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On Hitched.co.uk since 2022

Last update: May 2025

Nestled at the bottom of the South Lakes lies Abbey House Hotel and Gardens, a luxury wedding venue near Barrow In Furness, Cumbria. This lovingly restored historic property is just a short drive from the heart of the stunning English Lake District. Surrounded by 14 acres of beautiful grounds, this elite four-star establishment is a must for an upscale country wedding.

Facilities and Capacity

Six-time winner of the best wedding venue in Cumbria, Abbey House Hotel and Gardens is awash with exquisite event rooms that can handle every stage of your big day. You can start the day in one of three elegant Bridal Suites before making your way to the ceremony location. The choice remains yours whether your union should take place outdoors in our stunning new for Spring 2025 Wedding Garden, one of the unique wedding suites, or perhaps in a local church. Alternatively, you can exchange your vows in the 12th-century Furness Abbey ruins, situated at the end of the hotel grounds in the Vale of Nightshade. The Great Hall and the Cavendish Suite are our main function suites, with the newly refurbished Cavendish Suite having an increased capapcity for up to 250 people

Services Offered

The Abbey House Hotel and Gardens wedding service team are highly experienced and willing to do their utmost to ensure your event is a timeless, memorable affair. Nothing is out of the question as they work to execute your vision. Dedicated wedding coordinators will also be on hand to offer advice and inspiration as they oversee every considered detail of your chosen wedding package. These comprise late availability offerings, a winter wonderland edition, and a premium package for a minimum of 80 guests. Alongside exclusive venue hire, packages can include private menu tastings, a stay in the luxurious honeymoon suite, seasonal cuisine, an in-house venue stylist and more.

Frequently asked questions

Venue type:

In the country
Historic
Large hotel
Outdoor license

Ceremony options:

Civil ceremony licence

Dining options:

Seated meal facilities
Corkage option
Alcohol licence
Buffet meal facilities
In-house catering

Evening entertainment:

Marquee available
Dance floor
Entertainment licence
Live band facilities
Evening reception facilities
DJ facilities

Overnight accommodation:

Overnight accommodation for wedding couple
Overnight accommodation for guests

Venue staff assistance:

Master of ceremonies/toastmaster
Wedding coordinator

Venue leisure facilities:

Beautician

Other features:

Exclusive use
Accessible facilities
Car parking
Confetti permitted
Changing room for wedding guests
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Reviews for Abbey House Hotel and Gardens

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Alex Sent on 22/09/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Had the best day of our lives at the most amazing place

September 2024
We just recently had our wedding at abbey house and it was FANTASTIC!
The staff could not do enough to help us, nothing was ever too much they really looked after us flawlessly from start to finish. The food was amazing with lots to chooce from. We stayed in the priness suite which was out of this world, with great views of the beautiful gardens and grounds. We will definitely be going back every year for our anniversary. 10/10
Michael
Michael Sent on 17/12/2024
5 out of 5 rating

AHH - Wedding of Mr & Mrs Holmes

Abbey House Hotel hosted our wedding back in August with the build up to the event stress free with complete ownership, leaving nothing to chance. What an events team, no problem too small, a real asset in Laura, Lauren and Rob, highly recommended!
We cannot forget the bar team who look after us for the whole weekend, with a specific mention for Michael, assisted at every stage, with several friends and family needs to address.
The while process of wedding organisation was seamless with a clear set of options, all built from a discussion around our likes, all made perfect by the events team. Thank you for the memories and assisting our special day!
Michael & Amanda
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Bethany Sent on 02/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Just unbelievably amazing!

Firstly, a HUGE thank you to all three of you. Lauren and Laura, you were both unbelievably fantastic in the planning process, planning a wedding throws so many obstacles in your way that you absolutely do not anticipate when you book your special day. However, Michael and I were extremely fortunate to have such supportive and caring people at the other end of the phone if we needed it in yourselves.

We’ve said right from the beginning of the process that the one thing we got “right” was our venue at Abbey House and when the day finally came around our thoughts on this were cemented! From start to finish, it felt flawless! Nothing at all was too much to ask or to handle and we really felt like we could relax because you guys were taking care of everything to the highest of standards!

Our guests have complimented the venue so much since the day, they’ve commented on the beautiful building and surroundings, the amazing food, the friendly and approachable service and how everything felt so seamless.

In our opinion you guys are the best in the business and it’s absolutely clear that the three of you love your jobs and you do absolutely everything you can to ensure your bride and grooms have the day of their dreams.

