So, this is the second time around for both of us. We will get the legal bit out of the way with the bare minimum beforehand. Then we are having a DIY wedding in a big party house. We are still going to have a 'ceremony' in front of our friends and family. Has anyone any experience of this without having a celebrant leading? I don't really see the point of paying hundreds of pounds for something that isn't legally binding anyway, and it would be a stranger. We are making our declaration to each other and our family, not some random.