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On Hitched.co.uk since 2022

Last update: December 2025

Nestled at the bottom of the South Lakes lies Abbey House Hotel and Gardens, a luxury wedding venue near Barrow In Furness, Cumbria. This lovingly restored historic property is just a short drive from the heart of the stunning English Lake District. Surrounded by 14 acres of beautiful grounds, this elite four-star establishment is a must for an upscale country wedding.

Facilities and Capacity

Six-time winner of the best wedding venue in Cumbria, Abbey House Hotel and Gardens is awash with exquisite event rooms that can handle every stage of your big day. You can start the day in one of three elegant Bridal Suites before making your way to the ceremony location. The choice remains yours whether your union should take place outdoors in our stunning new for Spring 2025 Wedding Garden, one of the unique wedding suites, or perhaps in a local church. Alternatively, you can exchange your vows in the 12th-century Furness Abbey ruins, situated at the end of the hotel grounds in the Vale of Nightshade. The Great Hall and the Cavendish Suite are our main function suites, with the newly refurbished Cavendish Suite having an increased capapcity for up to 250 people

Services Offered

The Abbey House Hotel and Gardens wedding service team are highly experienced and willing to do their utmost to ensure your event is a timeless, memorable affair. Nothing is out of the question as they work to execute your vision. Dedicated wedding coordinators will also be on hand to offer advice and inspiration as they oversee every considered detail of your chosen wedding package. These comprise late availability offerings, a winter wonderland edition, and a premium package for a minimum of 80 guests. Alongside exclusive venue hire, packages can include private menu tastings, a stay in the luxurious honeymoon suite, seasonal cuisine, an in-house venue stylist and more.

Frequently asked questions

Venue type:

In the country
Historic
Large hotel
Outdoor license

Ceremony options:

Civil ceremony licence

Dining options:

Seated meal facilities
Corkage option
Alcohol licence
Buffet meal facilities
In-house catering

Evening entertainment:

Marquee available
Dance floor
Entertainment licence
Live band facilities
Evening reception facilities
DJ facilities

Overnight accommodation:

Overnight accommodation for wedding couple
Overnight accommodation for guests

Venue staff assistance:

Master of ceremonies/toastmaster
Wedding coordinator

Venue leisure facilities:

Beautician

Other features:

Exclusive use
Accessible facilities
Car parking
Confetti permitted
Changing room for wedding guests
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Reviews for Abbey House Hotel and Gardens

Elaine
Elaine Sent on 21/12/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Simply AMAZING, the best venue and staff in the UK

Our daughter's wedding was absolutely incredible. We made a weekend of it and all of our guests absolutely enjoyed every moment, incredible venue, the very conscientious staff that everybody thought were brilliant, the hotel rooms and all the very tasty food. Nobody could have beaten this venue and everybody commented on the professionalism of all staff across areas from housekeeping, restaurant, bar and wedding staff. Our daughter turned things on their head as she and her husband to be wanted things a little different, lots of white flowers, different entrances, tattooist, pianist, painter, lego, Dior, the band, the singer, nothing was too much trouble and everything went without a hitch. Rachael and Lee and the rest of the bridal party would happily do it all over again, thank you so much to Laura, Lauren, Bob, Michael and all of the staff at The Abbey House Hotel. We are now looking for our next excuse to hold a huge weekend party. We will all be back and staying.
Steph
Steph Sent on 07/10/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Better than we could have ever imagined!

Our wedding day was absolutely perfect, and we can’t thank the team enough! The venue was simply stunning – even in the rain it looked magical, and it was dressed so beautifully. Lauren and Laura truly thought of everything; their attention to detail and support throughout the day were exceptional. From signature cocktails to confetti cannons. Nothing was ever too much trouble, and they went above and beyond to make sure everything ran smoothly.
They made our day truly incredible, right down to the smallest details, and we couldn’t have asked for more. It was genuinely the best day of our lives, and we’re already looking forward to coming back to stay in the beautiful suites again soon.
Thank you for making our wedding everything we dreamed of and more!
S
Shelby Sent on 18/09/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding Day 13.09.2025

The most perfect day! The wedding team couldn’t have done more to make our day so special!
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Melissa Sent on 28/08/2025
5 out of 5 rating

From start to finish, it was the most perfect day!

