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On Hitched.co.uk since 2020

Last update: December 2025

Set on the outskirts of Haywards Heath overlooking the Balcombe hills. Our breathtaking Manor House awaits, set in our landscaped grounds offering an unrivalled setting for exchanging vows. (And one amazing view!)

Highley Manor offers the ideal setting for your wedding! We love weddings and we do them well!

With us, you will have for your day:

💍An exclusive use wedding venue for you and your guests.

💍A choice of indoor and outdoor ceremony locations, with up to 86 day and 200 evening guests

💍Packages to include your food and beverages.

💍DJ to get you evening party started!

💍A stunning Honeymoon Suite to end your day in style!

(Plus so much more!)

Whether your wedding is intimate, grand, formal, informal, or even charmingly quirky- every celebration at Highley Manor is unique, and we love being part of it!

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Frequently asked questions

Venue type:

In the country
Unusual weddings
Stately home
Historic
Landmark
Outdoor license
Unique weddings

Ceremony options:

Civil ceremony licence

Dining options:

Seated meal facilities
Alcohol licence
Buffet meal facilities
In-house catering

Evening entertainment:

Entertainment licence
Live band facilities
Evening reception facilities
DJ facilities

Overnight accommodation:

Overnight accommodation for wedding couple
Overnight accommodation for guests

Venue staff assistance:

Wedding coordinator

Other features:

Exclusive use
Accessible facilities
Car parking
Confetti permitted
Pet-friendly
Elephant baraat permitted
Horse baraat permitted
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Reviews for Highley Manor

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Beth Sent on 08/01/2026
5 out of 5 rating

10/10 on every count

We honestly cannot thank Highley Manor enough for giving us the most incredible wedding day. From start to finish, everything was beautifully organised and flawlessly executed, and we are so grateful to the entire team.

A huge special thank you to Sam, who was quite simply the best wedding coordinator we could have asked for. So many things were taken care of in the lead-up and on the day itself, often without us even realising, which is exactly how it should be. Sam’s calm, organised approach meant the day ran seamlessly and allowed us to completely relax and enjoy every single moment.

The whole team on the day were outstanding. Everything ran like a well-oiled machine, with smooth transitions throughout. So many of our guests commented on how well the day flowed and how effortlessly everything was managed.

A big shout-out as well to Ellis, who was an absolute legend, such a great sport, joined in the fun with us, and was brilliant throughout the day.

The venue itself is stunning, and the food was genuinely 10/10. Guests are still talking about the evening food, the rooms were lovely, and the overall experience exceeded every expectation. If we had the choice all over again, we would choose Highley Manor without hesitation.

We cannot recommend Highley Manor highly enough and will be recommending it to everyone we know. Thank you for making our wedding day so special.

Beth & Dan 🤍
Lucy
Lucy Sent on 02/01/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Tom and Lucy 06.11.25

We had our wedding at Highley on the 06.11.25, it was the perfect day and could not have gone any better, the staff are responsive and so helpful and make sure the day goes so smoothly, they are also flexible with any changes, especially last minute. For anyone that is thinking of having their wedding here I could not recommend it more. Sophie our wedding coordinator was so kind, patient and helpful, she listened to all our ideas and suggestions and did all she could to make these happen.
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Leah Sent on 31/12/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Our wedding 05/12

Highley manor as a wedding venue is 10/10. Our wedding coordinator Yvette went above and beyond and her communication was exceptional, thinking of every little detail.
The rooms are spacious and clean and good value for money. Food was fantastic.
The only let down of our wedding day was the DJ that was included with the venue, unfortunately he didn’t listen to our requests at all. Other than that I cannot fault it. Thank you Highley Manor
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Megan Sent on 18/12/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Phenomenal venue.

We have just had our wedding at Highley Manor and it exceeded all our expectations. We were so incredibly lucky with the weather as it was such a beautiful winters day in December which added to the joy, but the venue, staff, food and feel that Highley Manor executed was so special. It truly was the best day of our lives and it’s all because of Highley. They are one of the best decisions we have ever made. The building itself with the staircase, stained glass windows, fire places, flooring, paintings and so many other small stunning details are just exquisite alone.

