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On Hitched.co.uk since 2021

Last update: March 2024

Situated in Pulborough in the West Sussex region of England, Bury Manor Barn is a barn venue that hosts weddings and special events. Set on the grounds of Dorset House School, this stunning barn dates back to Tudor times. Surrounded by acres of stunning scenery, this venue is perfect for events in every season.

Facilities and Capacity

The Bury Manor Barn offers a range of stunning spaces for couples to use as a backdrop to their special day. Couples exchanging their vows in the summer can make use of the amphitheatre, which provides spectacular views of the river and castle. The walled garden offers a remarkable setting for one-of-a-kind wedding photos and a serene space for walks through the blossoming shade. The woodland area also provides a splendid choice for pictures. The barn itself offers a remarkable setting for receptions. It split into two rooms to create a flawless flow throughout the events. The inner barn offers an elegant space for ceremonies, accommodating up to 120 people. Guests can then move into the outer barn, which can host up to 140 for banquets, before returning to the inner area for the dancing portion of the evening. This barn has a historical church within walking distance, offering easy access for those who wish to have a church wedding. Humanist, civil, and celebrant-led ceremonies can also be conducted on-site.

Services Offered

The Bury Manor Barn offers a range of services to ensure that newlyweds-to-be can enjoy the day of their dreams. With seated and buffet facilities available, this team welcomes outside catering companies from their list of preferred vendors. They offer the services of a dedicated event coordinator to help you through the planning process. For the dance portion of your reception, this venue offers facilities for both live bands and DJs and can also provide couples with the use of a dance floor. As there are no accommodations available at this barn, the team can recommend a list of hotels and guesthouses for guests to enjoy. Couples who choose to celebrate their day here can enjoy exclusive use of this venue.

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Frequently asked questions

Venue type:

In the country
Unusual weddings
Historic
Marquees and tents
Church
Barn
Outdoor license
Unique weddings

Ceremony options:

Chapel or temple on-site
Civil ceremony licence

Dining options:

Seated meal facilities
Corkage option
Private catering allowed
Alcohol licence
Buffet meal facilities

Evening entertainment:

Dance floor
Entertainment licence
Live band facilities
Evening reception facilities
DJ facilities

Venue staff assistance:

Wedding coordinator

Other features:

Exclusive use
Accessible facilities
Car parking
Helipad
Confetti permitted
Pet-friendly
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Reviews for Bury Manor Barn

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A&J Sent on 13/10/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Thank you BMB for making our dreams come true!

We got married here on 5th August and it was PERFECT! From the initial look around with Julie and the in depth chats with Gemma throughout our engagement, we were put at ease, made to feel very looked after and made the whole process great fun and stress free. The venue is stunning and we have had so many compliments about it. Gemma provided so much support and insight about the decorations and she made the place look incredible. On the day we had all weather - sun, rain and thunderstorms...BMBs layout meant that the ceremony and tables could all be set up without having to usher guests outside which became really valuable to us with the forecast. The band could set up whilst we were having food so again no awkward 'get out whilst we take the tables down' etc. The grounds are stunning with lots of space for beautiful photos. Honestly so glad we picked BMB, such fond memories and amazing price for the amount of space you have - competitive with other venues around the area that were much smaller and only had one room for ceremony/food/dancing combined. Thank you BMB for making our dreams come true!
Sarah
Sarah Sent on 02/01/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect for winter wedding

Bury Manor Barn was just the perfect location for our winter wedding. The staff were so accommodating and helpful! We had both blessing and reception at the Barn. Suppliers recommended by Bury Manor were also excellent!
Molly
Molly Sent on 05/11/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The best day!

We fell in love with Bury Manor Barn from the minute we viewed it. Our wedding was seamless and totally stress free thanks to all the team at BMB.

Gemma was an absolute star , we couldn’t have done it without her. She was so approachable and nothing was ever too much to ask.

Our guests loved the venue and views looking across the South Downs. We cannot recommend BMB enough!
Hannah
Hannah Sent on 30/10/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The perfect Sussex venue

From arranging our first viewing, to fantastic on-the-day support, Julie and the Bury Manor Barn team have been sensational.

The venue itself is beautiful and yet very functional too, with all the space you need to have an amazing wedding day.

