Selden Barn

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Old Selden Farm 146 Selden Lane Patching West Sussex BN13 3UL
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About Selden Barn

Old Selden Farm
146 Selden Lane, Patching
West Sussex, BN13 3UL

As you approach the wedding venue down a quiet country lane, you are greeted by a collection of Sussex flint and brick buildings as well as the main farmhouse. Entering through an iron gate beside the gatehouse, the driveway takes you past the Farmhouse and across the grounds to the front entrance of the reception barn.


As soon as you enter the barn, you are hit by the “Wow Factor”. The whole room is swathed in beautiful ivory pleated marquee drapes. The east wall has windows overlooking the rolling fields and woodland where horses and deer roam freely, while the integrated raised dance floor and tall central pillars exude atmosphere, creating a sense of grandeur and space

Large chandeliers hang overhead where the sparkling light shimmers against the ivory linings that drape the barn. With over 300 square meters of interior space, the barn comfortably holds the dining area, raised dance area and bar, so that your guests always feel together.

The dining area can be configured to comfortably accommodate 70 – 230 people and all tables and chairs in the barn are suppliedwithinthe venue price.

The striking raised Dance Floor with stainless steel balustrade features two mirror balls and subtle lighting. The Luxurious Drinks Bar area has a handsome vintage mahogany counter together with a huge wall unit salvaged from a Victorian chemist shop. Set your desired mood with the controllable wall and pillar up-lighters as the day turns to evening – elegant by day and magical at night.

The picturesque gardens also make the perfect setting for pre-reception drinks.


Just one minute’s walk from the wedding barn, you find the beautiful old Ceremony Room, located in a converted barn adjoining the main house. Seating up to 100 people, the Ceremony Room features timber rafters under a tiled roof and our Licence for Weddings and Civil Ceremonies lets you add an additional intimate memory to your wedding.

Once you have booked the date for your wedding at Selden Barn, couples must contact the registration service directly (that’s the legal requirement!) to make registrar arrangements, while we set up the room according to your specific wishes.


Selden Barns Wedding Venue has many beautiful outdoor locations to record your amazing day. From the large garden area to the adjoining fields with horses and livestock. The flint walled buildings are oozing character and make fantastic backdrops for your special photo memories.


We pride ourselves on helping you get all the details just right. When you book the Selden Barns Wedding Venue, you will have the services of our dedicated wedding co-ordinator to work with you, right through from the early planning stage, up to and including your great day.

All guest bedrooms have their own private front door and exude a lovely fresh `English Country` feel, with oak floors, cream ‘Egyptian cotton’ bedding with fluffy duvets and traditional furniture. They have en-suite facilities with a large shower, WC and washbasin and under-floor heating throughout. Please click the button to visit our accommodation website
• Licensing for Civil Ceremonies & Civil Partnerships • Separate Traditional Ceremony Barn • Seated dining from 45 to 200 guests (Tables & Chairs included) • Beautiful Accommodation for up to 16 Guests • Choice of recommended caterers • No VAT on Venue or Ceremony Room hire

Facilities at Selden Barn

Venue Type :
Civil Ceremony Licence
Exclusive Use
In the Country
Marquees and Tents
Woodland and Festival
Evening Entertainment :
Evening Reception Facilities
Dance Floor
Entertainment Licence
Live Band Facilities
DJ Facilities
Outdoor Fireworks Permitted
Overnight Accommodation :
Overnight Accommodation for Wedding Couple
Overnight Accommodation for Guests
Other Features :
Confetti Permitted
Disabled Facilities
Car Parking
Pets Welcome
Dining Options :
Seated Meal Facilities
Buffet Meal Facilities
In House Catering
Allows Private Catering
Alcohol Licence
Corkage Option
Capacity :
30 to 50 guests
50 to 75 guests
75 to 100 guests
100 to 150 guests
150 to 250 guests
250 to 400 guests
Venue Staff Assistance :
Wedding Coordinator

Selden Barn Location

Selden Barn, Old Selden Farm, 146 Selden Lane, Patching, West Sussex, BN13 3UL

Old Selden Farm 146 Selden Lane Patching West Sussex BN13 3UL
0800 625 0425
2 5

Selden Barn Reviews (2)

May wedding 2017
Venue Service

By Caroline & Rob Barnard, on 05 Aug 2017Date of Wedding - 06 May 2017

We chose Selden Barn for the setting in the West Sussex countryside. We particularly loved that the raised dance floor and bar were within the function room so you do not lose guests during the evening to keep the atmosphere going. We cannot fault the service and hospitality of the staff, particularly Rachel who made our day so special. No request was too much and we felt comfortable to leave all the minor details to her on the day, knowing that everything would be under control. Our guests loved the venue and the accommodation for those who stayed was not only convenient but clean and welcoming. All in all if you are looking for a private wedding venue with breath taking views and great staff then look no further, Selden Barn will always hold a special place in our hearts.

Venue Service

By Avril Coleman and Jeremy Innes, on 19 Apr 2017Date of Wedding - 19 Jul 2014

We got married here in July and it was the perfect day, everything went without a hitch. The landscape views surrounding are excellent and the venue had everything we needed. Very happy with our choice.

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