All the staff were so friendly and more than happy to help with anything. The day went so smoothly and nothing seemed a problem for anyone. The cocktails at the bar were a hit, and the bartender was kept very busy all while maintaining great customer service. I know we had a few sassy grandparents and they were accommodated for too ha ha.

Throughout all the pre-wedding preparation and organising, each staff member we dealt with was friendly, helpful and benevolent. Any query or question we had was answered promptly, which made the whole process really simple and stress free, and actually quite enjoyable!

The food was unbelievable - everyone said how delicious the canapés and every course was. For the Wedding Breakfast we had Salmon to start, roast beef for the main and the Highley Trio for pudding. For the Vegan/Veggie option our guests who had that also said how nice it was. They also accommodated allergens and food preferences really well. My HUSBAND has an egg allergy and Highley were excellent with keeping him safe and accommodated all our needs. All the canapés and the evening buffet got demolished; the guests were certainly happy and well fed!

Yvette, our wedding day coordinator, was ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. She absolutely made our wedding the best day of our lives and we cannot thank her enough. She was professional, calm, and thoroughly organised with a real eye for detail, all of which reassured us as a couple throughout. Nothing seemed too much to ask and she coped with any of the minor quirks of our day really well. Throughout all the organisation process she was methodical and efficient. Yvette was really friendly and a lot of our guests commented on how fantastic she was. When Yvette, passed over to the evening coordinator Max, the transition was seamless. Max was super too; he was very helpful, calm and friendly.

We will be forever grateful for the beautiful Highley Manor and all the staff for making our wedding the best day of our lives. Thank you to all those at Highley who helped contribute.
Kevin
Kevin Sent on 14/12/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect Manor House Venue near London

Anyone looking for a venue south of London with a refined feel and great outdoor space should have Highley Manor at the top of their shortlist. We have no hesitation in recommending it as a 5 star venue that makes the 85 people capacity seem intimate.

My wife and I got married at Highley Manor over the August Bank Holiday having viewed the venue for the first time in February. From the first time we saw the building and the pavilion, we knew we had found the venue for us. The venue itself is stunning with views from the pavilion and honeymoon suite balcony a particular highlight. The rooms are all modern and have everything you could need for an overnight stay.

The venue is a lovely manor house that is spacious inside without having guests getting lost. Outside, there is plenty of space to have outdoor activities. We had a creche that was outside but still out of the way enough to provide the parents with a break. I have already mentioned the pavilion where we had our ceremony and it was just stunning. I would note that for the guests it isn’t covered and there is very little shade so if you’re lucky enough to get a hot sunny day, you’ll need fans/umbrellas/hats. Similarly, one should consider hiring a microphone and speaker if you want your guests at the back to hear your vows.

Inside the Ballroom is a wonderful setting for the wedding breakfast and dancing. We turned the Baronial Hall into our indoor creche when the sun went down. The Great Hall is a lovely mingling area and photo setting and the bar (separated from the ballroom where the dancing is) is quiet enough to have a drink and a chat.

All the catering can be provided in house and we took the venue up on that offer. The food went down a storm with the guests. The catering team provided a wide range of options to choose from and happily followed our requests and guest dietary requirements. One guest in particular said he was made to feel really special as he prefers to have his sauces on the side and this was one of the only venues who had actually remembered.

Now the best thing about Highley Manor is the staff. Yvette was our co-ordinator and helped so much in the lead up to the wedding and the staff on the day were magnificent. We particularly appreciated how flexible the venue were with our requests to really bring our vision to life. We had so much good feedback from our guests. The bar staff also did a great job of keeping me updated on the state of the tab (prices are extremely reasonable too).

