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Weddings | Vow Renewals | Naming Days | Commitment Ceremonies | Fabulous Life Moments

Drag, drama, and "I do!" – we are To Drag & To Hold Ceremonies from Bournemouth, Dorset, your one-of-a-kind drag celebrant bringing glitter, heart, and hilarity to every celebration. I believe love is love – and every love story deserves to be told in full colour, rhinestones, and sequins.

As a fully qualified and registered celebrant, I combine the legal know-how with a performer's flair. Think heartfelt vows with a touch of sass, meaningful rituals wrapped in sparkle, and a ceremony that's as unique as the people at the heart of it. Whether you're after something traditional with a twist, camp and comedic, or a full-scale drag extravaganza, I work closely with every couple, family, or individual to craft an event that reflects you – unapologetically.

With a background in performance, public speaking, and (of course) serving face and fantasy on the regular, I know how to hold a crowd and keep the energy high. But beyond the wigs and witty one-liners, I'm here to hold space for life's biggest moments with respect, authenticity, and genuine love. I honour all identities, all love stories, and all chosen families.

What I offer:

  • Bespoke, inclusive ceremonies tailored to your story
  • A safe, welcoming space for LGBTQIA+ celebrations
  • Optional drag hosting, entertainment, or MC services
  • Emotional depth with a fabulous delivery (yes, tears and laughter)
  • Packages for intimate elopements or large-scale celebrations

Love is not one-size-fits-all – and neither are ceremonies. So if you're looking for a celebrant who can sashay, sign, and seal the deal, then darling…we are the ones for you!

Let's make magic. Let's make memories. And most importantly – let's make it fabulous. 💫👑🌈

  • LGBTQ+-owned

Frequently asked questions

Language:

English

Religion:

Non-religious/humanist

Type:

Celebrant
Officiant
Master of ceremonies

Served in

Berkshire, Dorset, East Sussex, Hampshire, South West London, Surrey and West Sussex

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Reviews for To Drag & To Hold Ceremonies

Janet
Janet Sent on 04/09/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A day we will never forget

A Big thank you to Dixie for providing us with the most personal ceremony we could have ever asked for! From the moment we booked To Drag and To Hold, communication was excellent and both Dixie and Tara understood our vision and plan for our ceremony, ensuring everything was noted and implemented!

I booked this for my daughter and her future wife and really struggled finding a celebrant who was LGBTQ+ friendly, I knew from our initial 30 minute zoom Dixie was perfect!

The whole day was perfect, our guests are still talking about this now!
Sam
Sam Sent on 15/08/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Would highly recommend! Had the best experience

Max and I have so much gratitude to Dixie and Tara (To Drag & To Hold Ceremonies) for their key role in our wedding day. Their presence became central to the celebration being so much fun - they carried extraordinary and vibrate energy from the initial consultation to the wedding day. Unanimous view from guests is their bright exciting witty and effortless hosting, even after Dixie concluded as our wedding celebrant which was the highlight of the event. The rapport Dixie quickly built with us in the prep and with everyone in the day was magnificent - she wasn’t just the celebrant she was a force of sequinned high heeled nature! What a pro - 11/10 would recommend.”
James
James Sent on 12/08/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Cannot recommend To Draw & To Hold Ceremonies enough!!!

Dixie was chosen specifically to perform at our wedding, with the agreement of 2 separate performances. Dixie’s past performances were reviewed prior to booking, and the vast experience and excellent “x factor” we saw, cemented our choice of performer. From start to finish, Dixie’s professional attitude and commitment to us as contractors was evident. Prior to the wedding, Dixie was always on hand to offer advice, and discuss performance itinerary. Dixie’s celebrant performance was engaging, witty and “on point”. My wedding guests advised me, it was the best ceremony they had ever been to, and Dixie’s humour allowed my guests to relax and commence the day with laughs and fun…..which was so important to myself and Craig. We were more than happy with all aspects of the performances undertook by Dixie, and would definitely use again.
K
Katy Sent on 12/08/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Two Brides, One Queen, Zero Regrets!

