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Last update: July 2026

Southlands Barn is an exclusive-use, family-run wedding venue set within 120 acres of stunning West Sussex countryside. Combining the character of a beautifully restored 17th-century barn with breathtaking lake views, South Downs scenery and warm hospitality, Southlands creates weddings that feel relaxed, personal and unforgettable.

From outdoor ceremonies beneath our pergola to dancing under fairy lights, every part of your day flows seamlessly in a venue that is entirely yours. With incredible photo opportunities, dedicated getting-ready spaces, flexible packages and an experienced wedding team by your side, Southlands Barn is the perfect place to celebrate your love story your way.

🏡 Exclusive-use venue
🌳 120 acres of countryside & lake views
💍 Indoor & outdoor ceremony options
✨ Stunning 17th-century restored barn
📸 Resident Highland cows for unique photographs
🌈 Family-run & LGBTQ+ inclusive venue
💖 Dedicated wedding coordinator
👰 Separate getting-ready rooms
🎨 Flexible supplier options available
🚌 Complimentary shuttle service options
✨ Fairy-lit ceremony and party barn
🥂 Beautiful courtyard reception space
🌄 South Downs backdrop
🎉 Weekend wedding packages available
💰 Outstanding value compared to many luxury Sussex barn venues
📜 Fully licensed for civil ceremonies
🍽️ Dedicated wedding breakfast barn
📅 Flexible package options to suit different budgets
🔥 Firepit and outdoor social spaces
🍷 Wine tasting experiences for couples
🎤 On-site sound system and microphones included
🏛️ Rustic barn character with modern comforts
🌿 Picture-perfect grounds in every season
🤝 Warm, personal and highly-rated customer service
🎶 Seamless flow from ceremony to evening celebrations
📍 Convenient West Sussex location

  • LGBTQ+-owned
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Frequently asked questions

Venue type:

In the country
Historic
Barn
Outdoor license
Unique weddings

Ceremony options:

Civil ceremony licence

Dining options:

Seated meal facilities
Private catering allowed
Alcohol licence
Buffet meal facilities

Evening entertainment:

Dance floor
Entertainment licence
Live band facilities
Evening reception facilities
DJ facilities

Venue staff assistance:

Master of ceremonies/toastmaster
Wedding coordinator

Other features:

Exclusive use
Accessible facilities
Car parking
Confetti permitted
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Reviews for Southlands Barn

Sianice
Sianice Sent on 19/06/2025
5 out of 5 rating

10/10 I would book Southlands again in a heartbeat!

From start to finish the team at Southlands were absolutely amazing. I don't think we can put into words just how truly amazing they are and what a great day we had. The whole Southlands team are like a family and they make you feel so welcome. Nothing is ever too much trouble for them, and the venue itself is absolutely stunning. When you book the venue over the weekend you have access to all the facilities on the Friday, Saturday and Sunday. This makes the whole setting up process run so smoothly. From booking our wedding date back in 2023 right up until our special day we had Amy on hand to assist us with everything. She was so helpful and informative. The day before the wedding while setting up, we had Jack on hand to help us. She was absolutely invaluable during this time and could not do enough to help us. Not to mention keeping an eye on our dog Willow. Phil brings the party every time without fail, along with Liv, who I might add was amazing on the day helping to settle my nerves. The whole team is absolutely spectacular and I really hope to see them again in the future. Myself and the bridal party could not get over how helpful everyone was and how smooth sailing the day was. Notoriously weddings can be sickly stressful however we practically did not have to lift a finger on our special day and everything was seen to buy the Southlands team. As part of booking Southlands as your wedding venue you also receive an invitation to their wine tasting evenings that they run each year. This was such a lovely touch and an added extra to the already amazing venue. It was such a fun evening filled with family friends and the whole team enjoying their delicious wine. We really hope we get to visit your special venue again in the future. Love Sian, Ben & Willow xxx 07.06.2025
Carmen
Carmen Sent on 28/06/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Barn and team of dreams

We had our day back at the start of April - Easter Saturday, the windiest day of the Easter Weekend; but it was perfect. The Southlands Barn team have been amazing and wonderful from the moment we booked to view, all the way through to collecting our DIY-ed decor the day after the wedding; and I know they will continue to be lovely and amazing whenever we can sneak a chance to pop back!

We could not have asked for more from them; even turning the ceremony location around from outside to inside with 10mins to go before the ceremony because the wind picked up and it started to rain! We will be forever grateful to the team and the barn for being a part of our big day, and making it so special and stress free! They put out some decor later than others for us because it was for the evening rather than day, they set up our garden games after the ceremony, they got me a blanket to walk down to the lake with because it was freezing!, they took us to feed the highland cows, I could go on about how incredible they were/are, but this would become a very long essay of a review. If anyone is not sure about booking, our experience would tell us to persuade you to book. Thank you again to Team Southlands Barn
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Fern Sent on 26/06/2026
5 out of 5 rating

