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On since 2022

Last update: November 2023

The In & Out is a wedding venue located in Westminster, South West London. Entrust your perfect day to the venue's professional events team for the opportunity to celebrate your love in the heart of London, nestled away in a private corner of St James's Square.

Facilities and Capacity

The In & Out is a Grade II* listed building that provides a magnificent setting for an unforgettable event. The property offers an impressive range of grand staterooms, licensed for both civil ceremonies and partnerships, for up to 300 members and non-members. The grandeur of the club can be enjoyed by guests in an array of luxurious rooms filled with large windows, beautiful paintings, sparkling chandeliers, sweeping staircases, double-height ceilings and spectacular fireplaces. The secluded outdoor Courtyard is a sheer delight for taking scenic photographs, alfresco soirées and receptions. The other distinctive privileges the venue can offer you include private access to the stunning adjacent St James Square gardens and the option of a late license. Then to continue your celebrations, you can enjoy the luxury of reserving additional bedrooms for your guests to enjoy or spend your special night in the luxury bridal suite.

Services Offered

From beginning to end, the team at The In & Out will ensure that every aspect of your event is executed seamlessly. You will have exclusive use of the property for the duration of your event, allowing you to enjoy your day in the company of those you love. For an all-inclusive experience, the in-house catering team will craft a delicious meal for you and your loved ones.

Frequently asked questions

Venue type:

Stately home
In the city
Outdoor license

Ceremony options:

Civil ceremony licence

Dining options:

Seated meal facilities
Corkage option
Alcohol licence
Buffet meal facilities
In-house catering

Evening entertainment:

Dance floor
Entertainment licence
Live band facilities
Evening reception facilities
DJ facilities

Overnight accommodation:

Overnight accommodation for wedding couple
Overnight accommodation for guests

Venue staff assistance:

Wedding coordinator

Venue leisure facilities:

Swimming pool
Fitness centre

Other features:

Exclusive use
Accessible facilities
Confetti permitted
Changing room for wedding guests
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100% Recommended by couples
Bertie Sent on 09/04/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely superb day

Dear Nicole, I just wanted to say thank you so much for your effort in planning and delivering the MOST WONDERFUL day for the wedding of Katie and I on 1st April. We honestly could not have hoped for it to be better than it was, and could not have done it without you! In particular I'd like to thank you for being so flexible in meeting us and then being there to co-host on the day. We all had the most amazing time and can't wait to come back to relive the happy memories! Absolutely superb day - mostly thanks to you!
Louise Sent on 26/02/2020
5 out of 5 rating

We had the most amazing weekend!

I don’t know where to begin. We had the most amazing weekend. Your staff were simply outstanding. Every guest loved the venue! The food was exceptional. Full tummies all round! Please pass our thanks to your incredible chefs!
The service was amazing. Every detail was perfect.
The staff were unbelievable. In specific Angelo, Surjit, Paulina, Nick and Ruslan! They were all amazing and my parents loved how much help they gave us all. (Please pass on our gratitude).
We had the most fabulous time. Our family and friends have all said it’s the best Wedding they have been to. I’m so grateful for all the hard work you and your team put in to making our day so special.
John Sent on 26/02/2020
5 out of 5 rating

We thoroughly enjoyed it!

Thank you so much and our thanks to Dalia and the team for the work which you all put in to make Dell and Ben's wedding a success. We thoroughly enjoyed it and it seemed to run like clockwork, something which I know it takes a lot of hard work to achieve. A number of the guests said that it was the best wedding that they had ever been to and I thought it was a great credit to all of you and to the In and Out itself. We really are most grateful.
Lindy, Sent on 26/02/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Really happy with everything!

I just wanted to say a huge thanks for making Suzanne and Sam’s day so perfect. They were really happy with everything and that’s down to all of you! I hope you all have a great week ahead and I look forward to working with you again, hopefully in the near future.
Johanna Sent on 26/02/2020
5 out of 5 rating

I got my fairy tale wedding!

