My friend has 5 bridesmaids including myself ! It's looking like all the hen do planning is down to me ! The hen do is broad (Spain )so there's 3 days of planning ! I've to organise the accommodation, travel and activist as well as being a debt collector with stalking people for money. I've tried to get the others to help but there's no interest or I get the thumbs up emojis back to texts. These girls are totally up the brides bavk end on fb etc but are doing nothing to make it special - I know when something goes wrong they will say "that wasn't my idea". If I don't do anything no one will and it will be a let down! There is no enjoyment in all this planning as it seems to be a one man band. It's stressing me out big time and I don't want to stress the bride out by telling her ! Anyone else in the same boat ?