All that remains to be said is a massive thank you to the Highley Manor team for making our wedding day incredibly special.
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Nikki Sent on 10/12/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Above and beyond all of our expectations

Highley Manor made our day so magical. We had high expectations, but they went above and beyond our wildest dreams. Every single member of staff were so attentive. Yvettes organisational skills blew our minds. Nothing was too much trouble.
The food was amazing. Our guests are still raving about it now. The exclusive use of the venue with exquisite bedrooms meant that our celebrations continued into breakfast.
The value for money was incredible.
Thank you so much Highley Manor. We want to do it all again!
Mr & Mrs Jarman
Sarah
Sarah Sent on 09/12/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Couldn’t have had a more perfect day

We had our wedding at Highley Manor on 6.12.25 and we had the most amazing day. The venue is great value for money and the attention to detail is brilliant. The first time we visited the venue we knew this was the place we wanted to get married.
The communication from the venue is brilliant and the staff are always there to help.
We would like to say a special mention to Paige as she was our wedding coordinator and without Paige our wedding would not have been what it was. She looked after us all and made our day the most stress free day. She took care of all the name places sweet carts confetti and made sure everyone was where they need to be.

The food was amazing and we had so many compliments on our food and nobody went home hungry. All the staff were so professional and welcoming.

The getting ready room has everything the bride and her bride party will ever need

We honestly couldn’t recommend this venue and staff enough

We had the best day

Sarah & Adam

Rowena
Rowena Sent on 03/12/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A Perfect Wedding Day Thanks to an Incredible Team

We couldn’t be happier with our experience at Highley Manor— it was truly the perfect place to celebrate our special day. The venue itself is stunning, but what made the day unforgettable was the incredible team behind it, especially Sophie, our on-the-day coordinator.

Sophie was absolutely exceptional. From the moment we arrived, she made everything feel effortless and seamless. She anticipated needs before we even voiced them, kept everything running smoothly, and made sure Daniel and I felt supported and relaxed the whole time. Her calm, warm presence and genuine care meant so much to us.
Our guests were amazed by the beautiful setting, the smooth flow of the day, and the impeccable attention to detail — all thanks to the wonderful staff.

Thank you to Sophie and the entire team for making our wedding day truly magical. We’re endlessly grateful and couldn’t recommend this venue more! 💛
Shannen
Shannen Sent on 26/11/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Most perfect wedding day 🩵

The wedding was absolutely perfect from start to finish, everyone at Highley Manor was so helpful and supportive and guided us through our special day with out any stress, I would 100 % recommend this venue for any couple who would enjoy a warm, homely modern wedding with a hint of old country house themes.

The honeymoon suite was definitely a highlight with a beautiful balcony, waking up to a beautiful sunrise in the morning on a cold winters day. Stunning 😍

Can't fault this place.

Many thanks to everyone there 💚
Caroline
Caroline Sent on 25/11/2025
5 out of 5 rating

November Wedding

The whole team were incredible. From the cleaners to the chef, nothing was too much trouble. Our wedding coordinator Paige was an absolute delight to work with, she made sure everything ran smoothly and thanks to her we had the most magical day. Thanks to Carol the chef who cooked all the food to perfection. Even the weather was perfect for November!!!
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Olly Sent on 23/10/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Incredible venue and wedding package

My wife and I could not speak highly enough (pardon the pun) of all the staff at Highley Manor, in particular our wedding co-ordinator Paige and evening manager Max, for looking after us on the 9th September.

The day was everything we could ever have imagined and more! It was stress free and the staff couldn't have been more helpful or efficient in running the day for us. Lots of our guests have commented saying it's one of the best weddings they've attended and very complimentary of the food which was excellent.

It's a day we will never forget and part of that is credited to the venue and efficiency of the staff. Our experience with Highley has only been positive from the very responsive communication to the evening taster session we attended. We would definitely recommend Highley Manor to anyone looking to book a wedding.

Thanks again!
Sascha
Sascha Sent on 16/10/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Best Day Ever

Where do I start? Our day was perfect.

