The In & Out

(13 reviews) 13 5
No. 4, St. James's Square South West London SW1Y 4JU
The perfect setting for your special day... 0
Our Gorgeous Inner Hall 1
Ceremony in our King Harald V Room 2
Our Elegant & Chic Coffee Room 3
Philippa Sian photography 4
Philippa Sian photography 5
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About The In & Out

No. 4, St. James's Square
South West London, SW1Y 4JU

'We The In & Out, take thee, our most cherished wedding couple, from this day forward to surprise and delight, to support and advise, for grandeur for chic, for exotic or boutique, in splendour and in style, until your wedding day is complete…’

Confirm your wedding for August or September 2018 to recieve a special reduce rate per person and an upgrade to peach bellini's on arrival!

We are located on a private corner of St James’s Square, London and licensed to host both Civil Ceremonies and Partnerships. With sparkling chandeliers, sweeping staircases, double height ceilings and spectacular fireplaces, we provide a magnificent venue with a superb range of rooms available for each part of your special day.

Nothing outshines civil ceremonies in the magnificent King Harald V Stateroom, following your ceremony guests will be welcomed downstairs to the impressive Inner Hall and with beautiful high ceilings for champagne and canapes. This will be followed by dining and dancing alongside your guests in the grand Coffee Room. The Club also has a romantic Courtyard which transforms into your own intimate outdoor space. Use it for taking scenic wedding photographs by day or create a magical alfresco dining experience by night.

The Cowdray room is set with soft furnishing which is the perfect setting for a chillout space through the evening.

After all the celebrations you’ll want to relax in luxury in our complimentary bridal suite on the night of your wedding, and there is also the option of reserving additional bedrooms for your guests at the Club’s hotel.

• Spacious courtyard for pre-dinner drinks and evening reception – perfect for a summer wedding! • A complimentary suite is included on your wedding night with the option of reserving additional bedrooms for your guests at the Club’s hotel. • Licensed for civil ceremonies and partnerships up to 150 guests, 120 for dining and 350 for a standing reception. • Exceptional catering provided by Ampersand – a renowned caterer in the City which delivers outstanding food to several iconic venues in London.

Facilities at The In & Out

Venue Type :
Civil Ceremony Licence
Exclusive Use
In the City
Stately Home
Outdoor License
Evening Entertainment :
Evening Reception Facilities
Dance Floor
Entertainment Licence
Live Band Facilities
DJ Facilities
Overnight Accommodation :
Overnight Accommodation for Wedding Couple
Overnight Accommodation for Guests
Venue Leisure Facilities :
Swimming Pool
Fitness Centre
Dining Options :
Seated Meal Facilities
Buffet Meal Facilities
In House Catering
Alcohol Licence
Corkage Option
Capacity :
Less than 30 guests
30 to 50 guests
50 to 75 guests
75 to 100 guests
100 to 150 guests
Venue Staff Assistance :
Wedding Coordinator
Other Features :
Confetti Permitted
Changing Room for Guests
Disabled Facilities

The In & Out Location

The In & Out, No. 4, St. James's Square, South West London, SW1Y 4JU

No. 4, St. James's Square South West London SW1Y 4JU
020 7871 0577
13 5

The In & Out Reviews (13)

Amazing wedding day at The In & Out
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By Matthew & Basilio, on 07 Sep 2015

We would like to say once again that we had an amazing wedding day at The In & Out - everything from the building itself, which provided a wonderful setting for our wedding ceremony & celebrations, the food, which even impressed the Italians(!), and, of course, the staff who were so pleasant and helpful throughout the day. Also our special thanks and appreciation to you both, and to Pablo, Naomi and Jodie, for your help, support and patience throughout - from our first visit to the Club, to dealing with our many (many) questions, and then on the day itself. Each of you played an important part in making the last year's planning come together in an unforgettable day not only for us but also our families and friends. Thank you & grazie mille!

It was an outstanding day!
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By Richard & Harriet, on 17 Oct 2014

Thanks for everything you organised on 5th September for our wedding. I think it was an outstanding day. You tied up all the details smoothly. Many of our guests commented on the excellent food and wine.

Thank you to everyone!
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By Sebastian & Tamar, on 17 Oct 2014

Thanks to everyone for ensuring the wedding went off so brilliantly. We had a lovely day, all our guests have been raving about it saying it was one of the best so well done. I know we had some last minute changes and panics but you were all very accommodating and understanding. Tell chef the beef was excellent

Wonderful venue and great food
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By Jenny & Haakon parents of the Bride, on 18 Apr 2013

Thank you for making the wedding run like clockwork.....we had such a happy time, wonderful venue and great food. You and your staff were brilliant and we really felt that you all made such an effort with all the small details which makes THE difference to an event like that. Thank you very much indeed for all your help and support, we were very pleased with the result. Tilly and Oliver loved their wedding, and let's face it, at the end of the day, that is all that matters.

