I had to organise my own hen do this spring because when I tried to delegate things to my MOH she would just not get anything done, or she'd bombard me with messages with suggestions instead of making the decisions herself. So basically, I ended up doing everything myself because it was just a lot easier rather than waiting for her to do what I'd asked her to do. I had to cancel my initial plans because a few girls pulled out and it would have cost the rest of us too much, so I redid the plans with the help of one of my bridesmaids and we had a lovely hen weekend last month with the local girls.
However, all this time I had planned and organised a separate hen do for this month in a different part of the country for a totally separate group of friends. I messaged these girls this week about the remaining balance and this morning my MOH messaged me to say that she'd booked that weekend for something else because she thought I'd cancelled the hen do! There were only five of us going, now four without her, but I've already paid a £90 deposit and my bridesmaid is actually flying to meet me for the hen do so she's booked her flights. I genuinely don't know what to do now. I know we're all busy adults and we have busy lives, but I've actually done all of the organising so all she has to do is turn up!