Apologies in advance for the long post but here goes...
I don’t speak to my biological father and haven’t done for around 12 years, I have no idea where he lives, what he does... nothing.
My step-dad who I call Dad is walking me down the aisle and I honestly can’t wait. However, I have to give notice to be married in a couple of weeks and was told my the church (I’m having a Catholic wedding) that I may have to either give my biological dads name or just have father unknown on the marriage certificate.
My mam is really upset because she doesn’t want father unknown because of how it will make her feel and I don’t want the sperm donor on it at all. I feel like it will taint my marriage certificate.
Basically if I can’t name my step-dad, I don’t want anyone but I didn’t know if there is a way around this?
Any help would be appreciated because it’s really upsetting and dredging up the past which I don’t want involved in wedding plans!