The staff were most helpful!
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By Susanni & James, on 18 Apr 2013

We were very pleased overall with how the day went, in particular the general atmosphere. The staff were most helpful during the evening and we could not have asked for better or discrete service. They responded well to our requests on the spur of the moment and were a pleasure to deal with. They were particularly helpful with moving the cake where we asked them to. The chef was very kind to cook me a meal on the spur of the moment and it was delicious!

Everything ran like clockwork
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By Charles & Melanie, on 18 Apr 2013

Just a quick note to say how impressively well organised everything was at the In & Out. You and your team did an amazing job. So efficient, and apparently effortless. Everything happened just when you said it would. and your staff moved silently and invisibly to make everything go like clockwork. We never had a moment's anxiety about any of the organisation all evening. The food also was fantastic. One of our guests who is a chef said it was the best food she'd ever had at a wedding

I honestly think it could not have been better...
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By David Duncan, on 18 Apr 2013

I honestly think it could not have been better. Everyone had a great time. The reception in the lnner Hall was wonderful. Afternoon tea in the Coffee Room really set the day off and the ceilidh and dancing into the night in the lnner Hall was simply marvellous. I thought the hog roast really hit the mark also. We were only sorry it was all over so quickly. The ln and Out is a very special place for Liesl and I and will continue to be so, made all the better by the great memories that day.

The food was exceptional
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By Katriona Fraser, on 18 Apr 2013

The wedding was absolutely brilliant. Some of our guests said that it was the best wedding that they'd ever been to. Hurrah! The food was exceptional and noted by a lot of people. The service was superb. The co-ordination of course utterly brilliant.

A really terrific party!
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By David Montgomery, on 18 Apr 2013

A huge thank you to you and all the staff of the In and Out for putting on a really terrific party on Saturday . It was tremendous fun, and a great tribute to the venue and the organisation that it went virtually without a hitch . Once it all began I could see that the evening was going to be a success and I was not disappointed.

It is a perfect venue for a wedding
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By Mr May Father of the Bride, on 18 Apr 2013

I am writing to thank you and your staff for providing the most wonderful wedding on Saturday 23rd June. Charlotte Smal choreographed all the arrangements for the wedding and reception at the Club and did a perfect job; there was absolutely no hitch at any point. The catering with all thanks to the Chef, was superlative. Every member of staff bent over backwards to give everyone the best of times. I would also like our thanks passed to the lovely lady who manages the Coffee room. She never stopped and had a perpetual smile on her face. It is no exaggeration to say that at least 50 guests commented to me on the beauty of the setting. It is a perfect venue for a wedding and your colleagues and staff made it simply perfect.

I fell in love with the venue as soon as I saw it!
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By Josephine & Paul, on 18 Apr 2013

I obviously fell in love with the venue as soon as I saw it. Because I had so many guests to cater for, I felt the venue was very reasonable in accommodating all my guests into two rooms. On the day, the entire place was clean and beautiful. I can’t tell you how many people have said to me how excellent the food was on the day. For my husband and I, the food was one of the most important things about the wedding. The Chef basically made absolutely delicious food, but for about 130 guests, all of the same exquisite quality. The Chef was also one of the nicest people we’ve met; he was so kind to us in designing our menu and recommended each dish perfectly.

A setting more beautiful than we could imagine!
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By Gretchen & Matthew, on 18 Apr 2013

When one thinks of their dream wedding, a beautiful setting, wonderful food, and enchanting music are things that often come to mind. Unfortunately, one also thinks of the vast amount of time and the immense effort that go into creating that perfect day. Our day at The In & Out was perfect not only because of the setting, food, and music, but because working with Ampersand made the road getting there smooth and easy. All of the horror stories that we have heard throughout the years about planning a wedding were just that, stories. The reality that we had was two staffs, both with Ampersand and with the club, who were the ultimate in professionalism, constant feedback and communication from our personal wedding co-ordinator, and most importantly the feeling that, no matter what, everything would be taken care of on the big day. We never had a worry with them the entire time leading up to the wedding or on the wedding day itself. This was particularly important to us because I am an American and my husband is English. With family and friends travelling from all across the globe, the comfort and security that Ampersand and The In & Out gave us in preparing for an international wedding allowed us to rest assured that the long trip that many people took for this wedding would be well worth it. I cannot say enough about how wonderful the experience was working with the Ampersand team and with The In & Out, a setting more beautiful than we could ever have imagined for our wedding. We are nothing but grateful for all of their hard work and help making it truly our dream wedding.

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