Well after 9 years and 2 children the other half finally asked me ! I still can't believe it.
I don't want a big wedding, I never have. I don't even think I want a church. I'm more of having everything all under one roof kinda girl.
I have no idea where to start and because we don't want a big shin dig I don't want to be planning way ahead, I want to be his wife now and not in however long.
How do we go about it if we are both shy, have a warm and close small family on my side and yet a large and non close family on his. These people on his side have had nothing to do with us or our relationship.
I'm thinking small and intimate. We don't want speeches, I'm not even sure about an evening so. Rather a nice sit down meal after. It's so difficult when you have the awkwardness of a socially awkward family like his. I don't want to invite people for the sake of it, after all we are going to get married for us and nobody else.
Oh where to start. We spoke about gretna green and local registry office (however our local one isn't the nicest location or settling at all)
Can anyone offer advice or input on what they did or are doing.