We were in a hotel and spent the evening before together and slept in separate rooms, not seeing each other until the ceremony. I didn't sleep a wink and felt horrendous, but that probably would have been the case if we had spent the night together.
i feel so as you both fancy and don't worry what anyone else says or think!
I think there is something lovely about waking together on your wedding morning, quite special. Also, too, staying apart until the big moment!