can pre-register in order to book your arrival timeslot or simply come along on the day.

This is your opportunity to see first hand their magical wedding venue as it would be on your wedding day! Come along and try a selection of food & wine samples as well as meeting all of their experienced Wedding Team who will help create your perfect day.

Date: From 30/11/2025 to 30/11/2025 Schedule 13:00 - 16:00
Place: Chilston Park Hotel, Lenham, Kent

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