A shout out to Michael, the manager at Oscar’s too - we’ve enjoyed the food at Oscar’s regularly since we booked our wedding and the service and food there has always been exceptional. We truly appreciated the touch of chateaubriand (prior arrangement) for the night after the wedding, cooked to perfection as always!

Thank you all so much again,
You all felt like friends throughout the whole process and we had the best day of our lives.

We’ll see you next year for our one year anniversary night stay!
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Natalie Sent on 22/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The most perfect day!

We had the most amazing wedding at Abbey House on Sunday 18th August. I could not thank the wedding team enough, especially Lauren who was like a breath of fresh air from the beginning to end. I really feel like the day would not of been possible without all her and the teams hard work. Lauren answered all my questions quickly and nothing was to much trouble. On the big day Rob and Lauren made myself and Daniel feel so at ease so we were just able to enjoy our day. The staff at Abbey House were first class, everyone was friendly and welcoming. The whole day was absolutely perfect and Lauren really is the best in the business, we will be forever grateful to her for making our big day come together!
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Kathryn Sent on 12/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing! Can't recommend enough

We had the most perfect wedding at Abbey House Hotel. Laura and Lauren the wedding coordinators were just amazing. Nothing was too much trouble and they made our woodland wedding dreams a reality.
The attention to detail was just phenomenal from the decor to the food and the overall service that we and our guests received. They really did think of everything and even helped us arrange a pre-wedding celebration meal the evening before the wedding for our family and friends that had travelled up and gave us our own private dining experience.
All the staff at Abbey House went above and beyond to make us feel welcome and even let us plant a sausage in the gardens in the hope of good weather for our wedding (it worked).
The food was amazing and it was such a nice touch to be able to offer our guests a variety of dishes for our wedding breakfast rather than a set meal.
The other wedding suppliers that the coordinators recommended was so helpful as well when planning a wedding in an area not local to us.
The grounds are beautiful (hence why we wanted an outdoor wedding) and just a short stroll takes you to the Abbey ruins.
The rooms are next level in terms of decor and cleanliness and the honeymoon suites are just incredible.
We will 100% return for our 1 year wedding anniversary, if not before.
Abbey House is so reasonably priced whether you're going for a short stay or thinking of booking your wedding or special occasion with them and we cannot praise the staff, building and grounds and location enough. Thank you for giving us the most incredible wedding and making our family and friends stay so fabulous!
Beth
Beth Sent on 29/05/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing, fantastic

Crayston wedding
A massive thank you to Lauren, Laura & Rob & the rest of the Abbey House team! Me & my husband got married here on the 23/05/2024.
From the planning stages to the wedding day itself you guys have been fantastic! Always happy to help & go above an beyond to make sure everything was running smoothly.
The day was amazing from start to finish. The food was fantastic & the rooms were lovely!
We had the best time and that’s all down to these guys!
We really appreciate what you did to make our day so special. We can’t thank you enough, you are all brilliant!
We will be back soon ❤️
Sarah
Sarah Sent on 22/05/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Dunn Wedding

Laura, Lauren,Rob & the whole team at Abbey House !

Words can not describe how perfect our wedding day was 💞 it was unbelievable!
Right from coming to view the hotel to our special day the service you have delivered has been outstanding.
Absolutely everyone commented on the stunning hotel, the amazing food, outstanding service and the perfection you carried out throughout the day.
You listened to our requests and the attention to detail was just unreal, we would recommend anyone considering this place to book!
We couldn’t have wished for a better day 💞
Laura our wedding planner was just amazing, nothing was to much trouble, the wedding team were just incredible and was there with us to make sure our day went without any issues.
Thank you so much for making our dream wedding become a reality, we will never forget our perfect day and have memories to last a lifetime, Abbey House will always have a special place in our hearts, we will be back to celebrate our first anniversary 💞

Thank you so much for everything

Mr & Mrs Dunn (18th May 2024)
Laura
Laura Sent on 08/05/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Best wedding venue in the north west

We had the perfect white wedding. All the staff and I literally mean all the staff absolutely took care of us all. From bridal suites to honeymoon suites we were indulged nothing was too much at all they really made our dreams come true and we want to thank you from the bottom of our hearts xx
Heather
Heather Sent on 09/04/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Our Special Day.

