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Friends ruined wedding experience

Ash189T, 10 of February of 2019 at 02:19 Posted on Just Married 0 1

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Hi all and congratulations to those who have just got married!

We got married the end of Jan I was so excited it was a beautiful day we got married on the day it decided to snow a lot! Quite a few if not most of the evening guests could not arrive and the ones that did we got snowed in.... regardless the house put everyone up and it was beautiful.

However the next day on the way to the airport... I had a call from the wedding planner two of my close friend had ruined their rooms! To the point one had sick all over the mattress and a curtain pulled down and the other the room was trashed and the bed ruined!!!!

I did not know what to say, I was in tears the whole way to the airport for our honeymoon (which was then cancelled because of the snow)

i was so embarrassed and humiliated and just mad and upset every feeling going. We are not like that nor did any other guest make a mess etc it's just ridiculous and I can't even put into words how bad I felt.

Now they are paying for damages etc and we should get our deposit back once sorted but that's not the point ykunonly get married once and it's now been tarred with this awful thing. In time I'm sure I will feel fine especially when the photographer sends our pictures etc.

However one one of the girls is so mad with me!! Said it was her partner that was ill and she has done nothing wrong and apparently thinks she deserves an apology! I get that it wasn't her I truest do but it was my wedding day and they came down at breakfast and acted like all was ok they didn't say a word. I feel that she's in the wrong regardless! If it was me I would say I'm so mad with my bloke but please let me know if anything needs doing or cleaning and we will pay just don't tell the bride and groom as I don't want to ruin their day.

I have been so upset and ahe and she just seems to think I'm in the wrong completely now I feel awful!

Sorry its a long message but I need to get it out there so I can vent.

Ash xx

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Latest activity by Ash189T, 11 of February of 2019 at 20:49

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Have_you_met_Mrs_Jones2019 · 11 of February of 2019 at 13:51
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I'm so so sorry you had this experience, I would be absolutely FUMING!!

I was bridesmaid for my friend last August, and whilst steaming my dress in the hotel bathroom, I accidentally flooded the place - the plug had closed in the tub! I was mortified, and spent the evening on my knees with the room hairdryer and apologising to my friend. I offered to pay for any damages. Luckily it was ok, they didn't charges anything, but I felt terrible at the time!

You have no reason to apologise - they are grown ups. I get that her husband may have been unwell, but to not even say anything to the hotel?! So so rude. I'd probably be reconsidering my friendship wit these people to be honest.

Please don't let this throw a bad light over your day, just hold onto the fact that the day itself was wonderful, and congratulations! X
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Ash189T · 11 of February of 2019 at 20:49
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Thank you so much for your reply, I've felt sick about it all. However I've finally spoken with the house myself and they are paying for deep cleans in both rooms and they actually managed to fix the bed not as broken as they had thought etc or when explained. They got a specialist carpenter in and fixed it so luckily the next bride was able to use the rooms. I'm glad it wasn't very expensive to fix but stil a few hundred in total

I just think even though they managed to clean it up and fix the bed regardless it still should not have happened. The one with the broken bed said she feel onto it? I have no idea but she feels awful and is sorting it out. The one who seems to think I've over reacted might I add she's been saying this all to my maid of Honour knowing well it would get back to me thought she got away with it as she hadn't heard anything ...I am meant to be meeting them tomorrow evening to sort it all out. I agree about the fe thinking them as friends as it's been awful but like you said I did have a beautiful day and a wonderful white wedding even with the snow.

Oh no no I can't believe that happened at leat you tried cleaning it all up and apologised and told them, I complete accident. Not a drunken mess as a grown adult like these two have done to me. Your friend is lucky to have such a good friend like you.

Thank you again for replying.

Ash xx
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