Hi everyone this is only my 2nd post on here so apologies if it’s in the wrong place.
me and OH are getting married in august and will be giving notice soon. Our wedding is a very basic registry office wedding and it’s also a complete secret. OH plans to tell his family eventually but I will not be telling mine (long story; toxic family members I will likely become estranged from in the long term). I am concerned about keeping the wedding a secret as I am currently living with my mother officially (though I spend most of my time staying at OH’s) who i do not want to find out. I am hoping to be moved in with OH by August/ September so it shouldn’t be an issue from there on however I’m concerned that after we’ve given notice things will be sent to my official address where I live with my mother as she is the sort of person that opens my post. The obvious solution is to ask for everything to be sent to OHs but I was wondering if there’s anything that must be sent to my address or any other issues I might face with keeping it a secret? I’m very stressed about it all so anyone who’s had any similar experiences I’d appreciate hearing from.
thanks!