Yes many thanks to you and your team for helping to make our day so magical. I really got my fairy tale wedding! I was SO pleased with the way my vision for the decorations turned out.
Al Sent on 26/02/2020
5 out of 5 rating

We are extremely grateful!

A huge thank you for all of your help on the lead up to our wedding. We are extremely grateful for the effort you made to ensure our special day ran smoothly. Dalia and your team executed everything superbly and made all of our family and friends feel welcome at the Club.
Anna Sent on 26/02/2020
5 out of 5 rating

We had a great day!

We had a great day! Please extend sincere thanks to the fantastic chefs / bar / serving staff - and yourself and Dalia - for all your efforts on the day.
Courtney Sent on 26/02/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Our guests were blown away!

I am finally recovering from the fog of our event....and I just wanted to give everyone at the In & Out a massive thank you from Tom and I both. Our guests were blown away by the venue, the food and the overall greatness of everything. What a fabulous party!
Matthew Sent on 07/09/2015
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing wedding day at The In & Out

We would like to say once again that we had an amazing wedding day at The In & Out - everything from the building itself, which provided a wonderful setting for our wedding ceremony & celebrations, the food, which even impressed the Italians(!), and, of course, the staff who were so pleasant and helpful throughout the day.

Also our special thanks and appreciation to you both, and to Pablo, Naomi and Jodie, for your help, support and patience throughout - from our first visit to the Club, to dealing with our many (many) questions, and then on the day itself. Each of you played an important part in making the last year's planning come together in an unforgettable day not only for us but also our families and friends.

Thank you & grazie mille!
Richard Sent on 17/10/2014
5 out of 5 rating

It was an outstanding day!

Thanks for everything you organised on 5th September for our wedding.

I think it was an outstanding day. You tied up all the details smoothly. Many of our guests commented on the excellent food and wine.
Sebastian Sent on 17/10/2014
5 out of 5 rating

Thank you to everyone!

Thanks to everyone for ensuring the wedding went off so brilliantly. We had a lovely day, all our guests have been raving about it saying it was one of the best so well done.

I know we had some last minute changes and panics but you were all very accommodating and understanding.

Tell chef the beef was excellent
Jenny Sent on 18/04/2013
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful venue and great food

Thank you for making the wedding run like clockwork.....we had such a happy time, wonderful venue and great food. You and your staff were brilliant and we really felt that you all made such an effort with all the small details which makes THE difference to an event like that. Thank you very
much indeed for all your help and support, we were very pleased with the result. Tilly and Oliver loved their wedding, and let's face it, at the end of the day, that is all that matters.
Susanni Sent on 18/04/2013
5 out of 5 rating

The staff were most helpful!

We were very pleased overall with how the day went, in particular the general atmosphere. The staff were most helpful during the evening and we could not have asked for better or discrete service. They responded well to our requests on the spur of the moment and were a pleasure to deal with. They were particularly helpful with moving the cake where we asked them to. The chef was very kind to cook me a meal on the spur of the moment and it was delicious!
Charles Sent on 18/04/2013
5 out of 5 rating

Everything ran like clockwork

Just a quick note to say how impressively well organised everything was at the In & Out. You and your team did an amazing job. So efficient, and apparently effortless. Everything happened just when you said it would. and your staff moved silently and invisibly to make everything go like clockwork. We never had a moment's anxiety about any of the organisation all evening. The food also was fantastic. One of our guests who is a chef said it was the best food she'd ever had at a wedding
David Sent on 18/04/2013
5 out of 5 rating

I honestly think it could not have been better...

I honestly think it could not have been better. Everyone had a great time. The reception in
the lnner Hall was wonderful. Afternoon tea in the Coffee Room really set the day off and
the ceilidh and dancing into the night in the lnner Hall was simply marvellous. I thought the hog roast really hit the mark also. We were only
sorry it was all over so quickly. The ln and Out is a very special place for Liesl and I and will continue to be so, made all the better by the great memories that day.
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