This, basically.
Me and OH are both MASSIVE music fans; but we don't really have 'a song' and our taste in music is pretty diverse and different. I'm trying to pick music for the ceremony and I'm finding it the hardest thing so far! (reception is all sorted)
I don't want to pick a daft love song that neither of us particularly like, just to 'fit' the wedding context.
Do I pick a song I like to walk down the aisle, or a song he likes? My musical tastes change with my moods, so I might pick something, then think 'Meh' on the day.
Does it matter if the lyrics aren't really relevant to the situation? I don't want it to be too 'bride-y', but at the same time I don't want to feel like Phil 'The Power' Taylor making his way to the oche for the final of the World Darts Championship (as much as I may look like him...?)
I'm currently veering toward something up-tempo as we're not a soppy / romantic couple (hence neither of us really like love songs- OH says they are 'lazy'!), plus something bouncy will stop me from crying on the day.
Alternatively, I could just walk down the aisle with no music. I assume that this can be done?! Has anyone done this? Was it weird?
How did you make your decisions? If anyone has any recommendations for a jangly / guitar-based / indie / alternative / 80s / non-female vocal / non-soppy / appropriate aisle-walking song, let me know! (I swear to God, there should be some sort of online service for this)
The closest I have come so far are this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0rSRLFw2RUc (fave so far, but I'm worried as it has a ref to 'soul') , this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lg6J5VT5VRM or this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tYwyjwFg-Zg
Oh, and it's a reg office do- so no religious refs or nuffink.