Hi guys, this is mostly a vent as I want to get this off my chest, but if anyone has any handy tips they'd be much appreciated.
A bit of background: I'm getting married in Norfolk this October. I have anxiety, depression and a touch of Asperger's so my social circle is VERY small, IE I have 3 people I can count as friends. For various reasons I no long speak to my parents, my sister is only 19, has her own issues and also can't drive yet.
My question/rant is - how on earth am I supposed to organise my wedding with nobody to rely on? My Maid Of Honour dropped out a few weeks ago, so my hen do has gone out of the window. I have 3 other bridesmaids:
#1 Living in France and in the nicest possible way completely incapable of organising her way out of a wet paper bag (she's only flying into the country the morning of the wedding)
#2 Has ME so can't walk for any distance at all & I don't want to make her ill.
#3 My sister who doesn't drive, is only 19 and has huge anxiety problems.
I have no other family or close friends, my OH's family are more than willing to help but they live 3 hours away so will be of limited use.
At the moment I'm just feeling very sorry for myself because I feel like I have nobody I can trust with even the simplest things. Our wedding is VERY non-standard (it's in a zoo for starters) and I wanted to have someone on board who knew what was going on so I won't have to be organising things & people the morning of my wedding. It's now looking like that's not an option.
Is this just me? How do you cope with unreliable people?