I asked my friend to be my only bridesmaid as I didn't want to choose between family members. After I asked her she told me that she is moving to the other end of the country 3 months before the wedding. When I have brought up the wedding, she has basically said she'll 'try' to be there. I'm finding it a bit worrying so I sent her an email basically asking if she would prefer to just be invited as a guest, to take the pressure off her being part of the bridal party, and so I'm not worrying about a key person dropping out at the last minute. I've left it as her decision.
Was this the right thing to do? :(