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AmnesiaCustard
Beginner June 2011

Fragile day

AmnesiaCustard, 19 of June of 2013 at 10:25 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 43

I am glad my desk is in a corner and hidden as I am sitting here having a quiet weep. Today is not a good day. At last I understand "crippled by grief". It's really hard to do anything. I'll probably get fired soon.

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Latest activity by *Funky*, 20 of June of 2013 at 22:26
  • kharv
    Beginner March 2012
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    Oh, AC Smiley sad

    I'm so sorry you and your lovely family are going through this.

    You won't get fired - weeping or not you're still the best fundraising director any charity could hope for.

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  • OB
    Beginner January 2011
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    I don’t know what to say. I’m so, so sorry you are going through this.

    Is it worth getting the doctor to sign you off for a while if you aren’t ready to be back at work yet?

    Lots of love xxx

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  • loadsagifts
    Beginner January 2012
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    ??

    I do not know what has happened but sending you mahoooooooooooosive hugs, thoughts and love.

    I hope you start to feel better soon

    Dawn x

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  • ATB
    Beginner August 2014
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    ? xxxxxxxxx

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  • HatTrick
    Beginner September 2010
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    Oh lovely AC, do you have to be at work? I wish there was something I could do or say xxxxx

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  • ~Peanut~
    Beginner December 2012
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    Massive hugs, I really wish there was something I could say that would make it better. I agree that it might be worth speaking to your GP and taking a bit more time off work? ?

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  • Kjay
    Beginner August 2013
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    Smiley sad lots of love AC x

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  • Flowmojo
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    Oh Lovley Smiley sad

    You wont get fred, you are great at your job, im sure your boss will understand. Can you go home, even for the afternoon? Take some time out.

    You know where we are AC..Much Love xx

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  • Becklarrr
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    Don't really know what to say but just wanted to give you a massive virtual hug ?

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  • Holey
    Beginner July 2011
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    Oh ac Smiley sad you won't get fired, I'm sure your boss will understand.

    Sending hugs and cake, I hope you'll be ok x

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  • Rod
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    Xxxx

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  • Helenia
    Beginner September 2011
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    Lots of virtual hugs, can't imagine how hard this must be for you. Completely agree with the others about taking more time off if you need it.

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  • ForTheLoveOfMrsBrown
    Beginner January 2012
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    (cuddle)

    JoJo's advice is good - focus on the next hour. Do you have a set of straightforward, short jobs to do? Ploughing through those might help as a displacement activity? Accomplishing something today, against adversity, might help you feel better about work, that means at least this won't niggle on top of everything else.

    Can you go for a walk? Work from home?

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  • *Mini*
    Beginner January 2012
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    Oh ac. Go and speak to your manager and tell them you are off home. You shouldn't be in work so upset. Sending you love.

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  • AmnesiaCustard
    Beginner June 2011
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    Ha. My boss has decided to take three days off work so I am in charge. Good in that I don't have to deal with her demands, bad in that I am the responsible person here.

    Have just moved a few chairs round the office and discussed bookcases. I am queen of displacement activity. The horrible thing is that I can't see an end to feeling this shite, although my logic head says it will get better in time.

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  • *Mini*
    Beginner January 2012
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    You will feel better. Maybe not the same as before but there will be a new normal and that will be fine also.

    hugs from me ac.

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  • Mellow_Yellow
    Beginner May 2012
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    Oh AC, I am so so sorry for your loss ?

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  • sal.san
    Beginner December 2011
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    Oh AC, I don't know what to say to make you feel any better. I would suggest getting the doctor to sign you off for a week and taking some time off as it does seem that maybe you are not quite ready to be back in work.

    Please have a virtual hug ? ? ? xx

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  • sal.san
    Beginner December 2011
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    Its still very early days and im sure it will get easier AC. x

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  • Rod
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    It wont go away but it will get easier to cope with. Keep busy, but also allow yourself to feel sad. Embrace the grief. If you feel it and acknowledge it it will be (albeit minutely) easier next time it hits. Trying to hide it or run away from it will just result in a breakdown later down the line.

    Sending you so much love AC and hope you start to heal soon xxx

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  • Saisi
    Beginner June 2011
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    Sending love and hugs AC xxx

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  • BertB
    Beginner July 2013
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    ? sorry AC. Things will eventually become easier.

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  • Ali_G
    Beginner October 2012
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    Time is a wonderful healer AC, but there's no rush. ?

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  • Pompey
    Beginner June 2012
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    I don't know what to say AC. Massive cyber hugs.

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  • Tizzie
    Beginner June 2012
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    exactly what rod said. It won't go away but it will get easier to deal with. It's still very very early days and no one will expect you to be 100%. I wish I could give you a big hug. Lots of love xxx

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  • AmnesiaCustard
    Beginner June 2011
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    Thank you lovely ladies. You are corkers.

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  • Mrs Bass
    Beginner March 2011
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    You are going to have bad days and good days and utterly $hit days, and it may be hard to believe it now but over time the good days will outnumber the bad days!

    I cant really add to what the other Otters have said, keep busy, focus on the small things and getting through an hour at a time.

    Sending internet weirdie hugs!

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  • F
    Beginner August 2013
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    Don't really know what to say, but didn't want to read and run, so just going to send hugs! ? XXX

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  • P
    Beginner July 2013
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    Thinking of you ?

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  • P
    Beginner July 2013
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    Thinking of you ?

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  • Nutella
    Beginner March 2013
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    Oh lovely AC ? Sending all my love yur way. xx

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  • LeeLee :)
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    So sorry to hear you are all going through this, wish there was something we could do to help Smiley sad

    xx

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