We were particularly drawn to BMB due to St John’s church being practically on-site, as we wanted a church wedding but the options for civil ceremonies are equally stunning.

So many of our guests commented on how great the venue was and it really made our day so special.

Our on-the-day coordinator, Sarah, was excellent and went above and beyond to smooth out any minor hiccups or decisions that needed to be made when me and my husband couldn’t be there ourselves (e.g the location of our drink reception was weather dependent)

We cannot thank the team enough for all their hard work and support, you made our wedding day the best day of our lives. 5 stars doesn’t seem high enough!
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Rianna Sent on 25/09/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful barn venue with stunning surroundings

We couldn't be happier choosing Bury Manor Barn for our wedding venue. As soon as we had looked around, and walked outside to see 'that' view we knew it was perfect. The venue is stunning, and the Tudor Barn gives so much charm in its surroundings and we barely had any decorations as it was so beautiful as it was. The backdrop and views outside are the best settings for photos and we were so pleased the weather was on our side so the guests could enjoy it. Our guests could not stop commenting on how beautiful it was! From the beginning Julie and the team were amazing with communicating with us and ensuring we had all the information and support we needed in the planning process and made it so stress free. Gemma and Sarah were our day and evening coordinators and thank goodness they were as the day would not have been as amazing without them. They managed everything, and we didn't need to worry about a thing! Any issues were resolved without us even being aware and they were just worth their weight in gold.

We highly recommend Bury Manor Barn, for anyone looking for a beautiful barn venue in a stunning countryside setting with a fantastic team!
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Katie Sent on 02/09/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing wedding venue

We hired Bury Manor Barn for our wedding and had the most amazing day. Julie, Gemma and Sarah are all amazing and nothing was too much.

The venue is flexible and allows you to bring your own alcohol for the day with no corkage which saved us tons!

We had a bit of rain for part of the day so having the covered terrace was ideal and still meant we could take advantage of the amazing views.

Would highly recommend to anyone looking to book their wedding or event.
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Jenny Sent on 15/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Michaela and Rich

Lovely staff on the day making sure everything went smoothly
Courteous and polite servers
Beautiful service gorgeous grounds
Would recommend
Izzy
Izzy Sent on 01/07/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Couldn't have asked for more!

We celebrated our wedding at Bury Manor Barn on the 1st June 2024, and it was the most incredible day! All of our guests raved about how wonderful the venue was and could not get over the views across the river!

The grounds were beautiful, and the two sections of the barn make is so convenient for the party, as you don't have to wait for any of the rooms to be turned around between different parts of the day.

I honestly couldn't recommend this venue more, having the opportunity to come in the day before was also fantastic, as it meant we could do all the decoration and set up ourselves, which turned out to be a really fun part of the wedding prep, with our families there to help us.

On the day, everything went exactly as planned, and the co-ordinators at the venue were there to help with anything we needed! Nothing was too much to ask! They were also a massive help with the clear up the next day!
Becci
Becci Sent on 28/06/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The most magical venue

Bury Manor Barn is the most magical venue. Brilliant views of the south downs, on the river, 12th century buildings. The event staff are super helpful and accommodating. It is a school during the week, so there is only one wedding per weekend so they aren't in the habit of 'churning' out weddings. There is literally everything you could want at this venue, come rain or shine. Couldn't recommend it highly enough.
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Jennifer Sent on 16/05/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The perfect day

We had the best wedding at Bury Manor Barn. The communication during the booking process and in the run up was excellent (and they let us visit numerous times), the time available for set up/take down and the actual day itself all ran perfectly.

The location itself is beautiful, with so many options for locations for different parts of the day and the perfect backdrop for wedding photographs. We would not have wanted to hold our wedding anywhere else. Thank you to Julie and the team!
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Dale Sent on 07/05/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Unforgettable Memories: Our Perfect Wedding Day at Bury Manor Barn

We celebrated our wedding at the wonderful Bury Manor Barn in March 2024, and we cannot express enough how delighted we were with our experience. From start to finish, the entire day was magical, and we owe a huge thanks to the incredible team at Bury Manor Barn.

Firstly, the setting of Bury Manor Barn is simply stunning and is the main reason that we chose the venue. Nestled in the South Down, the setting and charm of the barn provided the perfect backdrop for our special day. The gardens and picturesque view made for amazing photo opportunities, capturing unforgettable moments that we will treasure forever.

