You’ve got a seating plan to sort out, 24 Christmas presents still to buy, 142 wedding favours to put together, a tree to decorate and a wedding dress to slim in to. How on earth are you going to juggle wedding planning and Christmas during the next few months?
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If you’re hosting a winter or early spring wedding then Christmas will come dead in the middle of your busiest planning time. Since November and December are expensive months due to all the extra buying, entertaining and festive cheer, you might find your time and budget stretched to the limit.
As Mariah should have sung, “All I want for Christmas… is wedding planning to be over.”
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But don’t fret! There’s plenty of ways you can throw an amazing Christmas and wedding day, plus keep your sanity AND your budget in check. Read on for our 11 best tips for juggling the two big days.
1. Set a Budget and Stick to It
The key to making sure your bank balance doesn’t end up as red as Rudolph’s nose is budgeting. Oh, no, it isn’t! Oh, yes, it really is.
Work out how much you need to put aside for the rest of your wedding (including what’s left to pay suppliers, and all the little bits like décor, favours, thank you gifts etc). Then work out what that leaves you for Christmas. You’ll have to be incredibly strict with yourself. A spreadsheet is your new BFF. Put in literally everything you buy.
2. Sales = Bargain Hunter Heaven
The best way to stick to your budget is to seek out bargains and make sure you’re not buying lots of unnecessary things.
There are usually a lot of sales and discounts in the shops leading up to the New Year and, of course, Black Friday in November. If it’s possible, make a rule not to buy anything if it isn’t on sale; even if you stick to this 80% of the time, you’ll save a bomb on your bridesmaid dresses/thank you gifts/groomsmen suits.
The key to bargain hunting is to have both your wedding and Christmas in your mind at the same time. Whenever you pass by some sparkly tree decorations, ask ‘could I use these as a centrepiece too?’ Seen a 25% off 6 bottles of Prosecco deal? Get some for Christmas day and your wedding toast. Win-win!
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3. Be Prepared for Family Fallouts
Even without Monopoly, Christmas Day can be fraught with family tension. Throw in wedding planning and the potential for arguments and drama is ramped up to nuclear levels. If you know you're a people-pleaser, have your partner step in and explain that you can't host Christmas this year/organise all the family presents/commit to the 200-mile round trip to pick up Grandad. Honestly, someone else can pick up the slack this year. Give yourself a break.
If you can afford it, try to stay at a hotel when you visit family, then there's somewhere to retreat to when the interrogation about the wedding all gets too much.
Should you not be able to afford the same kind of Christmas presents you normally get for family, explain early on and ask if you can all get each other smaller gifts this year. If your family are able to help, it could be worth asking for a contribution to your dress or similar as your gift this year.
4. Have a Winter Wonderland Theme
It’s Christmas – or, at the latest, February, cold and possibly snowy. Embrace the cheap snowflake, icicle or frosted decorations and go full on winter wonderland. If you’re going for an early March wedding and snow-themed doesn’t feel quite right, there’s still lots of metallics or rich reds and purples which could feed into your theme. Buy these decorations just after Christmas in the Boxing Day sales and your winter wonderland will be a right bargain!
This goes for your bridesmaid dresses too. Your girls undoubtedly have a sparkly party dress that could double as their bridesmaid outfit; or they might be willing to split the cost if they can wear it again during the holiday season.
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5. Divide and Conquer
You have a partner and bridal party - use them! Rushed off your feet and don’t have time to tie 150 favour boxes? Get your bridesmaids to do it! Haven’t got time to get your soon-to-be in-laws a gift? Send out your partner!
It’s actually a great way to spend time with your loved ones during a busy time. Make sure you involve your partner in decisions and ideas as much as possible. Late night shopping together after work, thinking of gift ideas, putting together your wedding favours and sorting out that seating plan are all things that can be done as a couple during the winter months.
6. Combine Your Christmas Cards and Invites
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If you are still at the early stages of your wedding planning and still have your guest list to figure out then why not start collating names when you are writing your Christmas cards?
Or, to save on postage, send your ‘save the date’ or wedding invitations in the same envelopes as your Christmas cards to give your guests plenty of time to plan ahead.
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7. Save on Your Shipping
A simple one, but when you shop online, try to get everything into a single delivery so you don’t have to keep shelling out.
Ordering from a department store is a great way to do this. They’ll often have concessions for different make-up and clothing brands so you can order your bridesmaid dresses together even if you’re mixing-and-matching while getting your sister her Christmas gift.
Amazon is a fantastic place to order cheap décor or favours, plus tick lots of your pressie list. If it’s all shipped together, you’ll save £££s. Don’t forget you can get a free 30 day trial of Amazon Prime – just remember to cancel it afterwards!
8. Be Christmas Diet Savvy
We reportedly stuff ourselves with 6,000 calories on Christmas Day so that’s one fast way to derail your wedding diet.
We spoke to a dietitian for loads of tips on how to navigate office parties, Christmas lunches and that tin of Celebrations that’s calling your name. For example, avoid the festive menu at your local coffee shop, stick to slimline and spirits when you drink, and have a healthy hangover alternative waiting for you at home. Put the kebab down if you don’t want to put the lbs on.
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9. Check What’s Already Done For You
Before you even think about décor, contact your venue and find out what winter decorations they’ll have up. A hotel for example, will likely have an impressive Christmas tree, foliage arrangements you can use or fairy lights they’re happy to keep up outside for you. It’s always worth asking if they have anything you can use e.g. leftover baubles you can put into vases for centrepieces.
10. Re-Use Your Christmas Décor
Instead of having to buy decorations for your home and tree, plus wedding décor, can you combine both – saving you money and a trip to the shops? Candles, baubles, sequin materials, greenery, all of this can be re-used if you follow the same colour theme.
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11. DIY Your Winter Wedding Favours
Lots of winter treats really lend themselves to DIY which could save you money – but will cost you time. If you have a few evenings to spare, then knock up some spiced gingerbread biscuits, s’mores kits or hot chocolate mix. The mixes will keep well for weeks if stored correctly. A cracker or sparkler is a nice touch instead of a favour and can cost pennies.
The most important thing is that you don't get so wrapped up in the stress of both occasions that you can't enjoy either. Christmas and your wedding day are both exciting (to different degrees, of course!) - embrace the festive spirit and have fun!
There's so many more ways you can incorporate a winter wonderland theme into your wedding, including winter wedding dresses, amazing frosty winter wedding cakes and festive winter wedding flowers.