First of all, most of the tog pics still have the watermark on as we haven't chosen our selection for the DVD yet, so I've nicked them from his website. But as he's my dad's friend who did it as a favour for my dad, hopefully he won't mind!
Second of all, as I wrote it for myself and my extremely crap memory it's really long, so feel free to scroll through to the photos!
Here we go:
Background
At the end of 2008 I went through a pretty bad break-up and spent most of 2009 trying to get over it with various Internet dating relationships that all lasted about a month before fizzling out. By the beginning of 2010 I was ready to give up on Internet dating completely, however my mum had been nagging me for months to join this Jewish dating site that she absolutely loves. After spending 7 years at a Jewish high school surrounded by people I felt I had nothing in common with and losing my religious belief entirely, I had never had a Jewish boyfriend and had no interest in meeting a Jewish man. I figured I would sign up just to shut her up, but didn’t really have much interest in the site, probably only logging in about once a month.
On one of the occasions that I happened to log in, I received an IM from T. He had grown up in Wales with a Welsh father and a Jewish mother, and had moved to London for university. He had been raised with absolutely no knowledge of Judaism, and was interested in learning more about his heritage and getting to know some more Jewish people. From our first conversation we talked for hours every day, and were able to open up to each other almost instantly. We seemed to have a connection, but I was skeptical after my year of bad Internet dating experiences. After a couple of weeks, we arranged our first date for 4th February 2010.
I took things pretty casually at first, and was definitely holding back for fear of discovering he was just another Internet weirdo. I refused to invite him to my birthday party in March as I was scared to admit I was seeing someone, and I recognise now that overall I wasn’t very nice to him! He’s said since that he saw something special in me and didn’t want to give up on me, and I’m incredibly lucky he didn’t. As time went on I realised what a special person he is, and that for the first time in a long while I’d found someone who really cared about me. I was still too scared to admit how I felt and waited for him to say I love you (which he said for the first time as we were lying in bed, and then in the excitement he promptly fell off the bed!)