12 Wedding Planning New Year’s Resolutions for Every Couple

Forget ridiculous diets and expensive gym memberships, these are the wedding planning New Year's resolutions all couples should stick to

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To plan the perfect wedding, you need to set yourself (achievable) goals and stick to them. That means no faddy diets, no crazy exercise routines, and as little stress as possible.


Setting yourself some realistic wedding planning New Year’s resolutions is a brilliant way to make sure you don’t let the worries of wedmin get on top of you, so we’ve come up with 13 of the best ones we think couples should try and stick to.

There’s no better way to start off a year of wedding planning than with some positive mantras to follow!

1. Don’t Let Wedding Planning Take Over Your Whole Life


As exciting as getting married is, you have to be conscious of not letting it completely take over your life.

Finding the right balance between planning your wedding and everything else is key to stress-free wedding planning.

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2. Don’t Embark on a Ridiculous Wedding Diet


It’s totally understandable to want to look and feel your best on your wedding day, so eating healthily and focusing on your physical and mental wellbeing is the best way to do it.

Set yourselves a challenge like running a 5k and train together. You could even find a fun local gym class to go to once a week with your girlfriends!

Just remember: wedding planning is stressful enough without depriving yourself of food, so eat properly, enjoy training and you’ll be glowing on your big day.

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3. Don’t Lose Sight of Your Relationship


Sometimes when you’re planning the big day, it’s easy for your relationship to take a back seat.

During the wedding planning, be sure to set aside some time to just spend as a couple, together, with no talk of the wedding.

It’ll help you remember why you decided to get married in the first place.

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4. Don’t Stress Over the Little Things


We know it’s way easier said than done, but try not to let the little things get you down.

If your tablecloths are a slightly different shade of ivory to the ones you ordered, don’t worry, we guarantee you’ll be the only one who notices on the big day.

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5. Don’t Let Other People Dictate Your Wedding Plans


It wouldn’t be a wedding if at least 80% of your friends and family “offered” their opinion on what they think you should have.

The key here is to accept the advice that you actually find useful, but politely thank them for everything else, and then just carry on doing what you and your partner want to do.

You have to remember, this is your wedding.

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6. Share Out The Wedmin


Whether it’s handing out a little bit of responsibility to your bridesmaids, or getting your mother-in-law to be involved, it’s really important to delegate some of your wedding planning duties.

There’s two benefits of doing this – the first is that it helps to make your bridal party and more importantly, the person you’re marrying, feel more involved.

The second is that it takes a bit of pressure away from you – planning a wedding isn’t easy and it’s okay to hand out a task or two.

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7. Keep Your Partner Involved


Without meaning to, planning a wedding can very easily go from ‘our wedding’ to ‘my wedding’, and although they may not want to be involved in every single decision, it’s really important to keep the communication levels high.

Something as little as asking them for their opinion on a colour scheme will make them feel really involved and you may be surprised at how interested in wedding planning they actually are.

READ MORE: How to Involve a Groom Who’s Not Excited About Planning

8. Create a Wedding Budget and Stick To It


It’s very easy to get carried away when it comes to spending and weddings. It’s hard to know how much things actually cost when you’ve never done it before.

Take some time to research and decide how much you want to spend on your wedding. Doing this gives you budgets and limits to stick to that’ll help you to not over-spend.

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9. Don’t Be Scared to Treat Yourself to Non-Wedding Things


As much as having a budget is important, don’t be scared to spend a bit of cash on important things other than the wedding when you need to.

Don’t look at your wedding budget as a bunch of monetary limitations; look at it as a monetary plan instead. And if you want to treat your other half to dinner or cocktails, do it!

READ MORE: How to Plan a Wedding for £27,000

10. Have Days Where You Don’t Think About the Wedding


Remember the days before you were planning a wedding?!

It’s really healthy to have times where you switch off from being a bride or groom, whether it’s going out and doing something fun, or having a duvet day and eating a whole packet of chocolate digestives.

You will absolutely need it.

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11. Don’t Become a Bridezilla


There are definitely a few bridezilla moments that are allowed, and are totally legit – but there’s a difference between a few crazy moments, and becoming an actual bridezilla.

When something to do with the wedding goes wrong, take a deep breath and try to stay calm.

READ MORE: Nine Ways to Avoid Being a Bridezilla

12. Enjoy Planning Your Wedding!


What’s the point in going through the lengthy and sometimes stressful process of planning your wedding if you’ve felt miserable the whole way through?

The most important resolution of them all is to try and enjoy every bit of it!

Even though your wedding may feel like it’s 100 years away, it’ll be here before you know it, so give yourself happy planning memories to look back on.

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With your resolutions now sorted, it’s probably time for you to take a look at our round-up of 2018 wedding trends for some seriously stylish inspiration.