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Hey you! Welcome to my corner of Hitched. I am Rebecca, the florist, designer, proposal writer, bucket cleaner and everything in between, behind Lilac and Lace Floral Design. I create natural, effortless florals with so much love and even more heart, and you can probably tell that I absolutely LOVE my job!

I want my designs to look like they have just fallen together.. like they have simply been swept up from the field. And, I am working really hard on that last part, with my own flower plot in the making to hopefully supply some of my own flowers from 2023.

The environment and the footprint we leave behind is so so important to me. I want to leave my Daughter with a beautiful world full of all the incredible things I have been fortunate enough to see. I am the first florist in the country to hold a Sustainability Accreditation with the Sustainable Wedding Alliance and make delibrate, concious choices about the flowers and accessories I use. If you would like to find out more, please look at my website, where I have outlined all my promises to you.

I really hope you enjoy looking through my page, seeing my work and hearing more about what I do. Hopefully, it will inspire you to get in touch and chat to me all about your wedding flowers. Happy reading!

Services Offered

I absolutely love working with my couples to create wedding flowers that are a true reflection of YOU.. your love, your style and your vision. Don’t be afraid to show people who you are.. throw out the rule book, ignore the latest trends and just do YOU. I will be there with you every step of the way, guiding you through, to help bring your ideas to life and ensure your wedding day is beyond your wildest dreams!

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Frequently asked questions

What services do you offer?

Bridal bouquet
Ceremony decor
Venue floral decor
Wedding accessories/decorations
Buttonholes
Flower head-dress

What is included in the wedding package?

A true and complete bespoke service from start to finish. Everything is tailor-made, putting you front and centre to ensure you have the day you deserve

How far in advance should I contact you?

As soon as you can. Many florists, including myself, get booked up years in advance

Do you design personalised bridal bouquets?

Yes

Can you travel?

Yes, kent and SE England

Is there a charge for traveling?

Yes, the standard rate of 45 pence per mile

Reviews for Lilac and Lace

Kat
Kat Sent on 22/07/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Stunning floral arrangements

We couldn't be happier with the stunning floral arrangements Rebecca created for our wedding. From the initial call with Rebecca, we both said how much we liked her, and she really listened to all our thoughts and ideas while giving me (a very unprepared and indecisive bride) gentle nudges when I needed help!
When the initial design proposal came through, you could tell how much thought she'd put into it and how well she had listened to and understood our vision. She was also so helpful in helping us work to our budgetary constraints, and we couldn't be happier with how many beautiful arrangements we were able to work out while sticking to our budget. She was also very kind and flexible when I mentioned that my grandmother-in-law wanted to make our centrepieces.
Another huge plus of Rebecca is that sustainability is very important to us, so the fact that all her arrangements for us were from personally grown british seasonal flowers meant a lot to us. I truly cannot tell you how many compliments we had on all our gorgeous flowers, and they really helped add a little sunshine to a rather rainy ceremony (and remained looking incredible when the sun did make an appearance later!).
She even went the extra mile when, at first, it seemed the flower arch that was supposed to transfer from the ceremony room into the reception room wouldn't fit through the doors to get into the reception room. Rebecca, still not sure how you managed it, but you made it work! Also (I didn't hear this until later, but), when one of the best men managed to instantly ruin his buttonhole upon receiving it, Rebecca was able to quickly sort him out in the moment, which is amazing!
We can't thank Rebecca enough for all the effort she put into bringing our vision to life and creating the most stunning arrangements and making it all feel so effortless. Thank you! Love, Kat & Sam
Jasminebkent
Jasminebkent Sent on 23/04/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Excellent service

Rebecca was a star from start to finish. The floristry was a highlight of our day, and she created the most magical display. I received so many compliments on my bridal bouquet. I would recommend Rebecca at Lilac & Lace!
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Ladaws Sent on 09/10/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Fab Flowers

Rebecca was super friendly and communicative throughout the whole process. She understood our vision straight away and managed to bring that to life on the day with some stunning floral arrangements, and everyone wanted to take an orange tree home! Thank you so much.
K
Karen Sent on 05/01/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Such a joy and so, so easy

I cannot recommend Rebecca strongly enough. I’ve never been someone who grew up dreaming of a wedding day - the prospect of a wedding day itself filled me with terror (the marriage itself quite the opposite). Rebecca was wonderful and took so much time to discuss the design brief and made everything easy, nothing was too much trouble. Even a last minute request to add in a Christmas wreath to the order. A truly lovely person with such fantastic talent when it comes to flowers, design and arrangement. Thank you Rebecca.
Rebecca
Rebecca Sent on 06/10/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Excellent florist

Rebecca created beautiful flowers for our special day. They were exactly as we imagined and absolutely stunning- amazing condition and in full bloom on the day.
Rebecca is creative, attentive and overall a wonderful person to work with.
Naomi
Naomi Sent on 22/06/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Owain & Naomi - couldn't recommend enough