We got married at Abbey House a couple of days ago and it was incredible. I cannot put into words how amazing the team are, Lauren you are fantastic at your job. You go above and beyond & nothing is too much trouble. From the start of the wedding process to the end, she was amazing from replying so quickly, to giving all the information we need & running the day. The other members of the team were great and John really helped make the day run so smoothly. We had a BBQ with our guests the night before and Michael was great setting up our day and hosting our guests. I cannot thank them all enough how perfectly the day went! It was honestly perfect, thank you all so much. Our guests all had the best time & loved the venue and rooms. 🥰🥂
Hannah
Hannah Sent on 27/08/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Fantastic wedding

We got married at Abbey House Hotel and Gardens in 10th August 2025 and could not have asked for a better day.
We chose Abbey House after attending a wedding open day and being very impressed with the room set-up and wedding coordinators Laura and Lauren.
We then booked our wedding and Laura and Lauren were always on hand to guide us through every step of the process. They took time to get to know us as a couple and had a real understanding of what we wanted from our wedding day.
On the day itself, Laura, Lauren and the team at Abbey House were absolutely amazing and nothing was too much trouble for them. They ensured we and our guests had a fantastic wedding day in a gorgeous setting with excellent food and entertainment.
We had the best day and we are so happy we chose Abbey House for our wedding.
M
Michaela Sent on 07/07/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A Truly Magical Wedding Experience 🌟 Date of Wedding: 5th July 2025 Venue: Abbey House Hotel and Gardens, Barrow-in-Furness


Where do I even begin? Abbey House Hotel and Gardens is truly something else. From the moment we arrived to the moment we left, everything was absolutely perfect. The venue itself is simply stunning – beautifully maintained grounds, elegant interiors, and an atmosphere that made our special day feel like something out of a fairytale.

But what made it unforgettable were the people. Every single member of staff was warm, friendly, and went out of their way to make us feel special – right down to the amazing housekeeping team.

I want to say a heartfelt thank you to Lauren and Laura, our wedding coordinators. These two incredible women were the calm in the chaos. From our very first meeting, they had a gentle, reassuring presence that made us feel instantly at ease. Through all the planning, questions, and last-minute worries, they were there – steady, kind, and always ready to help. It felt like having two friends by our side who genuinely cared about making our day perfect. I honestly don’t know how we would have managed without them.

Also, a special mention to Angie, one of the housekeepers – such a lovely, down-to-earth woman who brightened every morning with her smile – and to the manager, whose professionalism and attention to detail did not go unnoticed.

I truly can’t recommend Abbey House Hotel and Gardens enough. It’s a breathtaking venue, but it’s the people who make it magical. They gave us the wedding of our dreams – and memories we’ll treasure for a lifetime.

And to the whole Abbey House team – you weren’t just part of our wedding… you’re now part of our story. Thank you for everything.
Michael
Michael Sent on 17/12/2024
5 out of 5 rating

AHH - Wedding of Mr & Mrs Holmes

Abbey House Hotel hosted our wedding back in August with the build up to the event stress free with complete ownership, leaving nothing to chance. What an events team, no problem too small, a real asset in Laura, Lauren and Rob, highly recommended!
We cannot forget the bar team who look after us for the whole weekend, with a specific mention for Michael, assisted at every stage, with several friends and family needs to address.
The while process of wedding organisation was seamless with a clear set of options, all built from a discussion around our likes, all made perfect by the events team. Thank you for the memories and assisting our special day!
Michael & Amanda
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Alex Sent on 22/09/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Had the best day of our lives at the most amazing place

September 2024
We just recently had our wedding at abbey house and it was FANTASTIC!
The staff could not do enough to help us, nothing was ever too much they really looked after us flawlessly from start to finish. The food was amazing with lots to chooce from. We stayed in the priness suite which was out of this world, with great views of the beautiful gardens and grounds. We will definitely be going back every year for our anniversary. 10/10
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Rebecca Sent on 23/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Our Winter Wedding 🤍

From meeting Lauren at the Lake District Wedding show to having our first breakfast as a married couple, the whole process was just incredible & faultless.

I had a list of places that I dreamt of getting married, but after visiting Abbey House, we completely fell in love. The food, the rooms, the staff, the grounds & the whole feel of the place really took us by surprise. Every excuse to visit the venue on the lead up to the wedding we took & by the time the day came, we felt at home.

Lauren, Laura & Rob, along with all of the other staff that we met & that contributed to our big day, we honestly can’t thank enough. Nothing was too much to ask & they made everything so easy. We had the best day & I really wish we could experience it all over again.

To be completely honest, Lauren was our biggest reason for booking this place & we will be forever grateful for everything she did 🤍
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Natalie Sent on 22/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The most perfect day!

