The In & Out

(13 reviews) 13 5
No. 4, St. James's Square London South West London SW1Y 4JU
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About The In & Out

No. 4, St. James's Square, London
South West London, SW1Y 4JU

The Naval & Military Club affectionally and traditionally known as The In & Out is one of London's oldest and prestitigous private member club's.  The Club situated in what was Nancy Astor's residence the first lady to sit in parliament offers unrivaled splendour in some of London's most elegant rooms.

The In & Out is a wonderful all year venue to hold your dream wedding, whether this is in the secluded Courtyard during the summer months or the majestic Inner Hall in the winter with the warmth you would expect.

The King Harold V Room with it's elegant opulent chandeliers, beautiful decor offer you a magnificence room in which to hold your civil ceremony in.  Located on the first floor of the club overlooking the stunning Courtyard it is truly splendid.

The elegance of the Coffee Room is a gorgeous stateroom overlooking St James's Sqaure allowing for a memorible breakfast to start off married life.  Allowing for up to 120 close family and friends to join you in your celebration it will be spoken about for many years to come.

Once you have decided to hold your dream wedding at the club straight away you will notice the care and attention you will receive.  Whether this is the first meeting to the menu tasting allowing you to critique your wedding breakfast to the day itself you will be guided every step of the way.  With a number of rooms for you to choose from whether it be a small initmate weddings, canape reception or a much larger wedding our team will be on hand.

The Club has 52 well appointed bedrooms with the newly refurbished Canning Suite offered to the newlyweds at a highly discounted rate, allows you all to enjoy the whole day.

• Spacious courtyard for pre-dinner drinks and evening reception – perfect for a summer wedding! • The newly refurbished Canning Suite is offered at a highly discounted rate for the newlyweds. • Licensed for civil ceremonies and partnerships up to 150 guests, 120 for dining and 350 for a standing reception. • The beautiful St James's Sqaure in the heart of central London offers you exclusive use to have your memorable wedding photos taken. • The Clubhouse is housed in what was the residence of Nancy Astor who was the first lady to sit in Parliament • One of London's oldest and most prestigious private member club's allows you to enjoy the splendour which is usually only accessible to our members.

Facilities at The In & Out

Venue Type :
Civil Ceremony Licence
Exclusive Use
In the City
Stately Home
Outdoor License
Evening Entertainment :
Evening Reception Facilities
Dance Floor
Entertainment Licence
Live Band Facilities
DJ Facilities
Overnight Accommodation :
Overnight Accommodation for Wedding Couple
Overnight Accommodation for Guests
Venue Leisure Facilities :
Swimming Pool
Fitness Centre
Dining Options :
Seated Meal Facilities
Buffet Meal Facilities
In House Catering
Alcohol Licence
Corkage Option
Capacity :
Less than 30 guests
30 to 50 guests
50 to 75 guests
75 to 100 guests
100 to 150 guests
Venue Staff Assistance :
Wedding Coordinator
Other Features :
Confetti Permitted
Changing Room for Guests
Disabled Facilities

The In & Out Reviews (13)

Amazing wedding day at The In & Out
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By Matthew & Basilio, on 07 Sep 2015

We would like to say once again that we had an amazing wedding day at The In & Out - everything from the building itself, which provided a wonderful setting for our wedding ceremony & celebrations, the food, which even impressed the Italians(!), and, of course, the staff who were so pleasant and helpful throughout the day. Also our special thanks and appreciation to you both, and to Pablo, Naomi and Jodie, for your help, support and patience throughout - from our first visit to the Club, to dealing with our many (many) questions, and then on the day itself. Each of you played an important part in making the last year's planning come together in an unforgettable day not only for us but also our families and friends. Thank you & grazie mille!

It was an outstanding day!
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By Richard & Harriet, on 17 Oct 2014

Thanks for everything you organised on 5th September for our wedding. I think it was an outstanding day. You tied up all the details smoothly. Many of our guests commented on the excellent food and wine.

Thank you to everyone!
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By Sebastian & Tamar, on 17 Oct 2014

Thanks to everyone for ensuring the wedding went off so brilliantly. We had a lovely day, all our guests have been raving about it saying it was one of the best so well done. I know we had some last minute changes and panics but you were all very accommodating and understanding. Tell chef the beef was excellent

Wonderful venue and great food
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By Jenny & Haakon parents of the Bride, on 18 Apr 2013

Thank you for making the wedding run like clockwork.....we had such a happy time, wonderful venue and great food. You and your staff were brilliant and we really felt that you all made such an effort with all the small details which makes THE difference to an event like that. Thank you very much indeed for all your help and support, we were very pleased with the result. Tilly and Oliver loved their wedding, and let's face it, at the end of the day, that is all that matters.