The staff were outstanding. They were not only professional but also genuinely warm and accommodating. Right from our initial enquiry through to the day of our wedding, they were always attentive and helpful, ensuring that every detail was taken care of. Special thanks to Julie, Gemma, and Sarah, who made sure everything ran smoothly.

The facilities at Bury Manor Barn were perfect. We had our ceremony at St John the Evangelist Church which is a short walk to the covered terrace where we had our Drinks Reception. The barn itself is tastefully decorated, blending rustic charm with modern amenities. The variety of spaces available at Bury Manor Barn allow you to curate your day and offer options that suit the weather and time of year. We had a typical spring day with rain, hailstones, and sunshine!

What truly sets Bury Manor Barn apart is the personal touch they bring to each event. They made us feel like our wedding was the only one they were focused on, accommodating our requests, and offering valuable suggestions along the way. They were flexible and understanding, making the entire planning process stress-free and enjoyable. The team worked seamlessly with our vendors to bring our vision to life.

Our wedding day was everything we had planned for and more. We have received countless compliments from our guests on the venue and the overall experience. If you are looking for a beautiful, romantic, and well-managed venue for your special day, we cannot recommend Bury Manor Barn highly enough. It truly exceeded our expectations, and we are grateful to have had our wedding celebrations at such a beautiful venue.

Thank you once again to everyone at Bury Manor Barn for making our wedding day unforgettable. We will cherish the memories made here for the rest of our lives and love that we can visit again with walks along the river and services at the church.
Jacqueline
Jacqueline Sent on 08/01/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Stunning venue, great team of suppliers that really care

So flexible, and a very personal yet professional service, stunning venue. Highly recommended. Love working here with other likeminded suppliers!
Emma
Emma Sent on 29/12/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Bury Manor Barn - May 2023

We had such an amazing wedding day at Bury Manor Barn in May 2023! We wanted a DIY-style venue and it really delivered. The two inter-connecting barns meant separate spaces for ceremony and dinner, which is really hard to find with a barn venue. The beautiful white brick walls and beams provided the perfect backdrop for our styling and photos, with a soft warm light filtering through the barns. Despite the abnormally heavy rain, Bury had excellent ‘Plan B’ options (also hard to find elsewhere) with a large covered outdoor area which meant that we were still able to host our reception drinks outside and enjoy the incredible views over the South Downs and the River Arun! The grounds are gorgeous and there are so many different spaces which can be used throughout the day. Many guests commented on the beauty of the venue and the setting. Julie, Gemma and the team are all so friendly, calm, communicative and efficient! Nothing was too much trouble (in the lead-up or on the day) and it was a really personal service. We would highly recommend Bury Manor Barn! Thank you so much!
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Caroline Sent on 24/12/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Trustworthy and friendly

We are caterers that often work at Bury Manor Barn. The team are an absolute pleasure to work with and we would highly recommend this venue to couples who are looking for a somewhere they can trust and can be flexible with all weather options. Caroline
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Maddy Sent on 04/12/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding at Bury Manor Barn

Bury Manor Barn is absolutely beautiful - from the moment we saw the views from the lawn we knew it was the venue for us! The team at the Barn do such a good job making it feel personal and special from day one.

Julie was so patient in walking us through all the planning. Her guidance was hugely appreciated and made the entire planning process seem straight forward and simple!

Our on the day team, Gemma and Sarah, were fantastic and a joy to have on hand. They made the day run like clockwork, while we were able to relax and enjoy ourselves! 

Every guest we spoke to on the day absolutely raved about the venue and venue management and we have had such wonderful feedback following the wedding!
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22 Feb
Open Door

Explore our unique wedding venue with three beautiful ceremony locations: the outdoor Amphitheatre, the Tudor barn, or the church next door, accessed via a private gate on our terrace.

Our team will be delighted to guide you through the stunning barn and gardens while discussing your wedding vision. Enjoy live music, sip on a glass of fizz, and meet our fantastic suppliers for inspiration and ideas!

Date: From 22/02/2025 to 22/02/2025 Schedule 11:30 - 15:30
Place: Bury, Pulborough, West Sussex

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Bury RH20 1PB Pulborough (West Sussex)
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