We had the most amazing wedding at Abbey House on Sunday 18th August. I could not thank the wedding team enough, especially Lauren who was like a breath of fresh air from the beginning to end. I really feel like the day would not of been possible without all her and the teams hard work. Lauren answered all my questions quickly and nothing was to much trouble. On the big day Rob and Lauren made myself and Daniel feel so at ease so we were just able to enjoy our day. The staff at Abbey House were first class, everyone was friendly and welcoming. The whole day was absolutely perfect and Lauren really is the best in the business, we will be forever grateful to her for making our big day come together!
K
Kathryn Sent on 12/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing! Can't recommend enough

We had the most perfect wedding at Abbey House Hotel. Laura and Lauren the wedding coordinators were just amazing. Nothing was too much trouble and they made our woodland wedding dreams a reality.
The attention to detail was just phenomenal from the decor to the food and the overall service that we and our guests received. They really did think of everything and even helped us arrange a pre-wedding celebration meal the evening before the wedding for our family and friends that had travelled up and gave us our own private dining experience.
All the staff at Abbey House went above and beyond to make us feel welcome and even let us plant a sausage in the gardens in the hope of good weather for our wedding (it worked).
The food was amazing and it was such a nice touch to be able to offer our guests a variety of dishes for our wedding breakfast rather than a set meal.
The other wedding suppliers that the coordinators recommended was so helpful as well when planning a wedding in an area not local to us.
The grounds are beautiful (hence why we wanted an outdoor wedding) and just a short stroll takes you to the Abbey ruins.
The rooms are next level in terms of decor and cleanliness and the honeymoon suites are just incredible.
We will 100% return for our 1 year wedding anniversary, if not before.
Abbey House is so reasonably priced whether you're going for a short stay or thinking of booking your wedding or special occasion with them and we cannot praise the staff, building and grounds and location enough. Thank you for giving us the most incredible wedding and making our family and friends stay so fabulous!
B
Bethany Sent on 02/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Just unbelievably amazing!

Firstly, a HUGE thank you to all three of you. Lauren and Laura, you were both unbelievably fantastic in the planning process, planning a wedding throws so many obstacles in your way that you absolutely do not anticipate when you book your special day. However, Michael and I were extremely fortunate to have such supportive and caring people at the other end of the phone if we needed it in yourselves.

We’ve said right from the beginning of the process that the one thing we got “right” was our venue at Abbey House and when the day finally came around our thoughts on this were cemented! From start to finish, it felt flawless! Nothing at all was too much to ask or to handle and we really felt like we could relax because you guys were taking care of everything to the highest of standards!

Our guests have complimented the venue so much since the day, they’ve commented on the beautiful building and surroundings, the amazing food, the friendly and approachable service and how everything felt so seamless.

In our opinion you guys are the best in the business and it’s absolutely clear that the three of you love your jobs and you do absolutely everything you can to ensure your bride and grooms have the day of their dreams.

A shout out to Michael, the manager at Oscar’s too - we’ve enjoyed the food at Oscar’s regularly since we booked our wedding and the service and food there has always been exceptional. We truly appreciated the touch of chateaubriand (prior arrangement) for the night after the wedding, cooked to perfection as always!

Thank you all so much again,
You all felt like friends throughout the whole process and we had the best day of our lives.

We’ll see you next year for our one year anniversary night stay!
B
Becky Sent on 15/07/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Incredible Wedding Venue

Abbey House are just amazing. Not only were they massively accommodating during a pandemic when we had to postpone, they were excellent in the build up to the wedding, ensuring our day went perfectly. The staff are so lovely and approachable, and the venue itself is just beautiful. If there were any issues on our day, myself and my husband wouldn’t have known due to the expertise of the staff. I’d get married here again tomorrow!
L
Leanne Sent on 15/07/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Leanne West

We got married here on 18th June 2023 and the day couldn’t have been more perfect. We booked our wedding 3 years prior to getting married so there was a lot of planning and organising to do. Without the help of Laura and Lauren, the day would not have been as smooth running as it was. They were fantastic from start to finish and no problem was ever an issue for them. Rob was also a huge part of our day and did everything he could do for us, along with the other staff members at Abbey House. The day was just magical and we had zero complaints about anything. I would always recommend getting married here. Incredible and personal service from all involved which made the day stress free and very relaxed.
Beth
Beth Sent on 29/05/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing, fantastic

Crayston wedding
A massive thank you to Lauren, Laura & Rob & the rest of the Abbey House team! Me & my husband got married here on the 23/05/2024.
From the planning stages to the wedding day itself you guys have been fantastic! Always happy to help & go above an beyond to make sure everything was running smoothly.
The day was amazing from start to finish. The food was fantastic & the rooms were lovely!
We had the best time and that’s all down to these guys!
We really appreciate what you did to make our day so special. We can’t thank you enough, you are all brilliant!
We will be back soon ❤️
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