The staff were most helpful!
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By Susanni & James, on 18 Apr 2013

We were very pleased overall with how the day went, in particular the general atmosphere. The staff were most helpful during the evening and we could not have asked for better or discrete service. They responded well to our requests on the spur of the moment and were a pleasure to deal with. They were particularly helpful with moving the cake where we asked them to. The chef was very kind to cook me a meal on the spur of the moment and it was delicious!

Everything ran like clockwork
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By Charles & Melanie, on 18 Apr 2013

Just a quick note to say how impressively well organised everything was at the In & Out. You and your team did an amazing job. So efficient, and apparently effortless. Everything happened just when you said it would. and your staff moved silently and invisibly to make everything go like clockwork. We never had a moment's anxiety about any of the organisation all evening. The food also was fantastic. One of our guests who is a chef said it was the best food she'd ever had at a wedding

I honestly think it could not have been better...
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By David Duncan, on 18 Apr 2013

I honestly think it could not have been better. Everyone had a great time. The reception in the lnner Hall was wonderful. Afternoon tea in the Coffee Room really set the day off and the ceilidh and dancing into the night in the lnner Hall was simply marvellous. I thought the hog roast really hit the mark also. We were only sorry it was all over so quickly. The ln and Out is a very special place for Liesl and I and will continue to be so, made all the better by the great memories that day.

The food was exceptional
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By Katriona Fraser, on 18 Apr 2013

The wedding was absolutely brilliant. Some of our guests said that it was the best wedding that they'd ever been to. Hurrah! The food was exceptional and noted by a lot of people. The service was superb. The co-ordination of course utterly brilliant.

A really terrific party!
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By David Montgomery, on 18 Apr 2013

A huge thank you to you and all the staff of the In and Out for putting on a really terrific party on Saturday . It was tremendous fun, and a great tribute to the venue and the organisation that it went virtually without a hitch . Once it all began I could see that the evening was going to be a success and I was not disappointed.

It is a perfect venue for a wedding
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By Mr May Father of the Bride, on 18 Apr 2013

I am writing to thank you and your staff for providing the most wonderful wedding on Saturday 23rd June. Charlotte Smal choreographed all the arrangements for the wedding and reception at the Club and did a perfect job; there was absolutely no hitch at any point. The catering with all thanks to the Chef, was superlative. Every member of staff bent over backwards to give everyone the best of times. I would also like our thanks passed to the lovely lady who manages the Coffee room. She never stopped and had a perpetual smile on her face. It is no exaggeration to say that at least 50 guests commented to me on the beauty of the setting. It is a perfect venue for a wedding and your colleagues and staff made it simply perfect.

I fell in love with the venue as soon as I saw it!
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By Josephine & Paul, on 18 Apr 2013

I obviously fell in love with the venue as soon as I saw it. Because I had so many guests to cater for, I felt the venue was very reasonable in accommodating all my guests into two rooms. On the day, the entire place was clean and beautiful. I can’t tell you how many people have said to me how excellent the food was on the day. For my husband and I, the food was one of the most important things about the wedding. The Chef basically made absolutely delicious food, but for about 130 guests, all of the same exquisite quality. The Chef was also one of the nicest people we’ve met; he was so kind to us in designing our menu and recommended each dish perfectly.

A setting more beautiful than we could imagine!
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By Gretchen & Matthew, on 18 Apr 2013

When one thinks of their dream wedding, a beautiful setting, wonderful food, and enchanting music are things that often come to mind. Unfortunately, one also thinks of the vast amount of time and the immense effort that go into creating that perfect day. Our day at The In & Out was perfect not only because of the setting, food, and music, but because working with Ampersand made the road getting there smooth and easy. All of the horror stories that we have heard throughout the years about planning a wedding were just that, stories. The reality that we had was two staffs, both with Ampersand and with the club, who were the ultimate in professionalism, constant feedback and communication from our personal wedding co-ordinator, and most importantly the feeling that, no matter what, everything would be taken care of on the big day. We never had a worry with them the entire time leading up to the wedding or on the wedding day itself. This was particularly important to us because I am an American and my husband is English. With family and friends travelling from all across the globe, the comfort and security that Ampersand and The In & Out gave us in preparing for an international wedding allowed us to rest assured that the long trip that many people took for this wedding would be well worth it. I cannot say enough about how wonderful the experience was working with the Ampersand team and with The In & Out, a setting more beautiful than we could ever have imagined for our wedding. We are nothing but grateful for all of their hard work and help making it truly our dream wedding.

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