Hi everyone,
I'm sure some of you have experienced this before... Could do with some words of wisdom!
I have a friend who has always wanted to be engaged whereas I have never been that bothered. As in I obviously wanted to be engaged but am comfortable enough in my relationship to know my other half would eventually propose. She has been piling the pressure on her OH for years. My OH and I got engaged 3 months ago and she didn't even bother texting to say congrats eventually texting 3 days later saying it made her sad.
Since then she has talked about our wedding non stop wanting all the details but always being really opinionated saying things like "I went to a wedding once that did that and it was rubbish" or "oh yes we would want that" as if I had copoe dd her. Even going so far as claiming she wants the same dress I want. I have since stopped giving her details but it has really niggled me. She's not even engaged and yes I know a lot of things in weddings will be the same as other people's but does she have the right to say she wants the same dress as me??
I've thought about just giving her all the details first so she can't then say we copied her. She is convinced she will be engaged soon and I have a horrible feeling she will try and get her wedding in before ours .
Any words of advice or comfort?