Hi girls,
just wondering if you can tell me who is on your top table? My mum and OH have only spoken once after a huge argument last Xmas, I don't have a chief bridesmaid (just 3 bridesmaids) my OH mum isn't around and he & his father are not close. Also both my parents are re-married & step mum/dad will be attending.
Because of this we can not agree on who should be on it as we don't really want our parents with us up there, my Mum thinks it's her God given right and said she's sitting up there no matter what.
Then I'll have to put my Dad up there who I don't particularly want up there and then we will also have to have the father in law and what about the step mum/dad.
The wedding has been 100% hosted & paid for by us alone. Our parents have never been the supportive types so we aren't very close.
Totally struggling & getting really stressed about it. We don't want a huge top table with the whole family. Are you all having parents? Anyone who's seating parents not on the top table? And if not, who's sitting with you?
help!