I cannot recommend Rebecca enough! Our wedding was affected by covid more times than I care to remember and every time the date changed Rebecca went above and beyond to reassure me it would be okay and she would work around us and make it work. Rebecca’s work was beyond outstanding and the moodboards she makes after consultation so you can visualise your flowers is so helpful. She even managed to go above and beyond by accommodating an odd request of a mini pineapple in my bouquet and managed to source pink ones to go with the colour theme! Cannot wait to use her again for our wedding celebration next year.
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Selina Sent on 02/06/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Just Breathtaking

Firstly, Rebecca was amazing! From the first time I contacted her she was so friendly and helpful! We arranged a call via Zoom and talked through everything and she sent across a wonderful proposal and moodboard which really captured what I had in my head!
She was so lovely and offered support throughout the year when things looked a bit uncertain but luckily we managed to keep our original date.
On the day, what can I say but wow!?
Rebecca's arrangements were stunning! My bouquet was gorgeous and she even created a vine to wrap around my walking stick, so even my mobility aids felt bridal! Our reception room looked even better than I could have ever imagined and everyone commented on the floral displays!
I would 100% recommend Rebecca to anyone.
Thank you for making our day so beautiful!
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Anonymous Sent on 12/03/2020

Natalie and Alex - The Ferry House Inn

Rebecca created the flowers for our wedding in February and I can't recommend her enough! From start to finish, she went above and beyond to make sure everything came together, from renting us everything we needed decoration wise, arranging our Succulent plant favours and setting up our table plan. It was perfect and all of our guests commented on how amazing the flowers were. We changed our minds a couple of times on colours during the planning process and Rebecca was more than happy to accommodate and take things through. Honestly, amazing!
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Anonymous Sent on 11/10/2019

Kruti and Mark, August 2019 - The Old Kent Barn

Rebecca was absolutely brilliant to work with - she was incredibly helpful, warm and efficient throughout, and her designs were stunning. I would 100% recommend her.
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Anonymous Sent on 26/09/2019

Vicki and Fred - The Darenth, April 2019

What can I say. Rebecca at a Lilac and Lace was truly a rare find. She instantly understood our vision and after our first meeting provided us with a detailed mood board that captured all the details and creativity I’d been struggling to express. The service that we received was personal on a level that no other florist I’d met with had achieved. I knew from the moment we met that Rebecca she was an absolute professional and on our wedding day she went over and above what I’d been expecting. My bouquet was absolutely stunning, our centrepieces was simply perfection, she truly is the queen of foiliage. I can’t recommend her enough, and I’m so glad we chose her to be forever a part of our special day.
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Anonymous Sent on 26/09/2019

Maisie and Matt - Falconhurst, June 2019

Rebecca really is one of the loveliest women I’ve ever met! I knew from the second we met that I could trust her 1 million percent, and she were the only supplier I didn’t have to nag at any stage. With regards to the actual flowers, I have never seen anything so beautiful in my life! My bouquet arrived and my Mum cried. As a florist she understood what I wanted and executed it perfectly, she really is a truly incredibly talented lady. I will recommend Rebecca to everyone and anyone and I will use her for every occasion possible.
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Anonymous Sent on 26/09/2019

Frances and Laurie - St Julians Club, August 2019

Rebecca created the most beautiful flower arrangements for our wedding in August 2019. We went to Rebecca with a fairly loose brief - bright, colourful and natural. She immediately understood what we were looking for, and suggested that she could pick our flowers from a local grower a few days before the wedding, which really appealed to us. We were so happy we went with that approach - the flowers were simply stunning - we got so many compliments. Rebecca was also a delight to work with - always quick to reply and so kind and positive.
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Anonymous Sent on 26/09/2019

Jenn and Charlie - Hayne House, August 2019

Rebecca did all the flowers for my wedding and it is impossible to put into words how happy I was with her work. They looked out of this world and they were absolutely perfect for our theme. I honestly could not have asked for anything more, from hair clips and button holes to bouquets and centre pieces, everything was just perfect. Rebecca’s work is outstanding and the mood boards she creates make it so easy to understand and visualise what the final design will be like. She offered hours of consultation to make sure I got exactly what I wanted. Separately to my wedding flowers, Rebecca’s wreath making workshops at Christmas are also brilliant fun. I would highly recommend Lilac and Lace Floral Design to everyone for any occasion.
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Anonymous Sent on 21/03/2019

Abby & Matt - The Barn Pub & Restaurant T.Wells

Beautiful flowers. Above and beyond service with flowers delivered to the venue, completely stress free.
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Anonymous Sent on 20/11/2018

Gemma and Rob's Port Lympne Wedding - Sept 2018

Wow Becky is a force of nature, we got married in September in a safari park, and it was perfect and magical, and a lot of that was down to Becky's amazingness. She was professional from start to finish, listening to our themes, colours and then came back with ideas in a mood board that helped us visualise her ideas, she is so creative and then on the day, I was taken back by her talented masterpieces. She made safari related trees, the semi archway, and the bouquets and button holes, and everything really was perfect!
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