Hello, I’m new here and just got engaged to the most wonderful man. I’m happier and more stable than I’ve ever been, all of my friends and family think we are perfect together but I’ve suddenly had a bit of a breakdown about how others my see our wedding/engagement
I’ve been married before. I knew at the time I shouldn’t have gone through with it. I was quite young and stupid and got swept up in it all. Alas it didn’t last long and was 7 years ago now.
I’m panicking that I’m not “allowed” to be excited about getting married again. Because I’ve done it before. Will people think I’m a fraud? That I shouldn’t have a lovely wedding because of that? I feel guilty being over the moon about it and that people will just assume that it will fall apart like the last one because I made the mistake before.
Is this normal for any second time brides?
I’ll openly admit I’m a real people pleaser and suffer hugely with anxiety, so I do worry what people think.
I’m terrified people will assume I’m going to fail at love again, even though this couldn’t feel more different from before x
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