From the moment we first messaged Dixie from To Drag & To Hold, we knew our wedding was going to be FABULOUS! We wanted a ceremony that was personal, joyful, and unapologetically us — and wow, did Dixie deliver!
Not only did she host and bless our special day, but she sprinkled it with sparkle, sass, and so much love. Every moment felt like it had been tailor-made just for us, from the heartfelt vows to the little bursts of humour that had all our guests laughing (and a few happy-crying too).

As a Mrs & Mrs, it meant the world to have a celebrant who celebrated love in all its colours. Dixie made us feel supported, seen, and completely fabulous every step of the way. She wasn’t just part of our day — she was one of the highlights!

If you’re looking for someone who can mix professionalism with personality, elegance with extra-ness, and sentiment with sequins, Dixie is your queen. We’d get married all over again just to do it with her!
H
Hannah Sent on 12/08/2025
5 out of 5 rating

10/10! Best added extra to our special day!

We booked Dixie from To Drag & To Hold to conduct our wedding ceremony, and from the very first enquiry to the wedding day itself, we could not fault a single thing! Dixie was extremely accommodating throughout the entire journey.
This was the first time that both Dan and I had been married, and any time we needed help or information, Dixie was always just a phone call away.

We would highly recommend her! Can we get married all over again???!!!
xxxxx
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Dixie Normous
Dixie Normous
Drag Queen Celebrant

From the main stage to the marriage aisle, I’m Dixie– a seasoned drag queen, dynamic host, international performer, and proudly fabulous wedding celebrant. With over 10 years of experience under my (corseted) belt, I’ve made it my mission to entertain, uplift, and celebrate love in all its glorious forms.

My journey began in the spotlight, dazzling audiences across the UK, Italy, Greece & Turkey, from glittering cabarets to packed pride festivals, prestigious holiday parks, corporate galas, and more. As an internationally recognised performer, I’ve built a reputation for delivering high-energy shows, razor-sharp wit, and the kind of magnetic stage presence that keeps crowds screaming for more.

But beyond the glam and glitter, my heart beats for connection—and that’s where my work as a wedding celebrant truly shines. Combining my love for performance with a deep respect for the sacredness of life’s big moments, I offer bespoke, inclusive ceremonies filled with heart, humour, and just the right amount of high camp.

Whether I’m hosting a sold-out drag brunch, commanding the mic as an event MC, or guiding two beautiful souls through “I do,” I bring the same energy every time: fierce, fabulous, and 100% authentic.

What I bring to the stage (and the aisle):
🎤 Decades of experience as a host, MC, and drag artist
🌍 International performances across Italy, Turkey & Greece
💒 Registered, inclusive celebrant with a flair for unforgettable weddings
🎭 Custom shows and ceremonies tailored to your vision
🌈 A proud advocate for LGBTQIA+ visibility and celebration

From sequins to soul, I blend entertainment and emotion to create moments people never forget. Whether you're booking a show-stopping host or a celebrant who can slay and slay legally, I’m here to bring the sparkle, the sass, and the sincerity.

Let’s make magic. Let’s make memories. And let’s make it fabulous.

Tara Isabella
Tara Isabella
Director

Hi, I’m Tara a people-focused professional with a rich and varied background in HR, business development, and wedding planning. Based in the heart of Wiltshire, I’ve spent over a decade helping businesses grow stronger from the inside out, while also bringing beautiful wedding days to life for couples across the county.

My journey began in Human Resources, where I discovered a passion for people — understanding how teams thrive, how culture is built, and how the right support can empower individuals and businesses alike. From there, I expanded into business development and strategic planning, working alongside leaders to drive growth, improve processes, and align teams with company goals.

Outside of the corporate space, I found a second passion: weddings. As a natural organiser with a creative eye and a calm approach, I’ve had the pleasure of planning and coordinating weddings throughout Wiltshire. Whether it’s a grand countryside celebration or an intimate gathering, I love helping couples turn their vision into a seamless, joyful day.

Everything I do is guided by a few core values: empathy, clarity, and commitment. Whether I’m supporting a business through a period of change or guiding a couple through the wedding planning process, I bring a steady hand, clear communication, and a genuine desire to make things work — beautifully and efficiently.

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