The word perfect isn’t even enough ♥️

Southlands Barn… where do I even begin? What can I say that hasn’t already been said? You made our dream wedding come true, and we honestly couldn’t have imagined a more perfect weekend.
From the moment we booked, Jackie and her incredible team made us feel completely at ease. Nothing was ever too much trouble, and every single member of staff was not only so kind and helpful, but genuinely fun to be around too. It felt like spending the weekend with friends who just happened to be experts at making weddings absolutely magical. The whole planning process felt so smooth and stress-free because we always knew we were in safe hands, and that meant the world to us.
The venue itself is breathtaking. Every corner is beautiful, and it has such a warm, homely feel while still being the most stunning place to get married. We loved it so much I genuinely wanted to stay for the whole week! So many of our guests commented on how special and relaxed the atmosphere was, and we couldn’t agree more. It really is one of those places that feels unforgettable from the second you arrive.
We only ever viewed Southlands Barn because the second we saw it, we knew it was the one. Looking back, I can’t imagine getting married anywhere else because nothing could have compared. Our whole day felt like a fairytale, and that’s entirely thanks to Jackie and the team. Every little detail was taken care of so beautifully, and we were able to just relax, soak it all in and enjoy every single moment.
If I could give one piece of advice to anyone viewing Southlands Barn, it would be this: book it there and then! You won’t regret it for a second.
No words will ever be enough to thank you all for everything you did for us. We will be talking about our wedding, your amazing team and this incredible venue for years to come. And who knows… maybe one day we’ll be back if our children decide to get married here too! 😂 Lots of Love, The Redferns x
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Diana Sent on 13/06/2026
5 out of 5 rating

An amazing wedding for my daughter

My daughter got married here on the 11th June 2026. Right from the start the staff were incredible. The attention to detail, personal service and the beauty of the venue itself made the day magical. Nothing was too much to ask, they anticipated everything before we asked, they bridal room had everything you could want to get ready for the ceremony. I cannot recommend this venue highly enough. Thank you so much for helping make my daughters wedding the most special it could be.
Katie
Katie Sent on 09/03/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful day

Couldn't fault the support we got from southlands, the day before prep in helping us set up the decorations and even printing out photos for us that we forgot to do for our memory table! Really blown away by the support. Wish we could do it all again!
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Trisha Sent on 18/01/2026
5 out of 5 rating

What an amazing place!

We booked Southlands Barn approximately two years prior to our wedding in September 2025. We didn’t need to view lots of venues, this was the one and only venue we viewed, and it immediately won our hearts. It has the complete wow factor. It is perfect. We didn’t need to look any further.

The whole Southlands team were truly amazing. From the moment we first made contact, Amy, Jacky, Liv, Phil, and the rest of the team were responsive, and attentive to all our needs. They literally couldn’t do enough for us.

They made sure everything ran smoothly on the day, and kept us calm.

The whole team were so warm and friendly, even our guests gave them numerous compliments.

The wine tasting night is not to be missed. What a brilliant night that was!

We have been back to visit since our big day, and were welcomed with open arms.

A heart felt thank you goes out to all the team, you truly made our dream day a reality. We will miss you all!

Love Pete & Trish xx
Damiano
Damiano Sent on 08/10/2025
5 out of 5 rating

What a beautiful spot to get married!

We got married at Southlands Sep25 and had THE BEST experience. The venue itself is absolutely stunning. Southlands team who helped us with the planning is incredibly helpful and accommodating. From the first viewing up until the day after the wedding they have been treating us like part of the family! The planning months have gone really smoothly, and they were incredible on the wedding day - taking care of all the details and working with suppliers based on our requests. We would not have changed a thing!
Holly
Holly Sent on 07/10/2025
5 out of 5 rating

WE LOVED IT! 💖 The most gorgeous venue & amazing staff

We honestly can’t recommend Southlands Barn enough! We had other venues lined up to view, but as soon as we walked into Southlands (our very first viewing!) we instantly fell in love with the stunning countryside setting, the cows in the fields, the beautiful peacocks wandering around, and most of all, the warmth and energy of the team. We cancelled all our other viewings that same day because we just knew this was the one.

From start to finish, the whole experience was incredible. The team at Southlands are absolute stars, so helpful, organised, and genuinely lovely to work with. The wine tasting night was such a brilliant touch as it gave us a real feel for what a wedding there would be like. Being able to bring four guests along made it such a fun and memorable evening and helped us pick our wedding wines in style.

One of the biggest highlights for us was having the venue from Friday to Sunday. It meant we could take our time with setup, do all our own DIY styling, and save on the cost of decorators or stylists. It also gave us the chance to host tea and cake on the Sunday for a relaxed take-down day with family and friends, which was such a lovely way to round off the weekend.

Southlands are also incredibly flexible when it comes to suppliers, which made a huge difference. We weren’t tied to specific caterers or limited in our choices for photographers, florists, or other suppliers, so we were able to make the day completely personal to us. Every detail reflected us, and that’s something we’ll always be grateful for.

The free shuttle service for guests staying locally is such an amazing extra touch and another example of how thoughtful and guest-focused the team are.

Our day was absolutely perfect from start to finish, and we had so many compliments from guests on how beautiful the venue was and how amazing the team were on the day. We truly can’t thank everyone at Southlands Barn enough for making our wedding weekend so special 💖
Geraldine
Geraldine Sent on 04/08/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful Wedding Venue!

