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Selden Barns

Selden Barns

Patching, West Sussex
5.0 out of 5 rating, 52 reviews
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  • Janet
    Janet Sent on 01/09/2026
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    Our wedding August 2026

    Such a beautiful venue and the planning was very supportive and they tried to be accommodating and work with us the staff on the day worked very hard. I would recommend this venue it is a lovely location.
  • Ella
    Ella Sent on 22/08/2026
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    Selden Barns gave us our dream wedding.

    From the very first moment we visited, whilst hunting for a wedding location, we were completely wowed by this venue. We walked away from that initial viewing knowing we had found somewhere incredibly special — and somehow, the experience only got better from there.

    Every planning meeting was an absolute pleasure. Nicki, who oversees everything, is simply brilliant at what she does and has created such a warm, professional and genuinely caring team. Abi, our planning coordinator, was amazing throughout the whole process: endlessly patient, organised and reassuring, and always making us feel as though nothing was ever too much trouble. No request was too small, no question was silly, and every little detail we mentioned was listened to and remembered.

    Then came the wedding itself, and we genuinely could not have imagined a better realisation of the day if we had tried. Everything we had talked about in the months beforehand somehow appeared perfectly around us. The venue looked incredible, the day flowed seamlessly, and we were able to completely relax and enjoy ourselves knowing that everything was being taken care of behind the scenes.

    Chloe, who helped Abi on the big day, was also fantastic, and the entire team could not have been warmer, kinder or more helpful. There was such a lovely feeling from every single member of staff — nothing ever felt like too much trouble, and it really felt as though everyone genuinely wanted us and our guests to have the best possible time.

    And a special shoutout has to go to Andy and his team for breakfast the following morning. We have genuinely never seen so many bacon or sausage sarnies in our lives! 😂 Exactly what was needed after the night before, and another example of the incredible generosity and hospitality we experienced from beginning to end.

    Looking back, there honestly isn't anything we would change. From being completely blown away on our first visit, through the wonderful planning meetings, to seeing everything come together even better than we could have pictured it, the whole experience was exceptional.

    We feel incredibly lucky that we chose this venue for our wedding and cannot recommend Nicki, Abi, Chloe and the entire team highly enough. They made us realise we would get the day we had always imagined — and then somehow made it even better. ❤️
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  • Nicola
    Nicola Sent on 20/08/2026
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    Nicky & Joe wedding July 2026

    Good value for money. There were various options which matched our budget needs. They couldn’t have been more helpful in the lead-up to the wedding and on the day itself. We wouldn’t have changed anything and would definitely recommend them. Thank you, Selden Barns, for everything!
  • Zoe
    Zoe Sent on 23/06/2026
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    Our June wedding

    Me and my partner have worked alongside Selden Barns for a little under a year in planning and sourcing the bed arrangements for our big day which we had in june. Nicky and the team were amazing with support and communication, regular meetings and always an email/phone call away. The accomodation and the main barn to the grounds - this place is the full package. as soon as i saw the venue and looked around i knew this was where i wanted to get married and the staff from kitchen to ground and administration were all amazing at making that possibility a reality.
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    Graham Sent on 10/06/2026
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    Beautiful idyllic countryside location for the most amazing day

    From the moment we first viewed the venue to the day itself, your professionalism, support, and attention to detail were outstanding. The venue looked absolutely beautiful, and it provided the perfect setting for our wedding celebration.
    A special thank you to everyone who worked behind the scenes to ensure everything ran smoothly. And a personal thank you to Saoirse, your hard work, friendliness, and willingness to help made the whole experience stress-free and enjoyable for both us and our guests.
    We received so many compliments about the venue throughout the day, and we couldn't have asked for a better place to celebrate such an occasion.
  • Ella
    Ella Sent on 09/05/2026
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    Absolutely perfect!

    We cannot recommend Selden barns for your wedding venue enough. Our whole wedding day was absolutely perfect from start to finish. The outdoor ceremony area was absolutely stunning in the sunshine and the inside of the barn absolutely perfect with the gorgeous lights and dance floor for our meal and reception.
    Abi, Saoirse and Nicki were so helpful from the beginning to the end of the whole process. So quick to reply to emails with all of our questions and worries, lots of regular meetings to discuss planning, and made the whole day and evening run so smoothly and stress free. The bar staff were also great and provided such a quick and friendly service for a drink. The whole team made us feel so welcome and supported and it was really appreciated!
    Thank you so much guys for the most perfect day - wish we could do it all over again! 🤍

  • Megan
    Megan Sent on 21/02/2026
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    Incredible venue

    We couldn’t have asked for a more perfect wedding day at Selden Barn. From the moment we first visited, we knew it was somewhere special, but the reality exceeded every expectation.

    The barn itself is absolutely stunning — full of character, beautifully restored, and set in the most gorgeous surroundings. It created such a warm, romantic atmosphere, and so many of our guests commented on how unique and beautiful it was.

    What truly made the experience exceptional, though, was Saoirse. She was incredible from start to finish — calm, organised, supportive, and genuinely invested in making our day perfect. Nothing was too much trouble, and she made everything feel effortless, even behind the scenes. Having her there gave us complete confidence and allowed us to relax and enjoy every moment.

    Our whole day felt magical, and we’re so grateful to the entire team for creating memories we’ll cherish forever. If you’re considering Selden Barn as your wedding venue, don’t hesitate — it is truly something special.
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    Chrissy Sent on 19/12/2025
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    Our amazing wedding day

    Selden was our second venue we had gone to visit and after being there only a couple of minutes myself and Stu knew this is where we were going to get married! Everything from planning to the day had been amazing I couldn’t have wished for a better day Niki and Sarioise were amazing and i couldn’t have wished for more!

    Selden Barns's reply:

    It was our absolute pleasure to host you, your family and your friends, and we all wish you every happiness for the future.
  • Denise
    Denise Sent on 04/11/2025
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    Our Amazing Wedding Day


    From the initial enquiries to the final breakfast it was fantastic. The staff were extremely professional and made the whole thing feel very personal.

    The only thing, which was a shame, was our wine allowance per head was not laid out on the tables. The glasses were not topped up on the tables, meaning it did not flow and we took lots home.

    Apart from that the whole thing was amazing. Even the breakfast the next morning felt like an event.

    The accommodation was lovely.

    Thank you

    Denise and Chris
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