The In & Out

(20 reviews) 20 5
No. 4, St. James's Square St. James's Square London South West London SW1Y 4JU
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About The In & Out

No. 4, St. James's Square, St. James's Square, London
South West London, SW1Y 4JU

Entrust your perfect day to the In & Out (Naval and Military Club) which is a sanctuary in the heart of London, centrally located in a private corner of St James’s Square. This Grade II* listed building provides a magnificent venue offering an impressive range of grand staterooms which are licensed for both Civil Ceremonies and Partnerships for up to 300 members and non-members. The grandeur of the club offers an array of luxurious rooms filled with history, large windows, beautiful paintings, sparkling chandeliers, sweeping staircases, double height ceilings and spectacular fireplaces. Leading out to a secluded outdoor Courtyard which is a sheer delight for taking scenic photographs, alfresco soirées and receptions. The other distinctive privileges we can offer you is private access to the stunning adjacent St James Square gardens which make a spectacular setting for photographs and the option of a late license so you can enjoy the dancefloor longer! Then to continue your celebrations you can enjoy the opulence of reserving additional bedrooms for your guests to enjoy or spend your special night in our luxury bridal suite.

From beginning to end, our impeccably trained team will ensure that every aspect of your event is executed seamlessly. The quality and value offered by our Club are second to none.



• Spacious courtyard for pre-dinner drinks and evening reception – perfect for a summer wedding! • The newly refurbished Canning Suite is offered at a highly discounted rate for the newlyweds. • Licensed for civil ceremonies and partnerships up to 150 guests, 120 for dining and 350 for a standing reception. • The beautiful St James's Sqaure in the heart of central London offers you exclusive use to have your memorable wedding photos taken. • The Clubhouse is housed in what was the residence of Nancy Astor who was the first lady to sit in Parliament • One of London's oldest and most prestigious private member club's allows you to enjoy the splendour which is usually only accessible to our members.

Facilities at The In & Out

Venue Type :
Civil Ceremony Licence
Exclusive Use
In the City
Stately Home
Outdoor License
Evening Entertainment :
Evening Reception Facilities
Dance Floor
Entertainment Licence
Live Band Facilities
DJ Facilities
Overnight Accommodation :
Overnight Accommodation for Wedding Couple
Overnight Accommodation for Guests
Venue Leisure Facilities :
Swimming Pool
Fitness Centre
Dining Options :
Seated Meal Facilities
Buffet Meal Facilities
In House Catering
Alcohol Licence
Corkage Option
Capacity :
Less than 30 guests
30 to 50 guests
50 to 75 guests
75 to 100 guests
100 to 150 guests
Venue Staff Assistance :
Wedding Coordinator
Other Features :
Confetti Permitted
Changing Room for Guests
Disabled Facilities

The In & Out Reviews (20)

We had the most amazing weekend!
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By Louise & Mark, on 26 Feb 2020Date of Wedding - 21 Dec 2019

I don’t know where to begin. We had the most amazing weekend. Your staff were simply outstanding. Every guest loved the venue! The food was exceptional. Full tummies all round! Please pass our thanks to your incredible chefs! The service was amazing. Every detail was perfect. The staff were unbelievable. In specific Angelo, Surjit, Paulina, Nick and Ruslan! They were all amazing and my parents loved how much help they gave us all. (Please pass on our gratitude). We had the most fabulous time. Our family and friends have all said it’s the best Wedding they have been to. I’m so grateful for all the hard work you and your team put in to making our day so special.

We thoroughly enjoyed it!
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By John Watson, Father of the Bride, on 26 Feb 2020Date of Wedding - 28 Sep 2019

Thank you so much and our thanks to Dalia and the team for the work which you all put in to make Dell and Ben's wedding a success. We thoroughly enjoyed it and it seemed to run like clockwork, something which I know it takes a lot of hard work to achieve. A number of the guests said that it was the best wedding that they had ever been to and I thought it was a great credit to all of you and to the In and Out itself. We really are most grateful.

Really happy with everything!
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By Lindy, Wedding Planner, on 26 Feb 2020Date of Wedding - 20 Jul 2019

I just wanted to say a huge thanks for making Suzanne and Sam’s day so perfect. They were really happy with everything and that’s down to all of you! I hope you all have a great week ahead and I look forward to working with you again, hopefully in the near future.

I got my fairy tale wedding!
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By Johanna & Tor, on 26 Feb 2020Date of Wedding - 15 Jun 2019

Yes many thanks to you and your team for helping to make our day so magical. I really got my fairy tale wedding! I was SO pleased with the way my vision for the decorations turned out.

We are extremely grateful!
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By Al & Laura, on 26 Feb 2020Date of Wedding - 22 Dec 2018

A huge thank you for all of your help on the lead up to our wedding. We are extremely grateful for the effort you made to ensure our special day ran smoothly. Dalia and your team executed everything superbly and made all of our family and friends feel welcome at the Club.

We had a great day!
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By Anna & Philip, on 26 Feb 2020Date of Wedding - 01 Dec 2018

We had a great day! Please extend sincere thanks to the fantastic chefs / bar / serving staff - and yourself and Dalia - for all your efforts on the day.

Our guests were blown away!
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By Courtney & Tom, on 26 Feb 2020Date of Wedding - 13 Oct 2018

I am finally recovering from the fog of our event....and I just wanted to give everyone at the In & Out a massive thank you from Tom and I both. Our guests were blown away by the venue, the food and the overall greatness of everything. What a fabulous party!

Amazing wedding day at The In & Out
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By Matthew & Basilio, on 07 Sep 2015

We would like to say once again that we had an amazing wedding day at The In & Out - everything from the building itself, which provided a wonderful setting for our wedding ceremony & celebrations, the food, which even impressed the Italians(!), and, of course, the staff who were so pleasant and helpful throughout the day. Also our special thanks and appreciation to you both, and to Pablo, Naomi and Jodie, for your help, support and patience throughout - from our first visit to the Club, to dealing with our many (many) questions, and then on the day itself. Each of you played an important part in making the last year's planning come together in an unforgettable day not only for us but also our families and friends. Thank you & grazie mille!

It was an outstanding day!
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By Richard & Harriet, on 17 Oct 2014

Thanks for everything you organised on 5th September for our wedding. I think it was an outstanding day. You tied up all the details smoothly. Many of our guests commented on the excellent food and wine.

Thank you to everyone!
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By Sebastian & Tamar, on 17 Oct 2014

Thanks to everyone for ensuring the wedding went off so brilliantly. We had a lovely day, all our guests have been raving about it saying it was one of the best so well done. I know we had some last minute changes and panics but you were all very accommodating and understanding. Tell chef the beef was excellent

Wonderful venue and great food
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By Jenny & Haakon parents of the Bride, on 18 Apr 2013

Thank you for making the wedding run like clockwork.....we had such a happy time, wonderful venue and great food. You and your staff were brilliant and we really felt that you all made such an effort with all the small details which makes THE difference to an event like that. Thank you very much indeed for all your help and support, we were very pleased with the result. Tilly and Oliver loved their wedding, and let's face it, at the end of the day, that is all that matters.

The staff were most helpful!
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By Susanni & James, on 18 Apr 2013

We were very pleased overall with how the day went, in particular the general atmosphere. The staff were most helpful during the evening and we could not have asked for better or discrete service. They responded well to our requests on the spur of the moment and were a pleasure to deal with. They were particularly helpful with moving the cake where we asked them to. The chef was very kind to cook me a meal on the spur of the moment and it was delicious!

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