The most wonderful venue! Can't say enough good things about it. My daughter got married there on 26 June 2025 and it was perfect. The venue has so many different rooms, so guests can choose to dance, talk, relax or simply roast s'mores over the fire. The outdoor space is lovely, lots of green space and even cows to add ambience. But, even better than all this, are the kind and thoughtful people who run the venue. Nothing is too much trouble for them, and they go out of their way to make this special day perfect. Thank you all so much!!
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Catherine Sent on 12/06/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A stunning place for our daughter’s picture perfect wedding in May. The most professional and kind people catered for every possible need and anything more that could have been wanted was provided in a calm and beautiful manner. I could not recommend Southlands Barns highly enough. Just an amazing wedding experience in every way.

A stunning place for our daughter’s picture perfect wedding in May. The most professional and kind people catered for every possible need and anything more that could have been wanted was provided in a calm and beautiful manner. I could not recommend Southlands Barns highly enough. Just an amazing wedding experience in every way.
Mark
Mark Sent on 26/02/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Exceptional!

Our wedding in October 2024 was perfect, thanks to the staff and Southlands. It may sound cliché, but they genuinely made us feel like part of the family from the moment we went for our first viewing to them helping us pack up the next day.

They went above and beyond which made our day even more memorable. The venue and surrounds are incredible, and the staff could not do enough for us to make the day run seamlessly.

We only viewed one venue, and it was Southlands. We're so glad we did, it's the best wedding planning decision we made.

Thank you to all of you, we cannot recommend Southlands enough!

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Kimberley Sent on 26/11/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Mr and Mrs Knight

From the moment we knew Southlands barn would make our day special, the team were absolutely amazing. From how the barn is decorated to the kind and thoughtful hospitality from all the staff, we felt right at home. Our guests said it was the most magical venue and we loved the countryside vibe. We had the most perfect day and would go back to Southlands barn to do it all again if we could.
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Tahnee Sent on 20/11/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The best venue

We had the most amazing day for our wedding at Southlands Barn. I work in weddings myself so I have seen a lot of venues in action. And I can honestly say Southlands Barn is not only the best venue visually but the staff are incredible. I cannot recommend this place anymore!!!
Emma
Emma Sent on 18/11/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The dream wedding venue!

We had the best day of our lives at our wedding in May and we can’t thank the amazing team at Southlands Barn enough!

We fell in love as soon as we walked through the doors for a tour (even with horrific January weather) and Amy was just so helpful through the whole planning process.

The wine tasting evening a couple of months before was such a fun and special evening (great atmosphere and lots of amazing wines to try).

Setting up the day before was a really lovely, relaxed experience (and we loved the fact you had the venue for 3 days). Sitting down with Jackie and Liv to do a run through of everything at the end of the day meant we had no nerves or worries at all.

On the wedding day the team made everything run so smoothly from start to finish. From a ridiculous pre-6am start for Jackie who let us into the prepping parlour first thing, to us being given a lift back to our cottage in the village once all the guests had gone home at the end of the night. Just the best!

All of our guests absolutely loved the venue and having all the different areas was amazing (the games room was never empty!).

We felt so looked after and honestly loved every second of the lead up and the day itself. Thank you so much Jackie, Liv, Amy, Phil (the best MC!), Jamie and Harvey (and not forgetting the peacocks!). Most amazing team and venue ever!
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Metz Sent on 18/11/2024
5 out of 5 rating

August wedding at Southlands Barn

We got married at Southlands Barn in August 2024. We found them at a wedding fair arranged to go to the Barn and when we got there immediately fell in love with it.
The setting is perfect, the barns are stunning. The staff could not be any friendlier or more helpful. They put us at ease and helped make the day run as smoothly as possible as well as making it special.
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Southlands Barn Real Weddings

Carmen & Ali
8 photos · 04/04/2026
Holly & Jon
18 photos · 27/09/2025
Hannah & Nicky
27 photos · 18/07/2024
Paige & Ben
31 photos · 03/08/2019

Meet the team

Amy  Kilshaw
Amy Kilshaw
Venue Coordinator

I joined the team in 2021 and will most likely be your first point of contact with the barn, from viewings to bookings and then co-ordinating your wedding up to your special day. I also do the marketing and social media for the Barn.

I grew up across the road from the farm, where my parents still live, so I have special bond with this beautiful place!

Phil Fossey
Phil Fossey
Owner

Converting Southlands Farm into the beautiful wedding venue it is today was my idea after a friend reached out to see if they could use our barn for a wedding last minute back in 2018!

I have been involved in every step along the way from concreting to hand cutting all the hanging lights.

I oversee all aspects of running the venue and I always shed a tear during the ceremony, speeches and first dance where I can guarantee I will join you on the dance floor!

Jamie Kensett
Jamie Kensett
Owner

I'm nicknamed the badger as I only come out at night.

My partner Phil is the face and I bring his dreams of Southlands Barn to reality!

I work behind the scenes doing all the maintenance and accounts and I also work the farm- side of the venue.

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Southlands Farm, Southlands Lane RH20 2JU West Chiltington (West Sussex)
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