Hi all,
so ive been trying to ask my bridesmaids to be my bridesmaids for about 3 months now and when it’s comes to it something dramatic always happens and I am then unable to do it ☹️ I had planned to text them all tomorrow and arrange a coffee get together so I can then ask them all at once. Today another one of our friends has announced she got engaged! So this is now another reason why I can’t do it because I will look like I’m trying to get in front of this friend and ask them before she does.
I think it makes the situation worse because I am not really that close with this particular friend but they all are and have all known each other for much longer than I have been in the group.
Am I over thinking this and should I just take the jump and message them tomorrow and arrange a get together?
Many thanks