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The Conscious Celebrant | Bespoke Ceremonies Rooted in Presence and Love

Based in Central London and available for destination weddings worldwide, The Conscious Celebrant offers tailored, heart-led wedding ceremonies for modern couples seeking depth, beauty, and presence on their special day. Led by international speaker, author, and mindfulness teacher Neil Seligman, this offering is ideal for those who want a spiritual-not-religious ceremony that reflects their unique essence, story, and soulful connection.

Whether you're planning an elegant city celebration, a luxurious destination wedding, or an intimate gathering in nature, Neil brings calm, clarity, and creativity to your ceremony journey. Inspired by his own recent wedding to his husband Jack at The Gherkin in London, Neil understands just how meaningful, joyful, and transformative this moment can be.

About Neil

A former civil barrister turned global consciousness guide, Neil brings over two decades of experience supporting individuals and leaders to connect with their purpose and inner wisdom. Known for his eloquence, warmth, and transformational presence, he creates sacred, inclusive spaces that celebrate love in all its forms.

With a gentle, poetic style and grounded spiritual approach, Neil crafts ceremonies that honour diverse backgrounds, beliefs, and identities. Whether you're an LGBTQ+ couple, celebrating across cultures or blending spiritual traditions, he will support you in creating a ceremony that feels entirely your own.

Services Offered

  • Bespoke wedding ceremonies co-created with care, depth, and presence
  • Spiritual-not-religious approach with mindful guidance throughout
  • Destination weddings in Europe, the US, and internationally
  • Vow renewals & commitment ceremonies
  • Lovingly inclusive of LGBTQIA+, interfaith, and multicultural love stories

Optional Ceremony Enhancements:

  • Anchoring support or MC services across your celebration weekend
  • Morning meditation for the couple or wedding party
  • Reiki Healings before the ceremony (Neil has been a Usui Reiki Master since 1999).
  • Post-wedding integration session for reflection and closure
  • Soul Portrait sessions for individuals or couples – a unique photographic offering to capture your most joyous soul expression.

Every journey begins with a discovery call, where Neil leads a gentle exploration of your story, vision, and ideas. Couples often find this call surprisingly moving – a chance to pause, reflect, and reconnect with what truly matters to them as they step into the heart of their celebration. From there, a deeply personal and elegant ceremony begins to emerge – one that truly reflects the unique connection you share.

Whether you're walking down the aisle hand-in-hand, inviting your guests into a moment of collective stillness, or expressing your vows under an open sky, The Conscious Celebrant offers a soulful, elevated alternative to the ordinary.

What's Included:

  • 30-minute discovery call to connect, reflect and align your vision
  • A minimum of two online sessions – one to visualise and co-create the tone, structure and spirit of your ceremony and another to rehearse the flow in advance of the in-person rehearsal
  • Creation of a bespoke ceremony script, including rituals and symbolic elements, as requested. Ongoing collaboration via email and Google Docs
  • Guidance in writing personal vows and choosing readings
  • Advice on sound, staging, and flow during ceremony planning
  • Liaison with your planner or venue as needed to support the smooth running of the ceremony
  • Leadership of the in-person rehearsal on the day of the wedding
  • Officiating your ceremony with grace, presence, and deep attention

Neil offers a calm and experienced presence throughout – holding space for your celebration with beauty, ease, and heartfelt professionalism.

Craft a ceremony as meaningful as your connection.

  • LGBTQ+-owned

Frequently asked questions

Language:

English

Religion:

Non-religious/humanist

Type:

Celebrant
Officiant
Master of ceremonies
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Reviews for The Conscious Celebrant

J
Jack Sent on 08/06/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A truly magical presence

Having Neil as our celebrant was—no surprise—the best decision we made for our wedding.
He brought presence, humour, heart, and a deep sense of calm to the ceremony. Every word felt personal and true, and the way he held the space made the moment feel both grounded and elevated.
Of course, I am completely biased—I married him. But I also know, firsthand, how gifted he is at creating sacred, beautiful, and joyful ceremonies that reflect the unique love stories of those involved.
If you're lucky enough to have Neil as your celebrant, you're in for something unforgettable.
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