The Highley Manor team were extremely professional from the first viewing, right through until the morning we left. Every question was answered promptly. Any personal changes we wanted to make, they made possible. The venue was spotless. The rooms were comfortable. The guest commented on how beautiful the venue was.

Most importantly though, on the day everything ran so smoothly. We didnt need to worry about anything. Timings were spot on but when there were delays (at our end) they made sure everything stayed on track and none of the guests were aware.

Special shout out to our Coordinator Paige who kept we calm towards the end of the planning and on the day was fabulous.

1000/10 would recommend.
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Jodie Sent on 13/10/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Highly recommend!!

We had our special day at Highley manor, we can’t thank the staff enough! Our wedding coordinator was amazing from very start to the end, making sure everything went to plan. (Even with a few hiccups along the way!)
The venue itself is a stunning place, with lots of opportunities to create great memories & photos with loved ones or just as a couple.
The food was honestly the best! (Coming from a fussy eater) and I still dream of the roast beef to this day… they were also so accommodating with food allergies & preferences too!
Honestly, we had the best day at Highley Manor and would 100% recommend to anyone who is looking for a magical day to choose Highley.
Jason
Jason Sent on 24/09/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Incredible Venue & Staff

We had our wedding at Highley Manor on 5th June and couldn’t have asked for a better experience. From start to finish, communication was clear and nothing was too much trouble. Our coordinator, Lucie, was phenomenal—calm, organised, and caring, making the whole day run seamlessly. The venue is stunning, the food was excellent, and every staff member went above and beyond. We’ll always treasure our day and highly recommend Highley Manor to future couples.
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Rachel Sent on 09/09/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing Venue!

We are so glad we chose Highley Manor for our wedding – it was everything we dreamed of and more. From the very start, Sophie, our coordinator, was incredible. Nothing was ever too much trouble, and she made the whole planning process and the day itself run so smoothly. In the evening, Max looked after us so well, and we truly felt completely cared for and able to just enjoy every moment.

The venue itself is stunning, with the most beautiful views creating such a magical backdrop to our day. We also loved how personal we could make the venue, it gave us the freedom to create a day that felt exactly how we wanted it to be. The accommodation was fantastic too, giving us and our guests a comfortable and convenient place to stay, which made the whole experience even more special. So many of our guests commented on how gorgeous it all looked and how fantastic the food was. We honestly couldn’t have asked for better.

Highley Manor gave us a wedding day we’ll never forget, and we’re so grateful for everything. We couldn’t recommend it highly enough!
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01 Feb
Open Door

Still on the hunt for your perfect wedding venue? We'd love to help!

Join us for a guided tour of Highley Manor, where you can soak up the atmosphere while enjoying a glass of fizz and some sweet treats. Our friendly team will be on hand to chat through your plans and answer any questions.

To book your spot, email us – we can’t wait to welcome you!

Date: From 01/02/2026 to 01/02/2026 Schedule 11:00 - 15:00
Place: Crawley Lane, Balcombe, West Sussex
22 Feb
Open Door

Still on the hunt for your perfect wedding venue? We'd love to help!

Join us for a guided tour of Highley Manor, where you can soak up the atmosphere while enjoying a glass of fizz and some sweet treats. Our friendly team will be on hand to chat through your plans and answer any questions.

To book your spot, email us, we can’t wait to welcome you!

Date: From 22/02/2026 to 22/02/2026 Schedule 11:00 - 15:00
Place: Crawley Lane, Balcombe, West Sussex
15 Apr
Open Door

Still on the hunt for your perfect wedding venue? We'd love to help!

Join us for a guided tour of Highley Manor, where you can soak up the atmosphere while enjoying a glass of fizz and some sweet treats. Our friendly team will be on hand to chat through your plans and answer any questions.

To book your spot, email us – we can’t wait to welcome you!

Date: From 15/04/2026 to 15/04/2026 Schedule 16:00 - 19:00
Place: Crawley Lane, Balcombe, West Sussex

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