From start to finish, the staff at Abbey House were attentive, professional and responsive to our requirements. There was regular contact, and catch ups, and when it came to the day itself, everything went like clockwork - the Events Manager, Rob, was on hand to calm any last minute nerves, and to make sure that everyone was in the right place at the right time. The room for the ceremony, the Great Hall, was beautifully laid out, and the change from ceremonial space to dining room, was done as if by magic. The hotel, and grounds, are, to say the least, magnificent, and both inside and outside, are perfect for photographs or al-fresco dining, should the weather permit. All-in-all, the idea place for a wedding.
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Nic Sent on 08/04/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect wedding

We wanted a small but special day, and the incredible team at Abbey House gave us the dream! Value for money, and the ability to customise everything to our specifications. We were given lots of excellent advice when it came to planning, and on the day they had everything under control.
Rachel
Rachel Sent on 10/04/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely amazing!

With giving ourselves only 6 months to plan a wedding we knew available dates would be minimal. However, as always Abbey House didn't disappoint. From getting our dream wedding booked to it happening 6 months later it couldn't have been smoother sailing!
The wedding team are amazing and kept us on track over the months of what we needed to organise and when. We wanted very minimal decor with it being Christmas and the amazing decorations at abbey house already being up and the team listened and delivered!
It was also our son's birthday and the team helped set up an amazing kids corner to help him relax and celebrate his birthday.
On the day I couldn't have been a more chilled out Bride knowing I was in safe hands.
The waiting on staff, bar staff and general staff around during the day couldn't have made the day anymore perfect for ourselves and our guests, they went the extra mile and allowed us to embrace the outdoor Christmas decorations during a last minute planning of sparkler photos.
The housekeeping staff also helped family members leave some memorable decor and gifts in our room as a lovely surprise 🩷
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Paul Sent on 08/04/2024
5 out of 5 rating

First class service and venue

This venue provides is an amazing place to get married from the magnificent building to the vast gardens, all superbly decorated. The staff are first class and nothing was too much from the initial meeting to the days after the wedding.

You will not be disappointed choosing The Abbey House Hotel for your wedding venue, we whole heartedly recommend it
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Rebecca Sent on 23/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Our Winter Wedding 🤍

From meeting Lauren at the Lake District Wedding show to having our first breakfast as a married couple, the whole process was just incredible & faultless.

I had a list of places that I dreamt of getting married, but after visiting Abbey House, we completely fell in love. The food, the rooms, the staff, the grounds & the whole feel of the place really took us by surprise. Every excuse to visit the venue on the lead up to the wedding we took & by the time the day came, we felt at home.

Lauren, Laura & Rob, along with all of the other staff that we met & that contributed to our big day, we honestly can’t thank enough. Nothing was too much to ask & they made everything so easy. We had the best day & I really wish we could experience it all over again.

To be completely honest, Lauren was our biggest reason for booking this place & we will be forever grateful for everything she did 🤍
Claire
Claire Sent on 09/04/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing wedding at Abbey House Hotel

We got married at Abbey House Hotel and Gardens in October 2023 and could not have asked for a better day.

We chose Abbey House after attending a wedding open day in Autumn 2022 and being very impressed with the room set-up and wedding coordinators Laura and Lauren.

We then booked our wedding and Laura and Lauren were always on hand to guide us through every step of the process. They took time to get to know us as a couple and had a real understanding of what we wanted from our wedding day.

As Abbey House has strong relationships with local suppliers, Laura and Lauren were able to work with others on our behalf, which took a lot of stress out of the wedding planning.

On the day itself, Laura, Lauren and the team at Abbey House were absolutely amazing and nothing was too much trouble for them. They ensured we and our guests had a fantastic wedding day in a gorgeous setting with excellent food and entertainment.

We are so glad that we chose Abbey House for our special day.
Ellie
Ellie Sent on 09/08/2023
5 out of 5 rating

The entire wedding team are amazing!!

We have just had our wedding at Abbey House and all I can say is thank you so much. You have gone above and beyond our expectations and just made such a difference to our day. The wedding team have been absolutely amazing, nothing was too much trouble and you went out of your way to make sure we had everything we needed. We are so grateful to you all and can never thank you enough. We have enjoyed our day massively and a big part of that was down to you all. Everyone was talking about how amazing the venue was and how thoughtful the staff were. Really can’t get over the day at all!

The hotel was amazing, so clean and well kept. The food was delicious and the grounds are just beautiful. We will definitely be revisiting this venue to stay, eat and even celebrate!
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